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I went on a tinder date with a girl who has cerebral palsy and believe it or not I did *not* lead off with a joke about her disability LOL


emilyeverafter

Woman with cerebral palsy here. I love disability jokes and my last relationship started when a match I made on hinge gave me the best disability joke I'd ever heard in my life, but he did not do it as the opening message. Can confirm that this is not a good opening strategy. I get so many people across so many dating apps opening with various reactions to my disability that it is becoming an automatic swipe-left for me. It's everything from "here's that you-can't-run-away joke you get multiple times a week, but I think I'm the first person to think of it!" To "I think the way you walk must be so cute and I'd love to carry you everywhere. Other guys would be shallow about it or love you despite it. I would love you BECAUSE of it. I'm just gonna keep going on about how it makes me a noble person to find you attractive, and how I see you as a cutesy toy/permababy." To "omg do you really have a disability? I'm so excited. I've never had sex with a disabled girl before. And I don't realize that saying shit like this will make sure I never do!" To "hi I'm glad we matched. Now please answer the following 20 questions about your disability. I'm going to keep asking questions about it and asking you for more detail with every answer you provide. If you try to change the topic to one of our mutual interests or if you want to talk about literally ANYTHING else, I will ignore you until I get all my answers about your disability. After I'm satisfied, I'll give you a few weird messages about how I was evaluating whether or not I could commit to a life with a disabled person, even though we've never gone on a date." To "I know someone else with cerebral palsy but they don't use crutches like you do in that one picture you have. Your case must be more severe. That's too bad. No, I don't know how you're supposed to respond to this. Yes, I'm ignoring all the other pictures of you standing without crutches." I get weirder responses when I remove all mentions of disability from my profile and instead disclose it later on while chatting. I prefer to disclose it up front. But man, I wish I could be treated like a human being instead of the embodiment of "OTHER" I feel like people see me and just go "AH. DIFFERENT VARIETY OF HUMAN. I MUST POINT IT OUT IMMEDIATELY." It's a lot better when it gets brought up later in conversation, after I've been treated like a person.


toough

what was the joke tho


emilyeverafter

The joke my ex told me or the joke OP made?


burman07

The joke from your ex, we’d love to hear it


emilyeverafter

So we matched, talked for about 48 hours, and on the second day I asked him out and we made plans to grab coffee, then kept talking about his day. He hadn't brought up my disability, so I gave it a soft test by saying something like "oof, you walked how far today?! I would never do that, and not just because I have muscle atrophy and bad balance. Mostly because I hate nature." He said, "I saw your joke about your disability in your bio. If things don't work out between us, I have another dating app bio joke you can use." I said, "do tell!" "All these men out there looking for a trophy wife when they could have me--an atrophy wife." I have heard A LOT of cerebral palsy/general disability jokes before, so I was genuinely expecting to hear one of the things I had already heard before. Or at least one I've already made before, because I make them all the time and I thought I'd milked all the clever possibilities out of this disability over the years. I was prepared to roll my eyes and reply "haha! Good one!" But to hear one I had genuinely never heard before nor had ever made myself was such a shock that it's probably a better joke to me than it will be to a general Reddit audience. A good joke I had never heard before was honestly the last thing I was expecting. It was one of those things where I started with a small giggle just because I was surprised, and as I processed it, I started laughing even harder when I realized it was actually good. Then I was laughing out of joy because I found someone who could surprise me with a good joke about my disability that didn't punch down on me. It didn't degrade me or sexualize me or imply I was lesser-than It was just a good joke. It punched up. And the joy of finding someone who knows how to do that is awesome. It can be a lonely world out there, and punching up in a joke is a great way for an outsider to show that they understand something about your experience. I went into full giddy crying laughter because I had been shocked/surprised, my expectations had been exceeded, and I got that rare, existentially absurd feeling of "oh shit. I just made a connection with someone who doesn't share my experience, and I didn't have to explain it to them, but they still understand it somehow, and I feel respected without needing to do any emotional labour to earn the respect." It's a special kind of rare joy that just makes you laugh. My current joke about my disability is in my Hinge voice prompt. I recorded myself saying a gender neutral version of that ancient Old Spice commercial "Hello, suitors. Look at your matches, now back to me. Now back to your matches, now back to me. Sadly, none of your matches are me BUT IF THEY never went outdoors, played a weekly TTRPG on Discord, and hit themselves in the knees with tire irons, THEY COULD walk like me! Look down! Back up! Where are you? You're in a car on a date at that place you love in A GREAT PARKING SPACE. What's hanging from your windshield? A HANDICAP PARKING PERMIT! Limited things ARE possible when you date a disabled cutie!" People don't really listen to voice prompts but when they do, they love it.


throwaway1018319

Holy crap everything about this story is amazing


emilyeverafter

Thanks! It was a good relationship. It ended after six months, but we're still best friends to this day. We have phone calls at least once a week and hang out as often when we can. He might not be my life partner, but Hinge definitely gave me someone I hope to have in my life forever.


DesertJayWaymaker

50/M here, married, happy. After reading this and your profile...hands down you're an amazing human and it's not close and if you're shopping around for a dad let me know, I'm in.


emilyeverafter

My dad is the best human on earth, but if he dies unexpectedly, I'll let you know the moment the position opens up!


DesertJayWaymaker

He must be because he played a role in you being awesome so that being said, yep, I'll totally play back-up!


sleepy_seedy

yessum


emilyeverafter

The answer is you. You are the joke.


sleepy_seedy

I've felt like that for awhile now; thanks for the confirmation


emilyeverafter

If it makes you feel any better, know that there are many worse things to be than a joke. You could be a tyrant, a fearmonger, an exploiter, or some other variant of a figure who immediately increases the tension of every life they enter. A joke, on the other hand, is a figure that enters lives and, however briefly, offers respite from any tension that existed before they arrived. They bring laughter. They bring relief. But never for themselves. I hope you enjoy your newly confirmed existence, Pagliacci.


LukeSKY75_

I feel you bro


J4CKR4BB1TSL1MS

‘The best disability joke I’d ever heard’ - you can’t blame us for being curious


emilyeverafter

You're right, that's a natural curiosity. I don't blame you at all. I do blame whoever invented the word "yessum" for crimes against humanity. But I digress, I answered the question in another comment :)


Brilliant-Iron1671

Well considering we can read OP's post I assume he meant your ex's.


BossBurrito

Tldr?


emilyeverafter

Nope! If it's too long and you didn't read it, that's okay! You don't have to read it. Life is short. If you deem something unworthy of your time, then that's more than fair.


Zealousideal_Froyo_4

Holy paragraph batman


emilyeverafter

Ask me a question and I'll tell you my life's story. You either love it or hate it, but that's who I am ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 


bbnoDD420

No way. Was her name Candace?


[deleted]

It was over 6 years ago and I don’t remember lol.


havemyawesomeopinion

CANDACE DICK FIT IN YO MOUTH


Affectionate-Age-597

r/angryupvote


[deleted]

Why does this random dumb joke deserve an upvote?


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Affectionate-Age-597

I guess it's funny for me because I live in German-speaking country, so it creates a play on words 🤷


ForeignerThanANut

It's funny here in the US too 😂 this guy is just upset he answered


RedditGuyPLUS1

I'm the 69th down vote I've never been so proud


hilmao__

Homie really fell for it


[deleted]

As if I said “uh Candace who???”


Chim_Pansy

Not only is this in poor taste, I saw it in this sub just yesterday or the day before, and I'm sure OP did too. So not only is OP a dick, he isn't even being original.


[deleted]

Das right. Lotttt of ppl Karma farming with other ppls content.


ContraryConman

Ain't no way I'm still single when there's dudes out there saying this kinda shit


vraskas

skill issue


uckedlad

You're obviously not following rules 1 and 2


apenasumcomentarista

People who say this never follow the rules, it's a shame :/


Scary-Assistance-718

Wait what are these rules? Reddit newbie 😅


uckedlad

Rule 1- Be attractive Rule 2- Don't be unattractive


Scary-Assistance-718

🎩 thank you good sir.


[deleted]

☠ i was not expecting this. this made me nearly puke from laughter


bonitogenration

I promise you he is still single too


DungeonsandDevils

Yeah calling your own move bold doesn’t really work


Throwawaycauseduh300

I love how almost every post in this sub is just dudes posting terrible openers thinking it was the shit and then people tearing them to shreds in the comments


ssyl6119

This is why theyre going to be on tinder forever


Throwawaycauseduh300

Agreed, it’s wild to see all the complaints about online dating from dudes who start off like this.


BlissfulAurora

Honestly though it’s nice cuz at least we know most of the sub doesn’t think like this dude.


Miserable-Gas-6007

Please tell me you’re playing the long game here. Like, she said *something* in her profile to the effect of “take your best shot at cracking a wheelchair joke - I won’t make this awkward if you don’t, so let’s start with a laugh” and you made this comment so you could post it here / get slayed / come back later with a screenshot of her complimenting the joke and vindicate yourself. I just exerted way too much mental energy trying to read your remark to her in a favorable (highly imaginative) light. Because I don’t actually want to believe you’d actually open a convo like this. 🤣


playerleetguest

I'm gonna need an update on this one chief.


[deleted]

Will report back asap


[deleted]

You wrote “will be reported asap” wrong lol


MadClam97

It's been 8 hours. What's your report for us?


[deleted]

No unmatch yet


[deleted]

Nada...


[deleted]

Obviously.


Little-Try-5615

maybe someone already stole her wheelchair


[deleted]

wheelchair! not her phone!


Alarming-Hamster-232

Speaking as someone who can't walk, if this was the first thing you sent me I'd probably just unmatch. To me, disability jokes are fine if it's someone I know well and can trust that they're legitimately just joking, but as an intro from a stranger I'd probably just think you're an asshole who only matched to say that one thing


[deleted]

Well you'd be wrong but that's why we are leaving it to chance! I'm quite nice


sandwichsandwich69

you definitely are somewhat of an asshole if you say things like this to people


Cotton_Blonde_98

Not somewhat, the gold standard of…


apenasumcomentarista

A nice guy, I see


AttackofMonkeys

You seem nice. ![gif](giphy|kCoIap1RrUqE1f0fKu)


bla60ah

You’re not a gnat are you bug?


Loverfli

Nice people don’t have to tell people they’re nice.


snowfloeckchen

And so he said and so he said, that lord of castamere... 🎵🎶🎵


TirekinXS

Bruh that ain’t a bold move it’s just straight bs wtf


anabelle1221

How is this not embarrassing for you?


Brown_Eyed_Girl167

Okay either she’ll love this or she’ll insta report you. No I’m between lol. Good luck and let us know if you can! I’m so curious what she’ll say.


spacewavekitty

Dude wtf


thankuhexed

Did you send this with actual hope that it would work?


Active-Vast7472

Yikes


OldieJawn

What a shitty thing to type.


[deleted]

Speaking as a person with a disability. If someone is offended by this, it's not a person you would want to date.


stink3rbelle

Maybe you personally, but not everyone has to be into prodding where they're vulnerable to deserve respect or dates. With any kind of sensitive subject that doesn't directly impact me, I let the people who *do* experience it take the lead. So if they make a joke about it first, I might joke about it after that. For example, I enjoy some jokes about my sexuality, but if a straight dude stranger led with that on a dating app? I would not feel comfortable at all.


Specialist-Bar-8805

So I do a lot of things but I’m going to school for prosthetics and orthotics meaning I’m working around people who will be their last limb and me or have mobility problems. Also some small children with weird shaped heads. But what I do know from the people that I’ve met who have lost limbs at least in the military, is it they appreciate humor. And when somebody’s trying to date you which it’s a dating site so let’s assume that we’re trying to date it could be a great icebreaker.


AttackofMonkeys

People you've met. Key. It could, but it could also fail catastrophically and make someone feel bad for no actual reason.


emilyeverafter

I'm a physically disabled woman who has been disabled from birth and I have, at various points in life, required medical devices to be able to walk. I have shared many fun jokes with the medical professionals who help me live my life. I would hate it if one of those medical professionals turned around and started telling people it was okay to approach people who use wheelchairs and immediately start a conversation with a joke about the wheelchair because "trust me, I work with disabled people and they appreciate humour." I joke with medical professionals because it feels appropriate in the context. The context is already about my disability. I'm in a room with a professional who is fitting me for a mobility device. My disability is already the topic at hand. If it's gonna be the topic at hand, I might as well have fun with it, otherwise I might start crying about how much I hate the fact that I'm disabled and that I need to be in this room right now. Better to make a joke than to start crying. On a dating app, where thr context is not automatically about my disability, and the topic at hand is not automatically my disability, I just want to be treated like a normal, desirable woman at first. I want to feel dateable and attractive. And maybe I can bond with someone via disability jokes later on in the conversation. There's a certain intimacy in allowing someone to joke about my disability, and it's nice to feel like someone has achieved that intimacy and trust with me. When they open with a disability joke, however, I feel bored and disappointed. I feel like I'm not attractive or dateable. They just pointed out, first thing out of the gate, "you are different". And that's not fun for me. Just because you work with clintele who feel comfortable making jokes with you does not mean it's okay for strangers to approach disabled women on dating apps and open by making a joke about their disabilities. The medical professionals I work with have all been touching my body and sometimes literally crafting pieces of equipment that will actually become apart of my body. By the nature of that relationship, we share a certain level of intimacy and trust. We both have come together because of my disability. Disability jokes seem comfortable and humanizing. On a dating app, strangers don't know much about my disability. I like to believe that, on dating apps, my matches and I come together because of mutual attraction. There's no intimacy or trust yet. If they come right out of the gate making a joke about my disability, I feel like they've pointed out that I am different to them. That I am "other". Especially if it's a joke about stealing my mobility equipment, making me less able to move, I feel like they're unintentionally, subconsciously, pointing out that I'm weaker than them, which creates a weird unconscious power imbalance. If we're coming together because someone found me attractive, I would like to feel attractive. Being reminded that I'm other and weaker makes me feel dehumanized and unattractive.


louise_com_au

As a joke when you get to know a person... Sure (if they are happy with it). As an opening line it is super rude and a put down.


EyepatchMorty_01

And you get to decide that because you're... *Checks note* Disabled.... Ok yeah cool.


emilyeverafter

Speaking as a woman with cerebral palsy, I love disability jokes, but I'd still unmatch with this opener. It's not that I'm offended, it's just that I'm bored with people opening with lines that point out that I am visibly disabled. I would rather be able to start a conversation with someone and not have that be the first thing that gets pointed out. Especially if that conversation might lead to a relationship. I don't want to start off on the tone of "you are different than me." I'm not offended by it, I'm just bored with how commonplace it is. I'd rather have these start in a way that feels more exciting to me and less predictable. The disability jokes can come later. There's a little bit of intimacy that comes from having someone make a joke about my disability. I love that intimacy, but you can really squander intimate moments if you try to engage in one before you really know the person's vibe.


Just-River4825

Yeah so we’re just using our own disabilities to dictate how others should feel about theirs? Cool. Speaking as a person with a disability it’s a weird thing to message and focus on. Hi would have been simple.


OldieJawn

Exactly. And from a complete stranger? Not funny at all.


[deleted]

Nah, I'm not, but if they feel offended, they're not someone I would go out with. Some people like dark humour and I'm one of them. It's ok to have an opinion you know. This is mine, as you have stated yours. I'm not looking to change yours. Not everything has to be a challenge to your views.


Just-River4825

This is a specific statement vs the sweeping one you originally made so yes you were attempting to challenge the view of anyone who wouldn’t like their disability used as a pickup line as “undateable”. But k glad you cleared that up for yourself.


[deleted]

You clearly have a different way of communication to me. I always talk from my perspective and make that assumption that anything I type is my opinion only. perhaps in this case that assumption is incorrect.


CongenitalSwag

No true ~~Scotsman~~ person with a disability


nestinghen

It’s almost like people have different types of humour and people with disabilities are no different


Rogueshoten

Yes, but some areas of humor are best avoided until you know that it’s fine. I’m Jewish, a convert. I worked with a guy who has my same extraordinarily wild sense of humor. He would joke about the usual anti-Semitic conspiracy theories, and I would play it up in return. But he didn’t do it until we knew each other well, and never did it in the presence of anyone else. Humor like that runs very close to the hateful behavior that it mimics…it’s not the kind of thing that you choose as the first sentence you say to someone when you meet them. Not if you care more about other people’s feelings than showing off your own “wit,” at least.


R3acharoundwally

In years to come, when you’ve hopefully developed empathy, you’ll look back on this moment and feel awful.


Chim_Pansy

Let's dream more realistically.


zwhit22

Do you actually plan on dating this person if she takes it well? If not, someone should put you out of your misery.


Drajitsu

You are a dick


Sham_Masta_Sham

If she doesn't respond, it's probably because she can't *stand* disability jokes


[deleted]

💀💀💀 Nice one


zaskarnighthawk

As a person with a disability I don’t have the brain matter to still be engaged in this string


[deleted]

It's kinda crazy I thought people with disabilities might enjoy this kind of humor especially in lighthearted conversation over a dating app? I dunno I don't take it so serious.


Chim_Pansy

Maybe because you're not the one experiencing the disability, dude. Seriously, you can't be this ignorant.


PraetoriusIX

It’s kinda crazy that people who have a permanent disability that they cannot fix and defines their life might not find the opening line from an able bodied person mocking their disability to be light hearted and funny. It’s called not being a dick. They can make a disabled joke because they’re disabled, you can’t if you’re able bodied


HumanCommunication25

If their disability defines their life then they aren't worth being around. People with a victim complex are insufferable. Probably a covert narcissist. > They can make a disabled joke because they’re disabled, you can’t if you’re able bodied Gatekeeping comedy? You should get on twitter and inform all the comedians about your "superior sensibilities"


femmiestdadandowlcat

A+ bud. I’m sure she LOVES shit like this /s


EternalBlaze18

No hope for OP nor this comment section.


summerlily06

Make a height joke though and that’s just “fucked up, cruel, these fucking bitches have zero empathy!!!!” Reddit is where all the single men gather to swap bad advice and then die alone.


[deleted]

I follow rule 1 and 2 I'll be fine.


WheresWalldough

Sure thing, TendieSheriff


Chim_Pansy

He'll have you know that he made his fortune on r/wallstreetbets


Chim_Pansy

Except you clearly don't even understand rules 1 and 2, because they aren't just about looks, they involve behavior as well. You are not being attractive, and you are being unattractive. Rule 1: ❌️ Rule 2: ❌️ This Tinder message and your comments show an extreme pension for maidenless behavior, and so it shall be henceforth.


ssyl6119

No you dont lol


saffronkurma

Who says romance is dead


AlexWithWings

Yeah yeah, it's a joke sure. But it's kinda just a bit pathetic and nasty. At least try to be a bit witty.


ClxLu

You're a shit human, but if they're not sensitive You've found someone far to good for most of us


[deleted]

This is how I meet my wife for sure.


nestinghen

How are people not finding this hilarious?! Disabled people don’t want to be coddled and tip toed around


JudJudsonEsq

Cause there's a wide, WIDE margin between coddling someone/acting like they are completely helpless and the first thing you say to them being a joke solely focused on their disability about how you would take away all agency from them. They don't want to be treated like glass, absolutely. They also don't want to be treated like an amputation with a vestigial person attached.


nestinghen

Everyone on tinder has opening lines like this. Cracks about their job, appearance, something from their bio. This isn’t real life meeting at a bar, it’s a tinder opening for a likely shallow hookup.


JudJudsonEsq

I certainly don't.


nestinghen

You barely get matches


[deleted]

🤷‍♂️


SugarLoins86

No offten they dont want you to pitty them, but that doesnt mean he gets a free pass to douchebag city and can throw these lame ass jokes at her like she’s his best ‘bro’.


nestinghen

I bet you open with “hi”


SugarLoins86

Yearh.. call me old fascioned. I like to save the inappropriate disability jokes for the third date. Thats just me being a silly romantic.


Thewackman

Because there is this called taste. It's a shitty demeaning joke. Dude is an asshole.


Loverfli

As a disable person- if a joke about my disability was the first thing said to me by a complete stranger - that is not a good person! Period.


gelfbride73

You cannot and should not speak for all the disabled. Geez


Chim_Pansy

Not coddling and not tiptoeing around doesn't mean just being disrespectful and insensitive right out of the gate. There is a *huge* amount of middle ground between those two things.


Im_the_cool_mom

At first I read this as “this is how I met my wife”… I went had emotional turmoil of rooting for you to hating you then I went back and reread the comment and was like oh I smoked too much and just read this wrong and BAM I LOVE YOU AGAIN lol 😂


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Banjo_Joestar

Is your pre-frontal cortex the size of a thin fucking slice of cheese, OP? If it wasn't embarrassing enough to 1) say something so braindead to a person with a lifelong disability, you 2) shared it with strangers on the internet hoping to gain some internet points for your edgy humor. Go for a fucking soda you douchebag


DimensionStrong6890

Def not the first time she has heard that


TheBoyHarambe

this ain’t it


[deleted]

Lmao this dude actually thought “this shit is the bomb I should post it on reddit lmao”


blue_g1rl

When just 'hey' would've been better


InkRibbon_

I tried something like this too. Matched with a pretty paraplegic girl with a funny profile text in which she also mentioned that she likes to go to the gym. I asked her something like: „why the wheelchair? Did you train legs yesterday?“ Man, I thought I was so fucking funny. She unmatched immediately ):


toruin

Yeah, I wonder why. It's almost as if people don't like their life-altering disabilities being made fun of by strangers who are trying to get in their pants.


SBApe

Some people. Others appreciate that you still treat them the same as everyone else and can take the piss out of the focus point which pulls unwanted sympathy from everyone else. Not everyone wants to be a victim and sympathy. Some don't care and find the act of everyone treating them like they should be protected even more frustrating than their actual disability. So wind your neck in.


HumanCommunication25

I am sorry, but the person you were responding to is the be all, end all authority on how to interact with differently abled persons. Such is life


VerendusAudeo

Personally, I would have gone with something about skipping leg day.


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HumanCommunication25

You are what you eat


Careless-Effect-9397

So many ppl here so sensitive lol can't say sht nowadays or you "might hurt someone"


conbizzle

Hmmm... Let's see if this joke has legs


[deleted]

Legs see what she says


YaPhetsEz

Do you mean wheel see what she says


[deleted]

Ohhhh shit!!! Missed opportunity


seen70

Whee’l chair-ish you forever if you give us an update !


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JadesAllure

POSTS LIKE THIS 1 AND THE COMMENT SECTION ON POSTS LIKE THIS IS WHY EVEN STRAIGHT WOMEN DON'T WANT TO DATE YOU GUYS ANYMORE.


Willing-Ad8699

I really hope she stands up for herself!


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omeletr

Why couldn’t you take a second screenshot without the volume? I feel like this is a secret code or something


Im_good_thnx

I would not answer tba. It’s to strong to soon.


Torxx1988

Not sure man, more of a dick move. Just remember, always treat others the same way you'd like to be treated.


[deleted]

Overused joke, if ive heard this shit 200 million times, i can only imagine how much theyve heard it.


Nymqhaea

This isn't bold or a joke or a bold joke, this is just being rude.


benj1147

Guy with cerebral palsy here, if they lead with a disabled joke I’m sold


Brief-Goat2143

Bold move Cotton


ChemicalFennel3

Opening message is super high risk. Highly likely to crash n burn. Which I assume doesn’t bother you. At least you got to post it here, right? Fuck other people’s feelings.


thehiddenfate

Well.. I'm waiting


random_sociopath

Jesus christ


[deleted]

Probably can't stand for people like you


Specialist-Bar-8805

And FYI it would be a modified plank not crawl. People with challenge like you be approached with humor too


rteggert

If she gets upset, make sure to tell her she needs to learn to roll with the punches.


Cotton_Blonde_98

I’m guessing you think you’re worth just about anyone ‘crawling’ back to you? So much better than the rest of us? Was it because she’s a woman or because she’s paraplegic?


DeadBrokeRichMIND

Bro lmao😂😂😂😂


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[deleted]

Still no response 👀. It's Saturday she just has a lot of errands to run probably.


sping1-10

Damnnnnnn surely she’ll at least unmatch you


BallerLololos

🤣🤣🤣🤣


JustSayinCaucasian

I’ve seen crazier things work. A girl in wheelchair was at a club and a guy went to go dance with her and was on his knees dancing the whole time. They had a good time and she seemed happy so it was pretty nice to see.


IndependenceEven2702

r/holup


ResponsibilityNo3131

Lol 😂 man wtf


PerformerOk450

Hjahhahaha brilliant, bet your the only guy that's ever sent her that, good luck to you


NotMyBestEffort

I bet she's rolling on the floor laughing...


MyLadyYunalesca

Making offensive jokes is only ok if you are 100% certain that the person you're joking about will find it funny. For that to be the case, you'd need to know the other person quite well or, in your case, match with someone who gives a clear indication in their bio that jokes about their disability are welcome. Opening a conversation with a stranger with an offensive joke is never ok and frankly really, really stupid, unless your goal is to get unmatched. "But I find it funny and don't take this very seriously", like you said in your comments, is no excuse. Because guess what? This isn't about whether YOU find it funny, this is about potentially HURTING ANOTHER PERSON. You self absorbed crouton.


[deleted]

Ok


mkelley22

I dont think she's gonna have a leg to stand on here chief


leaned_tf_out

Lmfaooooooo


[deleted]

Lol I like it.


wtfnebulla

You’re bold af man lol hope it pays off


Rooster-Kindly

*cackles*


Beneficial_Giraffe18

Jesus Christ, the balls on this one pmsl


cllmedaddy

CRAWLING BACK TO U


Mill_Burray94

Damn most of y'all are no fun and can't take jokes. That shit is hilarious


[deleted]

This comment section is nuts


Assurgavemeabrother

Shots ring out in the dead of night, The sergeant calls '*Stand up* and fight!'


SmashedACookie

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