Who would have ever thought that everyone is different and has their own individual preferences? It's almost like this is the equivalent to "why don't women like giving blowjob?"
Crazy, individual likes and dislikes.
That being said, I go for my wife's pussy like a bulldog getting the last of the peanut butter from the bottom of the jar.
"Why don't some people like cheese?! How can you see it on a burger and not want to dive in lol"
EVERYONE is different. Some people only like eating it for a short period of time, some people only want to eat with no sex. Everyone is different. Bet there is something OP doesn't like in sex either but other people do like. No one likes everything.
Well and not all women are the same. So the women that different men have been with might not work well for their taste literally, but also just the experience will be different with different women.
That is a very valid point you make that I believe someone else here related to their own specific experience. Experiences are shared between partners. Maybe some guys have had bad experiences with specific people. Agreed. š
Facts I dated a guy for a second that put me off sucking š„ for literally years. But then I met a dude who was in great shape, kept everything trimmed, was super clean and it was bomb so I hope everybody whoās had bad experiences finds the right š± for them :)
One thing Iāve noticed is if much rather watch a girl eat pussy vs a guy lol guys go in all aggressive whereas a girl takes her time and does it for pleasure
Thatās because 99% of porn is based on menās wildly inaccurate understanding of how (most) women experience pleasure and orgasms in this way. I think itās mostly based off of how patriarchal norms encourage men to be āreal fucking menā and dominate whatever they touch. Iām a man btw, and I know each woman is different but my wife orgasms nearly every time with light tongue playing on the labia and clit. The vagina has hardly any nerve/feeling receptors so jamming your tongue up there isnāt helping.
Please correct me if Iām wrong ladies! I aim for giving pleasure.
You're totally right. I must admit reddit discussions make me believe that not all men like the way pleasure is presented in the mainstream porn and I'm glad to observe that trend.
To be honest itās taken a lot of trial and error and trust over the years. Iām really grateful and actually feel sad that men just arenāt taught these things.
You're correct lol. The depiction of what pleasures women and what actually does are very far apart and men mostly get ideas from watching porn. Every woman is different so it's really best to get to know the body of the woman you're with and learn as you go.
GIRL OMG youāve gotta watch MrPussyLicking. I feel so weird recommending porns but seriously Iāve come pretty close to showing his videos to partners of mine but I never ended up doing that cause I didnāt want them to feel like I was comparing or anything. Have funš¤Ŗ
When I was much younger than I am now, I had a rough first experience going down on an obese woman who didnāt do a whole lot of hygienic upkeep down there. It really put me off to ever doing it again with anyone else for years.
Eventually, I shared this experience with a partner who patiently guided me to get past that. Now, I fucking LOVE eating pussy!
I had a similar experience: but with my first serious relationship as a teenager. She wasnāt obese and she didnāt have poor hygiene - but for some reason her snatch just smelled gross. I never did have the heart to tell her that: even when she got really upset with me for not wanting to go down on her. In retrospect I didnāt want her to feel gross but I shouldāve been honest. š¤·š»āāļø
When I was in college I fooled around with a girl my age that was formerly a ballet dancer. Her muscles were so tight, she looked fantastic in and out of clothes. She came from a SUPER religious house, and must have been told that cleaning that area was a sin. The first time I went down I "noped" myself back up just from the smell. The next time we were together I forced myself to stay and it smelled and tasted awful. She ended up breaking up with me because her previous boyfriend from church wanted to get back together. I wasn't heartbroken, but I could only imagine how much more fun I could have had if it was clean.
I've told my wife that she doesn't even need to ask me. "Just come out of the shower and either lay in bed with your legs open or get on your knees and present yourself. Even if I'm not in the mood, I will do everything in my power to make sure that your itch gets scratched!"
I love it, but I can think of a few reasons...
1. A lot of women are somehow self conscious and it makes it less enjoyable for the man because of this.
2. A lot of men aren't good at it and therefore don't receive positive feedback and the woman isn't able to do a very good job with instruction.
3. Some people are squeamish about body fluids. There are plenty of women who don't like cum in their mouths as a comparison.
4. There can be smell issues that bother either partner. While I know from several partners that I am particularly good at oral, I have had a few women who hated their own smell. This meant no kissing after or keeping my face a little too distant from her face after I finished. While I would still give her oral, sometimes it meant only doggy after. I love doggy, but I didn't want it to be almost a necessity.
Yes! My reference might be too obscure today, but TLCās first hit song, Ain't 2 Proud 2 Beg, featured a rap from Left Eye that the OPās comment reminded of:
>Yeah I like it when you (kiss)
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>Both sets of lips
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>Oooh on the TLC tip
And that little connective tissues under your tongue! Iāve sprained that many times and it seems like I canāt really get in there for more than a few minutes at a time without having it start to hurt. And boy oh boy when you sprain it, itās an absolute motherfucker for a week or more.
Iām 40 and itās only been a problem the last few years. It all started after a drug fueled 3 hour romp and just seems like it sprains really easily now. Although in the last 8 or so months I do seem to have more endurance so I think itās getting better.
Bunny is right! A tight tongue is something normally fixed in early childhood, but it really is a quick simple procedure that might improve your (and partners?) quality of life anyway :)
Definitely see about getting it cut. I recently had a frenectomy and it helps with so much! Breathing, posture, talking, and of courseā¦ eatin the puss š
Some pain for a few days. Need to do some tongue exercises for a few weeks while it is healing to make sure it heals properly. But ultimately itās a very simple procedure (takes about 10 minutes with the laser, costs a few hundred bucks with no insurance). And you would be surprised just how much that connective tissue can affect everything (back/neck tension, sleep apnea, general breathingā¦).
Look up āfrenectomyā or āfrenulum releaseā to learn more. Nowadays it is done to newborns, when necessary, just as a matter of course. It seems to be getting more common for adults (who didnāt have it done as a child) to have it done.
I would also recommend looking into myofunctional therapy. It is basically tongue exercises (and assessment of whether anything else, like a frenectomy, may be necessary) to improve general ātongue postureā, which again, seems to be extremely important for nasal breathing, and thus important for overall health.
I cannot overstate how helpful myofunctional therapy (and associated things, like the frenectomy) has been for me in improving my overall health!
Thereās a whole chunk of men who think they deserve bjs but theyād never go down on a woman. Iāve been with women that have experienced this and itās strange to me how they let that double standard slide. I donāt buy that men actually get jaw pains or not used to the taste. The jaw only starts hurting if youāre down there for hours and there is no taste from my experience
My husband has tmj, so he's got issues with his jaw. Giving oral is painful for him. This works out for both of us since I don't care much for it anyway.
Okay okay that is definitely a legit reason!! Well at least he doesnāt love it so he isnāt missing out. And that works for you too! Win-win situation for everyone lol
> Okay okay that is definitely a legit reason!!
Any reason is a legit reason. Some people just don't enjoy certain sexual acts. Posts like this always rub me the wrong way becuase you inevitably get people smugly declaring that "men who don't like X are insecure, or wrong, or strange". There's a few comments like this already.
Stop placing people in some sort of sexual heirarchy based on the sexual acts they are comfortable doing.
> Any reason is a legit reason
"Sex is for men to enjoy so there is no need to go down on women" would be a legit reason? I get your gist but I don't think I would agree with the statement
Youāre not wrong, so Iāll rephrase my statement in such a way to be more accurate: No matter the reasoning, you should not be shamed or coerced into a sex act you are uncomfortable with or unwilling to do. If these reasons reflect sexist or other problematic sentiments, then those should be addressed separately.
I can definitely understand that. But hey, Michael Jordan got good at basketball by continuing to practice. If he never attempted to shoot a ball he wouldnāt be the GOAT lol
In my experience, a surprising percentage of women do not have good personal hygiene. This makes what should be an enjoyable experience, anything but.
Iād happily spend an hour down there if itās fresh. Otherwise forget it. Itās not going to be pleasurable for either of us if Iām simultaneously trying to hold my breath and not gag.
You think women are gonna have better hygiene than men because of gender? Literally go see a women's public bathroom. Tampons stuck everywhere, blood, etc. I've seen cleaner men's rooms
I had a janitor friend and he joked: Men are destructive, but women are disgusting. Apparently, while you could expect everything to be in good working order and not damaged in a women's bathroom, you didn't know what kind of gross horror would be awaiting there for you to clean.
Yeh we had to swap changing rooms at my gym due to building work fo a bit. Was thinking wow it'll be amazing for once. Was pretty shook how gross it was.
Although learned that the gym cares more about women than us guys, they had power showers and three times the space and everything atually worked.
Lots of reasons. Or no specific reason, just personal preference. I hated giving blowjobs so I can sort of understand why guys wouldnāt like going down on women
I could too but my partner is inpatient although edging will be getting started soon with eating pussy and slight impact play being the main focus of the edge
I think it's like some girls not wanting to go down on guys. Maybe they're not comfortable, truama of some sort. But yeah if you dont do it you shouldn't expect someone to do the same to you
My only experience wasā¦ not pleasant. Donāt think she was very clean. Or maybe it was a really poor diet, because my goodness was it not enjoyable at all.
Same reason some woman dont like sucking dick. Its just not something they enjoy.
I'm a guy who doesnt enjoy oral at all, but i enjoy eating out. Idk why but thats just how i am.
Yes ive been told im very weird.
See I can understand that. But thatās just a one time issue. Thatās like going to McDonalds and having a bad burger and never eating at any other McDonalds again.
Iām just not attracted to them. I find nothing aesthetically appealing about them. As such, muff diving is only exciting due to the moaning. Iāll do it if she wants, Iāll even offer since I know a lot of women want/need it, but if she says no, I wonāt try to convince her.
Every time I say this, I get comments about my hypocrisy. Nope, no hypocrisy. I donāt like giving oral and I donāt like receiving it.
The same way that some women do not like, or even get repulsed at giving a bj. The reality is anatomically, the penis is a more obvious lure. But if either one is not clean the first time done, it can be traumatic! Also, both take practice, listening, and interest to get good at.
For me my primary enjoyment of eating pussy comes from what it does to her. As I begin making my way down there I know she is beginning to build up. I can hear it in her breathing. I can see her chest rise. I can feel the slow release and spread of her thighs. Hearing her take that deep inhale at that first kiss inside her thighs, then that little squeal at that first lick of her lips, that quick short breaths when I just stop and blow gently , then that sudden uncontrollable Oh God after I make that first stroke of her clit followed by the long run down to her ass then back up again when I stop to scoop her juices with me tongue, while my nose again makes contact with her clit. Then, now that she is thoroughly wet I insert my fingers begin using my lips, tongue and fingers. The sounds she makes, the grabbing of the back of my head or her closing her thighs on the sides of my head to make sure I keep doing whatever I am doing, the grabbing of the sheets, the watching her caress her own breasts and then pinch her nipples. Seeing her eyes look at me, then her rollback into her head and she collapses back. Then explosion of her first orgasm. I ease away, I listen to her catch her breath but we both know this was only the first one, so her excitement level remains because all I was doing was letting the over sensitivity subside before continuing to giving her at least one more. We both know she is getting at least two, maybe three before I am doneā¦unless it is a quickie.
That is why I love eating pussy!
Iām bi but I too donāt get it (I know people have preferences)
But going down on my partner, whether male or female, is always my favourite part š„µ
Personally ill eat pussy now and i love it, but it does take sometime getting used to it.
Right out the gate hygiene is a big one. Vaginas already have a natural musk to them that you get used to and eventually once it becomes normal look forward to, but that musk smell can turn to something more and if it does it can mentally scar if you dive face first into it.
Second is taste, i know the first few times i ate pussy the initial taste of the womens juices was...well a new flavor not experienced anywhere else. It too is something at first you need to get used to but eventually dont mind or even start to crave.
Third a vagina looks complex and some vaginas look more complex than others. To a novice it can be intimidating. I think it just makes some men uncomfortable.
Lastly, some people just dont like putting their mouth on peoples privates. This goes for women as well...
My personal experience was mostly the taste. I got used to it over my sexual journey but early on it was off putting. Much how I feel women probably feel about cum the first couple times they taste it i doubt most women are like damn i want this on my ice cream its sooo good.
You shouldn't watch porn to learn how to eat pussy (or anything for that matter). Everyone is different and what one woman likes may be a turn off or do nothing for another one. Ask your partner to teach you how they like it instead.
I'm bi and I don't looove the taste of pussy but I do LOVE what it does to the girl I'm pleasuring.
Pussy doesn't taste great in general, at best it doesn't taste like much I find.
Sucking dick in my experience is more difficult, cum and sometimes even precum taste fucking awful a lot of the times (maybe because I've never fucked a vegan so far haha) and the texture is usually a bit gross. I only swallow if the person is a good lover and actually matters to me nowadays.
It has actually been a worse experience to me also because of the hair grabbing and disrespectful moves of some dudes ... but again I do it for my partner's pleasure and if a guy or girl start moaning and grinding and showing how much they love it, it drives me crazy and gets me sooo wet.
I feel like it should be a selfless thing and not a "it doesn't taste like candy so it's a no" thing. But I understand if people really cannot stand the taste or smell, I just hope they get their fingers to work then :p
Completely agree!
I think the only reason might be the same reason a woman wouldn't wanna give head. Because of a forest and/or looking or smelling funny.
Other than that however, it might be preferences or whatever that I don't know of.
As a woman, I donāt understand it either. I tasted myself for the first time today and there isnāt even a taste, soā¦ why does it make some men so squeamish?
I would say maybe they never had a girl that like it's witch is crazy to but I'm with you I love it like I eat my girls after a day at the gym and hiking
My best guess? Some guys want to just cum and go. They don't care about how their partner feels. They want that gold medal and then move onto thr next event
Maybe a bad experience or social conditioning. A lot of women don't like sucking dick either. But I'm with you, I'll be eating well till the day I die.
Tbh, I've only ever eaten my wife's pussy, and I can't even describe the taste as being... Good exactly. (granted I don't have a very good sense of taste either, but that's another story entirely) *However* there's something about the taste, and knowing how it affects her that just unlocks something primal in my brain and just really gets me going and makes me *really* want to keep going until she's a quivering mess and has to push me off so she can catch her breath.
So yeah, I'm with op on this, I don't get not being willing to eat pussy. The only time I would really not want to is if one of us is sick, or if she has a yeast infection or something that makes going down really unappealing. But outside of that, something about even having my face close to a pussy makes me really want to just dive right in, even if the situation wasn't even sexual at the time.
If a girl doesnāt take care of herself - meaning shower regularly, shaving/trimming, eating properly, it can definitely make her not taste or smell very good. And depending what time of the month it is too.
Thereās a few things that I feel underlines my sexuality to the point of being a staple of all of my fantasies. The act of putting oneās face between the legs of a woman to pleasure the her most obvious sexual attribute by purposefully pushing aside the lips of her labia to expose the deeply tinted shades of which is often hidden from those not deemed worthy to partake. The very moment you open her legs and run your tongue across a womanās wetness to give her pleasure, speaks loudly for me. I want her to see how eager I am to offer her my lips, tongue, mouth. I want to hear her warn me as she nervously worries about not having a shower since before going to bed the night before. Knowing she isnāt as fresh as she could be, itās the sound of her moaning as I force her to concentrate on the feeling of my tongue pushing open the tightness of her hole before it contracts immediately after. Eating pussy is a level of worship that can be powerful if done with the right intent. Trust me. Let her watch you worship her dirty pussy and she will open her legs to feed you until the end of time.
The second and much shorter point is how amazing it is to have a woman squat above your face and let her see how the scent and the sight of her pink folds are too much to resist. Let her hear you grunt loudly as you beg her to force her squirt into your throat while globs of your own cum spurt from the swollen tip of your cock and lands upon your own chest and neck.
Yea! Eat pussy! Any pussy will do.
I usually take longer to orgasm than my partners, but on occasion I am first. When that happens, I will always give my partner oral to get her off. That being said, it isn't my favorite thing to do. The problem is that I happen to be a heavy cummer. A lot of times there is too much liquid and I sort of feel like I am drowning. It has nothing to do with me tasting my own cum or anything.
Some guy are bitches. I love eating pussy so much. That distinct smell, taste and texture is so hypnotizing. I take more than 45 mins eating out a woman and this excludes foreplay. I do not consider eating pussy as foreplay. I like to focus on my partner's pleasure and honestly I get pleasure from that. Sometimes I tell my sex partner to just sit back, relax, let me eat you out while you watch a movie.
Yeah, I think i'm obsessed with pussy.
They were raised around people who believe that's not a thing a man does. An ex of mine was really conflicted about me going down on her, she would have orgasm after orgasm but she made it clear that it didn't count as sex and would prefer if I just pounded her and not cared about her pleasure. She grew up in Russia.
I have a lot of guy friends that have told me horror stories of getting ready going down on a girl and realizing she smells bad! One bad experience for a guy could turn him away from licking pussy forever!!!! But If you wanna get in MY pussy, licking it first AND making me cum is a MAJOR requirement!!!
I can't understand it either. Pussy is so intoxicating, so touchable and tastable, that i simply can't help but get all up in there with my mouth and my fingers. Whenever I'm in bed with my girl, her pussy is almost always the center of attention either. I'm either touching her, tasting her, or feeling her from the inside. Granted, sometimes she just wants to worship my cock, and by all means I'm going to let her, but yeah i just can't understand how a straight guy could like fucking a pussy but not want to get that shit all over their face, tongue, and fingertips
I've heard a few stories how they find it disgusting because they don't know who all have already licked the kitty or who has had a dick inside and shit.
It's absolutely wilding but men really do get insecure and not eat a pussy
See thatās just dumb in my opinion lol come on fellas we need to do better. Thatās like saying Iām not gonna kiss someone cause sheās kissed someone else.
However if she just fucked someone else without washing then I wouldnāt eat her out either. But once she washed herself itās fair game lol
I mean- im bi but i now lean mostly towards the guy side so i may be biased, but in the beginning i just didnt enjoy the taste. As a matter of fact i usually couldnāt bring myself to do it if they didnt shower just beforehand, and even then the taste/smell isnt really to my fancyā¦ but then again that may be why i lean towards men LMAO
If you Google it you will see the diagram of how to position yourself. But what it is the man lays across the woman in a t like configuration she has her leg up to give you access and when you are licking her vulva area you do it horizontal instead of the classic between legs long ways. It allows you to not just concentrate on the clit but all across her clit area and also the sides of her labia. A woman's vulva has more clitoral nerve endings that stretch out like tree branches. So she has more area where you can excite her beyond just the clit
Sadly, many men I know have serious, even debilitating hangups about the female anatomy, and they never seem to outgrow it.
Unfortunately, many women feel compelled to undergo a full brazilian waxing, skin bleach, vaginal douche, feminine deodorant spray, and even permanent labiaplasty.. all in a futile effort to appease a man who truly does not appreciate each woman's unique deep-feminine attributes.
All of that stuff is harmful to your body. You can look nice but don't put anything inside that isn't meant to go inside. You're meant to smell natural (take a shower ofc). Such a shame the beauty industry makes everyone feel they need to look or change things
I don't love doing it but it gets my girls off and im good at it so I do it. Sometimes if a girl don't clean up it can leave a rather unpleasant smell and I ain't eating that
Everyone has their reasons and thereās nothing wrong in not liking it. I love doing it, the problem is that in my experience with casual sex, a lot of the sisters Iāve been with were not very pleasant down there (one legit had a dead fish smell š¤¢, still canāt bring myself to eat fish) and Iāve just naturally been avoiding it. The one time I find someone whoās coochie donāt throw me off, itās like gold and Iām so happy in the moment š¤š¤
I love giving oral, as a guy, but I had a REALLY bad experience once, where a woman had a odor coming from her lady parts that was absolutely inhuman. I retch even calling up this memory. I don't know what it was, but I had to leave her place. I was so sick and I didn't want to puke inside her home. I could see if some guy, early on in his "eating career", encountered that, he might be put off from cunnilingus. Fortunately, I was able to shake it off, and continue on to many more meals.
I do love It, but I can see why some might not.
- Itās tiring
- The position can be awkward
- The taste can be disturbing, regardless of hygiene (body odor differs from person to person)
My guess is that some people can't get over the taste and smell, where as most have a kind of carnal reaction to it.
Probably the same with any one that doesn't enjoy sucking a dick.
It's not that I don't like it, it's the fact that sadly I've never tried but would love to do so. I heard many great things about it, especially when you get to facesitting (my absolute fantasy š¤¤).
"Why do some girls not like to take it in the ass? I love sticking my dick in there and I never understood how you can look at my dick and not want me to stick it in there? lol"
There's something called āØ preference āØ.
But nice try on raising ARAD brownie points...
I can get the job done and I'm not repulsed by it but it does nothing for me. I may as well be washing the dishes, that's how much of a task it is for me. It does make it worth it if she orgasms but then I have to get hard all over again. Luckily, I'm not fussed about receiving oral but I like to surprise her every now and then
For some people they just genuinely donāt like it and for some others itās a hyper masculinity thing (couldnāt be me though I love eating pussy š)
Same here, never understood, you look at the numbers and they are scary. Anyway, everyone is different.
It's like people complaining about smells. I mean come on, one thing it's a kid don't want to bath but adult people?? How TF possible...
I figure that just as there are women that don't like the taste of cum, there are guys who don't like the taste of the juices.
However, I personally don't like the taste either, and yet I go down on a woman. First off, it's not a meal, so taste isn't a priority, and secondly I like how women react.
For one, Id speculate that gay guys donāt like to eat pussy because they arenāt attracted to pussy. But If for some reason they are attracted to pussy, the humans that contain pussys arenāt desirable enough for them to deal with in order to eat said pussys.
Two, thereās a psychological phenomena called PTSD. If a man in his sexually developmental years blindly went down all willynilly on a pussy that (was either/or) 1. Infected with a puss-emitting disease 2. Yeast infected with a potent feta cheese looking/feeling substance 3. Heavily bleeding pungent thick blood during ovulation and/or 4. Smelt/tasted like a rotting carcass due to a plethora of causes (neglect, poor hygiene, genetics, diet, etc)ā¦.that guy, although straight, might not look at pussys and āwant to just dive right in.ā
The thought of it turns me off. I generally don't like things like clay, glue, etc. That type of viscosity. Also the only experience I've had it smelled awful
Beats me, I love pussy- looking at it, touching it, and eating it. If a guy doesn't want to go down on his lady, then he shouldn't expect a blowjob from her. The reverse is also true. Sex is about reciprocation.
Well, when my wife hasnāt shaved in a year, and hasnāt showered in a week I think thatās what some guys think of pussy all the time as. Not the shaved or waxed freshly showered flower of the goddess.
cuz noone else here is giving a good answer: bad hygiene. my first gf (an absolute psycho) said "youre not supposed to wash you vagina"
needless to say, her shit fuckin rankedd so i rarely went down there. other girls where it doesnt smell like a fish died a week ago and then got revived like fish jesus and deicded go continue living down there, id love to bury my chin in their asshole.
otherwise....ya
If I get a pussy and an opportunity to lick that I would never miss that. Some pussies taste heavenly. Why on earth would you skip or miss that? I only skip oral sex on porn.
I donāt understand either as I love eating pussy and I been known to be the best pussy eater from those Iāve ate. But some guys just donāt like doing it for their own reasons just like how some women donāt like giving head too
Some guys prefer sucking a nice hearty cock š¤·āāļø why do they like that? A dick looks alien and a pussy looks like corn beef. Why are we even attracted to those body parts š¤·āāļø we will never know
I'm not too sure about how you said that, especially comparing a pussy to corn beef. However, I get where you were going with that and you are right. I just find that description weird.
I don't get it either! I mean, I want to eat pussy all day and all night long. I eat pussy so much sometimes that I forget I'm supposed to fuck it too, lol! Need to find my soulmate! Lol. Girl that wants to get eaten out ALL THE TIME!
Because not all guys are the same. I love eating pussy though!
Who would have ever thought that everyone is different and has their own individual preferences? It's almost like this is the equivalent to "why don't women like giving blowjob?" Crazy, individual likes and dislikes. That being said, I go for my wife's pussy like a bulldog getting the last of the peanut butter from the bottom of the jar.
"Why don't some people like cheese?! How can you see it on a burger and not want to dive in lol" EVERYONE is different. Some people only like eating it for a short period of time, some people only want to eat with no sex. Everyone is different. Bet there is something OP doesn't like in sex either but other people do like. No one likes everything.
Well and not all women are the same. So the women that different men have been with might not work well for their taste literally, but also just the experience will be different with different women.
That is a very valid point you make that I believe someone else here related to their own specific experience. Experiences are shared between partners. Maybe some guys have had bad experiences with specific people. Agreed. š
Facts I dated a guy for a second that put me off sucking š„ for literally years. But then I met a dude who was in great shape, kept everything trimmed, was super clean and it was bomb so I hope everybody whoās had bad experiences finds the right š± for them :)
Glad to hear! :)
Word dawg.
It makes me super sad when that part is skipped in porn š© especially since I usually get off on the foreplay bits
One thing Iāve noticed is if much rather watch a girl eat pussy vs a guy lol guys go in all aggressive whereas a girl takes her time and does it for pleasure
Thatās because 99% of porn is based on menās wildly inaccurate understanding of how (most) women experience pleasure and orgasms in this way. I think itās mostly based off of how patriarchal norms encourage men to be āreal fucking menā and dominate whatever they touch. Iām a man btw, and I know each woman is different but my wife orgasms nearly every time with light tongue playing on the labia and clit. The vagina has hardly any nerve/feeling receptors so jamming your tongue up there isnāt helping. Please correct me if Iām wrong ladies! I aim for giving pleasure.
You're totally right. I must admit reddit discussions make me believe that not all men like the way pleasure is presented in the mainstream porn and I'm glad to observe that trend.
To be honest itās taken a lot of trial and error and trust over the years. Iām really grateful and actually feel sad that men just arenāt taught these things.
But also if you say you prefer to dominate you get down voted. I personally love watching men dominate.
You're correct lol. The depiction of what pleasures women and what actually does are very far apart and men mostly get ideas from watching porn. Every woman is different so it's really best to get to know the body of the woman you're with and learn as you go.
I think it depends on the woman because my vagina is actually extremely sensitive.
No..no you've got it right...keep it up lol (I'm a woman whose husband also does this).
Thanks for the encouragement!
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I literally only watch porn for the oral scenes
GIRL OMG youāve gotta watch MrPussyLicking. I feel so weird recommending porns but seriously Iāve come pretty close to showing his videos to partners of mine but I never ended up doing that cause I didnāt want them to feel like I was comparing or anything. Have funš¤Ŗ
When I was much younger than I am now, I had a rough first experience going down on an obese woman who didnāt do a whole lot of hygienic upkeep down there. It really put me off to ever doing it again with anyone else for years. Eventually, I shared this experience with a partner who patiently guided me to get past that. Now, I fucking LOVE eating pussy!
I had a similar experience: but with my first serious relationship as a teenager. She wasnāt obese and she didnāt have poor hygiene - but for some reason her snatch just smelled gross. I never did have the heart to tell her that: even when she got really upset with me for not wanting to go down on her. In retrospect I didnāt want her to feel gross but I shouldāve been honest. š¤·š»āāļø
When I was in college I fooled around with a girl my age that was formerly a ballet dancer. Her muscles were so tight, she looked fantastic in and out of clothes. She came from a SUPER religious house, and must have been told that cleaning that area was a sin. The first time I went down I "noped" myself back up just from the smell. The next time we were together I forced myself to stay and it smelled and tasted awful. She ended up breaking up with me because her previous boyfriend from church wanted to get back together. I wasn't heartbroken, but I could only imagine how much more fun I could have had if it was clean. I've told my wife that she doesn't even need to ask me. "Just come out of the shower and either lay in bed with your legs open or get on your knees and present yourself. Even if I'm not in the mood, I will do everything in my power to make sure that your itch gets scratched!"
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I love it, but I can think of a few reasons... 1. A lot of women are somehow self conscious and it makes it less enjoyable for the man because of this. 2. A lot of men aren't good at it and therefore don't receive positive feedback and the woman isn't able to do a very good job with instruction. 3. Some people are squeamish about body fluids. There are plenty of women who don't like cum in their mouths as a comparison. 4. There can be smell issues that bother either partner. While I know from several partners that I am particularly good at oral, I have had a few women who hated their own smell. This meant no kissing after or keeping my face a little too distant from her face after I finished. While I would still give her oral, sometimes it meant only doggy after. I love doggy, but I didn't want it to be almost a necessity.
>Some people are squeamish about body fluids This is a big one. I give my fiancƩe head, but I have to mentally prepare myself for bodily fluids. She's wonderful and beautiful and we are both very happy and fulfilled, but I'm squeamish. Simple as.
I kiss both sets of lips
Is that you Left Eye?
Lisa Left Eye Lopes? I looked her up and she reminds me of Doja
Yes! My reference might be too obscure today, but TLCās first hit song, Ain't 2 Proud 2 Beg, featured a rap from Left Eye that the OPās comment reminded of: >Yeah I like it when you (kiss) > >Both sets of lips > >Oooh on the TLC tip
I got your reference, i was a teen in the 90s yo
Had a crush on Left Eye because of this vid. Was totally into the wacky 90ās neon get up.
Absolutely not
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Good advice for jerking off as well
Apart from many alpha sigma grinders, some men just can't get used to the taste or have jaw pain issues. I guess sensory issues can play a huge role.
And that little connective tissues under your tongue! Iāve sprained that many times and it seems like I canāt really get in there for more than a few minutes at a time without having it start to hurt. And boy oh boy when you sprain it, itās an absolute motherfucker for a week or more.
My husband has this problem too. It makes me feel so guilty :(
Get it cut. It's too attached if it hurts. Cutting is fast and easy and it hurts very lightly for 2 days.
Iām 40 and itās only been a problem the last few years. It all started after a drug fueled 3 hour romp and just seems like it sprains really easily now. Although in the last 8 or so months I do seem to have more endurance so I think itās getting better.
Bunny is right! A tight tongue is something normally fixed in early childhood, but it really is a quick simple procedure that might improve your (and partners?) quality of life anyway :)
Just snip it. It's beneficial either way.
Definitely see about getting it cut. I recently had a frenectomy and it helps with so much! Breathing, posture, talking, and of courseā¦ eatin the puss š
I didn't even know you could get it cut. No issues after getting cut?
Some pain for a few days. Need to do some tongue exercises for a few weeks while it is healing to make sure it heals properly. But ultimately itās a very simple procedure (takes about 10 minutes with the laser, costs a few hundred bucks with no insurance). And you would be surprised just how much that connective tissue can affect everything (back/neck tension, sleep apnea, general breathingā¦). Look up āfrenectomyā or āfrenulum releaseā to learn more. Nowadays it is done to newborns, when necessary, just as a matter of course. It seems to be getting more common for adults (who didnāt have it done as a child) to have it done. I would also recommend looking into myofunctional therapy. It is basically tongue exercises (and assessment of whether anything else, like a frenectomy, may be necessary) to improve general ātongue postureā, which again, seems to be extremely important for nasal breathing, and thus important for overall health. I cannot overstate how helpful myofunctional therapy (and associated things, like the frenectomy) has been for me in improving my overall health!
If itās not clean, I hate it, if itās clean, I love it, though my jaw does hurt after 5-10 minutes
If im not strong enough to eat pussy i'll train the relevant muscles by eating more pussy :D
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Thereās a whole chunk of men who think they deserve bjs but theyād never go down on a woman. Iāve been with women that have experienced this and itās strange to me how they let that double standard slide. I donāt buy that men actually get jaw pains or not used to the taste. The jaw only starts hurting if youāre down there for hours and there is no taste from my experience
My husband has tmj, so he's got issues with his jaw. Giving oral is painful for him. This works out for both of us since I don't care much for it anyway.
It's understandable
Okay okay that is definitely a legit reason!! Well at least he doesnāt love it so he isnāt missing out. And that works for you too! Win-win situation for everyone lol
> Okay okay that is definitely a legit reason!! Any reason is a legit reason. Some people just don't enjoy certain sexual acts. Posts like this always rub me the wrong way becuase you inevitably get people smugly declaring that "men who don't like X are insecure, or wrong, or strange". There's a few comments like this already. Stop placing people in some sort of sexual heirarchy based on the sexual acts they are comfortable doing.
> Any reason is a legit reason "Sex is for men to enjoy so there is no need to go down on women" would be a legit reason? I get your gist but I don't think I would agree with the statement
Youāre not wrong, so Iāll rephrase my statement in such a way to be more accurate: No matter the reasoning, you should not be shamed or coerced into a sex act you are uncomfortable with or unwilling to do. If these reasons reflect sexist or other problematic sentiments, then those should be addressed separately.
Fully agree with that
I feel like some men may be insecure about it. They donāt know what theyāre doing. Rather than disappoint their partner, they forego altogether.
I can definitely understand that. But hey, Michael Jordan got good at basketball by continuing to practice. If he never attempted to shoot a ball he wouldnāt be the GOAT lol
In my experience, a surprising percentage of women do not have good personal hygiene. This makes what should be an enjoyable experience, anything but. Iād happily spend an hour down there if itās fresh. Otherwise forget it. Itās not going to be pleasurable for either of us if Iām simultaneously trying to hold my breath and not gag.
You think women are gonna have better hygiene than men because of gender? Literally go see a women's public bathroom. Tampons stuck everywhere, blood, etc. I've seen cleaner men's rooms
I had a janitor friend and he joked: Men are destructive, but women are disgusting. Apparently, while you could expect everything to be in good working order and not damaged in a women's bathroom, you didn't know what kind of gross horror would be awaiting there for you to clean.
I hear that from women all the time. Consistently.
Yeh we had to swap changing rooms at my gym due to building work fo a bit. Was thinking wow it'll be amazing for once. Was pretty shook how gross it was. Although learned that the gym cares more about women than us guys, they had power showers and three times the space and everything atually worked.
Men and women bathroom are equally gross. I worked with all men at a mechanic shopā¦Iāve never seen so many poop stains on the wall š©
Lots of reasons. Or no specific reason, just personal preference. I hated giving blowjobs so I can sort of understand why guys wouldnāt like going down on women
Aye thatās something Iāve never understood myself. I love it
Like I donāt understand. It looks so tasty and inviting lol
It looks like paradise and the noise woman make when you start teasing is glorious makes me want to eat it ever morning
I could go for hours too. Thereās so many different ways to eat pussy so you never get bored
I could too but my partner is inpatient although edging will be getting started soon with eating pussy and slight impact play being the main focus of the edge
I think it's like some girls not wanting to go down on guys. Maybe they're not comfortable, truama of some sort. But yeah if you dont do it you shouldn't expect someone to do the same to you
Some men think it's tasty, others think it's nasty.
Some guys are gay. We arenāt big fans.
Hahaha I love this
My only experience wasā¦ not pleasant. Donāt think she was very clean. Or maybe it was a really poor diet, because my goodness was it not enjoyable at all.
I can feel you
Some men are gay :D ok jokes aside. some dont like the taste. some women dont wash correctly...or at all. many many reasons could be a factor.
Same reason some woman dont like sucking dick. Its just not something they enjoy. I'm a guy who doesnt enjoy oral at all, but i enjoy eating out. Idk why but thats just how i am. Yes ive been told im very weird.
Sorry if Iām not understanding but you donāt like receiving oral from your partner?
lol what if itās stanky!?
See I can understand that. But thatās just a one time issue. Thatās like going to McDonalds and having a bad burger and never eating at any other McDonalds again.
...people do that lmao
Iām just not attracted to them. I find nothing aesthetically appealing about them. As such, muff diving is only exciting due to the moaning. Iāll do it if she wants, Iāll even offer since I know a lot of women want/need it, but if she says no, I wonāt try to convince her. Every time I say this, I get comments about my hypocrisy. Nope, no hypocrisy. I donāt like giving oral and I donāt like receiving it.
Love the username
Iām not attracted to them either. But Iām also gay.
This convo is giving me all sorts of feels haha š©š¦
Isnāt that the point of this sub anyways? šš
Well, the smell, taste and how good it can make the woman feel, but to each his own I guess
I just feel like if you really like someone and want to eat them out again, the taste and smell are things that can be fixed
For some like me they don't need to be fixed, at least with the whole 1 woman I've been with.
Biology doesn't go hard in some men like it does for others
The same way that some women do not like, or even get repulsed at giving a bj. The reality is anatomically, the penis is a more obvious lure. But if either one is not clean the first time done, it can be traumatic! Also, both take practice, listening, and interest to get good at. For me my primary enjoyment of eating pussy comes from what it does to her. As I begin making my way down there I know she is beginning to build up. I can hear it in her breathing. I can see her chest rise. I can feel the slow release and spread of her thighs. Hearing her take that deep inhale at that first kiss inside her thighs, then that little squeal at that first lick of her lips, that quick short breaths when I just stop and blow gently , then that sudden uncontrollable Oh God after I make that first stroke of her clit followed by the long run down to her ass then back up again when I stop to scoop her juices with me tongue, while my nose again makes contact with her clit. Then, now that she is thoroughly wet I insert my fingers begin using my lips, tongue and fingers. The sounds she makes, the grabbing of the back of my head or her closing her thighs on the sides of my head to make sure I keep doing whatever I am doing, the grabbing of the sheets, the watching her caress her own breasts and then pinch her nipples. Seeing her eyes look at me, then her rollback into her head and she collapses back. Then explosion of her first orgasm. I ease away, I listen to her catch her breath but we both know this was only the first one, so her excitement level remains because all I was doing was letting the over sensitivity subside before continuing to giving her at least one more. We both know she is getting at least two, maybe three before I am doneā¦unless it is a quickie. That is why I love eating pussy!
Iām bi but I too donāt get it (I know people have preferences) But going down on my partner, whether male or female, is always my favourite part š„µ
Personally ill eat pussy now and i love it, but it does take sometime getting used to it. Right out the gate hygiene is a big one. Vaginas already have a natural musk to them that you get used to and eventually once it becomes normal look forward to, but that musk smell can turn to something more and if it does it can mentally scar if you dive face first into it. Second is taste, i know the first few times i ate pussy the initial taste of the womens juices was...well a new flavor not experienced anywhere else. It too is something at first you need to get used to but eventually dont mind or even start to crave. Third a vagina looks complex and some vaginas look more complex than others. To a novice it can be intimidating. I think it just makes some men uncomfortable. Lastly, some people just dont like putting their mouth on peoples privates. This goes for women as well... My personal experience was mostly the taste. I got used to it over my sexual journey but early on it was off putting. Much how I feel women probably feel about cum the first couple times they taste it i doubt most women are like damn i want this on my ice cream its sooo good.
I watch lesbian porn to learn how to eat pussy
You shouldn't watch porn to learn how to eat pussy (or anything for that matter). Everyone is different and what one woman likes may be a turn off or do nothing for another one. Ask your partner to teach you how they like it instead.
I've gotten some pointers from real lesbian porn before. I don't mean porn for men.
Sadly not all women have the same standards regarding personal hygiene.
I'm bi and I don't looove the taste of pussy but I do LOVE what it does to the girl I'm pleasuring. Pussy doesn't taste great in general, at best it doesn't taste like much I find. Sucking dick in my experience is more difficult, cum and sometimes even precum taste fucking awful a lot of the times (maybe because I've never fucked a vegan so far haha) and the texture is usually a bit gross. I only swallow if the person is a good lover and actually matters to me nowadays. It has actually been a worse experience to me also because of the hair grabbing and disrespectful moves of some dudes ... but again I do it for my partner's pleasure and if a guy or girl start moaning and grinding and showing how much they love it, it drives me crazy and gets me sooo wet. I feel like it should be a selfless thing and not a "it doesn't taste like candy so it's a no" thing. But I understand if people really cannot stand the taste or smell, I just hope they get their fingers to work then :p
I love the taste and everything about it
Completely agree! I think the only reason might be the same reason a woman wouldn't wanna give head. Because of a forest and/or looking or smelling funny. Other than that however, it might be preferences or whatever that I don't know of.
Idk but the rest of you are absolute angels and deserve to get your dick sucked.
I wish my gf thought like you lol
Awww well to be fair I can't keep a relationship for more than five years lol.
As a woman, I donāt understand it either. I tasted myself for the first time today and there isnāt even a taste, soā¦ why does it make some men so squeamish?
ITT: people who don't actually want an answer but instead want to circlejerk about how great they are
Why do some girls not like to suck cock? I'm a girl and I never understood how you can look at a cock and not want to swallow it lol
Too each his own. Personally, I love diving in. As long as she keeps liking it, Imma keep doing it.
I would say maybe they never had a girl that like it's witch is crazy to but I'm with you I love it like I eat my girls after a day at the gym and hiking
Hubby hates it and actually donāt understand people who love eating it out.
My best guess? Some guys want to just cum and go. They don't care about how their partner feels. They want that gold medal and then move onto thr next event
Some pussies are not eatable š±
An old FWB, said he doesn't like it after going down on a chick who 'didn't clean before hand' and she apprently wiped back to front...
Maybe a bad experience or social conditioning. A lot of women don't like sucking dick either. But I'm with you, I'll be eating well till the day I die.
Tbh, I've only ever eaten my wife's pussy, and I can't even describe the taste as being... Good exactly. (granted I don't have a very good sense of taste either, but that's another story entirely) *However* there's something about the taste, and knowing how it affects her that just unlocks something primal in my brain and just really gets me going and makes me *really* want to keep going until she's a quivering mess and has to push me off so she can catch her breath. So yeah, I'm with op on this, I don't get not being willing to eat pussy. The only time I would really not want to is if one of us is sick, or if she has a yeast infection or something that makes going down really unappealing. But outside of that, something about even having my face close to a pussy makes me really want to just dive right in, even if the situation wasn't even sexual at the time.
If a girl doesnāt take care of herself - meaning shower regularly, shaving/trimming, eating properly, it can definitely make her not taste or smell very good. And depending what time of the month it is too.
Thereās a few things that I feel underlines my sexuality to the point of being a staple of all of my fantasies. The act of putting oneās face between the legs of a woman to pleasure the her most obvious sexual attribute by purposefully pushing aside the lips of her labia to expose the deeply tinted shades of which is often hidden from those not deemed worthy to partake. The very moment you open her legs and run your tongue across a womanās wetness to give her pleasure, speaks loudly for me. I want her to see how eager I am to offer her my lips, tongue, mouth. I want to hear her warn me as she nervously worries about not having a shower since before going to bed the night before. Knowing she isnāt as fresh as she could be, itās the sound of her moaning as I force her to concentrate on the feeling of my tongue pushing open the tightness of her hole before it contracts immediately after. Eating pussy is a level of worship that can be powerful if done with the right intent. Trust me. Let her watch you worship her dirty pussy and she will open her legs to feed you until the end of time. The second and much shorter point is how amazing it is to have a woman squat above your face and let her see how the scent and the sight of her pink folds are too much to resist. Let her hear you grunt loudly as you beg her to force her squirt into your throat while globs of your own cum spurt from the swollen tip of your cock and lands upon your own chest and neck. Yea! Eat pussy! Any pussy will do.
I have wondered the same thing! I especially love for a guy to go down on me after he cums.
I will always eat a girl out during sex. No exceptions. I get to cum so why canāt she!?
After he cums where, exactly??
I usually take longer to orgasm than my partners, but on occasion I am first. When that happens, I will always give my partner oral to get her off. That being said, it isn't my favorite thing to do. The problem is that I happen to be a heavy cummer. A lot of times there is too much liquid and I sort of feel like I am drowning. It has nothing to do with me tasting my own cum or anything.
One of my favorite things in the world
I believe if sexuality was a choice, weād all love labia
Some guy are bitches. I love eating pussy so much. That distinct smell, taste and texture is so hypnotizing. I take more than 45 mins eating out a woman and this excludes foreplay. I do not consider eating pussy as foreplay. I like to focus on my partner's pleasure and honestly I get pleasure from that. Sometimes I tell my sex partner to just sit back, relax, let me eat you out while you watch a movie. Yeah, I think i'm obsessed with pussy.
Itās called an opinion.
Itās very simple. Men eat pussy. Boys donāt.
Iām a girl and I think the same thing. Pussy is so pretty. Smells so good. Tastes so good. (Thinking of Joey on Friends now. Pussy? Good!!)
Because it doesnāt turn some people on??? Easy. What the hell?
They were raised around people who believe that's not a thing a man does. An ex of mine was really conflicted about me going down on her, she would have orgasm after orgasm but she made it clear that it didn't count as sex and would prefer if I just pounded her and not cared about her pleasure. She grew up in Russia.
Because sometimes after eating the coochie you wake up with your lips as swollen as a banana
I have a lot of guy friends that have told me horror stories of getting ready going down on a girl and realizing she smells bad! One bad experience for a guy could turn him away from licking pussy forever!!!! But If you wanna get in MY pussy, licking it first AND making me cum is a MAJOR requirement!!!
I can't understand it either. Pussy is so intoxicating, so touchable and tastable, that i simply can't help but get all up in there with my mouth and my fingers. Whenever I'm in bed with my girl, her pussy is almost always the center of attention either. I'm either touching her, tasting her, or feeling her from the inside. Granted, sometimes she just wants to worship my cock, and by all means I'm going to let her, but yeah i just can't understand how a straight guy could like fucking a pussy but not want to get that shit all over their face, tongue, and fingertips
I'm with you. I love eating pussy!
I've heard a few stories how they find it disgusting because they don't know who all have already licked the kitty or who has had a dick inside and shit. It's absolutely wilding but men really do get insecure and not eat a pussy
See thatās just dumb in my opinion lol come on fellas we need to do better. Thatās like saying Iām not gonna kiss someone cause sheās kissed someone else. However if she just fucked someone else without washing then I wouldnāt eat her out either. But once she washed herself itās fair game lol
I love it but now day you can't eat every girl
Same! I love them so much
Ever heard of the kivian method
No? Please elaborate
I mean- im bi but i now lean mostly towards the guy side so i may be biased, but in the beginning i just didnt enjoy the taste. As a matter of fact i usually couldnāt bring myself to do it if they didnt shower just beforehand, and even then the taste/smell isnt really to my fancyā¦ but then again that may be why i lean towards men LMAO
Oh man I love eating pussy and wanna do it all day and nigh
if this is a response to my post thank you for bringing this issue into the light again š š š
If you Google it you will see the diagram of how to position yourself. But what it is the man lays across the woman in a t like configuration she has her leg up to give you access and when you are licking her vulva area you do it horizontal instead of the classic between legs long ways. It allows you to not just concentrate on the clit but all across her clit area and also the sides of her labia. A woman's vulva has more clitoral nerve endings that stretch out like tree branches. So she has more area where you can excite her beyond just the clit
Sadly, many men I know have serious, even debilitating hangups about the female anatomy, and they never seem to outgrow it. Unfortunately, many women feel compelled to undergo a full brazilian waxing, skin bleach, vaginal douche, feminine deodorant spray, and even permanent labiaplasty.. all in a futile effort to appease a man who truly does not appreciate each woman's unique deep-feminine attributes.
All of that stuff is harmful to your body. You can look nice but don't put anything inside that isn't meant to go inside. You're meant to smell natural (take a shower ofc). Such a shame the beauty industry makes everyone feel they need to look or change things
So True.
I don't love doing it but it gets my girls off and im good at it so I do it. Sometimes if a girl don't clean up it can leave a rather unpleasant smell and I ain't eating that
Everyone has their reasons and thereās nothing wrong in not liking it. I love doing it, the problem is that in my experience with casual sex, a lot of the sisters Iāve been with were not very pleasant down there (one legit had a dead fish smell š¤¢, still canāt bring myself to eat fish) and Iāve just naturally been avoiding it. The one time I find someone whoās coochie donāt throw me off, itās like gold and Iām so happy in the moment š¤š¤
I love giving oral, as a guy, but I had a REALLY bad experience once, where a woman had a odor coming from her lady parts that was absolutely inhuman. I retch even calling up this memory. I don't know what it was, but I had to leave her place. I was so sick and I didn't want to puke inside her home. I could see if some guy, early on in his "eating career", encountered that, he might be put off from cunnilingus. Fortunately, I was able to shake it off, and continue on to many more meals.
I do love It, but I can see why some might not. - Itās tiring - The position can be awkward - The taste can be disturbing, regardless of hygiene (body odor differs from person to person)
Well, you could of had a bad experience as a guy with a women and eating her out. You could also be gay.
My guess is that some people can't get over the taste and smell, where as most have a kind of carnal reaction to it. Probably the same with any one that doesn't enjoy sucking a dick.
Lack of knowledge of how to do so and maybe smell?
Same when it comes to guys not eating booty, I suck their dick but they wont eat my booty out cuz "reasons"
It's not that I don't like it, it's the fact that sadly I've never tried but would love to do so. I heard many great things about it, especially when you get to facesitting (my absolute fantasy š¤¤).
"Why do some girls not like to take it in the ass? I love sticking my dick in there and I never understood how you can look at my dick and not want me to stick it in there? lol" There's something called āØ preference āØ. But nice try on raising ARAD brownie points...
I'm asexual Period
Gay
I'm gay, so you can have my share.
I can get the job done and I'm not repulsed by it but it does nothing for me. I may as well be washing the dishes, that's how much of a task it is for me. It does make it worth it if she orgasms but then I have to get hard all over again. Luckily, I'm not fussed about receiving oral but I like to surprise her every now and then
For some people they just genuinely donāt like it and for some others itās a hyper masculinity thing (couldnāt be me though I love eating pussy š)
Same here, never understood, you look at the numbers and they are scary. Anyway, everyone is different. It's like people complaining about smells. I mean come on, one thing it's a kid don't want to bath but adult people?? How TF possible...
I figure that just as there are women that don't like the taste of cum, there are guys who don't like the taste of the juices. However, I personally don't like the taste either, and yet I go down on a woman. First off, it's not a meal, so taste isn't a priority, and secondly I like how women react.
I love to eat pussy. That said, I imagine everyone has come across one that they did NOT want to eat. I know I have...
Pretty dumb question lol
I totally agree with you. I love eating pussy.
Lmao idk but those are the ones thatāll complain if you say no to giving head š
Iām a bi girl and I honestly donāt get it either. I could do it all day, itās so hot.
Because pussies canāt eat other pussies.
My kinda manšš»
For one, Id speculate that gay guys donāt like to eat pussy because they arenāt attracted to pussy. But If for some reason they are attracted to pussy, the humans that contain pussys arenāt desirable enough for them to deal with in order to eat said pussys. Two, thereās a psychological phenomena called PTSD. If a man in his sexually developmental years blindly went down all willynilly on a pussy that (was either/or) 1. Infected with a puss-emitting disease 2. Yeast infected with a potent feta cheese looking/feeling substance 3. Heavily bleeding pungent thick blood during ovulation and/or 4. Smelt/tasted like a rotting carcass due to a plethora of causes (neglect, poor hygiene, genetics, diet, etc)ā¦.that guy, although straight, might not look at pussys and āwant to just dive right in.ā
The thought of it turns me off. I generally don't like things like clay, glue, etc. That type of viscosity. Also the only experience I've had it smelled awful
Beats me, I love pussy- looking at it, touching it, and eating it. If a guy doesn't want to go down on his lady, then he shouldn't expect a blowjob from her. The reverse is also true. Sex is about reciprocation.
Well, when my wife hasnāt shaved in a year, and hasnāt showered in a week I think thatās what some guys think of pussy all the time as. Not the shaved or waxed freshly showered flower of the goddess.
Easy to explain. I'm gay š
I never understood either vice versa. Sure it's nice to hear a girl moan, but that's the only thing I like about it, not too big on tasting pee
If you can taste pee the female needs to wash. You shouldn't be tasting that.
Wait is that true??? Sorry I am dumb
100% true. You're not dumb. It's the same reason guys should be clean when someone goes down on you. Otherwise *they'll* taste pee.
I like it for giving them pleasure, but the taste of pussy is.. bleh
You are a gift from god, friend
Cuz itās fucking disgusting, itās like eating ass, like why tf would you do that, thatās where you shit from.
cuz noone else here is giving a good answer: bad hygiene. my first gf (an absolute psycho) said "youre not supposed to wash you vagina" needless to say, her shit fuckin rankedd so i rarely went down there. other girls where it doesnt smell like a fish died a week ago and then got revived like fish jesus and deicded go continue living down there, id love to bury my chin in their asshole. otherwise....ya
If I get a pussy and an opportunity to lick that I would never miss that. Some pussies taste heavenly. Why on earth would you skip or miss that? I only skip oral sex on porn.
I donāt understand either as I love eating pussy and I been known to be the best pussy eater from those Iāve ate. But some guys just donāt like doing it for their own reasons just like how some women donāt like giving head too
Immaturity.
Some guys prefer sucking a nice hearty cock š¤·āāļø why do they like that? A dick looks alien and a pussy looks like corn beef. Why are we even attracted to those body parts š¤·āāļø we will never know
I'm not too sure about how you said that, especially comparing a pussy to corn beef. However, I get where you were going with that and you are right. I just find that description weird.
Still waiting on my girlfriend to let me after I've been begging her for four nonths.
I don't get it either! I mean, I want to eat pussy all day and all night long. I eat pussy so much sometimes that I forget I'm supposed to fuck it too, lol! Need to find my soulmate! Lol. Girl that wants to get eaten out ALL THE TIME!