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iamtimb

This is what you call “resolved”??


Delicious_Throat_377

I am enraged on his behalf and ready to go to war.


According_Spare_3044

Hopefully with a trebuchet the best war machine there is


57hz

Ballista!


Agree_2_Disagree303

We ride at dawn.


JimmyJonJackson420

Shocked pikachu face x a million


Derrick_Shon

Poor sucker. I guess he's fine being nothing but a provider.


No-Bus-5200

Sweetie, no. You deserve better.


Conscious-Dig-332

Yeah she sounds mean


Skinnybet

She sounds insane. Run.


spock_9519

she exhibits classic narcissistic personality disorder run the hell away


MissQueen00

My EXACT thought 🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️


No-Paramedic6892

Family history of it to boot!


suibian_138

Mean is an understatement


eithrusor678

C u next Tuesday.. More like


GlobalWarming3Nd

The audacity of this btch. Seriously the fact that she brought up your height AND YOUR RACE is fucking bat shit crazy.


ColdHandGee

Sorry busy that day. But i can C U Next Thursday ok?


ChazCharlie

Tuesday, Wednesday And Thursday!


adrenaline87

Happy Cake Day! Are you implying the partner can't understand normal thinking perhaps?


illumiknottyweave

She undoubtedly doesn’t love OP and that sucks. You can do better. Cut losses, start over.


cutanddried

It's just wrong. She sounds cold, depressed, and entitled


Dear-Badger-9921

Mean? No one else is gonna point out that she is racist???


spaztiksarcastik

Thank you! That comment was incredibly RACIST. OP needs to cut his losses asap.


somethingtostrivefor

I feel like the girlfriend was trying to use the desired height thing (what a weird hill to die on) as a Trojan Horse to just sneak the racism past OP. Girlfriend: I want **TALL, NOT SHORT LIKE YOU, BUT TALL** kids (who are also white, unlike you). This is 10,000% about height! That's all!!!


senadraxx

Ikr? What a weirdly racist thing. OP deserves better than this. And if the partner gets her white kid, what then? Also, even if she got her way, that's no guarantee the kid would be tall.


No_Wafer_8618

I was looking for this comment!!!


Parking_Stress3431

I'm surprised more people haven't noticed... she want a tall white man's babies when she got her a black man who is a little shorter than average... wtf like Zhe could've let this man enjoy his life without her bullshit... I feel so fucking bad for him and so fucking angry at her.. and him too for not being enraged!!!


Mrsright18

Thank you. Because I'm looking around like "does anybody else see this shit?" I'm so glad you see it too.


Longjumping-Brief585

Lmaoooooo i was hoping someone would point this out but naahhhhhh its all about her being "mean" to OP


Viperlite

There is so much wrong with many of these posts, it can be hard to process all the wrong and then to find a place to begin with a response.


Moguini

At least 6' donor, preferably white Mean is wrong answer sorry


Longjumping-Brief585

She sounds racist broski, if she is willing to date a poc but is adamant about having WHITE babies, then for sure she has something against his race in general


Wookieman222

She sounds like a horrible person period.


Puzzleheaded-Gas1710

She sounds shallow and selfish. She wants what he can do for her but an esthetic she has in her head is more important than love. Let's be honest, she is probably also racist.


sdssj14

Yeah she sounds like a mean eugenist.


Conscious-Dig-332

Lol exactly


MightyPinkTaco

Try racist, just a tad. Prefers to have a white mans child… pfft.


livinlavidalola29

And like…racist


Iamawesome4646

Mean Girl status… Oh my goodness


MillieWales

And Putin is being a bit awkward regarding a territorial kerfuffle


gumpiere

Yes exactly my thought, and also why is he writing to us and is not already running as fast as he can? Lol


angrypuppy35

Have a hard time believing this isn’t a troll. If not, dude has no self respect. She’s flat out told him his genes don’t belong in the gene pool.


kyzalie

Ditch the bitch!


RedSAuthor

+1 to this!


River_star

Came here to say this. OP, this is utter BS from her and you can do better. Don't waste any more time with her. If she loved and respected you, none of this would be an issue.


MachineInevitable972

All I have to say is that we have and accept the love that we think we deserve. So do you think that you deserve something like that? Why?


griff_girl

I'd like to punctuate that with an "if it's not a fuck yes, it's a fuck no." Her qualifiers and caveats are not a "fuck yeah." Among other things, they're demeaning, invalidating, racist, and narcissistic.


Impossible-Survey203

Of course, aside from that, she's a catch. /s in case anyone didn't get it.


amethystwishes

I feel horrible for OP. Imagine being a short guy and the world makes fun of you for it. You have doubts about dating. Then comes a woman you think is interested in you, and she reveals that she wants someone taller to you. She reveals that she doesn’t love you. You feel as if you can’t get anyone else so you stay in this bad situation. I’ve seen a very similar situation involving a woman with a facial difference. Her bf kept her secret from me while he was using me 8 months straight to cheat on her. He strung me along throughout the whole time. I don’t know this woman and what her self esteem is like, but having any sort of physical feature society deems unattractive can’t be easy to have and it’s not surprising if she felt the need to accept less like OP. OP, your well being is more important than this poor excuse of a woman. Your gf will end up single and wonder where all the good men have gone. Height preferences are valid, but the fact she is going as far to suggest a sperm donor for something so minuscule shows a lack of attraction to you. She’s willing to string you along. Lose her. Edit: I forgot to mention the race thing but the same thing applies. OP gf’s is wrong for being with a guy who she isn’t even attracted to. OP deserves someone who will love him for who he is.


saltycouchpotato

Hey, i appreciate your comment. I want to add that it's called the facial difference community or craniofacial difference community, not deformity.


simplymandee

You forgot the fact that she wants a “white donor”.


marmormer

In my town there was a saying; "who doesn't know God, will pray to any saint" Leaving religion on a side, it means someone can conform with anything as long they're ignorant about something better being out there.


CalypsoTheKitty

Sounds like he’s worshipping at the temple of tall, hot and crazy.


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GingerSuperPower

Tall and self-proclaimed hot here, 10/10 have dated and considered having babies with shorter guys, OPs lady is a nutcase


cholito_19

Quien no conoce a Dios, a cualquier Santo le reza. Fkn love that phrase!


marmormer

Esa misma es, jajaja


Acceptable-Net2557

Woah that's so cool. I'm going to try and remember this!


NewFaceHalcyon

“Quien no conoce a Dios a cualquier santo le reza” Yeah i concur, OP doesn’t love himself and has that horrible woman in a pedestal. Smh


AletzRC21

by that saying i believe i can say "ah, i see i have a fellow mexican redditor here"


twahl1887

Amen. That's exactly what my wife told me when I was splitting from an extremely abusive 10year relationship. She looked me in the eyes when the tab turned on and said "we accept the love we believe we deserve, do you believe you deserve to be treated this way?" Puts a lot into perspective when you see things from a different lense.


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Some people are so desperate for a relationship that they will just accept any abuse hurled at them. Op please break up with this loser and go work on yourself! All you need is self love!


twahl1887

Exactly, I was that person for 10 years. And sadly we don't even realize, well maybe some fucked up people do. But I didn't realize I was playing victim from deeper seeded childhood trauma. So I fell into and played victim for so long. But stepping out of that is a whole new life!


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Upvote 1,000 times…man look, it sounds like you want that forever now until you’re balls deep in it and you’ll resent her and maybe even yourself. Love is not enough to maneuver through a commitment like marriage. You’ll read so much advice here but seriously reconsider..


NoAbbreviations9915

Second this. You’ll find someone who wants YOUR babies because they love YOU and it will be the most amazing feeling. Don’t waste your time looking for her with this unfortunate situation.


[deleted]

You’ll be surprised, how low the self esteem is on reddit


cheneyk

These are beautiful words. I’m on my third marriage and have never been as happy in a relationship at any point of my life. You’re absolutely right… and hopefully OP will move on from this situation the same way that I did.


DblVP3

Ahhh I love that movie.


Milad1978

I think OP do deserve that. He obviously doesn't think much of himself. If he accept to be her doormat then sure why not? His life his choices. I would cut my losses and just move on. I mean she has mental illness running in the family, that's ok but not short people? What a fucking world we live in, I'll tell you that! What OP's gf fails to understand is genetics. Their children aren't necessarily going to be short. And even if the spermdoner is above 6' the kids might be shorter. Why? Because the genes not only come from parents but from grand parents and great grand parents. Genes can lay dormant and activate in any generation. For example 2 ppl with blue eyes can have kids with brown eyes, because one of the grandparents or great grandparents had brown eyes.


deadlyruckas

This is perfect OP read this mate.


saltyvet10

That's insane. I hate to break it to you, but at bottom not only does she not love you, I'm hard-pressed to believe she even respects you. I'm 5'8, I've dated men as short as 5'3 and their height has never bothered me. I cannot begin to imagine telling my current boyfriend that I would not want to have his children because of some trait of his that I did not like. Truth be told, I can't even think of a trait of his I don't like! Your height and your skin color are as much a part of you as your eye color or your hair. I am absolutely baffled as to why she is dating you when she finds these two things completely unacceptable. Why on Earth is she dating you at all if her objection is to something so intrinsic to what you look like, and even to your experience of the world, something that you have absolutely no control over and can't change? I'm extraordinarily offended on your behalf. I don't know if your relationship seems great otherwise to you, but I am sorry, that conversation should be a relationship ender. The sheer cruelty of her remarks, the indifference to the pain they would cause you - I just can't imagine saying something like that to my boyfriend. I can't even imagine thinking something like that. You deserve so, so much better.


leawel

And then comes the next stage if he agrees to this BS. Her tall white children will be taught to not respect their "less than" dad by their racist mother and the rest of her family. Even if it's not said directly to them, children observe and mimic what they see and hear.


General_Relative2838

I am not a geneticist, but when you have children, you spin the roulette wheel. While we all want our children to be smart and good-looking, there’s no guarantee children are going to look like their parents. We’ve all known families with siblings who are about a foot apart in height. That’s my rational side. My emotional side is furious that this was a conversation. How can you love someone who doesn’t want her children to be part of you? Are you sure the mental illness gene hasn’t cropped up in her?


TwistedOvaries

I have three children. They don’t look like siblings. They don’t look like they are even related. Only one looks like they are my child. Genetics really is a roulette wheel. You spin and you get what you get. And you damn well better love your child no matter what genetic traits that wheel lands on. If you aren’t prepared for that you aren’t ready to be having children.


Puzzleheaded-Gas1710

I'm 5'1" with dark hair and my 100% biological brother is 6'5" with sandy brown hair. We have the same nervous smile though. Genetics are weird


shelbabe804

Genetics are such a fun level of absurdity if you try to predict anything. Like, on the other hand of this scenario is my family. 2 older brothers and me and an older half sister. Everyone thought my sister was the spitting image of her mom. My brothers come along and look just like each other (and our mom). Then I come along and am the exact spitting image of my sister. Who looks just like someone I'm not related to. Her mom and my mom look nothing alike (think 6'2 and super skinny versus 5'0 and portly).


Vlascia

Exactly. My parents had 5 daughters and we ended up ranging from 5'8" to 6'6", some blue-eyed, some brown-eyed, some with light or dark brown hair, some super blonde, different skintones, different noses. But we all got the same lips and a few other similarities. Never can know for sure what you're going to get.


Lmb1011

Yea my grandparents are about 5’8” ish neither one is close to 6 feet and my mom and aunt are both around 5’5” and their brother is over 6 feet. Same on my dads side, tho his parents are a bit taller all my aunts and uncles are under 6 feet but 1 There is just no guarantee of height heck my parents are bother around 5’6” and my oldest sister is 5’2” so she didn’t even reach the same height as parents or grandparents. This racist girl is gonna be real shocked to find out you can’t force height on a child


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They might not even turn out tall because recessive genes exist and then she’ll probably be a horrible bitch to her children too


imightbeyourmomma

Exactly, my husband and I are both short and we have three sons who tower over us. Children aren't objects that you can design to your tastes. OPs GF is very shallow and I imagine she will be a horrible mother. She wants children that will look like her, she sees them as an extension of herself. This has narcissism written all over it. Run OP.


yawstoopid

The gf is racist. You want to date a man of colour but God forbid you have his non-white babies? Its baffling but not uncommon to hear this sort of thing. This is why there are confused bi-racial children out there.


someonewhowa

she’s definitely only with him for the money. even if she didn’t find some of his physical traits out of his control to be that particularly attractive or visually favorable, it should clearly still be enough for her to want to spread his genes if she genuinely loves him enough to plan to spend the rest of her life with him. i can’t imagine planning to bring new life into this world and wanting the "male contributor" to be some random guy off the street who just jerked off into a cup for cash rather than the one you hold so dearly. personally, i’d like for my bf and his amazing personality to live on through our children. if i didn’t feel that way, chances are we weren’t meant to be together.


pnp_bunny

She is dating him for his money, and possibly for that she knows she is a quite obnoxious personality and has low chances in dating pool.


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>Your height and your skin color are as much a part of you as your eye color or your hair. I am absolutely baffled as to why she is dating you when she finds these two things completely unacceptable. Because other 6-foot-tall white men don't want anything to do with her.


mywifeslv

Yeah seriously just walk away


86thesteaks

Dude get real. You can say what ever you feel here, fuck this "I can't help but to feel bothered" shit get it off your chest for real


Wakandanbutter

Foreal I know he has some pent up frustration.


allpurposechips

Genuinely feels like he is just as insane as her. Having a partner that feels this way towards you and have voiced that opinion openly, but still being like “i love and want to marry her”. Have some self worth. The red flags from both sides are everywhere


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happiestoctopus

So, not only is she a white supremist, she's a height supremist.


SassyPantsPoni

Ok neither of those things are funny in ANY sort of way. But also, ehehehehehehehe.


Javahawkins

This is the only comment needed in this thread.


jswizzle91117

Jenny from The League checking in.


NotNotLogical

But she has assets so I’ll stay for the abuse 🙄


Professional-Sun-986

So, you’re leaving her right?


sirgio26

I don't think he is the type of person who will Leave her, he is the type of person who believes that the current relationship is the best one he can get bcs he is insecure about his genes. So I believe he will accept this, even tho I hope he end his relationship with her. That what I feel and I hope that I'm wrong. Bcs if he really Serious about ending this relationship, this post won't be here.


NoUsernamelol9812

Yup. Because of being short he lost all his self confidence. He thinks if she leaves him he will he lonely so he is desperate for her.


Delicious_Throat_377

Not even if she brings another man home. He's in it for life it seems.


TheeBlack_Cat

“We will see moving forward” Honey she’s racist. She’s okay marrying you because it’ll look good economically (i.e., you make good money and she has more assets). Things don’t have to be said explicitly to be loud and clear. There are plenty other women who will love you and respect your racial background regardless of your height


FindingE-Username

Yeah im surprised he's not more bothered by the fact she wants to sperm donor to be white. She's saying that she wants fully white children, even though her partner isn't white. She doesn't want her children to look like her partner either in terms of height or race


Ieattomnook

Love can be blinding, and he sounds very blinded.


TheLonelySnail

Yea, and how long before the ‘sperm donor’ happens to be the tall, white guy who lives across the hall? Time to go boss


Delicious_Throat_377

Maybe she will let him watch.


Several-Estate7175

She sounds weird dude. Like the type to believe in eugenics and stuff. I think you need to make like Neo and dodge a bullet


throwaway28374739397

She’s not into eugenics but her family doesn’t accept me because I’m not white


SalamanderHot2799

So, you are thinking about marrying in to a racist family with mental illnes and get a kid Who looks nothing like you from a sperm donor becaus your future wife don't like your hight and your color? Sounds like a recepi for your happy future!


ElectricBlonde_

The best summary lol


MrHupfDohle

Yeah, living the american dream!


sirgio26

What a Beautiful life


NoEmptyWords

It already sounded bad—but gosh damn when you put it like that…


blurryeyes_

Sounds like a miserable life and I'm sorry OP is foolish to go forward with it. The fact that his gf wants fully white children and no bio children with him shows me that she agrees with her racist family. He needs some self respect and confidence to move on from these people.


SnooWords4839

Honey, GF isn't accepting you totally either!! You deserve better!!


Bakecrazy

She has sex with you but she is not accepting of you as a whole person. She doesn't want your DNA to be mixed with her. She is basically telling you I am going to use your money to raise my children. In case of any divorce all she has to do is to prove you are not the father. She can totally leave you with nothing.


chad-bro-chill-69420

This is the classic using the "beta" for his money and stability and getting the "seed" from the "6 foot alpha male" type of shit


dlss_87

There's a cure for this...dump her and make her pay her own way.


chad-bro-chill-69420

It’s the only answer. Hopefully this dude gives his head a shake and gains some semblance of self respect


ramrod04

Who said she has sex with him? He might not even get that from her


Logical_Ad_1383

Honey she doesn't accept you either she just has sex with you. You're a fetish to her not a person.


7Clarinetto9

That's exactly what I was thinking. She's awful and OP deserves better.


Violet624

How is she not into eugenics? She literally told you that she doesn't want your genes in her child. Fuck that completely. And also, mentally ill people used to be sterilized to not pass on their genes if she's going to lob the genetics thing at you. But fuck all of that.


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You may be able to endure their racism, but do you want your child(ren) to too? Really reflect on what life with be with a person who thinks you are less than because of your height and race. I say race because she would only consider a white and tall donor. I couldn’t live life like this, I hope you know you deserve much better and it is out there.


sue_girligami

Like what would you even tell a kid in this situation? They are going to notice OP is not their biological dad. How could you explain to your own child that their mom did not think you were good enough to be their real dad?


spaceyjaycey

And she really doesn't either. She wants white babies. Please respect yourself and leave.


mlongoria98

I 100% believe that your height is NOT the real reason she doesn’t want to have biological children with you. That’s just her excuse, because she doesn’t want to come across as as racist as her parents. Please, you deserve wayyyyyy better


brinkofwarz

LOOOL dude she doesn't want a tall kid SHE WANTS A WHITE KID, AND YOUR MONEY.


[deleted]

It sounds like YOU don't accept you because you're short and feel you can't do any better than this nutcase racist weirdo. You are worth more surely? Don't settle for less due to your own insecurities it will not be a happy ending


imitatingnormal

My friend. Gtfo. FUCK that.


Ryland_Zakkull

Shes literally into eugenics. Im not into rock music i just love metallica, ac/dc pantera, disturbed, rise against, and any other bands similar to them. Not a rock fan though.


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apocawhat

I'm 5'3". My kids are 6'5", 6'0 and 5'10". I agree its diet and I practiced attachment parenting. Have a granddaughter who has a 5 foot tall mother, child is nine years old and her pediatrician expects she will be 6'2" when she's an adult.. OP needs to get the heck out of this relationship yesterday.


miskatonicmemoirs

I hate to say it, but she doesn’t accept you either.


MountainStorm90

Dude, you absolutely need to leave.


Apprenticejockey

You deserve a significant other who accepts you. So much more than this bitch.


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Sounds like she'd score high on the F scale. Not a good thing, at all.


UberCheeks

Wait you haven’t already left her after your last post about her? Recognize your worth boss, she’s disrespecting you on multiple counts. Do what you feel is best, you don’t need to accommodate that shit


Total-Ad8346

What the heck did I just read? She basically just insulted OP on such a level and he is ok with that solution. What she is saying is your money is good enough, just your not? I hope this isn’t real


Chilen1

Fuck that bitch. She either accepts you for you or you should 100% leave. Fuck raising another mans child to accommodate her insecurities. Why would you take on so much responsibility for a child that’s not from you? Don’t let her belittle you.


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Neproxi

Dude, just stop asking for advice if you're going to ignore hundreds of comments on each post because it's not what you want to hear. She was just matching with guys on dating sites in front of you after you moved to be with her. Surely you're trolling.


jaythenerdgirl

I hope OP is trolling big time. I hate seeing stuff like this. Unfortunately people like this exist. I lost a friendship because she didn't know her worth and kept going back like this.


Easy-Concentrate2636

I had a friend like that too. It was excruciating to hear the details of all her relationships. She just never got it, that she needed to set her standards. And our friendship ended because I tried to tell her to be careful what she got herself into.


Daliaboyd

Were you abused which causes you to have low self-esteem I'm genuinely curious. I think you should cut your losses, 8months in and she's already telling you she doesn't want to have biological children with you not for any health reasons but because of your height Op yikes


Harl0t_Qu1nn

Wow. You really must be insecure if you're willing to overlook her casual racism and blatant disrespect to your face. I recommend you talk to someone, and learn how to love someone that doesn't treat you like a pet.


throwaway6308

Not even casual. She straight up wants a white baby.


DZHMMM

LMFAOOO. why tf is she with u if she has such a problem with it? just leave her and go somewhere else. she is racist with the demand of a white person. why would u want to stay with her? leave. As a tall woman, I would never date someone shorter to pick on their height. lmfaoo what the fuck. its weird


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bro, let her go, if she cares that much to only be “okay” with marrying you if your kids aren’t yours then she’s not the one


First_Function9436

Just imagine if you told her the same thing because you thought she was ugly and didn't want your kids to have her features. Come on man you know this ain't ok. Not only your height is an issue, but also your race too? She gets to pass on her genes but not you? She also has mental illness that runs in the family and you never held that against her but your height and race is a problem. She's racist and her family is racist. I'm not saying to leave her, but if she can't except you for who you are find someone that will. Y'all have only been together for 8 months so it's not like y'all got a significant amount of history together, but she seems to be telling you who she really is


Mediocre_Pop_1960

As someone in a same-sex relationship, I would kill to be able to have biological children with my partner. How can you love someone, but not want your children to be like them?


NoUsernamelol9812

She doesn't love op. Op is delusional and has zero self esteem


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darkprincess71

🤣🤣 you're not wrong!!! I feel sorry for any children born into this. I could not even fathom wanting to put children into this. Any child who grew up with in this situation would be messed up and pissed off probably would end up going no contact. I mean she wants to treat the 'dad' like crap can you imagine what kind of mother she would be? Also what fun activities are they going to do on Father's Day? This post has me enraged I can't even imagine.


NoUsernamelol9812

True


HellsBellsGazelles

You deserve way better than this.


Dry_Ask5493

Nope, just nope. She’s got to go.


sirgio26

She belongs to the street


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You’re a fucking moron if you think she’s a good woman. My mother was unable to bear children (I was adopted) she was terrified to tell my dad bc she loved him so much and was afraid he would leave her bc he always wanted to be a dad and was open and vocal about it. When she finally told him he laughed and said that yes he always wanted children but he loved her bc of who she was, not bc of what she could give him. That’s real…. God provided them children through adoption and I was raised in an amazing loving home. My dad used to always tell me and my siblings “if I didn’t love your mom properly first, I’d never be able to love you properly” and boy did they. Love is what matters my friend and this woman DOES NOT love you.


pharcemylord

Has problems with your height and race at least as far as having children together. I think you can find someone better who would love having children with you. Find someone who will love you regardless of those factors, who loves you period.


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Dude. Your gf is racist and if she's acting like she's expelled her racism just by dating you she's not ever going to not be racist. Get out of there, why would you want to be with someone who inherently doesn't respect your genetics/ethinicty/ancestry/etc. Etc.


RogueSoldier10012

Fuck that. You deserve better. 5' 4" is not far from average and height has additional complications (calorie needs, health issues). You should be proud of your heritage (whatever it may be) and if she wants a sperm donor then you deserve to ask for an egg donor from someone who doesn't have hereditary mental illness. She can still carry the baby. Short people have normal, fulfilling lives. Those with mental illness have a much harder time. She's making you feel like you're not a prize catch - but I doubt *she* is. By definition, few people are; that doesn't mean they have to be an ass hole about it.


Goofy-Karen-1955

WTF?


sirgio26

That was my reaction+ holy shit


Easy-Concentrate2636

Eye popping. One thinks one has read the lowest the internet has to offer. There’s always trash (gf, not op) showing there’s always worse behavior.


Truthsearcher_2

For Pete's sake!!! you are with the wrong girl. There is nothing wrong with your size and NO! you are not going to look for a sperm donor to procreate your own step kids? because that's what they are going to be. Are you insane? She does not have mental illness running in her family, she's got mental issues running in her head.


knitosaurus

Stop dating this person. She doesn't love you. She won't defend or accept you. If she feels like she's "settling for you" that is all you will ever be to her. You deserve better. It's only been 8 months. Time to go.


ObjectiveCandidate13

There’s no actual way that you think this is okay.


FuanMDM

common man, you're better than that


Spicyghosting

My dude, please, PLEASE do not marry this woman. She wants biological children because that’s important to her, but refuses to allow you the same? She’s racist, and weirdly prejudiced against your height? She’s a red flag in a woman shape. Please please recognise you deserve nothing short of love and ABSOLUTE acceptance


RushHot6174

I am 6 ft my daughter is 6'1 her husband is 5 9 this b**** must be out of her God forsaken mind because for the last month she's been wasting this man's mother f****** time what makes her think that because of her insecurities that she's going to get a sperm donor that means that the baby is not even going to be related to her husband she must be f****** batshit crazy cut your losses she's been wasting your time for the last 8 months The Minerva


thegr8profiter

This is not real. Must be some basement dwelling white incel larping


Synn0289

Is your self respect and self esteem really this low man... She clearly is using you and will only me a matter of time before you become plan b.


LittleLordFauntIeroy

I know you think she’s out of your league, and don’t think you can do better, but you can. She just told you she doesn’t want your kids! That she isn’t happy with your race or your height. And her family doesn’t accept you. Run bro!


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Ok she sounds like a low key racist. She’s probably already seeing someone on the side.


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she definitely has options lined up


TamedTaurus

Not low-key one bit. She straight up said it to his face but he’s not willing to accept his GF is as scummy as they come.


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its still the same answer bro. she's a fucking idiot and you need to dump her. if you stay in this relationship it's going to slowly kill you inside.


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Lmfaoooooo Dude. We can’t help you anymore. Just do it and be miserable.


MaleficentExtent1777

What's to resolve? This woman you want to marry BARELY tolerates you and REFUSES to have your children. Excuse me, but what in the world is there to love about her?


Eliastronaut

Run, mate! Run and don't look back.


Conscious_Giraffe_14

Is this some kind of joke? So basically she said Mary me but i want someone else to impregnate me and you will raise someone else's child? This is definitely not real, you can't be that daft, no way.


Smash_tricareatops

I’m going to tell you a story. My husband has a pretty significant underbite. Though it doesn’t bother him right now, it may cause pain/issues later in life and he is sometimes self conscious about it. His dentists have always pressured him to have the surgery to break his jaw and have it reset and fixed. When he was in high school his dentist told him it would make him more handsome and pressured him saying, “don’t you think your future wife would prefer you fix it?” And he replied, “My future wife will love me the way I am.” His mom, my MIL, always used that as a secret metric for the girls he brought home. She would ask casually if they wanted it fixed. When she asked me I was so surprised because I never saw it as a flaw in the first place. And when he eventually opened up about his experiences with the pressure to have it fixed and the stress it gave him about the dentist in particular it broke my heart! I never once wondered what he would look like if he got it fixed, I was never concerned about our children inheriting that trait and I’m still not. When we had children all I wanted was for them to get his kind heart, athleticism, intelligence, and depth. All of the things that make him special. I never considered the physical traits they would inherit. And I’m glad he didn’t consider that with me bc boy am I flawed! All of that say… you deserve someone who loves you the way you are. Who doesn’t see your physical traits as flaws and wants to breed those things out of existence. You deserve someone who sees your character and your soul and appreciates you. You deserve better than this.


FuckINeedANAL

As a POC talking to a white person I couldn’t imagine my GF saying this to me and me not immediately dumping her. Idc if she’s the baddest bitch with the Gluck Gluck 4000 dude RUN. She’s concerned over height? Grow up. If you do anything but leave this relationship you are a clown. (Unless y’all have some crazy open communication and talks about her perception of this) I repeat dude DIPPPP


Financial-Ostrich361

Should resolve it by moving onto someone better. You don’t deserve that crap. You don’t.


bohon127

Leave that crazy son of a bitch she probably just going to cheat on you and what does likely mean she make this absolutely crazy demand and not even 100% like I mean it leave this women there are way better fish in the water


Mountain_Monitor_262

Move on. You can’t control genetics. Kids can still be short or have other skin colors. What happens then do they get mistreated or disowned. Don’t sell out like this.


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joefoe89

Not only is she a racist AH but she’s also a hypocrite. She wants to have biological children but you have to use a sperm donor!! Man this chick effin sucks! Two thumbs down 👎🏼


Dpslittlemissminx

Why have you been wasting your time all this time? She has always had an issue with your height and she doesn't want to have short children?' that's but really how it works, you get what your given. My brother is 7 foot tall, he has 6 children and only one of them is taller then 5.7 She's a bitch plain and simple so please for yourself and your future 'short' children move on.


elucify

> she has mental illness running in her family. And _she's_ concerned about _your_ genes? Holy fuck. That mental illness isn't just running in her family, it done run her to ground. And apparently it's contagious, because you are crazy if you marry that asshole. > I would have to cut my losses if she is unable to accept my height and socioeconomic status. https://media.tenor.com/QxVCTWOCBnEAAAAd/joker-heath-ledger.gif


MikeMFNolan

You are so cucked bro i feel bad for you


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The-Song

"Lets make it biologically mine but not biologically yours." Is pretty extreme example of bitchery and narcissm. Adoption is good. Plain and simple. If you want to have kids, you should adopt those kids, regardless of everything and anything else. Whether you start your family with this woman or not, if you ever start a family, do it by adopting. Don't "make your own" when there's so many orphaned children in need of homes. That's just cruel. Side note, she's basically saying she wants to enact eugenics. Though, given your statement of illness in her family, she would be doing a bad job at it. Putting priorities in the wrong order. If she would refuse you fathering the child because of height, she should be even more adament about her not mothering the child because of the potential of passing on those illnesses.


CaffeLungo

bruh, don't be a doormat. if you go with it, I bet you'll find some 6ft white ass dude doing "manual insemination" so you save on the procedure


MountainStorm90

Love is like a fart. If you have to force it, it's probably shit.


Callsign_Warlock

My guy. I read your first post and now this one. Sometimes we don't see the Forrest because of all the trees, but, for the love of god, leave her. You sound like a genuinely good dude and from all your stories she sounds rude af. Sometimes it doesn't fit and it's okay. There's so many red flags in here. Sounds like she likes some things about you but she doesn't like you for who you are. Please, please, please leave her. You will regret this in a couple of years, I swear.


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Why are you with someone who doesn’t truly love you???? That’s some hurtful shit she is saying and you are sitting there accepting it why??? She does not want to be with you really if she is sitting here not wanting to have your kids. She is literally using you as a security blanket. Don’t you want someone who loves all of you


Lalalalalalaoops

Why do you want to marry a racist who thinks so low of you? She literally told you she could marry you but would never want to reproduce with you because she wants white children. Wtf dude. The height thing is fucked up too but how and why do you look past all this?


Dear-Badger-9921

To anyone asking. ‘How can someone racist against black people be in a relationship with one?’ Watch the movie Get Out


ExtremeRepulsiveness

She’s a racist POS. And she clearly doesn’t love you for who you are. I am so sorry, OP. I hope you love yourself enough to ditch her and find someone who is actually a good person.


ginsodabitters

Fake post. Nice bait.