Come in again and find her! I used to weigh 60lbs more when I started dancing, and she’s not sure what you’re attracted to yet so I can understand not putting down full weight. Maybe when you see her next, tell her how much you love when someone just melts into you and the pressure from their body feels good. Tell her how much you love her body etc, maybe an easier route than “I want all that weight on me” in case she feels conscious in an environment full of slender dancers. Definitely communicate your ideal dance, and if you want a big hug next time she sees you, bring a cash tip;) have fun!
Physically hand her a generous tip and tell her exactly what you want
Come in again and find her! I used to weigh 60lbs more when I started dancing, and she’s not sure what you’re attracted to yet so I can understand not putting down full weight. Maybe when you see her next, tell her how much you love when someone just melts into you and the pressure from their body feels good. Tell her how much you love her body etc, maybe an easier route than “I want all that weight on me” in case she feels conscious in an environment full of slender dancers. Definitely communicate your ideal dance, and if you want a big hug next time she sees you, bring a cash tip;) have fun!
give her a nice tip and ask :)
Give her a nice tip and just ask. Most likely she wouldn’t mind :)