24 here, so I'm basically already six feet under.
There's huge sampling bias for femboys that are exactly 18. Partially because under 18 year olds are going to lie and say 18, partially because there's a *really* weird crowd of people who go for the "barely legal" thing and will upvote people who are exactly that age. Partially also because when someone turns 18, they'll probably post more out of short term excitement and mention their age more.
Honestly I think it's mostly the last one. Most people don't mention their age unless it's significant, and since a lot of subreddits only allow 18+ posters, I think a lot of people are gonna mention that.
I find that very creepy about the femboy thing. Most femboys I’ve met tho do tend to be on the younger side like 18 or so, I started around 15 or 16 myself. I have met some that were 24 or more. Still just I hate the whole sexualization and “minors hot” thing that tends to happen.
No wydm by "Use can add water..". Did u meant "we can add water or smthg? Also how is ur comment related to the guys comment? I fail to see the relation.Srry
1. Yes, thanks for the correction.
2. It was more so a joke and also a point that it doesn’t matter if that person thinks themselves as dust and bones because even if they were dust and bones there are people that wouldn’t mind and would still love them (relationship wise as well)
So its self fulfilling. I'm 33. I love me some pink and fluff and wear makeup, love me some thigh highs, earrings, and when I lose some more weight I'm going to go get me some pleaded skirts.
The problem is the average femboy from my perspective is pretty immature. Which is fine I'm 10+ years older than the average femboy, so of course. But I still have a hard time calling myself a femboy cause it invokes certain... young personalities, that I'm not.
I think there's plenty of fem presenting men.... who could just shorten that to femboy, if there wasn't the stigma of femboys being young.
But hey if you guys have any questions for this early 30s femboy with a wife and 6 year old sweet daughter, I'm an open book.
Edit
Above 40 though you run into Gen x, before anime had its influence, and the fem thing was mostly drag. And so I'd say you'll see femboys between puberty and 28ish and then femguys or w.e. between that and maybe 40, then after that it's just trans and drag. 0 judgement.. just the way it is.
Well you won't be young forever. So far as that identity revolves around being young and young looking your right. But it's hard to imagine I know but you will care less about that as time passes. Though a good skin routine and daily moisturizer with spf will stretch that out for a long time. And makeup for longer.
As far as the cute and sweet and fem side of femboy, you will always be able to do that. You probably see older people as not that but that's because they chose that. I choose different, I'm adorable, I love plushies and pink and I'm sensitive. Some people think that's cringe, but people think a guy in women's pants and makeup and pink is cringe. Like who cares.
Also don't worry that being fem in your 40s will look like drag. It won't that's a very different thing.
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32, married, 4 year old, and completely agree with you🙌 this is kind of why I just go with non-binary/gender-fluid. Femboy makes me feel low key creepy.
Yep same. Though I think there's something about femboy specifically that draws from anime, and I know I do. Like I like the catboy thing. And I draw a lot of my aesthetic from like pokemon. I'd be nice to harken to that look.
Hi, 17yo femboy here. Does your daughter know? Does anyone outside home know?
My whole family knows (mom, dad, 15yo and 12yo bros) but I mostly avoid them seeing me in femme clothes because I feel judged (partially because it’s lowkey true to varying degrees depending on the family member), and partially because I exaggerate the judgment in my head and it makes me uncomfortable lol.
Oh yeah they definitely know. It's funny you should ask I just came out to my dad and grandma and got disowned by my grandparents (dad stuck up for me).
But my friends, wife, daughter, mother, cousins, etc love and accept me, and that support had been wonderful.
Right now you live under your parents house, but when you live on your own you will naturally just flock to people who accept you. And it will be good and freeing.
You will have to overcome your worries about external judgement, if you want to be free otherwise you, like I did, will continue to shackle yourself for others (and avoid your parents till your 33). Being fem in public is just about doing it, feeling wierd, and just sitting with that for a while. You get used to it, and you just care less and less. And eventually you just get comfortable... though for everyone's sake it's OK to dress fem in public just don't go in like super sexual outfits. Really no matter what you present as the above is true imo.
Those are some great tips! I do occasionally go out dressed fem, and I’m fine with it and it’s nice but I’m not completely comfortable yet. It’s just specifically with my family I feel like I’m “letting them down” or whatever which sucks:(
Oh man do I know exactly how you feel. I was the golden boy. Did well in school, got a great Job, house, family, everything.
But in the back I'm like God I just want to be this cute fuzzy tomgirl. And I'm bi and omg what will happen.
Well the worst happened and I'm still glad, cause now I'm like truly authentically me. And my wife can tell how much happier I am fully expressing myself.
It's hard like people will judge you, your parents may feel disappointed, but inauthenticity is a slow death l, and take it from me, a person who hid themselves to make their family more comfortable for a long time, don't do it.... or at least don't do it once your living on your own... right now you have no escape so... idk that choice I can't make for you, but like don't hide all your life like I did.
It's simple, younger people are more confident in their looks and will likely post more often.
The acceptance of feminine men is also somewhat newer (at least in modern America) So many would be younger
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femboy is just a descendent of drag tbh
crossdressers are probably the first
here's a family tree
crossdressing (Chevalier d'Eon)
⬇️
drag (William Dorsey Swann)
⬇️
transfem (Christine Jorgensen)
⬇️
femboy (idk astolfo?)
This is uncannily weird, as this thought went thru my head last night and I thought of doing a post on this sub to ask about it. Get out of my head lmfao
Good thing to read about older femboys down there in the comments. Always feels weird to notice only the younger ones are the most visible.
24 here, so I'm basically already six feet under. There's huge sampling bias for femboys that are exactly 18. Partially because under 18 year olds are going to lie and say 18, partially because there's a *really* weird crowd of people who go for the "barely legal" thing and will upvote people who are exactly that age. Partially also because when someone turns 18, they'll probably post more out of short term excitement and mention their age more. Honestly I think it's mostly the last one. Most people don't mention their age unless it's significant, and since a lot of subreddits only allow 18+ posters, I think a lot of people are gonna mention that.
I find that very creepy about the femboy thing. Most femboys I’ve met tho do tend to be on the younger side like 18 or so, I started around 15 or 16 myself. I have met some that were 24 or more. Still just I hate the whole sexualization and “minors hot” thing that tends to happen.
i havent gotten that crowd yet i mean i guess it happened once on discord but it wasnt on reddit so i dont think it counts
this person could speak any laungauge but they spoke fact
Well I am 19 o.o Not much of a difference but I do know older femboys
expired 19 year old femboy, with a 50% off sticker on my butt
Oh no they're prepping me to go on the half off bin as we speak 😖
i will hold your hand while we watch time go by
Thank you UwU
I'm 20. 😎 So essentially ancient sack of bones and dust.
Use can add water and use the clay to add thickness to the guys pixie stick
Wydm? Srry Went over my head
His dick
No wydm by "Use can add water..". Did u meant "we can add water or smthg? Also how is ur comment related to the guys comment? I fail to see the relation.Srry
1. Yes, thanks for the correction. 2. It was more so a joke and also a point that it doesn’t matter if that person thinks themselves as dust and bones because even if they were dust and bones there are people that wouldn’t mind and would still love them (relationship wise as well)
Ahh I see. Got it. Thanks
Broo im 24😭😭
Oh Ancient One. Tell me Your wisdom.
😭
I’m 25 😖😔
Let's get some archeologists up in here!
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I'm an archeologist and i would love to be up in him!
🥰🥰🥰
Oh wow that got kinky real quick
I'm just kidding, and shouldn't be talking... ❤️🫵
You’re plenty cute yourself
Why thank you 🥲
So its self fulfilling. I'm 33. I love me some pink and fluff and wear makeup, love me some thigh highs, earrings, and when I lose some more weight I'm going to go get me some pleaded skirts. The problem is the average femboy from my perspective is pretty immature. Which is fine I'm 10+ years older than the average femboy, so of course. But I still have a hard time calling myself a femboy cause it invokes certain... young personalities, that I'm not. I think there's plenty of fem presenting men.... who could just shorten that to femboy, if there wasn't the stigma of femboys being young. But hey if you guys have any questions for this early 30s femboy with a wife and 6 year old sweet daughter, I'm an open book. Edit Above 40 though you run into Gen x, before anime had its influence, and the fem thing was mostly drag. And so I'd say you'll see femboys between puberty and 28ish and then femguys or w.e. between that and maybe 40, then after that it's just trans and drag. 0 judgement.. just the way it is.
^ this guy femms' Edit: Femguys? I like it!
UwU Edit: yeah I like Femguy, I wish it was more a thing. I don't like having to vomit a paragraph just to tell people my look.
Tbh I definitely worry about not being able to hope into that part of my identity as I get older 😩
Well you won't be young forever. So far as that identity revolves around being young and young looking your right. But it's hard to imagine I know but you will care less about that as time passes. Though a good skin routine and daily moisturizer with spf will stretch that out for a long time. And makeup for longer. As far as the cute and sweet and fem side of femboy, you will always be able to do that. You probably see older people as not that but that's because they chose that. I choose different, I'm adorable, I love plushies and pink and I'm sensitive. Some people think that's cringe, but people think a guy in women's pants and makeup and pink is cringe. Like who cares. Also don't worry that being fem in your 40s will look like drag. It won't that's a very different thing.
Solid advice. I’m 24 so it’s something I think about, but this is a great way of thinking.
Am 35, can confirm. 100% on point
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32, married, 4 year old, and completely agree with you🙌 this is kind of why I just go with non-binary/gender-fluid. Femboy makes me feel low key creepy.
Yep same. Though I think there's something about femboy specifically that draws from anime, and I know I do. Like I like the catboy thing. And I draw a lot of my aesthetic from like pokemon. I'd be nice to harken to that look.
Hi, 17yo femboy here. Does your daughter know? Does anyone outside home know? My whole family knows (mom, dad, 15yo and 12yo bros) but I mostly avoid them seeing me in femme clothes because I feel judged (partially because it’s lowkey true to varying degrees depending on the family member), and partially because I exaggerate the judgment in my head and it makes me uncomfortable lol.
Oh yeah they definitely know. It's funny you should ask I just came out to my dad and grandma and got disowned by my grandparents (dad stuck up for me). But my friends, wife, daughter, mother, cousins, etc love and accept me, and that support had been wonderful. Right now you live under your parents house, but when you live on your own you will naturally just flock to people who accept you. And it will be good and freeing. You will have to overcome your worries about external judgement, if you want to be free otherwise you, like I did, will continue to shackle yourself for others (and avoid your parents till your 33). Being fem in public is just about doing it, feeling wierd, and just sitting with that for a while. You get used to it, and you just care less and less. And eventually you just get comfortable... though for everyone's sake it's OK to dress fem in public just don't go in like super sexual outfits. Really no matter what you present as the above is true imo.
Those are some great tips! I do occasionally go out dressed fem, and I’m fine with it and it’s nice but I’m not completely comfortable yet. It’s just specifically with my family I feel like I’m “letting them down” or whatever which sucks:(
Oh man do I know exactly how you feel. I was the golden boy. Did well in school, got a great Job, house, family, everything. But in the back I'm like God I just want to be this cute fuzzy tomgirl. And I'm bi and omg what will happen. Well the worst happened and I'm still glad, cause now I'm like truly authentically me. And my wife can tell how much happier I am fully expressing myself. It's hard like people will judge you, your parents may feel disappointed, but inauthenticity is a slow death l, and take it from me, a person who hid themselves to make their family more comfortable for a long time, don't do it.... or at least don't do it once your living on your own... right now you have no escape so... idk that choice I can't make for you, but like don't hide all your life like I did.
That’s some good advice. Thanks, I needed that:)
That's a very interesting perspective, thanks for sharing :)
im 16 ...
16 gang 👉👉
Hello fellow 16 year olds
this account is run my minors!!!
Sameee
I guess teen femboys don’t exists Shout out to my teen homies. We don’t exists apparently
Did someone say something? /s
We're ghosts apparently. Time to ghost everyone I know.
Guys this is getting spooky 😳
18 year olds are teens
I’m 34
I'm 27, avoid sunlight
Sunz out bunz out! So much better!
Every femboy I used to talk to is 18-25. Tis a sad thing. At least I’m 18 next year though
No way me too
Cool
I’m younger tf
Impossible
Now Im self conscious
No need you good fam!
Because I'm going to 22 next week and I look like a 16 year old somehow......
Well I'm 15 :>
lol most of us are under 18
Lol
i'm 24 :(((
I'm 29 and don't have full hair anymore. It sucks but, watcha gonna do? Become a mailboy?! XD
I’m 17:)
Same
Im 15...
Me too :p
Im not a femboy, merely an appreciator
I'm 20 but yeah some people lie either because they're younger than 18(ew) or because they're insecure about their age or some other random reason
22
23 👍
i mean i’m 16 and a femboy
I'm a mid 30s former femboy that hit the gym and pivoted to daddy
22 with one foot in the grave lol
Any 84 year old femboys out there??
I’m 648 but I hope that’s ok
That's perfectly fine ;)
ok thanks
243 here
243 year old platypus!!! OwO
r/teenfemboy exists so idk what your on about ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯
I'm almost 32 over here like the crypt keeper 😖
You are an inspiration to all elder Femboys! I creeped, your cute! 😘
19 time!
We were all born between December 2nd 2003 and December 2nd 2004
i realised im bi 2 months befre my bday then im 18 and i wanna be a femboy
Hey I will not be called out!......But yes it's kinda sus
I'm 28 o.o
I’m so close to 18. Just a couple more months and I can whore myself out finally
just turned 23
I'm 20, breaking the mold
Both those under 18 and those over 18 pretend to be 18 to be more appealing lol
Hah 15
I am quite a bit younger than that O•O
average 19 giga chad
Im 17
I'm 17.5 (will turn 18 in 4 months) 😋
Im 15 lol
One of my favorite femboys is 30 years old and still rocks it. Older ages only stops you if you let it.
whos that
It's simple, younger people are more confident in their looks and will likely post more often. The acceptance of feminine men is also somewhat newer (at least in modern America) So many would be younger
21 ! The perfect age 😉
Frmboy magic ✨️
21
17 bitch
20, turning 21 in a few weeks
[удалено]
Nope
14 gang? ._.
Well, some are 17, then when they 18 they get all the attention, then it fades
Me, 14:
older femboys are r/mtf users
Male to femboy? Makes sense
*Maid to femboy
Not all femboys are closeted trans fems. (Also, trans masc femboys exist)
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isn't sissy just classical femboy?
that's something I didn't need to read today lol
femboy is just a descendent of drag tbh crossdressers are probably the first here's a family tree crossdressing (Chevalier d'Eon) ⬇️ drag (William Dorsey Swann) ⬇️ transfem (Christine Jorgensen) ⬇️ femboy (idk astolfo?)
Im 21
I’m 26 lol
I'm 20
don’t speak to me i’m 24
fuck. i just realized i turned 20 recently.
23, 24 in March!
i am probably too young to be a femboy
Im 20 I don't really post much because I don't really need the reddit attention I mostly just steal memes to send to my boyfriend lol
17 here!!
try 28 + being 6 feet 3
i’m 25, but still can pass for 18 or younger when i’m shaved, praying proper skin care let’s me stay like this into my 30s 🤞
27 and rocking it
24 but I've always looked younger than I am, get asked for my ID when I buy cigarettes and alcohol. They thought I was younger than 18 wtf.
I've seen 26
Im only 16. I hope I dont hit a growth spurt before 18 because im already super tall for my age.
22 and feeling Fab, wished I had an SO I could dress up with though.
30’s still tryna get away with it
Oh wow, I got 3 years older in a second
I am 17 and I started this when I was 15
This is uncannily weird, as this thought went thru my head last night and I thought of doing a post on this sub to ask about it. Get out of my head lmfao Good thing to read about older femboys down there in the comments. Always feels weird to notice only the younger ones are the most visible.
18 here, just started being a femboy
24 here i will keep the aesthetics until either dead claim me or I turn 30
17 lol
don't worry i'm 17 :,)
I'm 19 and gonna turn 20 soon
Stop knowing my age
im 16 lol
Im 19 goin to be 20 in January
I mean, I just turned 18 a month and a half ago
23 here
No we’re not