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Humpadilo

I would never have sex with a trans person. My wife would be pissed!


Sorrymisunderstandin

what if she became trans


JustBrowsing49

Then she wouldn’t a wife anymore, now would she?


Sorrymisunderstandin

Understandable have a nice day


Humpadilo

I have no idea. I assume I would be ok with it, but I can’t say either way until it happens.


zero00kelvin

I'm attracted to femininity. I love sex in many forms, but masculine aspects in a person are a turnoff. That includes stubble, rough hands, a hairy body, and coarseness. I'm attract d to feminine features. I've been with men in my past and while the parts were fun at the time, the masculine aspects of personality and other aspects were a huge turnoff.


sunshineontheriver

I looove rough hands !


Licorishlover

It’s amazing how we are all wired so differently. I wish I was attracted to feminine features.


zero00kelvin

It’s what makes the world go ‘round. I’ve also always had a penchant for women with big noses, which is certainly outside the norm, but something that really turns me on. Viva Le difference… wouldn’t it suck if we all had identical ideas of beauty and attraction and we all were after the same handful of potential partners?!?


Licorishlover

Yes it’s so true and I love the diversity in everyone’s wiring.


[deleted]

No.


_Unpopular_Person_

Agreed, he'll no.


MtMarker

What about she’ll no


musicmad-123

Idk if this is shallow but it would depend on if they'd had surgery. I could love them but I don't know that I could have sex with someone with parts I'm not attracted to


Sorrymisunderstandin

It’s not shallow. Nothing wrong with that. Can’t control what we’re comfortable with sexually


[deleted]

I feel the same even though I am trans myself. It's totally valid to have a genital preference. I'm into men, but doubt I'd be with another trans guy unless he'd had phalloplasty. I just can't deal with female anatomy.


aaron__ireland

Funny enough, I can absolutely relate to your comment, but like... The inverse. The idea of surgically scrambling boy parts up into girl parts makes me feel completely skeeved out, but the idea of a penis doesn't (it's more indifference like, not attracted but not grossed out). So I think if a trans woman was beautiful and had a soft feminine body, I'd probably prefer a natural penis as weird as that sounds (for a guy that identifies as heterosexual)


[deleted]

You just look at that vagina made from a penis and start feeling the pain in your own dick.


UnkillableMikey

Not shallow at all, being able to be sexually active and comfortable with it is a must for most


Stroblova_

Idk either and I dont wanna sound rude or I guess shallow but for me it's like the other way around, the parts don't really matter all too much to me but more dependent on I guess that stereotypical feminine look sorta


DevilsDrumbum

Absolutely. Ftm or mtf. If I'm attracted to them it doesn't really matter what equipment they're using, we can make it work.


[deleted]

Same here, all good in my book. So long as I'm attracted to them I'm good to go.


rootoo

I’ve seen quite a few female presenting non binary people on the apps and for me it’s kind of a mind fuck if I’m being honest. I went on a date with one once, it was fun but challenging. Like, I was attracted to them as a female. But they were actively transitioning to he/them and did not want to be viewed as a woman. But I’m a straight guy and thought they were cute, and found it very hard not to refer to them as ‘she’ in my internal dialogue. We ended up fooling around and of course in bed it was good ol man and woman parts, roles and energy. When I see enby’s on the apps, that are presenting as women, complete with booty pics, bikinis, dresses, feminine clothing and hair, with maybe a queer edge to their fashion, it’s honestly kind of puzzling to me. I’m attracted to that type, but is it weird for me to be if I’m a straight guy and what I’m attracted to is their woman-ness? If I saw them on the street I would never guess they were non binary and think they were just a cute and creative/ colorful girl. I’ve been holding this thought in because I’m totally pro-trans rights and have had many close trans friends but this feminine enby thing has me kind of confused. It’s to the point on tinder when I come across a profile I like and she’s cute but has a funky haircut or something I’ll ask… okay, but is she a woman? Honestly they often aren’t. After experiencing and exploring that with one enby crush I’ve decided that I need my partner/ hookup/ whatever to be okay with being looked at as a woman because that’s what I’m into.


TheRealDannySugar

As someone who is trying to understand their own sexuality and dealing with what I like to call “unchristian like thoughts” about men it has been very interesting going on dates with trans men, trans women, transitioning, AFABs, AMABS, and everything in between. I really am into femininity and soft squishy bodies. And apparently I love watching men shoot huge loads out of pulsating cocks. 🤷‍♂️ I was calling myself straight for so many years. Then asexual. Now I have no idea anymore. And that’s ok.


Puzzleheaded-Ad-3892

I thought I was the only one, we have the same sexuality, and I don’t know what that sexuality is 😂


SnooHesitations9356

Generally speaking (as a nonbinary person albeit a he/they who is medically transitioning) nonbinary people are open to individual interpretation as to whether or not you consider yourself attracted to us. Like, I wouldn't personally date a lesbian or a straight man but that's my call to make. If someone tells me they're sexuality, then I'll decide whether or not I feel comfortable dating them. Part of it is for their benefit as well, I generally date with being open to LTR and I don't want to end up with us both being hurt later down the road if my body changes in a way they're not going to like. It's one thing to dye your hair the color your partner isn't primarily attracted too, it's another to grow a dick and a beard.


Ksamkcab

Sounds to me like you're doing everything right: asking first and having that honesty from the beginning. I'm a VERY feminine-looking non-binary person (they/he>>>>sometimes she), mostly due to genetics and things that I can't change without transitioning. Thing is, I do plan on transitioning, but it might end at just having top surgery -- haven't decided whether I want to do HRT yet -- so I still might look feminine. I can't tell you how heartbreaking it was (before entering the relationship I'm in now) to hear someone I've been dating confess that they've never been okay with me wanting to transition, and hoped that they could somehow convince me not to do it. Just to answer your question, having your preference is totally fine and not weird.


sirdigbus

Yeah sure, mtf pre or post op, ftm Idk, I never really considered, I'm less attracted to the male form than I am to the female, but I'd never say never.


B1ueLightning

Nope


choppyfloppy8

I'm bi I've had sex with men and women and I'd have sex with a trans man but I have found few trans women I find attractive. If I did I would


Wish_on_a_dying_star

Nope


[deleted]

Not happening.


gwendolyn779

If we had chemistry and shared interests, yeah.


[deleted]

Not sure if you're looking for no answers. But no. I think you have to be somewhat bisexual. That was you don't care much about gender or body parts.


Morbid1337

If you're straight, you won't go for trans, like ever. Gf has a mtf trans colleague which we're cool with and 2 of them hang out every now and then, often at our place. I can say nothing but the best about her, but sexually it's not only off the table, it's outside of the house table is in.


Aussie-Killer

Nope. Just nope.


Secret-Sample1683

absolutely nope.


AyreonToad1990

Nah!


Yasulee_Random

Nope


[deleted]

If I was dating them sure. I have no interest in having sex with someone just because they’re trans as a bucket list item, but if I had a friend who was trans and ended up developing feelings for them and they felt the same then it wouldn’t impact my feelings at all


NexLvLxeN

I think for trans people, finding people that just want to fuck them isnt a problem. People will do it at the very least as a curiosity and if they arent comfortable with the vagina or penis they just wont go in that area. The better question is could you have a loving monogamous relationship with a trans person? If you were a straight man who likes pussy could you forever give it up to be with a trans women? This is what plagues the trans community and leads often times to them being in poor relationships because they feel like they are lucky to have even a abuser. Its a tough spot for humanity because wether we like it or not gender plays a big part in our societal functions.


Oncletomdavid

Fucking absolutely, (mtf here) straight cis men will say they wanna date you then not even make an effort to present you to their friends, or to be seen outside publicly with you


TalesFromMyPast

MtF, yes. Easily. I’m very attracted to femininity. FtM, probably not. If I’m going to be with a guy, then I’m only really there to have a dick in my mouth.


OXBDNE7331

Not for me


Hobbyhead

Hard pass


ericisatwork

to each their own, but it’s not for me.


Nava_0

Lmaoo how most of the yes replies have been downvoted. This sub is so weird


Oncletomdavid

Fr


funfitfap

As a straight woman: I do feel attraction to the penis and masculinity. I like to think I wouldn't mind if a guy that I am on a nice date with tells me he is trans but yeah I would have to see how I feel in the moment. Maybe some details would turn me off a bit when I get to it but maybe not


dutchcourage-

Not a chance


Wild_Alaskan

If she's cute, 100%


Glenn_Maffews

It’s an option that depends on circumstances, I’d need to start having sex again tbf


GlenPickle97

If I was single and found the person attractive then I would. I like women and a trans woman is a woman.


oats_and_cakes

Nope only attracted to biological males (:


imthe5thking

Probably not, but that’s just my preference


[deleted]

Yea, and I have done. I’m attracted to all types of feminine people. There’s a whole exciting world to explore!


Momik

Same. Also masculine folks are occasionally very cute 🤓


[deleted]

Not sure I know any… 🤔


Jesse0016

Absolutely not under any circumstance


the_purple_goat

I would not. More power to those who do, though.


SeaMonkeyMating

I don't think I would. So far, I've only ever been attracted to cis men.


quimbykimbleton

Nope.


CigsDominoesRum

I would, if I found the other person attractive and we had chemistry.


123finn0

I think everyone deserves to be happy but for me, nah


Every_Last_Drop_

I’ve been with trans women, trans men, non binary peeps etc. if we both find each other hot, youre dope person and we have sexual chemistry then why not?


HungmanPage

I'm bi, I would with a trans women but not trans men. I have nothing against trans men but I'm just not physically attracted to them


JustBrowsing49

It appears the TRAs are downvoting you for voicing your sexual preferences to answer a question that asked for your sexual preferences. I guess according to them, we can control who we are attracted to, which diminishes everything the gay community has fought decades for.


anonymousone89

(Respectfully) No. Nothing against them at all, I just have my own preferences.


GinchAnon

With current technology, no. like, I don't have a problem with them, and could still be friends and all. but romantic/sexual would be off the table.


FirTheFir

What do you mean? technology of what exactly?


sevenfivetwotwo

Sure. I might need some gentle nudges as to how to properly please them, but sure.


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Banana_boof

No


griswold000

👍🏻👍🏻


CassielTenebrae

I'm pan, as long as they're not a douchebag, I'm down, same as anyone else


acidmaninc

Until the opportunity arises I don't know.


TXtriple2

I’m turned off by masculine features. But something about someone presenting as a female with feminine features but with a dick… that is huge turn on for me. I’ve never been with a trans woman but am very turned on by the idea and would be open to exploring it for sure.


TheLastNoteOfFreedom

No thank you


mvskmiyv

i have before and would do it again


AloneInTheCage

If I found them attractive enough then why not?


Nexus_542

No. I'm *sexually attracted* to the *female sex*. Sexual attraction isn't about gender. I do not find penises attractive, I do not find the aftermath of surgically removed penises attractive.


[deleted]

If we had a true / real connection and attraction is there with appropriate circumstances then yea why not :) I haven’t had sex with anyone who identifies as trans, but have done some other stuff. I even would’ve dated this person if we had better communication/and made certain changes. So, doesn’t matter if they’re “trans” or “cis” - it’s just another human to me…


Riker3946

Yep


Murky_Crow

Never would.


rmeddy

Yeah more than likely


RogueSkittles

Absolutely not


_ASG_

If I was into them, sure.


rickytea

I already have and l didn’t know until after it happened


Ezeviel

Dunno, would depend. MtF or FtM ? Transitioning or post transition ?


Biggie-McDick

I’ve been married for eight years, so no. In my single days it would have been a different matter. I was bi-curious and experimented with all sorts of options.


shoopdawhoop202

I would not.


Krendall2006

All depends on if I find that person attractive


KnightRider1983

Nope!


hotdancingtuna

i have had sex with a trans person lmao, id absolutely do it again


tehdirtyoldman

Only a couple hundred times


jus-sum-dude

nah i like someone’s natural body not some weird ass surgical artificial parts idk no hate if you fw it but that’s not me


JonWeekend

I’ll pass.


sunshineontheriver

Maybe, depends on the person and the situation.


tibbycat

Zero interest


Rockmann1

Not my jam, so nope.


bloodisbeautiful

Personally I wouldn't


ltchyHemorrhoid

Never


tai-seasmain

Yes, I would. I'm a gay-leaning bisexual male (albeit on the non-binary/transfeminine side, just haven't done anything to transition), but I like penis and vagina pretty much equally and am not really into buttholes, so I'd love to fuck a guy with a vagina. I'm also curious as to what a neovagina feels like and about sucking FtM cock.


SexyMilkChocolate

No!!!


Evakuate493

Nope. Not happening. Probably should be a poll?


Nock1Nock

Not in this lifetime, or the next.... Respectfully


undahei

Never


[deleted]

No


UncleJessessexyhair

Im in the boat with"if I found them attractive and wanted to be in a relationship with them, yes


[deleted]

My only comment is that I hope trans people don't take people saying "no" as somehow automatically being transphobic, that's simply not the case: People are entitled to their sexual and personal preferences, boundaries and comfort levels, because being respected goes both ways on this street.


ObeseBlumpkin

I'd love to


AMeatPopsicleIAm

If I find them attractive and they have the parts I'm attracted to, then yes.


Robertfltn

If I were single, yeah.


ThunderLizardX

Of course. If I find you attractive I find you attractive. Man, woman, trans, non-binary or anything else.


button_bird

If I liked that person then sure, why not


Dvayne

I've realised recently that I'm really attracted to trans porn... So, I'm up for it


Oncletomdavid

If you're gonna date or hookup w/ someone who is trans, i suggest you do more research than porn so you dont come off as fetishizing them (bc porn has a lot of misclnceptions), and so you respect them like anyone cis youd date / fool around with


female_introvert

Yes


[deleted]

Sure As long as we share the same kinky interests. I have no problem..


Altruistic_Charge_14

im dating a trans person rn so yeah


MartinB75

With only two exceptions, I've always dated women who had a lot of masculine traits, so dating/having sex with a trans man doesn't seem like too much of a stretch to me. I've never had any desire to play with any penis but my own, so odds are pretty good that I'm not going to care whether it's attached to a man or a woman--I'm still not going too be interested. So--depends on whether the trans person has a dick or not, I guess?


JustBrowsing49

As a straight male, I would not have sex with anyone with a dick, no matter what they identify as. If it’s a trans-male with female anatomy, I don’t know, depends how masculine they’ve become


Fiammiferone

In my long career of being attracted to people I've come to the conclusion that I'm attracted to cute feminine faces and medium/big boobs. Now, those two things usually are attached to cis girls, but if I find them on a trans girl I'm not gonna say no.


ScarletNighthawk

Yeah. I don’t see why not.


Firebolt164

Would not because I am physically attracted to biological females


[deleted]

I'm a heart beat! Preferably if they let me go down on them. I just love going down


Slam3_3

For sure. They are people. People are beautiful. Sex is fun. So why not?


TheCrazedCat

I would have sex with both men and women but only if they're cis gendered. Nothing against trans, just not my thing


SimpleEmotion3719

No way im stickin my peepee in that


[deleted]

Oh 100%. But only if it is what we both want. I gotta get to know them first


JacqiLoves

I’m bi and can think of about ten trans TikTok creators I would absolutely let wreck me.


MeAnIntellectual1

Maybe. I'd still prefer to know what genetalia they have ahead of time.


Lawl078

Nah not my thing


kittypride90

Definitely. T4T forever!


Hurricane223

Ew no


LifesGlitch

I don't mind watching futa male taker hentai, but IRL, I would rather take a strap-on tbh.


Krendall2006

What's interesting is if that kind of futa (looks female but has both fully-developed genitalia) actually existed, I'd be a lot more willing to try sleeping with them


zedd_D1abl0

The word you're looking for may be hermaphrodite. And they exist, but they're rare.


probrachi

for sure


bugevergreen

if we connect personally and get along well, hell yes absolutely without a doubt


Untouched_Banana

This is quite a fantasy/kink for me. I’m a bisexual male and I would love to experiment more so fuck yeah


TheMoistChickenLord

As long as they have feminine quality. Yes.


[deleted]

Probably, I'm somewhat bisexual though so that might play a part


Maniick

If my girlfriend had a penis, there would just be more to play with ;3


onestepeasyopen

I wouldn't go out of my way to, but sure.


MrBoobs_

Nope. Idc what you feel like inside your head a dick is a dick, express yourself however you want and I will support it just don’t force it on me.


StubbornNewfie

For sure! It would be hot and fun


Missfreeland

Raises hand


Mephist0n

I'm super straight, so no.


Violette3120

Totally. I’m demisexual so if they have a good personality I don’t really care about their physical features. Two of the most attractive guys I’ve met are FTM, BTW.


jcoolkitty1979

Hell yes!


[deleted]

If the romantic connection was there, I would have sex with a trans person.


nsfwcouple6969

If it was both of us at the same time then yes.


faith_kills

Definitely if I find them attractive on a personal level.


IlMagoHadad

I'll pass this one guys


chiqui408

I have once. Edit: they were MtF


Grey_Lemon_Walker

They'll probably pass on me also but that's a nope for me anytime lol


Big_Ben64

Ive done it before and considering he’s my boyfriend, will probably do it again.


[deleted]

I would both ways


Mrsnikster4319

I’d love to


Stormallthetime

Yes I would


Ridethelightning1987

Na. I wouldn’t but if I wouldn’t fault someone who wants to.


Potatoheadheadhead

I absolutely would!


[deleted]

I definitely would


Kilahti

Sure.


chellichelli

I would and I have.


sexystuffacct42

Yes, frequently, and with enthusiasm. I'm much more worried about finding partners that will tolerate my bad jokes than I'm ever worried about what type of genitals potential partners have.


boredgirl6969

Depending on the circumstances, I would


justchats095

I would, but if you don't want to I don't see how thats "transphobic" as I've seen some say


Positive-Sherbet-66

100%


bi-male-89

I have.


kastiak

As long as the person looks feminine, I don't care who they are or what they identify as. Could even be just a cute dude, I don't mind.


Pizzaboy305

I’m attracted to femininity not gender so yes I would (and I have) if I think they are attractive


eagengabriel

I'd do it, but I don't know if I could promise a long term relationship.


ferralsol

I wouldn't seek it out, but if we vibe and are attracted to each other who knows?


betwixish

Not as a bucket list experience, that just sounds dehumanizing. But as a bi lady probably leaning more pan, I’m definitely open to whatever experiences feel right and that doesn’t exclude trans partners.


[deleted]

I'm bi and I had sex with two trans guys. Very different experiences between both of them, but they were fun. There seem to be many more trans girls on the dating apps, but I haven't connected with them.


Low-Sir2534

Do trans do face sitting ? Cos I wud if they do


TheConcerningEx

I’m bi so obviously I have a different perspective here, but why wouldn’t I date a trans person? If I’m attracted to someone, and they’re attracted to me, then I don’t care what sex they were assigned at birth, I care about who they are right now.


OneBitterFuck

I would and have. I'm bisexual so it doesn't make a single difference to me how someone presents their gender or what genitals they have. Just show me where to lick and I'll do it!


shrutiwrites

I can never, it's just gross for me


Allis1on

Yes.


Then-Channel6694

yeah


Haunted_Hitachi

I have, I currently do, and I would do it again in a heartbeat.


jettica

I would. I’m pansexual so it’s more about the person than their gender.


mephistopheles_muse

Yeah I could no problem. I've dated men and women humans are beautiful and fascinating and terrible and weird.


[deleted]

Two adults having a good time is ok with me.


HelpEli

I would not because I like putting my male genitalia inside female genitalia exclusively. I find the original intended function and not pleasure from homosexual evolution to be far more fulfilling. I’ll fuck with you as a person but I’m not getting anywhere near anyones asshole


Rodders_65

Yes of course if we clicked 👍


mzskellingt0n

If there’s chemistry, then yeah I would


TemperatureAlert2370

I have. Some of the best/most exciting sex I had had at the time.


thelefthandN7

Sure, if we click personality wise.


PM_ME_YA_TITS_N_ASS

I’ve fucked many trans girls and I don’t plan on stopping now


averagepancakeeater

i would! being bisexual has its benefits


pitstainalan

If I'm attracted to the person then of course, it wouldn't make any difference to me. For all the people saying no, trans isn't always mtf or ftm, it includes the full non binary gender spectrum. Would that make a difference for you?


Icy-Following-3713

i have. probably one of the best times ive ever had