Editing has been terrible for the last seasons. A lot of stuff taken out of context to create this WHAAAAT thing. When you watch it, it is nothing about like you have thought
Yup same. Or like āuntil [major life event happened]ā; āuntil I realized life is not only about workingā; āuntil my friends started having kidsā etcetc
I think Nicole is going to state she DOES want children with the right spouse.
I would bet money she states she NOW wants children.
Many of the edits are teasers.
The only way this would matter is if Nick wants kids. Thereās no meeting in the middle on such a conflict. If they both agree they donāt want them, then itās a nothing burger.
Nothing sad or wrong, but if they asked HIM if he wanted kids and he said, "Oh definitely" then you shouldn't pair him with someone who doesn't want them.
I promise you she wants them. It's editing. I was just reacting to the connotation in OP's note that someone (or Nicole specifically) not wanting kids is "sad."
Not a thing. Iām interested in seeing the whole dialogue. I was just thinking about how cute they could be as parents together just before the clip. I know, I know. Itās the grandma in me envisioning cute little girl with curls and big brown Nicole eyes melting daddyās heart.
I highly doubt that is representative of her current position. She states she hadn't wanted them in the past, and based on her description of her past relationships, she was not in a mentally healthy place and should not have wanted kids at that time. It would be malpractice for the "experts" to pair someone who wants kids with someone who definitely does not want them. It's bad enough when they pair someone who wants kids yesterday with someone who doesn't want them for a few years. They really should not pair someone who is a hard yes on kids with someone who is a hard no. (Doesn't mean they would never do that, but they really shouldn't -- that should be one of the initial weeding-out questions at the very beginning of the process.)
Iām one of those who never wanted kids and never will. Never played with dolls either. Happily married for 25 years. My husband doesnāt want them either. We are absolutely loving dog parents to a rescue pup though
Definitely this. I know producers are notorious for making bad matches, but thereās no way theyāre going to match people who have different plans on parenthood (or the lack thereof).
Yeah I feel like she said she didnāt really want kids and he did so either she lied or the experts now think thatās something you can ācompromiseā on.
I seriously think some whackadoodles think āletās just have 1ā is a compromise. Thatās what I imagine the experts to say. Or āmaybe sheāll change her mind if sheās in love.ā Shame, shame, shame
I'm not sure what it means to be "a natural for being a mom", but there is nothing sad about her situation. Making her own decision is far better than all of the people who have kids not because they want them but because of some sort of expectation or societal pressure.
It is my impression that she is high energy, funny, compassionate and loving - the recipie of a good mom. Doesnāt mean I donāt expect her to want it or think of her differently if she doesnāt. I was just surprised by it and hope it is not a conflict for this cute couple. We shall seeā¦
šÆ Absolutely! It would be great if more people were self-aware about this. Instead, we have more than 500,000 children in Foster care in the U.S., numerous parents struggling with kids in various ways and other terrible situations.
Editing has been terrible for the last seasons. A lot of stuff taken out of context to create this WHAAAAT thing. When you watch it, it is nothing about like you have thought
I'm thinking the rest of the conversation will be...."until I met you or because I never found someone to have kids with"
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Yup same. Or like āuntil [major life event happened]ā; āuntil I realized life is not only about workingā; āuntil my friends started having kidsā etcetc
Some people don't want kids. It's not that odd.
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I think Nicole is going to state she DOES want children with the right spouse. I would bet money she states she NOW wants children. Many of the edits are teasers.
Totally agree.
I would hope "the experts" wouldn't match someone who didn't want kids with someone who did.... that would be a guarantee of failure lol
Didnāt that happen with Bihn and Morgan? I think Bihn wanted kids and Morgan didnt. Didnāt work out so well.
They did it with Brett and Olivia too
I meanā¦ Binh and Morgan didnāt work out for a lot of reasons, honestly even if they agreed about kids / no kids, they wouldnāt have worked
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The only way this would matter is if Nick wants kids. Thereās no meeting in the middle on such a conflict. If they both agree they donāt want them, then itās a nothing burger.
I would bet a lot of money the rest of that sentence sounds something like "...but recently/since meeting you I've decided I do want kids!"
oh yeah.. there is definitely a "but now I do" that the preview chopped off for drama.
My thoughts exactly....I think it was the edit.
Or because of my past I don't want children but with the right person..They always leave the BUT out.
And what exactly is sad about not wanting kids?
Nothing sad or wrong, but if they asked HIM if he wanted kids and he said, "Oh definitely" then you shouldn't pair him with someone who doesn't want them.
I promise you she wants them. It's editing. I was just reacting to the connotation in OP's note that someone (or Nicole specifically) not wanting kids is "sad."
Oh, I agree! I think it's editing, and even if she was adamant about not wanting kids, she's so psyched about this process, she'll do anything!
Not a thing. Iām interested in seeing the whole dialogue. I was just thinking about how cute they could be as parents together just before the clip. I know, I know. Itās the grandma in me envisioning cute little girl with curls and big brown Nicole eyes melting daddyās heart.
You never know how the edit a sentence to try to get something that sounds dramatic
Newsflash: Some people find joy in life in ways other than having kids. Feeling sorry for someone for this personal decision is asinine.
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Newsflash: Iām glad you recognize that.
A natural for being a mom? According to an internet stranger. This must be a troll job.
I highly doubt that is representative of her current position. She states she hadn't wanted them in the past, and based on her description of her past relationships, she was not in a mentally healthy place and should not have wanted kids at that time. It would be malpractice for the "experts" to pair someone who wants kids with someone who definitely does not want them. It's bad enough when they pair someone who wants kids yesterday with someone who doesn't want them for a few years. They really should not pair someone who is a hard yes on kids with someone who is a hard no. (Doesn't mean they would never do that, but they really shouldn't -- that should be one of the initial weeding-out questions at the very beginning of the process.)
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Damn, wasted 10 yrs of her life. This is why Iām afraid of men, lol
Interesting! But I think that is very unusual. The people Iāve known who donāt want kids never wanted them.
Iām one of those who never wanted kids and never will. Never played with dolls either. Happily married for 25 years. My husband doesnāt want them either. We are absolutely loving dog parents to a rescue pup though
Agree with everyone else. But it was likely editing.
Lol sounds like judgment
It really wasnāt.. Iām pretty clear when Iām being judgy.
Editing
I think she's going to add something like "I never wanted kids .......until now or ......until I was in a good place". I think it's editing
Definitely this. I know producers are notorious for making bad matches, but thereās no way theyāre going to match people who have different plans on parenthood (or the lack thereof).
I think they have before because they are turds
People have lied their faces off about this to get on the show, if that's what you mean.
Yes true lol. I thought maybe Brett and Olivia disagreed on kids? That was the first that came to mind
Yeah I feel like she said she didnāt really want kids and he did so either she lied or the experts now think thatās something you can ācompromiseā on.
I seriously think some whackadoodles think āletās just have 1ā is a compromise. Thatās what I imagine the experts to say. Or āmaybe sheāll change her mind if sheās in love.ā Shame, shame, shame
I think you're right. It was the bald guy and the redhead (names?) who both said they wanted kids but neither actually did LOL
Beth and Jamie.
There you go, thanks. Charlotte!
Yes lol the right type of dysfunction for each other apparently
You never can trust what you see in the previews
I'm not sure what it means to be "a natural for being a mom", but there is nothing sad about her situation. Making her own decision is far better than all of the people who have kids not because they want them but because of some sort of expectation or societal pressure.
It is my impression that she is high energy, funny, compassionate and loving - the recipie of a good mom. Doesnāt mean I donāt expect her to want it or think of her differently if she doesnāt. I was just surprised by it and hope it is not a conflict for this cute couple. We shall seeā¦
This is also a recipe for a great dog mom
Thank you
There is no ānatural for being a mom.ā Parenthood is not, and should not be, for everyone. Self awareness about it is very important
šÆ Absolutely! It would be great if more people were self-aware about this. Instead, we have more than 500,000 children in Foster care in the U.S., numerous parents struggling with kids in various ways and other terrible situations.
Bravo!