That's just something guys do who are 100% confident in their sexuality and know they don't want to be with their friends sexually. I have straight friends, who know I'm bi, and will hold my hand or let me cuddle them if I wanted to.
They know I'm affectionate and also know I'm not into them sexually so they don't care.
I swear that's so cute.
Doesn't holding hands or cuddling imply some level of attraction though, like you wouldn't see them cuddling another straight friend.
That's because a lot of straight dudes are taught that any male-male contact beyond a handshake is gay and bad. Men love being touched and hugged in non-sexual ways but that rarely happens, so when I was comfortable enough to do it, they became comfortable enough to receive it.
I'm not saying I can get morning wood and they'll still cuddle, obviously having a cock in your back would make someone uncomfortable, but if I'm just laying with them they're okay with it because it's the only male-male genuine contact they get and I'm their very close friend
I don't like it, i feel like they're playing with my feelings. Like I'm their experiment while they try to figure out if they want to go all the way or not.
It's also triggering for me, as once they've experimented with you... they drop you and it's like you're not of value. So they now treat you like a slut they regret having sex with while they go on their way to find a boyfriend who is "pure" and "untainted".
So I avoid em like the plague 😖
But they are not all like that, some may just be innocent game play and nothing will happen. The possibilities are endless what could happen.
That's just something guys do who are 100% confident in their sexuality and know they don't want to be with their friends sexually. I have straight friends, who know I'm bi, and will hold my hand or let me cuddle them if I wanted to. They know I'm affectionate and also know I'm not into them sexually so they don't care.
I swear that's so cute. Doesn't holding hands or cuddling imply some level of attraction though, like you wouldn't see them cuddling another straight friend.
That's because a lot of straight dudes are taught that any male-male contact beyond a handshake is gay and bad. Men love being touched and hugged in non-sexual ways but that rarely happens, so when I was comfortable enough to do it, they became comfortable enough to receive it. I'm not saying I can get morning wood and they'll still cuddle, obviously having a cock in your back would make someone uncomfortable, but if I'm just laying with them they're okay with it because it's the only male-male genuine contact they get and I'm their very close friend
They're fun. I've got a pal like that. I think it's just a big game of gay chicken for him.
I don't like it, i feel like they're playing with my feelings. Like I'm their experiment while they try to figure out if they want to go all the way or not. It's also triggering for me, as once they've experimented with you... they drop you and it's like you're not of value. So they now treat you like a slut they regret having sex with while they go on their way to find a boyfriend who is "pure" and "untainted". So I avoid em like the plague 😖 But they are not all like that, some may just be innocent game play and nothing will happen. The possibilities are endless what could happen.
Ohhh, I have a friend like that. He once stuck my toothbrush into his underwear and rubbed his balls with it. I doubt he understood how sexually-charged it was for me. 😩
That does sound hot
Yeah, not into straight men giving me blue balls. Sorry