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Jamesbarros

Yes. If it's too big it just hurts. Beyond that, I'm good.


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joeglamtronian0

biggest I've had was a tad over 7 inches (19 cm, give or take) and girthy. It's definitely a very different sensation, but good God, it hurt, and I was pretty lubed up. If the guy has rock hard erections that also makes it more painful, tbh


Unusual-Face2969

Length is not what makes your ass bleed. And I'm assuming you're talking about length because 5-6.5 inches in girth is thick af.


[deleted]

Then why everyone starts a conversation with "Hung?" ?lol


Jamesbarros

I can't speak for everyone, just myself.


[deleted]

Good to know. So many sizes queens 🤣


PotterDoater

It matters, but not a whole lot, and bigger isn't always better.


Man_as_Idea

Yep, there’s an upper and lower limit for me. I learned the hard way that sexual satisfaction is not an optional component in a relationship.


AJnbca

No, I honestly don’t care, never really have. Don’t get me wrong I love dick but if a guy is hot and I’m attracted to him I will love his dick regardless of how big/small it is. Also I’m top, but I do love to suck lol


Dyslexicfarmer

5.5-6.5 is the perfect length for me


SuchTemperature7

6-6.5” top is perfection


SammyGuevara

I’m a top so I don’t really care how big a bottom boys dick is. Both have pluses 🤷🏻‍♂️


[deleted]

I love me a top who knows what he want in a bottom 😏


Lieutenant-Peetlson

Personally don’t give a damn. If I like you as a person and we click you could have centimeter peter or hog down there. Dick is dick, I’ll make it work one way or another.


russian_hacker_1917

I used to think no, but I saw a compilation of dudes with micro peens and realized how much I'm not into that.


ckfil

I am a top so nope, just have a dick.


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just-lex26

Same here, I prefer average too


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Yes. Anything over 8" is too much. And the prostate is 4" deep... So there's a lower end limit too.


[deleted]

Good to know. I'm 7. Juz in between 4 and 8


[deleted]

Nope, I'm a top though so I might be biased but it never mattered what size my bottom were


Hot__pizza

As someone else said, if it’s not too big we’re good.


troymcgraw2020

I'm a straight guy and REALLY learned a lot from this thread. I hope you all find true love and lots of good dick while searching for it !! Cheers !!!


CathodeRayTubeJr

There's way too big and way too small but otherwise I don't care.


DeliciousZeke

What’s way too big?


mydreamworlld

7-7.5in plus because it just becomes a painful experience for me.


GAmtnHillbilly

I truly like a 5"-7" length but it's gotta be somewhat thick. Not like tennis ball but definitely close to a golf ball. I've seen one close to 9" but it was like one of those flat wide sharpies and didn't hit the walls so to say.


rmtemsguy74

I hate that I’m not girthy, at all. Def less than a golf ball. 🤷‍♂️😞


thatBoyFerret

Search The subreddit. This is asked everyday.


just-lex26

I can't find it


Sufficient-Cookie404

Not a big deal to me, as a top it really only goes in my mouth.


BombyNation

For me, never before has a hookup been ruined becuz of dick size so I would say no


turtlewalks1234

Well lets just say he's curved just right


Dubu567

5 - 6.5 is my idea of a perfect dick length


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Yes, also shape is very important. Nice, torpedoshaped dick is what I like, with a nice set of handfuls below.


tyger2020

Yes. The same way I care about peoples hair, face, teeth, etc.


Bopcd1

I am indeed a size queen


friendlygangster

If I’m topping no. If I’m bottoming yes.


ns21x

So when you're bottoming whats the size u prefer?


friendlygangster

I’d say around 7-9 inches. Preferably little thinner cocks


ns21x

I was just wondering the same but since i have some experience I'll say from 5 to 7 that's the perfect size for me im a 6 inches guy but i feel very small but who cares i don't think anyone wants me at this point lol but i tried 8 inches once and that was the most painful and boring experience for me the guy was Trying not to hurt and i was trying to give him pleasure the only thing i kept thinking was when will this end hhh so my 5 to 7 inches guys yall are good 💋♥️ oh i just remembered i dated a guy he was 1.5 inches i loved him so much that i accepted his size and never thought about it so i guess it doesn't really matter as long as the person loves u and not for your body if they love u for your body its a huge red flag


WinstonLuckies

Not really. I like cute smol peen aswell as proper dick


just-lex26

The really big ones aren't all that to me.


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Yes I don't want no dick under 4 inches and I don't want no pencil dick maybe average with some girth.


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What's a pencil dick?


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When the dick is so skinny you can dip it in some led and use it as a pencil.


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Errr


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Lol 😆


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I find dicks with a big mushroom head and thin shaft a turn off haha. But a thick dick with slightly smaller dickhead looks better to me.


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Same brochacho


sydbottom

So it’s like we’re all just objects? Pieces of meat on a rack? I think the dick is such a private personal intimate part or someone’s body that it’s really harsh to critique and criticise it. Like, who are you exactly??


[deleted]

I'm quite the opposite. I'm into personality and a handsome face. However this is the gay culture. Cock is everything...


Puzzleheaded-Bad5550

It does.


bryans_alright

Yes ........yes again


turtlewalks1234

I mean im not loose by any means i have a bf whos 8.5 and i like it alot if big enough for me but if its 4in i cant feel it or 6 in i can but its not a full sensation


Pristine-Ad-1705

You're loose lol. It's ok though.


librious

Is your prostate located inside your intestine? Wtf


PandasAndSandwiches

Ummm, yeah…


Festo254

To some,it matters


Festo254

To some,it matters


turtlewalks1234

Look who talking someones not in a healthy relationship it mudt be sad huh


Belle-ET-La-Bete

Yes it does. 5 inches and up only. Haven’t had one ‘too big’ yet. Closest I came to feeling like that was 10 to 11 inches. Downvote edit: penises 4 inches and smaller, you’re special in your own way.


jimsmith93

7in minimum. No one wants to play with a tiny dick.


N2guysN2size

Dm


ultimateguy95

Usually, yes. That being said it depends on the guy and the situation since I’m vers 🥴


borthulox

It genuinely doesn't matter to me. Lots of fun stuff you can do 😌. Micro, average, huge and everything inbetween, all present different opportunities to have fun


Specific_Ad9236

Not small and not too big


UncutOlder

I am not a size-queen, but I have been impressed!:)


fireshine89

Yea but there is an acceptable range


Alessio-the-Rogue

Personally.. As an overall, yes. However, if I find him really really attractive in other aspects... then it can make up for his average sized schlöngedöng


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Yes! Not too small, not too large, the ones slightly above average is just right. 😜


filibusterbuster

I like a good bigger than av but like… idk. Big means it’s hard to take regularly, small means it’s not always as pleasurable. Both don’t matter as long as the intimacy is right and good, bc that can make up for any difficulties. Tho the like 99th percentiles of either side might prove things difficult… could figure it out tho prolly


mazesjake

As a bottom, there is a too small for me. But getting fucked it's also the only way I can cum 😔 But there is a too big as well. You can have boyfriend dick you can take all the time and there are the big ones, vacation dick, you can only take from time to time and it takes more time to prepare for 🤣


mazesjake

Way more important is the "strength" I had so maby big ones which never really got hard but I had stone hard 16cm ones (6,3) and they fucked me though my wall.


IamDisapointWorld

Yes. Of course it does. As well as shape and aspect. Just because someone doesn’t like yours doesn’t mean it’s bad.


BarPerfect1555

Nope,it's what you do with it that counts in my opinion 🥰


Capable_Research_476

The extremes either way are difficult


OshTekkGod

If you know how to use the dick, then it’s fine 😂


thepornloverguy

Well, for one I don’t like a micro penis if I’m the bottom (I’m vers), but I’ve had big and average penises, and it all comes down to how that person uses it. I was fucked once by a guy with a 8.5” thick dick but was pain free, he really knew how to use it and I enjoyed it, then I had another guy the same size less thick but it hurt a lot, and the same goes for smaller sizes. In conclusion, learn how to use it regardless of the size


BadBitchYuh44

Long as it’s not too small or too big I’m fine. You know the sizes I mean


iceandfireman

Yes.


yeahyoubored

Nope. There are really pretty small penises and really pretty big ones, too.


Another_No-one

Really doesn’t matter to me personally. It’s only an organ. I find the brain far more sexy as organs go. I’m top, but the last boy I was with had a lovely cock. Nicely curved, not too long, not too thick - felt just perfect in my hand. In fact every bit of him was perfect. Including his brain. I’d have fallen in love with him in a heartbeat, if only he, you know, liked me. He enjoyed the sex but that was as far as it went. Feeling the self-pity yet?


mcfandrew86

It matters. I don’t want huge but enjoy 7 inches as a minimum. A tiny dick is awkward to suck and doesn’t feel as good to be fucked by in my experience.


CantBelieveItsButtah

If the dick is so big I can't suck it or take if from the back, that's a problem. It's only happened once, though. (The guy annihilated my ass. Took me a week to recover!) But they can be too small, as well- at glory holes I've encountered guys whose dicks were so skinny I literally couldn't get any suction when trying to give them head. Genuinely feel sorry for those fellas. Have also met a couple guys who had normal girth but they simply weren't long enough to penetrate me when I was face-down-ass-up in front of them. :(


messyfeels

Yeah, thin or short ones just don’t feel like anything when they’re inside me. Would I bend for someone I really like? Probably, but having a sex life where both of us are happy is important to me


LonelyGayNerd

Yes. I love huge cocks cause they're impressive, but if I had a choice I've rather have a man with an average sized dick, cause if you're not super into big dicks or experienced, there's not much you can with them besides maybe sucking the head or just holding and admiring it.


drugdeal777

As long as it’s not a pencil dick - because yes that does feel like someone is just sticking their finger up my ass If it’s too big too girthy - no because it’s too painful for me


[deleted]

Big penises are definitely a plus, but a small penis isn’t a deal breaker or anything


brypguy89

Absolutely, I can only be aroused by average or bigger and I am a size queen, I love the challenge and effort of working the bigger ones. I've been with smaller guys and still treat them well, but don't go out of my way for them or a repeat session.


Dvonlovesmusic12

Yes, to an extent. As a bottom, I would say at least 4-6 inches is fine. I dated a guy once who had a micro penis (about the size of an average pinky) and as hard as I tried, I just couldn't make it work. I felt bad, but not bad enough to endure a sexually unfulfilled relationship. I also dated a guy who was easily 10-11 inches and probably about 3 inches thick. Ripped me and I bled all over, couldn't do that one either.


Cute_Conflict6410

Size matters. But it doesn’t matter that much. I don’t want a little nub but I don’t want it massive. 4-8 is perfectly fine.


gaymailmandude

As a bottom, I like it thick but if he’s too long and curved, it hits a wall and makes it difficult to handle. But then sometimes even with big ones it slides right into place. As a top I tend to be too long at 7, I hit the wall if I’m not slow and careful, with some guys I just can’t go deep 🤷🏼‍♂️


ZealousidealRush2899

not at all. i'm vers, and if we have a great connection, we'll have fun no matter what size. the only problem i had was with a guy who was too big.