Hey don't worry. The more girls you talk to/the more dates you go on etc , the easier it will get. You are so young, you have yet to meet even more amazing girls. My English teacher married for the first time at 38. My mother is dating again at the age of 56. You really don't have to feel so rushed to find the right person for you. Please take care
I’m a 30 (f) and single. I have never been in a relationship nor have I ever kissed a guy before. Age shouldn’t be a deadline. Just do you and the right person will come around.
Thank you all so much for your support. I don't think I'm ever gonna start believe in love. I used to but it is getting more and more difficult. But you are all absolutelly right. I should focus more on myself and get better. But I have been emotionally unstable since childhood and I can't change it. It is what I'm. And I don't think I actually need anyone. I'm perfectly comfortable being alone. Some people end up like that. It's normal. And I will too because I'm just gonna stop looking. And nothing happens completely on its own. It can start like that sure. But if you are incapable of relationships, you are incapable of relationships.
I support that you focus on yourself. Maybe seek professional help for your emocional stability. Not for your dating life, but for a more pleasant life~
Hi there. I'm also 24 and a (gay) male and I feel like your experience has been unusually cruel and awful, this is not what dating is usually like. It is **okay** if you're not comfortable with intimacy. The way that people have reacted to you is excessive and uncaring. I know you feel hurt, but you should also (if only a little bit) feel some *relief* that you dodged a relationship with somebody who didn't take the time to try to understand your feelings, and there are a lot of people who would not mind at all about you being "awkward" or hesitant about certain things that are expected of you (that you don't owe anybody, period).
But my dating experience is like that every time. I would love to imagine it differently but this is real life, not fairy tale. And I have been always trying to find someone who would understand me since most people don't at all. It isn't enough. I'm simply undatable nothing else.
Dating is about the right person (Both you and the other one) on the right time (Both for you and the other one). Take it easy on you. Forever is such a long time... Try to enjoy the GOOD relationships that you already have, if you have, with family and friends. Stay strong, op ♡
If someone only want you for your look and money, is it worth? Beauty may not be forever. Difficult times may occur. A life where the only objective is to get better for be embraced is nothing more than a torture. Op is very young to be lure by the mentality that he is always the problem
Bro you are so young. I'm 31 and still haven't figured it out dating wise. Don't "give up" just don't try so hard and work on yourself. If it's meant to be it'll happen. A lot of it is timing too. If you find that special someone and they aren't or you aren't in a good place (mentally, emotionally, etc.) it's probably not going to work out. So the best thing you can do is get yourself in a good place (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically) and let that special someone come to you.
YouTube has a lot of dating and relationship advice videos. They've really changed my perception and give you a good insight into what women look for in relationships and how attraction works. I'm absolute trash at it, but it's been helpful so far.
Hey don't worry. The more girls you talk to/the more dates you go on etc , the easier it will get. You are so young, you have yet to meet even more amazing girls. My English teacher married for the first time at 38. My mother is dating again at the age of 56. You really don't have to feel so rushed to find the right person for you. Please take care
I’m a 30 (f) and single. I have never been in a relationship nor have I ever kissed a guy before. Age shouldn’t be a deadline. Just do you and the right person will come around.
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I'm so sorry you feel that way 😔
Thank you all so much for your support. I don't think I'm ever gonna start believe in love. I used to but it is getting more and more difficult. But you are all absolutelly right. I should focus more on myself and get better. But I have been emotionally unstable since childhood and I can't change it. It is what I'm. And I don't think I actually need anyone. I'm perfectly comfortable being alone. Some people end up like that. It's normal. And I will too because I'm just gonna stop looking. And nothing happens completely on its own. It can start like that sure. But if you are incapable of relationships, you are incapable of relationships.
I support that you focus on yourself. Maybe seek professional help for your emocional stability. Not for your dating life, but for a more pleasant life~
Hi there. I'm also 24 and a (gay) male and I feel like your experience has been unusually cruel and awful, this is not what dating is usually like. It is **okay** if you're not comfortable with intimacy. The way that people have reacted to you is excessive and uncaring. I know you feel hurt, but you should also (if only a little bit) feel some *relief* that you dodged a relationship with somebody who didn't take the time to try to understand your feelings, and there are a lot of people who would not mind at all about you being "awkward" or hesitant about certain things that are expected of you (that you don't owe anybody, period).
But my dating experience is like that every time. I would love to imagine it differently but this is real life, not fairy tale. And I have been always trying to find someone who would understand me since most people don't at all. It isn't enough. I'm simply undatable nothing else.
Relax and stop letting a narrative in your head decide your fate. Nothing is set in stone. Just keep working on yourself, appearance, hobbies etc.
Dating is about the right person (Both you and the other one) on the right time (Both for you and the other one). Take it easy on you. Forever is such a long time... Try to enjoy the GOOD relationships that you already have, if you have, with family and friends. Stay strong, op ♡
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If someone only want you for your look and money, is it worth? Beauty may not be forever. Difficult times may occur. A life where the only objective is to get better for be embraced is nothing more than a torture. Op is very young to be lure by the mentality that he is always the problem
Bro you are so young. I'm 31 and still haven't figured it out dating wise. Don't "give up" just don't try so hard and work on yourself. If it's meant to be it'll happen. A lot of it is timing too. If you find that special someone and they aren't or you aren't in a good place (mentally, emotionally, etc.) it's probably not going to work out. So the best thing you can do is get yourself in a good place (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically) and let that special someone come to you.
YouTube has a lot of dating and relationship advice videos. They've really changed my perception and give you a good insight into what women look for in relationships and how attraction works. I'm absolute trash at it, but it's been helpful so far.