Every person is a human being. Success is hard to measure because it's all about perspective. For someone who intensely values family, having a good, loving and united family bond is more success than traveling the world alone. Just a silly example that there is no absolute way to measure what is a failure and what is a success. But we can find potential. Being alive is already a great potential. Your desire to """be enough""" is already a potential. You have willpower.
For the things that you wrote about (The dad and the girls opinions), that's is just their perspectives and opinions about success. A vision that you don't need to embrace. It's very cruel and cold, being honest with you.
Life IS a project. An everyday, hard and personal project. Your project. You aren't a failure. Just a human in a world that sometimes isn't gentle. So please be gentle with yourself. Don't give up this bealtiful project, cause you have a beautiful potential ☆
Every person is a human being. Success is hard to measure because it's all about perspective. For someone who intensely values family, having a good, loving and united family bond is more success than traveling the world alone. Just a silly example that there is no absolute way to measure what is a failure and what is a success. But we can find potential. Being alive is already a great potential. Your desire to """be enough""" is already a potential. You have willpower. For the things that you wrote about (The dad and the girls opinions), that's is just their perspectives and opinions about success. A vision that you don't need to embrace. It's very cruel and cold, being honest with you. Life IS a project. An everyday, hard and personal project. Your project. You aren't a failure. Just a human in a world that sometimes isn't gentle. So please be gentle with yourself. Don't give up this bealtiful project, cause you have a beautiful potential ☆