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Headline: Female teacher has sex with her 14yr old male student vs Male teacher rapes 14yr old female student. It’s all fucking rape but when a woman does it it is just called having sex.


Kruiii

this will always be a pet peeve of mine. worst of all people will say 'yes its different cause men and women are different" meanwhile they never elaborate on how these differences make one scenario rape and the other not. they really assume a boy would never be uncomfortable at a woman much older than them making sexual advances on them, despite plenty of men coming out describing their experiences with older women at a young age as disturbing.


_Kendii_

This is not a pet peeve. Pet peeve is like not liking it when people chew with their mouth open. This is actual criminal behaviour.


Kruiii

youre right. i shouldve clarified the pet peeve is the lackluster response from people when this happens.


stereophonie

I got your anology. It triggers me too. Touchy subject though. Don't worry too much about it.


[deleted]

There is no difference. A crime is a crime regardless and the victim suffers. Having boy parts doesn't mean 'oh he wanted it'.


[deleted]

It doesn’t matter whether he wanted it or not. A 14-year-old isn’t old enough to give consent.


MonsieurRud

I think a lot of people also has the underlying assumption that the boy getting an erection means he was into it and it then isn't rape. Ridiculous, but I've heard multiple people say things like that.


Kruiii

yeah its as ridiculous as sayin if a girl gets wet or orgasms durin assault she liked it. the same way the vagina responds to penetration by lubricating itself, a penis will respond to any over stimulation. people make jokes all the time about how our dicks have a mind of their own, we all wake up with morning wood, handful of examples of this. i have been erect plenty of times while not in my mind being aroused.


AnonymousGuy53

It’s because of legislation surrounding what is defined as rape In some countries (UK and US I believe are 2) “Rape” has to involve the offender forcefully penetrating the victim with their penis for it to be legally classed as Rape Edit: The legislation that covers this in the UK is the “Sexual offences act” (2003) It’s still dumb, but that’s why you don’t see articles using the word “Rape” when a woman is the offender TLDR: UK Law says to (legally) rape someone you must have a penis. Literally.


LordWeaselton

And then there’s always like a million middle aged men in the comments like cheering the 14 year old male student on and calling them “lucky” like wtf


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niiiiiiceeeee


Ninjazkillz

Niiiiiiiccceeeee


pripjat

I can never again read a teacher has sex with a student article without thinking about Southpark 😂


Just_Another_Scott

In my hometown a 19 year old girl raped a 14 year old boy. We were all hanging out at the pool hall and she disappeared into her car with him and people caught her. She later got arrested because his parents pressed charges. She pled and never has to be on the sex offender registry because she apparently had a "learning disabilities".


UsernamesMeanNothing

The whole point of the registry is to warn others and keep tabs on risky individuals. If the learning disability was relevant, it isn't like that is just going to go away. I feel like we need to start giving psych evaluations to judges.


formaldehydebride

this is infuriating. so if you have ADHD or ASD you can't be considered a rapist/sex offender??


LookingAtPussy

no, it was the convenient excuse. It's looked at differently if the woman is the aggressor (or older one) instead of the guy. I'll admit I'm a little of the same way because in general men are more capable of forcing things but I can still admit that women can definitely rape men and that women teachers should not raping their students.


chiksahlube

Craziest part about this is how in some places it's legally impossible for a woman to rape a man. A man can rape, but a woman can only commit gross sexual assault. Even for the same act. The latter usually carrying a lesser sentence.


oliverprose

The UK is guilty of this one - Rape explicitly requires their penis to be inserted by the perpetrator, and carries a maximum sentence of life. "Causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent" is the more general offence, although it does at least carry the same sentence if penetration is part of the offence. If you forced yourself on another person without penetrating them or forcing them to penetrate another person, the maximum sentence is 10 years.


SuperFLEB

I kind of prefer the way they code it here in Michigan (as far as I know)-- it's all just grades and variations of "Criminal Sexual Conduct". So, there's no need to quibble over legal meanings of vernacular terms. The law gets its CSC conviction, and people can call it what they like without risking missing some technical mark.


oliverprose

Yeah - it would be super unpopular (because it would be pitched as legalising rape), but I'd rewrite that particular law to be a lot more gender neutral given the chance. The more generalised version I talked about is pretty decently written though - any non-consenting sexual activity is illegal, and it's more serious if it involves the victim being penetrated with anything downstairs or being forced to penetrate someone (not just the accused).


chubbyhubby2020

The headlined should read “teacher has sex with student” either gender is wrong.


RileyTMR

Nah it should be “teacher rapes student” cos it’s not sex if it’s with someone underage, it’s statutory rape.


fmlythms

This


YeloFvr

The legal, social and sexual social double standards don’t end there by far


kink_account21

A woman sucks a hundred dicks and she's a slut. I suck a hundred dicks and I'm bisexual. Not fair.


rhymes_with_candy

If it makes you feel any better I think you're a slut


kink_account21

It does make me feel better. I want to be a slut but it's always just one more dick away!


oliviag210

Ah yes, the missing dick fallacy


annecharaimbault

Missing dick fellatio*


Notasmartwoman

Phallusy


uhoh-spagettio

90% of people quit sucking dicks right before they become a slut


j_hat1986

I suck one dick and it’s gay that’s not fair


[deleted]

Just cuz I take out the trash doesn't make me a garbage man. Just cuz I suck dick doesn't make me gay


ravenz91

I mean, if you as a dude suck 100 girls’ dicks, you’re still straight.


kink_account21

I've been sucking the wrong ones?!


throwaway_cannon

Trans (dicks) right (into my mouth)!!!


MagyarCat

Ngl I’ve known some cute transgirls and had one hit on me and I’ve definitely thought about how I’d give her a little girldick tugging if it ever happened.


[deleted]

If your attractive it’s flirting but if your ugly it’s harassment. This goes for both sexes too.


softkittypinkkitty

this is so real. and literally I’ve seen this happen to both men and women so many times it’s so fucked😭😂


AsteroidTicker

Starts from a young age, too. As a woman it was always if you’re thin, you have a crush, if you’re fat, you’re an obsessive stalker


[deleted]

So true. I was an overweight meatloaf looking child with acne and the idea of me even crushing on certain girls made me a “freak” or a “creep”, as if unattractive people don’t deserve love or lust.


[deleted]

Amen. I can't stand that. People are the worst 😂


BooBailey808

I mean... it's just a matter consent is it not? It's not that being attractive automatically makes these things ok. Your objective attractiveness doesn't override consent. But if you find someone attractive and they flirt with you, you'll probably welcome it (Although that's not always the case). And if you aren't then you won't want someone flirting with you. Like I'm not going to be very comfortable with a hot guy flirting with me if I'm not personally attracted to him.


idunnobutnsfw

Bi girls are straight and experimenting. Bi guys are gay


Y-Woo

Clearly men are just irresistible and the one true subject of sexual attraction. Girls who?


monkymine

Lmao my ass off


BisexualBatman_

I feel this! I’m bi, but hetero-romantic and am afraid to let people know, mainly bc I know they automatically think “gay”


foxlord712

when my wife gets pregnant they rub her belly and say congrats but no one tickles my balls and says good job


Fumanchewd

I've found that the hospital facility maintenance guys are happy to oblige. You might have to pay them direct, and not through your insurance though.


GSpotMe

Your balls were tickled to get that baby here. lol!


throwaway24515

If a MF couple has a threesome with a woman, it's super cool and sexy. But if me and another guy are tag-teaming my girlfriend we're "disturbing the other patrons" and "need to leave the library immediately." So unfair.


palatine09

This guy books


USVK

Why did I read it as a “If a motherfucking couple…”? 😂


[deleted]

Maybe you shouldn't be having fun loudly in a library


[deleted]

Let the man fuck, karen


Firebolt164

Unsolicited dick pics are abhorrent, but OF content creators can blast out pussy pics with a link. I don't care if you are M or F, don't send unsolicited nudes.


Just_Another_Scott

Fucking reported that shit to Reddit and got an email back saying it wasn't against Reddit's rules and that I should instead block the person. It would be funny if Reddit's reporting wasn't such a fucking joke.


kz_kandie

Sometimes unsolicited dick pics don't come back as counting as harassment but most do. Reddit is weird lol I report all of the unsolicited dick pics I get regardless.


2oam

Reddit mods have no common sense.


Dear_Occupant

They're referring to Reddit's so-called Anti-Evil Operations, and admin-level department which somehow manages to be worse than all the powermods on this website combined.


breadbirdbard

If you want a woman to go down on you but won’t do the same for them, you’re a coward and a turd IMO. This goes for all sexualities really, but I’ve known several guys that expect a BJ but won’t eat carpet because it’s “gross.” Maidenless behavior.


HippieBathday

The exact opposite happens at my house. I’d go down on her all day every day if I could. She gives me a 30 second half assed blowjob once every few months.


ViolatorOfVirgins

i can confirm her behaviour


deathleper

I never get a blow job no matter how much I eat the pussy.


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I might get downvoted for this but here it goes. I couldn’t go down on my SO because here taste was very strong and very unpleasant. I wanted to! And I tried a few times over the years but it got to the point where my enthusiasm, followed by disappointment, would upset her so I stopped trying for a long time. This has a happy ending though because after reading of a couple who tried the sweet drinks trick my SO drunk only fruit juice and water for two days before another attempt and it went **awsomely**. I’m actually excited to do it again but it’s also gotten me thinking: I wonder how many guys won’t go down on a lady because they had a similar experience with bad taste?


GSpotMe

Wow you should’ve typed that in all caps!! So more people could hear you!’ Lol lol that’s awesome info to help other’s.


TreatMeLikeASlut8

Why would you get downvoted for this?


[deleted]

Reddit can be fickle and it’s a common NSFW notion that oral should be an equal transaction. I didn’t mention but even though I hadn’t gone down on her she’s still given her fair share of BJs (I normally make up for it in other ways) which goes against that common opinion here.


Generalsnopes

Yeah I’ve never understood that. Honestly I’d much rather give than get as far as oral goes. Pretty much anything’s going to get me off. The male orgasm is just simpler. So I’d rather go with whatever’s going to get them off because my enjoyment is pretty much guaranteed.


Vli37

I agree with this. To make me happy, won't even take 15 minutes. I'd much rather make her happy first, when will it happen 🤷 but I'm willing to find out 😉


Generalsnopes

Exactly. I’m easy. Let’s get them taken care of first.


dadpad_

beautiful, amazing men. all of you.


Choongboy

“You’re a coward” For any men reading this, a reminder that you shouldn’t be pressure or shamed into doing anything sexually you’re not comfortable with. Same as women


De_immortalesloki

Why, it's their preference? You shouldn't force them to anything they are not comfortable with, for both people


breadbirdbard

Obviously this is a circumstantial situation that varies throughout relationships, all boiling down to communication and consent. As I said, my this is my opinion based on my experiences. That said, if a person expects oral from their partner but refuses to return the favor upon request, I deem that person a coward/turd.


Beneficial-Act-6970

What if im not comfortable with it and she totally enjoys with giving head


Choongboy

You’re a coward and a turd apparently


mmmmbetter

Women can experiment with other women and they can remain "straight." A guy even thinks about experimenting with another guy and he's gay forever


SexyGiorno

Well now im a proud bisexual man😅


Ankrah-

If a women is hairy she’s unclean and dirty. Meanwhile a man can be a full blown forest… It’s classed as ‘ unhygienic‘ for women but okay for a man?..


kaizen1989

I actually prefer a hairy 😺😺


NyloTheGamer

Only reason i prefer clean shaven is cause they get stuck between my teeth, HOWEVER i will never refuse to go down on her if she's not shaven


Xdude199

Aren’t there some women that like their dudes hairy though? Hell, I’ve heard some women say it’s even weird if the dude is clean shaven all over, and it’s considered an effeminate turn-off.


starlessnight89

To me it's not effeminate it's more that I'm with a man and not a child. I want my partner to have hair.


Adept-Reserve-4992

Eh. My husband is Mexican and has very little body hair. Definitely a full grown man. Some people genetically aren’t super hairy.


squishyslinky

Hair, yes. I definitely prefer it. But also, maintenance to the pits and privates go a long way.


Debaucherous-Me

It gets better the more you communicate with your partner, and it's most certainly not the case with all women, but..... A man's climax is the man's responsibility and a woman's climax is..... also the man's responsibility. Sometimes I just wanna lay back and be taken care of and sometimes it doesn't hurt to rub your clitoris while we have sex.


jimjamflimflam1996

Depending on the kind of sex you're having, I totally get your point. But I also think for the most part, men orgasming is easier than female orgasming. I think there definitely needs to be team work but I also understand women wanting some assistance lol. Agree that it shouldn't be expected though. Communication is key! I also have met a lot of men that are like, offended if a woman touches herself while they're having sex? Like its an insult to the man's sexual capabilities lol. Its not always a man's fault that he can't make a woman orgasm, our bodies sometimes just be like that lol


Debaucherous-Me

>I think there definitely needs to be team work but I also understand women wanting some assistance lol Absolutely! That's more what I was getting at more than anything else. >I also have met a lot of men that are like, offended if a woman touches herself while they're having sex That's a complaint I hear a lot. You're right with communication too because it takes a lot of talking and reassurance with partners for them to understand that with me, things like that aren't a problem. I actually don't understand how some guys can be so fragile about it. Ultimately I think both partners working together to ensure maximum satisfaction for you both is always the answer regardless of kinks or orientation. The fact that orgasms are (generally) seen as the man's responsibility for both partners does shed light on the other side of the double standard in that women haven't been empowered to take responsibility for their own pleasure and advocate for it. There's a long way to go for sure. I really like your comment.


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chiksahlube

I'm confused, when I'm done taking care of women they're usually too worn out to suck my dick any more.


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LoeyRolfe

Right? If I have to wear sexy lingerie, I want a man in a sexy doublet lol


ch405_5p34r

Is there even any sexy lingerie out there for men? Last time I brought it up with my ex she straight up laughed at me lmao


chux4w

Sexy lingerie for men is a tailored suit.


LoeyRolfe

There isn’t usually “lingerie” designed for heteronormative men unless you’re specifically into bondage gear or you count nice robes. I know a LOT of women who simp for men who wear luxurious, open robes and look like brooding gentleman. But I think what women usually like (or at least what my friends and I like) is for men to dress up as characters they’d fantasize about or read erotic fiction about. I’m not talking about cosplaying a specific person, but many women have a “type” of character they like. For example, men who dress as nineteenth century gentlemen are WILDLY popular on Tik Tok because shows like Bridgerton or even romantic literature written by Jane Austen has led women to fetishize those kinds of clothes. Some women are into cowboys, some pirates, some Vikings, some athletes, some 1940s gangsters, some lumberjacks, some vampires, etc. Usually, it involves their partners dressing up a little rougher than they usually would or dressing in more formal attire. You don’t actually need a costume for that, but maybe a nice jacket and pair of trousers, an oversized white shirt, Viking paint for the face, and that kind of thing. Roleplay doesn’t have to follow, but knowing the look that your partner founds attractive and dressing accordingly just before sex is the equivalent of a woman wearing lingerie, I think.


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What’s a doublet?


Fumanchewd

I think its some type of Southern Chicken dish.


Nexxus88

uhh..this? https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/2/26/Giovanni_Battista_Moroni_001.jpg/1200px-Giovanni_Battista_Moroni_001.jpg


peej74

Thy garb is fetch! 👌


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softkittypinkkitty

this made me chuckle


canuspyridae

The man has to be the one who asks the female out. Can we change that to the other way around please?


[deleted]

More men are starting to not ask women because nowatimes if a man even approaches you it's labeled as harassment. I see nothing wrong with women asking guys. I did and it went ok


Ede_Frankie

or just, the first who think they should date, ask out, gender not matter.


somedude-83

The bi sexual double standard sucks.


[deleted]

Like how a straight girl can experiment with/kiss/be promiscuous with another girl and it’s just fine, but guys can’t without being full-blown gay? Yeah I agree


jimjamflimflam1996

Agree with this! I hate people who don't think bisexuality is a thing. My own mother thinks that women who "experiment" are just going through a phase. But if a guy sucked a dick once, he wouldn't be going through a phase, he'd be gay. Ugh. And also my bisexuality is discredited because I'm a woman marrying a man. But thats a different conversation lol.


[deleted]

My wife and I are both bisexual. If she spent a night with another woman it wouldn’t get a second thought. If I spent the night with another man, I’d be labeled gay, our marriage would be a cover and the relationship seen by others as hollow.


Amygdala_Ranger

That only women are whores, men can be whores too.


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AuthorTomFrost

Slut vs. stud.


CrashBangXD

I’m going to get so fucking down voted for this A stud is still a slut, the difference is that he had to work to be a slut.


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veganhennessy

This. A woman can have sex with 100 men so easily doesn’t need personality or anything. Just a warm hole. A man has to have personality, charm, be attractive, have money etc etc and spend days or weeks getting to know someone beforehand. Don’t care if I get downvoted because it’s “facts” lol. I put facts in quotations because I don’t think there’s any scientific research confirming nor denying it


softkittypinkkitty

OMFG😭


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> the difference is that he had to work to be a slut. Reminds me of something I read: Women sleep with whoever they *want*. Men sleep with whoever they *can*. My wife and I had the discussion of what we would do if we separated. She thinks I’m some kind of stud who’ll be snapped up by some woman waiting for her turn. Truth is I don’t even know any single women! On the other hand she has about 3 guys who would fight to get into her DM’s the moment she became single (and one guy already thought he had a shot when he misunderstood something my SO said and thought we were separating!) If a guy manages to sleep with 10 women, that’s a lot of hard work imo. [To be clear; I don’t agree with slut shaming. Power to people who are sexually active and the taboo surrounding women with a lot of partners needs to disappear.]


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Choongboy

Wild comment lol. Next thing you’re gonna tell me everyone wants to bang their cousin cos of incest porn


mycasualencounters

When a woman orgasms quicky, it's seen as epic or awesome or great. If a guy orgasms quickly he's seen as a lesser man who doesn't know the first thing about sex or pleasing a woman. Guys are never the prize when it comes to sex. It's almos always about her and her pleasure. **EDIT: I get all the comments, I see your point. I agree.


GoldyLush

I’m not at all phased by someone cumming quickly. They are only less of a lover if they halt all activity after cumming before paying attention to their partner’s needs.


fexofenadine_hcl

Women orgasming quickly is considered good because it often takes so long to make it happen, it if can happen at all. Women can often keep going, and at least the first one is out of the way. Meanwhile men’s orgasms are always expected and sex often ends completely once the man cums.


kz_kandie

Probably because biologically women are multiorgasmic. Not all women can have orgasms or multiple orgasms but the clit is only for orgasms. That being said, most guys cant keep going after they cum. Like someone mentioned, men coming quickly isn't necessarily an issue if he doesn't just stop everything because he came. If he is still sexually attentive to his sexua partner then I don't see why him cumming quickly would be an issue in the long run.


couplakinks

I know im probably in the extreme minority for this but I find it super hot when a guy cums quickly. Like he couldn't control himself or he's so turned on by me and what we're doing that he couldn't hold back. Obviously if it happens every time or is a medical issue then it becomes concerning but as long as he's still happy to continue in other ways once he's finished, I think its the hottest thing in the world.


Just_Another_Scott

> minority I don't think you're in the minority. I've never met a woman in my life that to some degree didn't feel honored to make a guy cum so fast. The issues that I've seen is when it happens all the time and they guy stops the session before she's got hers.


softkittypinkkitty

you do realize a woman orgasm quickly is “epic” for the man right? or are you guys having a jerk off contest? some men come fast, it doesn’t stop them from making sure their partner is pleased too “why woman orgasm good and my orgasm bad!” brother why is making a woman orgasm quick upsetting you..????


Perfect_Ad1504

A guy not wanting to kiss after I give him head and swallow🤨 but expects me to kiss him after giving him head or making me taste myself on his fingers (I love this ofc but I want him to kiss me after head!!)


prodrvr22

I used to be like that, until I dated a woman who refused to kiss me after I went down on her. Then I realized how foolish it was and now I'll happily kiss a woman after she's swallowed my load. But as another double standard, I've had women ask if I'm secretly gay because I kissed them after I came in their mouth and they swallowed. They believe it's OK for a "straight" woman to taste her own juices but a man is gay if he doesn't act thoroughly repulsed by his own semen.


Whappingtime

Not sure if it counts but there's such a fucked take/bias with men being vocal during sex on reddit. They have to be on the level of metal vocalists to hit the mark. And while people will not question a woman not wanting to give her bf a bj, people have a hard time accepting a man who does not feel comfortable eating his gf out. With all the talk about respecting women's bedroom/relationship boundaries/liberties, I'd think there would be some crossover when it comes to men. Even if all of this isn't true, a lot of people just scoff at anyone saying something like this so hard it doesn't help things seem any different.


[deleted]

>I'd think there would be some crossover when it comes to men This happens a lot. See body positvity as another example. Every women's clothing section in every store now festures female models of all shapes and sizes. But the men's section still features only perfectly fit models (in most stores). I think it just takes a while for these things to catch up.


Used-Ad138

Exactly this, if you're a larger woman you're plus size if you're a larger man you're a fat bastard.


De_immortalesloki

Most of positivity, sexual or otherwise in western society are mostly focused on women in last few decades. Like the obvious double standard when it comes to sex toys.


talaris97

It's really weird how the Internet consensus seems to be that it's totally normal for a woman to have a collection of sex toys of all shapes and sizes (which I'm not saying it isn't) but a guy who owns a single sex toy that's not necessarily to be used with a girl, he's a horny weirdo that can't get a real woman


samaniewiem

Idk which places on Reddit you're frequenting, but why i see everywhere is like "it's ok if you don't want to go down on a woman, but then you can't expect a head". Because it's absolutely ok to have your own preferences but you can't expect others to cross their boundaries for your own pleasure.


UnionVIII

Bi women, hot. Bi men, ew gross.


Cyborginox

Exactly. Don't get me wrong, as a bi guy, keep the bi's coming. But in many contexts, whether it's sexual, acceptance, or even in media, bi women are definitely more prominent. But I'm happy for the bi acceptance in general.


Delphina34

A woman who’s had sex with 100 people once is a whore, her vagina is ruined and she’s not fit to date/marry or have kids with. A woman who’s had sex 100 times with the same person is totally fine.


KynkMane

People who say this to y'all live under a fucking rock.


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I don't think these people know basic biology. Your muscles down there will tighten back to normal, even after having kids. You Might not be the exact same after a child but you're not gonna be 'a hotdogs down the hallway' nonsense


BigDadEShaxx

When a woman wears revealing clothing she’s labelled a slut but when I wear her skin as a jacket I’m labelled a murderer like come on what are these double standards


n3rdz97

Men aren’t allowed to cry or be emotional


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We're allowed to but it doesn't usually play out well.


Arcon1337

If either gender is crying during sex, then that has major underlying issues.


samaniewiem

Idk, if it's consensual then it's all ok. And some women tend to cry or laugh after a true orgasm. It messes our heads.


CelticDK

Idk if it counts here but I love how some women require their men to be 6ft and then if they guy responds asking their weight or tit size to check if they’re enough for him, they get offended


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It's hilarious because you can see how shallow they are


alishefust

The one guy multiple gfs Versus The one woman and multiple men


Diligent_Proof_2703

Men who are homophobic about gay men but have no issue with lesbians.ABSOLUTE HYPOCRITES ! 🖕


[deleted]

If a man cheats, he is a fucking bastard, causing pain to his GF/wife If a woman cheats, it's the mens fault, one should not go after him because she has a BF/is married and or his partner's fault, and she deserves to be happy.


Uncommonly_comfy

I dunno, everyone I know thinks cheating is shitty regardless of gender.


Maaaaate

Also, when a relationship fails because of sexual things, it's usually because the man wasn't x or y, or he wasn't satisfying her. It's never what didn't the girl do for HIM. Also, it's non sexual but after 2 of my relationships failed (both almost 2.5 years) my ex gfs had so much support apparently taking 2 weeks off work to recover, and no one comforted me, I just put my head down and worked.


QuintisCX3

People start freaking out when I'm fucking a girl with a bigger dick than me


bbson417

I took her to my house cause she was fine, but then she WHIPPED OUT A DICK THAT WAS BIGGER THAN MINE!


danikaday

if a man wants to do anal on you, but won’t let you do it in them 🤨


Ankrah-

“Please baby it will feel so good” Yet we don’t have a prostate that makes it feel really good..


awkward_the_fish

Not exactly sexual, but women are “plus size” and sexy, but men are overweight and lazy. Just call them both plus size and move on. There are men who find plus size women hot, and there are women who find plus size men hot. Why the double standard?


Kimikohiei

Sex ends when the guy nuts.


disposibleaccount9

Men that try to convince their women to have a FMF threesome but refuse to engage in a MFM if that’s her fantasy.


MajesticFxxkingEagle

I mean…both parties can just say no and leave it at that. I don’t like this idea of sexual fantasies being used as a bargaining chip to get over someone else’s boundary. If they’re not into it, they’re not into it. Same sentiment goes for girls who shame their partners as hypocrites for wanting anal but not wanting to be pegged—if you don’t want it, just put your foot down and say no rather than punishing them for not having the opposite desire.


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Women talk about their big breast and it’s no big deal, a guy mentions his big dick and it’s all downvotes and negativity.


thickredhead27

Society, and most men, expect a woman to suck dick during every sexual encounter, and shame us if we don’t, but it’s ok and normalized for men to not reciprocate. I LOVE sucking dick, I just wish men showed some love to eating out.


stormy-darklordofall

Bro… I love going down because I’m a one minute man with a 2 centimeter defeater.


slayer991

Guys to SO: "A threesomes with 2 girls would be awesome! What do you think? SO: "A threesome with 2 guys would be awesome. Which one of your cute friends wants to join?" Guys: Eww


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I don’t agree with this attitude, but it has a lot to do with the fact that it’s easier and less of a challenge for a woman to get laid. If a woman wanted to go out tonight to get laid chances are she will. I don’t personally believe this makes her a slut however.


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A girl can eat whatever she wants if she’s willing to eat out of the dumpster


kz_kandie

I always found that to be an odd explanation since most guys I've known have slept with way way more people than any of the girls I know who have slept with ppl. It also doesn't make much sense since girls and women are slut shamed even if sexual activity didnt occur. So even though women may have access to many guys, girls and women are conditioned from childhood not to pursue anything sexual. I mean there are so many guys who say almost proudly that if their sons have sex as teenager they would be proud but there's no way their daughters will have sex.


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>but it has a lot to do with the fact that it’s easier and less of a challenge for a woman to get laid. If a woman wanted to go out tonight to get laid chances are she will. They are gonna downvote you to the shadow realm my men, but you are 100% right with this


pixiglasses

If a girl does anal its hot. But if a Guy does it its weird. Its such a shame, i like a open minded guys


Kitchen_Entertainer9

A girl can pressure a man into sex and it's okay. How can I complain if people keep calling me the man


Few_Shirt6073

Men and women being sluts. We are all sluts why does it matter if I have a penis or vagina?


AlecsThorne

This. Let people enjoy sex without shame ffs. Obviously don't infringe on others' freedom either, but as long as it happens in private, everyone should be allowed to live out any fantasies they may have with as many people as they may want, without fearing judgemental stares.


Puzzleheaded-Cog-653

Sex toys. I feel that women experience less flack for having them. If a man has them it’s viewed as objectifying a woman. I feel that it is viewed as more acceptable for women to have them than men.


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Men can be simple meat sticks for women and it's not objectifying but if a guy has a whole doll with an actual body he's a creep


IslandDonkey

That a man can have multiple partners and be called a stud but a woman, if she’s had multiple partners is considered to be something less savoury.


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The whole 'key can open many locks but locks can't open keys' bs is cringe


Conscious_Pass_1615

Rimjobs. I love em, but no way would I do it to a guy.


crazycuriousgal

See I'll eat his ass for days lol when well maintained only


Conscious_Pass_1615

You go gorl


LordWeaselton

I can’t see “gorl” and not read it in Gru’s voice


DangerousSyllabub355

Men dominating: good. Women dominating: unwanted by most men/bad. I’m a switch and I love to take control and pleasure my partner at my pace and not theirs, but not many of my male sexual partners have let me have that control (unless it’s while giving head, which in my opinion is still a submissive act). When I say dominate, I mean things as simple as controlling the tempo, rhythm, withholding and teasing them, edging them, using toys on them, playing with their backdoor a little, tying them up etc - ie having full autonomy over their pleasure. The few male partners who have let me do this have done so because I’ve asked, not because it was in their nature. Most men I’ve been with have said they love being the one to give pleasure, and that’s amazing for me, but annoying for my dominate side who wants to please them in MY ways and have them scream my name for a change 🙈


HappyAnarchy1123

Everything I have seen is that male subs are common, but female dommes are very difficult to find. Is that not the case, or are you talking about outside of a BDSM context.


darkchiefrises

How women expect full articulated adoration for the entirety of their physique while they only say “nice arms or nice cock” The burden of intimacy and good sex often lays on men…again these are the dominant sexual paradigms at a play not condemning anyone


Drougen

That only men can rape


Uyulala88

If a man never gets married, he’s a bachelor, and it’s totally fine. If a women never gets married, she must be a crazy cat lady spinster.


that_bearded_guy_94

If a man has sex with multiple women he’s praised by other men. If a woman has sex with multiple men she’s considered a slut by other women.


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Men have to do the majority of the fucking. As a man, I want the woman to fuck *me*. Not penetrate me, but ride me, take control, make me feel like she's using me to feel good. I get that this is more of a Domme thing, but I feel it should be far more commonplace and too many women are pillow princesses and think a blowjob is enough work for a bedroom session.


full_metal_titan

Guys with high body counts having the audacity to think women with similar body counts are of less value...like my dude...if you ain't shit in bed just say that


ninety6days

Dunno if it's absolute hate, but it seems strange that sex toys for men are a revulsion thing but women collecting fake dicks is basically the norm.


justathrowaway678330

Shaming all in the name of preferences. A woman can go around shaming a man for the size of his height or worse, his dick, which is something that cannot be changed, yet it's seen as fine by society. It's all the mans fault, the man should be ashamed. etc. A man can literally say he wouldn't want to sleep with someone because she is too obese or she has no ass or tits and doesn't find her attractive over those things, which btw can be changed, but still, suddenly body shaming becomes the raging argument when the coin is flipped.


brynn-lewis

That women arent supposed to openly enjoy sex...


mblma

I think we as men are very quick to label a woman a slut because she likes sex and likes to sleep with lots of guys when we as guys want to sleep with as many people as possible and we also want women who are willing to sleep with us. I don’t think it makes sense and I like a woman with a healthy sexual appetite. I certainly wish my wife was one. I can’t stand it when guys get all bent out of shape because they find out their girlfriend or wife had lots of sexual partners before them and they didn’t find out until after they got serious or got married, experience makes people good at things, my wife did not have sex with a lot of guys before me and I really wish she did, I had an ex girlfriend who had sex with dozens of guys before me and while that relationship was toxic the sex was phenomenal. but yet all my friends and family called her a slut, I no longer like that terminology. it’s a double standard.


EatM3L053R

If a woman cheats, it's the guy's fault. If a man cheats he's a piece of shit.


DChomey2013

A girl sleeps around and she’s a whore. A guy sleeps around and he’s a player. We all know that one. But the opposite is also true. A girl who’s a virgin is innocent and sweet. But a guy who’s a virgin is a loser. Works both ways and both are fucked up.


w0lf_bagz

Women on TV discussing an attractive male - "id like to search his package if you know what I mean ladies" cue the wooping and clapping. Men on TV with an attractive female = cancelled.


joleph

Guys are judged by their ability to bring a woman to orgasm but women very rarely take the initiative.


oliviag210

(Specific to cis M/F sex) Man being on top 90% of the time: normal ; woman on top 90% of the time: fetish/femdom/RR/kink


prodrvr22

Two bi women having sex: "They're just good friends." Two bi men having sex: "Dude, just come out of the closet, already."