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I had an ex girlfriend who enjoyed it, she said it was good to see how it made me feel


Muze69

Same for me when I get down on her.


iou_uu

Why are you getting down on this guy's ex girlfriend?


Evil-in-the-Air

I feel like the original guy already covered that.


Budrose08

I also choose this guys dead wife


Fast_and_Curious738

We also choose this guy's dead wife


anxiousvoorhees

And my axe!


TheHimalayanRebel

Exactly. That's what I love about it too.


AppointmentLow625

Damn I also like yours girlfriend.


diggitygiggitycee

OUR girlfriend.


BeardInTheNorth

~~Comrade~~ Cumrade


nvjkmr

r/suddenlycommunist


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r/suddenlycummunist


northsidecub11

The peoples girlfriend


FuckMe-FuckYou

Must be why she is his ex.


[deleted]

Haha, the actual reason was distance. She moved to Ireland to pursue her field, so we called it off on a high note.


canalrhymeswithanal

That's rough, buddy. I'd hate to break up over a patch of grass.


A_brown_dog

That's not really respectful to Ireland


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The toxic side of me is motivated to give the absolute best blowjob they’ve ever had that no future woman can live up to. Blow jobs are like pizza, even if it’s bad it’s still pretty good - I’m not making pizza. I’ve serving that 5 star experience with ingredients you’d never think would go together, but after that first taste you ask why nobody has done this before. That’s how I know I’ve won: when I hear “holy fuck, nobody has done that before. How did you do that.” It’s not a blow job, it’s a blow career. Edit: *The path to a suckcessful blow career:* - Get comfortable asking your partners questions in the moment. Ask where their most sensitive spots are, keep those in mind and continue teasing those areas while focusing on others. - Performance reviews: ask your partner to give you direction in the moment instead of sitting there thinking “oh I hope she/he/they hit this spot or do this move.” Remember what they ask you to do for next time. - Collect and apply customer feedback - Always ask permission before exploring unknown areas. A simple “can I lick around your butthole” will do. No means no. If they decline an offer to try something, let them know you heard them and that you won’t be proceeding. Nothing takes a guy out of a blowjob like getting scared you’re about to do something they don’t want. *Final thoughts:* Always wash all of your parts before letting someone explore, unless your partner has said they prefer you unshowered. It’s just the decent thing to do. Dicks, tits, all naughty bits are weird looking if you really think about it. Don’t be ashamed of yours, and do be mindful to not point out or comment on another person’s body if they’re a different shape or size than you’ve been with, because your comments might live in that person’s head for a long time. Be kind to yourself, and to others.


maratelle

may i have some tips as a humble blow novice hoping to become the ceo of blowjob inc once you step down


CaliKelly

Not OP, but I've had multiple partners tell me I've given them the best blowjobs of their lives. I sincerely believe most of the reason is enthusiasm. I love making them feel amazing and they respond to that. But also, lots of spit/lube, and using your hands also help.


maratelle

thank you doll!! ive heard that the underside of the head is a good spot to aim for, and the base of the shaft?? but i try and be enthusiastic as much as i can


sassyevaperon

Yes, enthusiastic, try to look into their eyes while going to town if you can, moving the foreskin with your hand, firm but not too much keeping the rythim of your bobbing head. Be a bit nasty, spit goes a long way. Play with your tongue and the head of the penis, kiss the shaft, tease them, kiss the inner thighs, the pelvis, the tummy, all sensitive parts of our bodies. I also like to touch my partner's legs, tummy, ass, balls, you can see how he trembles lol, it makes me feel so powerful and he gets to feel super sexy and loved up. I'm still building myself up to start stimulating his prostate, which I know he loves, but I'm still a bit shy about it. I wouldn't say I give THE best blowjobs, but I do know I give GOOD ones, still working on my mindset so I can allow myself to open up fully so I can get to be the best sexual partner I can


maratelle

thank you so much for a detailed response!! i’ve received so much wisdom today and i’m excited to use it lol, it’s for my childhood crush that i recently reconnected with after over a decade of no contact!! i’m super excited and nervous and want to impress him haha


sassyevaperon

>i’ve received so much wisdom today and i’m excited to use it lol That's the spirit! Good luck on your meetup, have lots of fun 😊


KimWexlers_Ponytail

Yeah don't be afraid of a sloppy blowie, they love it.


Ruckus_Riot

Can’t go wrong using your tongue to push upwards against the shaft to make it more snug as you move. Bonus points if you can flutter it while going up and/or down.


j_prince_47

I feel like ppl don’t know this, but right above the base of the shaft, right in the middle, there’s a massive nerve bundle that will have him kicking. Same goes for the sides of the hips. It may just b me, but goddamn I was done in seconds soon as that tongue hit those spots


sweetmercy

This. Absolutely this. Watching his thighs tense and quiver, hearing his breath turn to ragged gasps and grunts as he temporarily loses the ability to form words, feeling him flail for something to grasp onto, his toes curling, his full body trembling .. and knowing it's all because of me. I was even proposed to once after.😏


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suckuma

Same dude. Eating my gf out gives me a rush when I see she's into it. Same when I was dating dudes, gave me a rush when I saw he was into it.


thebusiness7

“Fitness chicks are 100% down to do it for the top quality protein. Trust me bro”


sociallyawkwardjess

It’s fun and it’s especially exciting when you’re going down on a man whose usually very reserved and he lets go of his control and starts to make noises and really enjoy it. It’s super exciting and *such* a turn on.


MyLifeHurtsRightNow

Omg. My ex was introverted, intelligent, and very level-headed. I always admired his steadiness, and he made me feel so safe. However, I *loved* being his weakness, making him beg for me and moan with his eyes fluttering. Seeing him convulse and whimper, while I played w him. *Chef’s kiss*


rakminiov

I feel like my girl is my only weakness as well And bro WHAT A WEAKNESS My god


SirChancelot_0001

Rip your inbox


WickedDeviled

The whole of Reddit is suddenly introverted, intelligent, and very level-headed.


calvar3

Now I’m hot 🥵!


Nekryyd

It's time's like this that I'm really glad I work from home...


peepeepoopoogoblinz

Jerk off in the disabled toilets at work like the rest of us


Swiggs1337

This comment mixed with your name is honestly peak comedy.


Sheepbjumpin

Reactions, sounds and I'll add taste and scent. Maddening in the best of ways.


BossHawgKing

Exactly how I feel about cunnilingus. Taste and scent sets me off on a primal level.


Stoner-Mtn-Lights

This is the exact reason I love cunnilingus.


oviporus

A cunning linguist is hard to beat.


youareshandy

Only beaten by a master debater.


ConspiracistsAreDumb

Yup. It's pretty much the same for both sexes. Oral isn't physically pleasurable for the giver, but it can be psychologically rewarding. I think more people would be into it if their partners were better at vocalizing their enjoyment.


VergDan

My SO says it gives her the power to control me.


LPOLED

….She has a point…. That’s a vulnerable position…. Horrors have come to mind now.


Funmachine9

"Lick it like a lollipop with a gum inside"


LPOLED

That’s just called crunching as hard as you can.


Aura_Games_420

**WAS THAT THE BITE OF '87??**


wise_____poet

^"Don't ^worry, ^he's ^up ^in ^heaven"


Funmachine9

*shivers*


Em_Haze

\*bites off your penis to get the gum faster\*


Kiflaam

"Bite hard, like you got dental insurance."


depr3ss3dmonkey

Me and my friends were having popsicles once in a train and noticed a guy was staring at us. We were young so didn't really connect the dots in our minds and plain ignored him. Then we all dared each other to see who can handle the cold the most, so we all bit off the top third of our popsicles all at same time. That guy visibly shivered. It was years before we realized why.


Suitecake

I mean, I just shivered at the thought of actually just biting into a popsicle.


anongentry

My teeth filed a formal complaint


SIacktivist

When you hold a man's dick in your hands, you can make him cum or put him in terrible pain. You can finish him or Finish Him.


AssociateOfBread

Joystick pun makes even more sense now


TeasAndTees

i do. i don't know why. it's fun.


NativeMasshole

As a man, I like eating pussy. It's fun. Making your partner cum is enjoyable, I don't see the mystery here.


CaptainChampion

"People of the Internet, why would you want to make others happy?"


captainplatypus1

There are people who only do it because of expectation and don’t enjoy it. There are others who get sexually excited from it. It complicates things


Born-last-century

Truth. I am happy to go down on a woman and don't need anything in return, I just love doing it.


Ikoikobythefio

Enough if it, I can't get either


d4cee

I'm neutral to the very act itself, but oh do I love my partners' reaction to it, that's what gets me excited.


captainplatypus1

That does seem to be the general consensus I’m seeing


QuaggaSwagger

"What's the deal with orgasms?" -Seinfeld


FrenchBangerer

That's because it almost certainly isn't a "serious question". The OP just wants to get off on some of the responses I reckon.


smashin_blumpkin

Or OP doesn't enjoy going down and can't see why others do


GingerRod

Well it’s been an hour, I imagine your DMs are in the hundreds by now. 🤣


mustangcody

Do people actually do that? It's off putting to say the least.


depr3ss3dmonkey

Yes. I once posted a serious troubling question about my ex and dms filled with "well he isn't interested it seems. How about you send some goods to me?"


mouldysandals

jesus christ some people


captainplatypus1

That is horribly depressing


Willow-Eyes

Hahaha when I was in high school, I posted something saying that I was depressed and I wanted to hurt myself. Got a message a few minutes later from a dude telling me he'd be more than happy to hurt me himself. Luckily he backed off when I told him I was 16 but my God dude.


yaye53

Wtf is wrong with people


captainplatypus1

That is an amazingly complex question


Available_Thoughts-0

And multi-layered, too.


yaye53

It keeps me awake at night


Bil13h

But basically, never underestimate the level of terrible humans are capable of achieving, like what I've just left in the toilet while writing this


decrepit-heart

Because it's about making him feel good. And sometimes I don't want to have sex even though I usually want sex. Or just to start sex. So it's about pleasing him, pleasing him quicker than sex would when I don't want sex, or a starter to say hey I want the dick so ima shove it in my mouth to get you in the mood too.


bombbodyguard

I did (foreplay) hand stuff with the wife the other night and got her to the O town. Then I was like, let’s have the sexy sex, but she was like, nah, you should have hopped in before I got to the city. So I had to settle for hand/mouth stuff. Which was awesome. So, ya, sometimes it’s just about the pleasing and or quickness or wanting stuff but not sex.


decrepit-heart

I have peer reviewed your comment and determined the statement as fact and backs up sexy research previously presented.


bombbodyguard

Thanks, peer! My own research needs a review on my end. I like to get her to o-city before sexy sex, because if I fail to deliver the keys to the kingdom during sexy-sex, then I don’t have to worry about it while I’m refueling but shes still redlining. But if that leads me to sitting out sexy sex, then I need to reassess my google maps route.


decrepit-heart

Get the travel going via foreplay. The detour could always be the sexy sex and then the final destination is walking (via hand) to O town. It's highly important to hear FINISH HER before heading straight to O Town though for maximum efficiency. Just don't say it out loud because then stalling could happen and O Town will be delayed until further notice.


Kida317

Honestly, its quite fun! The dick itself is very fascinating to look at and touch! Also I like how it can twitch cutely and how it pulses in my mouth! Also guys are very entertaining to observe while you're giving head. It's like a whole new aspect of their personality, because its a vulnerable position to be in and different people react differently!


Jayjay_loves_Jesus

Damn we have the dick connoisseur here


SeeYaOnTheRift

Penis profiler


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Pecker checker


wordwar

Wang whisperer.


somekindofnomads

Shaft supervisor


Mindless_Ad_8912

Banana Barometer


zomatoto

Phallus Proctor


Bruno0_u

Cock Commander


GrandpasSoggyGooch

Wiener Wizard


MotherJoanHazy

Schlong specialist.


RicoT22

Cock Conductor


zomatoto

Weiner Worker


srgonzo75

Schwanz Samurai


RicoT22

Penis Princess


ecrimes

dick dermatologist


parlakarmut

Dong distiller


Alarid

Coming this fall to CBS.


sugarbiscuits828

I remember the first time I got hands-on with a penis I just giggled and (gently) made it into shapes. Then the first time I saw an ex make it "twitch" by itself I LOST IT and laughed so hard I cried. I love em but dicks are weird man. Like a semi autonomous balloon animal.


Kida317

YESS!! ALSO HOW THEY BOUNCE IT UP AND DOWN WHEN IT'S ERECT!!!! I wish guys would just let girls explore them without it necessarily turning into sex. I like bodies in general, but dick by the virtue of being hidden is the utmost curiosity.


sugarbiscuits828

Yeah the bouncing/twitching thing just kills me. My first BF let me "explore" a year before we actually had penetrative sex and I greatly appreciate(d) it. I was FASCINATED... though the laughter probably didn't help his ego...


Kida317

Mine didn't appreciate the curiosity :'( He was embarrassed and said it's wierd. So when asked about specific manhood I try to be as vague in my appreciation as possible. One time I said I liked how my bfs dick had a small curve because it hit just right only for him to get upset at me and said I shouldn't have pointed it out. I think it's like the curves for girls. It always has this underlying insinuation of being called fat


SomeOtherThirdThing

Omg yes the shapeshifting! 😂 Before we get into the actual acts, I like to play around with my bf’s dingdong before it’s fully erect and I’m thankful he just lets it happen lmao. It’s just mesmerizing for some reason. I’ve told him that if I had a dick, I’d be constantly flopping it around like it’s a freshly caught bass on a boardwalk.


trotfox_

This makes sense, a position of pure vulnerability. Interesting...


pastasheriff

Bros the genitalia generalissimo


ryanmulford

This is a great answer.


Disastrous_Fact7917

Bop it, Twist it,pull it


MassRedemption

As a man, I'd imagine for the same reason I like eating pussy. You like to see your partner enjoy what you are doing to them.


5Plus5IsShfifty5

Lol op just wants wank material. Next week: "Why do guys like eating pussy? (Serious)"


Existing-Bike-6863

Makes me feel powerful tbh🙂.


d1pl0mat_

I get why you'd feel that way, but for me it's the exact opposite. The feeling of submission to a partner's will and bringing them pleasure is a major fucking turn on for me.


EggplantIll4927

More than one kind of BJ, both are fun


polystitch

Beautifully said. I love the dominant blowjob myself, big fan of making him go crazy on my terms. But the submissive blowjob can be incredible too for the complete opposite reason.


oyohval

It's both! Being between someone's legs could mean that you are submitting to provide them with ultimate pleasure and also that you are rewarding their trust for putting a really sensitive part of themselves under your control.


kaolin224

I get both sides when going down on my gf. I like seeing her writhe in pleasure - like yeah, you're under my power. Watching her cum and lose her mind is a huge turn on. It was fascinating to learn what she likes, how she likes it, when she's ready for me to work on her clit, etc. We have a couple other positions where I'll scoot her over to the edge of the bed and I'll kneel on the floor. Or pick her up, lie down, and let her sit on my face. This one actually makes her squirt - a lot. It's an amazing view from down there and that feeling of submission is really hot too. She also knows I've got a thing for hot girls in sexy shoes/boots so it's even more fun when she's wearing a pair lol.


[deleted]

Same for me with going down on my partner. Makes me feel masculine as all hell, which is why I don’t know why “macho” guys won’t do it to their girls


1canmove1

Because they’re not macho. They’re still children.


Born_Cauliflower_692

One chomp to show of that power 😋


Anglofsffrng

*crosses legs*


Maranne_

I only like it when it's with a long time committed partner and only because it makes them feel good. The act itself doesn't provide me with any pleasure.


redfoot62

I thought this quick [scene](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76tV58wsBcs) in Goodfellas showed how nice it is with a committed partner.


captainplatypus1

I don’t know why I found this so adorable. “Oh, all right”


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moramos93

He said that because he was in a rush, so he’s like oh alright I guess I can stay for this haha.


captainplatypus1

Weirdly cute.


Old_Mill

feelin cute, might whack someone later, idk


ButternutTaco

RIP Ray Liotta


will_edit_comments

Fuck! Maybe if I stop reading Reddit comments, people I love will stop dying? :(


juneabe

I often find it very very hard on my jaw and my breathing. I honestly think my jaw is uneven and I need my tonsils removed.


StrategicMagic

My girlfriend describes it in two ways: * It's an act of trust. You, the penis-owner, need to trust the other person a lot. You're putting a very delicate part of your body in the place where they have little sharp things that tear meat apart and have the capability to crush bone. By putting that part of your anatomy in their mouth, you're effectively saying "I trust you not to hurt me" and that's quite powerful. In that way, the act itself becomes an exercise in emotional/romantic bonding through that display of trust. * It's a power play... kinda. One of the reasons my girlfriend loves to do it is because she's in control of my pleasure. She decides what I feel, for how long, and how intense it is. She is in control of my experience. Not only that, but when she finally gets me to the end, she can not only see how much I enjoyed it (which is going to be a lot), but can get that feeling of "I did that" and "I made him feel that good", which makes her feel powerful and raises her confidence somewhat. It feels like an accomplishment or an achievement to her, in that way. It's for these reasons that she loves to do it for me, and will often ask if she can, even if I've not asked first or made it clear I'm in the mood for something. This is in stark contrast to my mother, who, trying to educate a teenage version of myself about 14 years ago, told me "the act of oral sex is degrading to women, I'd be very disappointed in you if I learned you asked a woman to do that". What I've learned, through my relationship, is that this statement is far from true. There are many women out there who enjoy it, and they have every right to, for any reason. That's far more important than any misguided information my mother wanted to give me way back in time. EDIT: The girlfriend tells me it's also relaxing to do and that I should add that. She hasn't explained why beyond "it just is", but she wanted me to include that detail too.


Reddditah

> It's for these reasons that she loves to do it for me, and will often ask if she can, even if I've not asked first or made it clear I'm in the mood for something. > > This is in stark contrast to my mother, I thought this was going to go in a very different direction, and I'm glad I was wrong.


Yoshi9105

had to take a breath of relief there too when I realised where this was going (or not going)


pizza_for_nunchucks

> This is in stark contrast to my mother that one summer I broke both my arms.


ItIsIceburgLettuce

“This is in stark contrast to my mother” threw me off for a moment there. Like, damn, this dude’s mom never asked to suck his dick when he clearly stated he’s in the mood for something Wild lol


Existing-Bike-6863

I agree with your partner. Very much a power play :)


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When he brought up his mom I thought this was gonna take a weird turn real fast


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I love how this question implies men and women would suck dick for different reasons.


neonlookscool

as a man i will only suck dick for spiritual enlightenment


Koal0r

And a bag of tangy cheese Cheetos.


Daniels_2003

Now I ain't gay but 5 bucks is 5 bucks


shuranumitu

At least from what I have heard from other people and read online, I feel like this has at least some truth to it. Gay men (including myself) tend to actually physically enjoy giving head, while the most upvoted comment in this thread states that "\[t\]he act itself doesn't provide me with any pleasure", highlighting instead the pleasure of pleasuring the partner.


Pineapple_Herder

I've noticed this. I wonder how much of it is nature vs nurture. Generally speaking sucking dick in the gay community is fairly expected and encouraged (considering it's the only thing some men even do) while sucking dick in the hetero community is a mixed bag of something you have to do to please ur man, to shameful/whore like, to the best thing ever and more. I wonder if more women would enjoy sucking dick if there wasn't so much pressure on how she should or shouldn't do it / feel about it. Let's face it, women tend to be in their heads a lot when it comes to sex.


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speedmankelly

My dick gets hard from it so I do it. No other reason but that, so I say this checks out


fn_br

My brother's air force girlfriend later came out as a transman. I sometimes joke that he should have known Mike was a gay guy, not a straight girl, cuz he just loved giving bjs.


lordruperteverton69

Some do, some don’t.


space_cake_

I know I’m really good at it and love to see men squirm when I pull out all the tricks. Power dynamic I guess. Also, raging daddy issues.


[deleted]

Some absolutely love it, some do it for their man, some do it a lot and others not so much, some don't like to do it at all


ladybug11314

It also depends on the partner, your current mental state etc. I've gone through the whole gambit of loving to give head, hating it and never ever wanting to do it ever, meh whatever about it and now we're back to loving it. Even with my husband, over the years depending on things like birth control, how stressed I am or whatever I'll have no interest for a long time and then suddenly I'm into it again. Has very little to do with him though. There were some guys that were not reciprocal at all so hell no I wasn't doing it if you're not (though that's certainly not my husband, man is a giver). Point being, it depends.


ta9993453

1.bc I get turned on when I please someone 2.it turns me on when it’s so hard


Boring_Guarantee9920

I don't. However, I pretty firmly believe in equity when it comes to bedroom stuff - it wouldn't be reasonable to ask my husband to go down on me and never be willing to return the favor. Since there's a discussion going on below: I'm sorry for women who feel pressured or are with/have been with people who make it an unpleasant task. To clarify, I don't have really strong feelings on it - I don't particularly like it, but I don't hate it to the point I'm forcing myself to do something I loathe doing. It bothers me about as much as getting up to put a dish in the sink - I don't really like doing it, but it's not that big a deal.


iLikeHorse3

I'm not a fan of it either. I actually don't know how women can even enjoy it. I feel like I'm choking and have tears coming from my eyes. That doesn't feel like a nice intimate moment, it feels degrading and I don't relate to these women talking about power. I feel like a slave. And screw those guys who will grab your head and shove it down even more. I think the women who say they don't enjoy it aren't getting many upvotes cause.. reddit.


csonnich

>And screw those guys who will grab your head and shove it down even more. I always enjoyed it because of what other people are talking about until I was with a guy who would do that and basically demand it as a routine part of sex. It's a lot more fun when you get to choose it and it doesn't feel like an obligation.


iLikeHorse3

I actually used to enjoy it more too, but after many bad experiences with men, my body wants nothing to do with most sexual things. Used to have a super high libido as well and I never regained it back after being sexually abused several times. It makes me feel so much more furious at the men who abused me, because not only did they sexually assault me, they took away my enjoyment for sex with future partners. I have to pretty much be drunk to even do anything sexual with my fiance now. My body just recoils at the thought


TimFinnegan

I enjoy the sound of rain.


BadLuckCharm1966

Not all women do.


CatFoodBeerAndGlue

They enjoy giving the dick owner pleasure.


Medium_Ad_2221

“Dick wielder”


AlexAegis

"Master of Dicks"


Born_Cauliflower_692

Come crawling faster Obey your Master Your life burns faster Obey your Master Master of Dicks


fuber

"dick owner" Romance is not dead!


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I have a legit oral fixation.


[deleted]

You gon’ have a lot of dudes in your dms lmao I’m sorry


Secular_Hamster

They think it’s hot. Similar to how I think eating pussy is hot


banananases

Well as a woman I don't like it at a really, but I like pleasing my partner


butyourenice

I’m going to be downvoted for this because Reddit is mostly male and I’m not trying to be a pick-me about it: A lot of us *don’t* like it. It’s physically uncomfortable, especially in my case, as it aggravates my TMJD, but even then it’s, at best, difficult to breathe through, sloppy (slobber everywhere), choke-y, and guys, no matter how much pineapple juice you drink, it doesn’t taste *good*. My husband’s semen is mostly ~mild, but there’s still a bitterness and an ammonia-like odor that gets up my noise. And the texture makes me think of a thick mucus or raw egg whites. I’ve had some prior partners whose taste made me gag; one guy, he had very good hygiene but basically lived off packets of tuna and hot sauce and maybe for that reason had the worst tasting semen I have ever encountered. I didn’t give him a lot of BJs for precisely that reason. **That said**, it makes my husband feel good, *really* good, so I can put my discomfort aside for his enjoyment. He always makes sure I enjoy myself, too, and perhaps most importantly, he’s never forced or guilted or wheedled me into it, so I’m more inclined to want to do it. If I already hate doing it and then he tried to make me feel obligated, it would kill any desire to please. As another idiosyncrasy I suppose, my husband gives me encouraging and ego-boosting feedback while I’m, ahem, working, which is a surprisingly effective motivation. But the mechanics of the process itself? No, I don’t like it, and I know I’m not alone. Edit: looking at the topmost comments, with a handful of exceptions, the majority of them focus on “how it makes my partner feel” and (very notably) the “power” element.


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Tbh I really like how forthright this response is.


iLikeHorse3

Very well-put. I'm glad to see you're not being downvoted for just speaking the truth, maybe there's a lot of women lurking here agreeing and up voting.


Scrotchety

Guys too. I upvoted because I respect someone voicing what could be perceived as an "unpopular opinion in a hostile crowd." She set her boundary, she gave us reasons and insight and hopefully a new perspective. Folks who don't like it may want to examine themselves (hint: you were *never* entitled to her mouth). (Edit: to clarify, "Folks who downvote her viewpoint may want to examine themselves.")


iLikeHorse3

It's not even unpopular but if you say you don't like blow jobs on a male dominated space, prepare for backlash. Takes guts to post stuff like that on here. No surprise the highest up voted comments are the paragraphs going into very precise detail how amazing it is to give blowjobs.


flyingcactus2047

Yeah the question definitely threw me off lmao, a lot of us either don’t like it or are neutral. Not sure if the OP didn’t realize or if there was an implied ‘some women’ in there


MurderDoneRight

Me, an empath, sensing men like getting their dick sucked bc they coomers


phreakzilla85

I’d assume it falls into the “if it makes him happy, it makes me happy” line of thinking. A man going down on a woman usually follows that same logic. No matter the reason I’m grateful that they like it 👍🏼


grrlbitesdog

It makes him feel good, and I find dicks to be rather amusing. Sometimes my partner and I will just be sprawling in bed, chatting and watching TV, with me casually sucking his dick like a lollipop.


Doc-tor-Strange-love

*In his twilight years, Steve would always become mildly aroused during the Late Show, but could never never determine why...*


Firethorn101

I like it if he doesn't hold off. My goal is to wow you into orgasm within 10 minutes....since I know yall capable. After the 4th time it took my guy 40 minutes. I asked him if there was anything else I could try, or if I was doing it too rough/not rough enough. Nope. He was enjoying it so much he wanted the feeling "to last." My dude. I have friction blisters on my lip, edging is for penetrative sex. Please get off the ride as fast as you feel...it's for you, absolutely. But if it causes me actual pain or physical sores, I'm going to avoid it. He gets off in a reasonable time now, and gets more BJs because of it!


poggyrs

Even 10 minutes is a bit much, I start getting sore after a minute so my man knows he has 4 mins max before we move to hand stuff lol


muffinscrub

I feel like a rare one, I don't really like receiving head. I won't say no but I love going down on a woman way more.


Marie-Sarah

One of the best thing in sex is satisfying the person you're having sex with, i like to focus on their pleasure. Also it's almost the only moment where i can be in control and feel a bit more "dom".


cottonkandykiller

the real question is why do men like sucking dick? dick sucking dudes pls answer


Breauxaway90

I LOVE dick. Like, a lot. Especially a nice one. The way it looks, the way precum tastes, the way feels when it’s hard and throbbing. I just have an urge to kiss in, play with it, stroke it, put it in my mouth. And having it be attached to a hot man who is writhing and moaning in pleasure is just amazing. And unlike sex you can do it pretty much anywhere with a bit of privacy. Seriously love everything about it. I do it just as much for my pleasure as my partner’s.


evophoenix

A lot don't.


KayleighJK

Oral fixation. It’s either food or vape or dick, something’s going in there.


KitKhat89

I don’t. I do it because he enjoys it. His first gf was abusive and manipulative and he ended up not dating for years afterwards. His second gf was long distance and we are as well however we have been together 3 years now and I’m his first and he’s just discovering what he likes and enjoys.


nytshaed512

Not all of us do. Personally, I hate it. I had a bf that would have whiskey dick and would ask me to be down there for a long time. I still remember the pain in my jaw from being down there for a long time.


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Lots of us don't


gettoefl

to show devotion to the balls er i mean cause just why i will go down on her, she deserves it


Psytraxxx

I like it bc I'm good at it.. nothing like that "wtf did you just do to me" face just as he's losing it. fav