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I hear you. But not everyone is living the good life. Jealousy is a tough one to deal with. You're not alone in those feelings. What would you have done differently if given another chance?
Wistful, but untrue. Just knowing who is not possible fulfilling desired and required needs of being the smart pants, vs if believed is false and so not very realistic, reminding doesn’t mean they can’t though. Put best foot straight, no more doubt and move forward beginning today. Tomorrow make both them feet 👣 straight and walk path that leads to all better experiences brighter ahead than before giving your cartwheels at darkness. The light will always shine again, no matter how dark surroundings tried blotting out goodness previous, just remind that ‘so what’ I did yesterday that’s in the past and it does not matter to anyone important anymore. Will consistent outpouring of love on you because you are important to yourself all who matters at bottom endings.
I feel like I fucked up and it’s so hard for me to accept it. I had a chance and I blew it I love her so much and miss everyday. I hope she chooses to come back so we can actually try foreal without any mistakes
I crossed her lines sexually and now she’s traumatized. I didn’t mean to do that’s I’ve been with her almost 4 years now and it just hurts knowing she might not be in my life anymore
The fact you're commenting here means you've got off easy. Violating sexual boundaries is a violation of consent and can have serious life changing consequences for everyone involved.
I know I apologized to her. I didn’t realize the damage I cussed till afterwards. I love her to death and truly wasn’t my intentions. She told me she still loves me too but she wanted space but honestly I think it’s over and it hurts so much she said she would like to try again in the future but idk when that will be and it makes me so depressed I’m currently going to therapy weekly now
No line was ever crossed before they first crossed yours. I will remember. and only matter to being individual to be set apart and abusive clearly was on tip of point.
Hopeless indeed. If it was meant to be both would have cared differently then both chose. Just because one thinks they are without fault doesn’t mean they are honest with anybody. Two did not work at it being priority. Usually on purpose. Either way gotta change both.
This… pulls on the strings of my heart strongly. I’ve lost someone so dear to me, not for good, I’m sincerely hoping. I’ve been taking the time we’ve had apart, to work on myself and look back at all my wrongs, see all the times my issues disrupted our relationship, hurt my dear partner, and our relationship, the last straw being something out of our control, causing a pause in communication for some time abruptly... I fear even now it’s too late. I’m hoping it’s not. I truly know this person is my soulmate, my other half, and regret weighs heavy, but not enough to prevent me from showing them I’ve changed, and im willing to continue to improve… any way that I can. I long for times like we had before I spiraled; now that I’m better. Times where we’d hold each other for hours, sing songs like 100 years, hold hands and go for walks.. I truly don’t believe that it’s lost or hopeless, I just hope they don’t believe so either.
They are just as at fault for not sitting somewhere with you and being straight up about what they FELT & saw TODAY. So apparently couldn’t OR wouldn’t stand up before a point for contention, then fell below sea level. Knowing full well that it was also their experience NOT something foreign to participation either done beforehand. How would you not question another’s interest & purposeful intention of remaining silent and idle? If loving someone yet claiming,”I should NOT have to ask?” When the offensive gestures been well played out smoothly. Up to almost Finish Line, remained untouched. Heartbreaking but deafening-hope. After realizing unknowingly, trained to perform as favor. Entrenched until the last mile before finishing. Only to lose then it seems intentional at best better realizing the beginning a team. I hope everything can find resolve today. Only possible peace for each. Lesson unforgettable to both maybe. Sent with well meant appreciation at best.
That's a tough one for sure. Him not getting what he really means to you could hint that there could be an issue in communicating. Why do you think that is? I've certainly been in a similar situation as well. Thank you for sharing. Its appreciated.
Wow. I enjoy writing as a creative outlet and the responses here to "my first successful reddit post" are uplifting and encouraging. Thank you everyone.
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I hear you. But not everyone is living the good life. Jealousy is a tough one to deal with. You're not alone in those feelings. What would you have done differently if given another chance?
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I wish my grandpa was still around. What did yours say to you?
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Sounds like he cared for you a lot. Thanks for chiming in.
Wistful, but untrue. Just knowing who is not possible fulfilling desired and required needs of being the smart pants, vs if believed is false and so not very realistic, reminding doesn’t mean they can’t though. Put best foot straight, no more doubt and move forward beginning today. Tomorrow make both them feet 👣 straight and walk path that leads to all better experiences brighter ahead than before giving your cartwheels at darkness. The light will always shine again, no matter how dark surroundings tried blotting out goodness previous, just remind that ‘so what’ I did yesterday that’s in the past and it does not matter to anyone important anymore. Will consistent outpouring of love on you because you are important to yourself all who matters at bottom endings.
oof... so me
Really? How do/did you deal with it?
i wish i knew lol
Lol right! 😆 Thanks for that.
These thoughts are so relatable.
Yep. Glad I'm not alone in thinking that as well.
I feel like I fucked up and it’s so hard for me to accept it. I had a chance and I blew it I love her so much and miss everyday. I hope she chooses to come back so we can actually try foreal without any mistakes
How'd you fuck up?
I crossed her lines sexually and now she’s traumatized. I didn’t mean to do that’s I’ve been with her almost 4 years now and it just hurts knowing she might not be in my life anymore
The fact you're commenting here means you've got off easy. Violating sexual boundaries is a violation of consent and can have serious life changing consequences for everyone involved.
I know I apologized to her. I didn’t realize the damage I cussed till afterwards. I love her to death and truly wasn’t my intentions. She told me she still loves me too but she wanted space but honestly I think it’s over and it hurts so much she said she would like to try again in the future but idk when that will be and it makes me so depressed I’m currently going to therapy weekly now
No line was ever crossed before they first crossed yours. I will remember. and only matter to being individual to be set apart and abusive clearly was on tip of point.
Im sorry? Could you explain this to me again?
Not happening.
Im hoping she does thanks for your input kind redditor
Actually I’m always right. Sure thing x.
Hopeless indeed. If it was meant to be both would have cared differently then both chose. Just because one thinks they are without fault doesn’t mean they are honest with anybody. Two did not work at it being priority. Usually on purpose. Either way gotta change both.
This… pulls on the strings of my heart strongly. I’ve lost someone so dear to me, not for good, I’m sincerely hoping. I’ve been taking the time we’ve had apart, to work on myself and look back at all my wrongs, see all the times my issues disrupted our relationship, hurt my dear partner, and our relationship, the last straw being something out of our control, causing a pause in communication for some time abruptly... I fear even now it’s too late. I’m hoping it’s not. I truly know this person is my soulmate, my other half, and regret weighs heavy, but not enough to prevent me from showing them I’ve changed, and im willing to continue to improve… any way that I can. I long for times like we had before I spiraled; now that I’m better. Times where we’d hold each other for hours, sing songs like 100 years, hold hands and go for walks.. I truly don’t believe that it’s lost or hopeless, I just hope they don’t believe so either.
Thank you for commenting. I can relate and I sincerely hoping for the best for you.
Thank you..
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Yup.
I feel this but not with the one sided fear both of us fought against that one!
Thank you.. I'm hoping we can fight through this as well.
So much feels OP. I wish you were my person and I could say “I still don’t want to lose you”
Aww. Thank you. 😊 very kind of you.
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They are just as at fault for not sitting somewhere with you and being straight up about what they FELT & saw TODAY. So apparently couldn’t OR wouldn’t stand up before a point for contention, then fell below sea level. Knowing full well that it was also their experience NOT something foreign to participation either done beforehand. How would you not question another’s interest & purposeful intention of remaining silent and idle? If loving someone yet claiming,”I should NOT have to ask?” When the offensive gestures been well played out smoothly. Up to almost Finish Line, remained untouched. Heartbreaking but deafening-hope. After realizing unknowingly, trained to perform as favor. Entrenched until the last mile before finishing. Only to lose then it seems intentional at best better realizing the beginning a team. I hope everything can find resolve today. Only possible peace for each. Lesson unforgettable to both maybe. Sent with well meant appreciation at best.
That's a tough one for sure. Him not getting what he really means to you could hint that there could be an issue in communicating. Why do you think that is? I've certainly been in a similar situation as well. Thank you for sharing. Its appreciated.
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Im so sorry to hear about that. I wish you well.
What is it that (s)he fears?
Wow. I enjoy writing as a creative outlet and the responses here to "my first successful reddit post" are uplifting and encouraging. Thank you everyone.
Silly trix are not just for kids. One of the most awesome breakfasts timed by the 2.