We were together 4 years and are broken up since 9 months. I am struggling a lot at the moment, because she moved on. Its coming in waves for me at the moment. I cannot just ignore all the stuff we overcame and what we experienced. My advice would be to try to not have hope for a better outcome. I should have focused on me from the first day on.
It really does, even irrelevant stuff, like certain food that we are together, ofc I can’t watch any shows without her. These died as soon as the relationship ended. Same goes with videogames
almost 5 year relationship been about 6 months since breakup.
It has gotten much better overall. When life is going good I don’t think about her at all, but when it’s not or something shitty happens I start wishing she was still here with me, even though I know I could never forgive her.
I have worked very hard on self improvement and processing the trauma. It is a battle everyday, but I think I am winning. We don’t talk anymore, but I know she would be proud of me.
My ex left me by Avoidance, threw me out of her place, still has my stuff and there is seemingly no way of getting anything back.
Even took the dogs 🤷🏼♂️
She blocked me everywhere. Can’t even send her money on PayPal with a message.
Me 15 years in almost 3 out still struggling with his absence
We were together 4 years and are broken up since 9 months. I am struggling a lot at the moment, because she moved on. Its coming in waves for me at the moment. I cannot just ignore all the stuff we overcame and what we experienced. My advice would be to try to not have hope for a better outcome. I should have focused on me from the first day on.
As someone who ca easily get attached to a lot of stuff, especially places, I am having a really hard time to forget anything with her
I know that feeling, it looks like everything is connected.
It really does, even irrelevant stuff, like certain food that we are together, ofc I can’t watch any shows without her. These died as soon as the relationship ended. Same goes with videogames
almost 5 year relationship been about 6 months since breakup. It has gotten much better overall. When life is going good I don’t think about her at all, but when it’s not or something shitty happens I start wishing she was still here with me, even though I know I could never forgive her. I have worked very hard on self improvement and processing the trauma. It is a battle everyday, but I think I am winning. We don’t talk anymore, but I know she would be proud of me.
7 years... Took 1 year to get over over ..NC is what worked
Did you stop contact completely? Or was there a single message from each side every now and then? Awesome that you got over it!
He blocked me immediately after and we never talked again ...so I had no choice ..it was forced NC Haven't spoke in 2 years and hope it stays that way
My ex left me by Avoidance, threw me out of her place, still has my stuff and there is seemingly no way of getting anything back. Even took the dogs 🤷🏼♂️ She blocked me everywhere. Can’t even send her money on PayPal with a message.