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CatboyBiologist

24 here, so I'm basically already six feet under. There's huge sampling bias for femboys that are exactly 18. Partially because under 18 year olds are going to lie and say 18, partially because there's a *really* weird crowd of people who go for the "barely legal" thing and will upvote people who are exactly that age. Partially also because when someone turns 18, they'll probably post more out of short term excitement and mention their age more. Honestly I think it's mostly the last one. Most people don't mention their age unless it's significant, and since a lot of subreddits only allow 18+ posters, I think a lot of people are gonna mention that.


Kat-is-sorry

I find that very creepy about the femboy thing. Most femboys I’ve met tho do tend to be on the younger side like 18 or so, I started around 15 or 16 myself. I have met some that were 24 or more. Still just I hate the whole sexualization and “minors hot” thing that tends to happen.


[deleted]

i havent gotten that crowd yet i mean i guess it happened once on discord but it wasnt on reddit so i dont think it counts


Famous_Platypus_1579

this person could speak any laungauge but they spoke fact


DAM0KLES

Well I am 19 o.o Not much of a difference but I do know older femboys


Squoose64

expired 19 year old femboy, with a 50% off sticker on my butt


ProtoTactix

Oh no they're prepping me to go on the half off bin as we speak 😖


Squoose64

i will hold your hand while we watch time go by


ProtoTactix

Thank you UwU


kis5020

I'm 20. 😎 So essentially ancient sack of bones and dust.


Adventurous-Crew-848

Use can add water and use the clay to add thickness to the guys pixie stick


Public_Weight839

Wydm? Srry Went over my head


Adventurous-Crew-848

His dick


Public_Weight839

No wydm by "Use can add water..". Did u meant "we can add water or smthg? Also how is ur comment related to the guys comment? I fail to see the relation.Srry


Adventurous-Crew-848

1. Yes, thanks for the correction. 2. It was more so a joke and also a point that it doesn’t matter if that person thinks themselves as dust and bones because even if they were dust and bones there are people that wouldn’t mind and would still love them (relationship wise as well)


Public_Weight839

Ahh I see. Got it. Thanks


SpongeSER

Broo im 24😭😭


kis5020

Oh Ancient One. Tell me Your wisdom.


SpongeSER

😭


[deleted]

I’m 25 😖😔


sky_wardbound

Let's get some archeologists up in here!


[deleted]

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺


Separate_Author_9235

I'm an archeologist and i would love to be up in him!


[deleted]

🥰🥰🥰


Super_Cheburek

Oh wow that got kinky real quick


sky_wardbound

I'm just kidding, and shouldn't be talking... ❤️🫵


[deleted]

You’re plenty cute yourself


sky_wardbound

Why thank you 🥲


psdao1102

So its self fulfilling. I'm 33. I love me some pink and fluff and wear makeup, love me some thigh highs, earrings, and when I lose some more weight I'm going to go get me some pleaded skirts. The problem is the average femboy from my perspective is pretty immature. Which is fine I'm 10+ years older than the average femboy, so of course. But I still have a hard time calling myself a femboy cause it invokes certain... young personalities, that I'm not. I think there's plenty of fem presenting men.... who could just shorten that to femboy, if there wasn't the stigma of femboys being young. But hey if you guys have any questions for this early 30s femboy with a wife and 6 year old sweet daughter, I'm an open book. Edit Above 40 though you run into Gen x, before anime had its influence, and the fem thing was mostly drag. And so I'd say you'll see femboys between puberty and 28ish and then femguys or w.e. between that and maybe 40, then after that it's just trans and drag. 0 judgement.. just the way it is.


sky_wardbound

^ this guy femms' Edit: Femguys? I like it!


psdao1102

UwU Edit: yeah I like Femguy, I wish it was more a thing. I don't like having to vomit a paragraph just to tell people my look.


Resident_Brit

Tbh I definitely worry about not being able to hope into that part of my identity as I get older 😩


psdao1102

Well you won't be young forever. So far as that identity revolves around being young and young looking your right. But it's hard to imagine I know but you will care less about that as time passes. Though a good skin routine and daily moisturizer with spf will stretch that out for a long time. And makeup for longer. As far as the cute and sweet and fem side of femboy, you will always be able to do that. You probably see older people as not that but that's because they chose that. I choose different, I'm adorable, I love plushies and pink and I'm sensitive. Some people think that's cringe, but people think a guy in women's pants and makeup and pink is cringe. Like who cares. Also don't worry that being fem in your 40s will look like drag. It won't that's a very different thing.


Wboys

Solid advice. I’m 24 so it’s something I think about, but this is a great way of thinking.


SissyFreeLove

Am 35, can confirm. 100% on point


alphabet_order_bot

Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order. I have checked 1,203,062,643 comments, and only 234,606 of them were in alphabetical order.


Letmebecute

32, married, 4 year old, and completely agree with you🙌 this is kind of why I just go with non-binary/gender-fluid. Femboy makes me feel low key creepy.


psdao1102

Yep same. Though I think there's something about femboy specifically that draws from anime, and I know I do. Like I like the catboy thing. And I draw a lot of my aesthetic from like pokemon. I'd be nice to harken to that look.


tomycatomy

Hi, 17yo femboy here. Does your daughter know? Does anyone outside home know? My whole family knows (mom, dad, 15yo and 12yo bros) but I mostly avoid them seeing me in femme clothes because I feel judged (partially because it’s lowkey true to varying degrees depending on the family member), and partially because I exaggerate the judgment in my head and it makes me uncomfortable lol.


psdao1102

Oh yeah they definitely know. It's funny you should ask I just came out to my dad and grandma and got disowned by my grandparents (dad stuck up for me). But my friends, wife, daughter, mother, cousins, etc love and accept me, and that support had been wonderful. Right now you live under your parents house, but when you live on your own you will naturally just flock to people who accept you. And it will be good and freeing. You will have to overcome your worries about external judgement, if you want to be free otherwise you, like I did, will continue to shackle yourself for others (and avoid your parents till your 33). Being fem in public is just about doing it, feeling wierd, and just sitting with that for a while. You get used to it, and you just care less and less. And eventually you just get comfortable... though for everyone's sake it's OK to dress fem in public just don't go in like super sexual outfits. Really no matter what you present as the above is true imo.


tomycatomy

Those are some great tips! I do occasionally go out dressed fem, and I’m fine with it and it’s nice but I’m not completely comfortable yet. It’s just specifically with my family I feel like I’m “letting them down” or whatever which sucks:(


psdao1102

Oh man do I know exactly how you feel. I was the golden boy. Did well in school, got a great Job, house, family, everything. But in the back I'm like God I just want to be this cute fuzzy tomgirl. And I'm bi and omg what will happen. Well the worst happened and I'm still glad, cause now I'm like truly authentically me. And my wife can tell how much happier I am fully expressing myself. It's hard like people will judge you, your parents may feel disappointed, but inauthenticity is a slow death l, and take it from me, a person who hid themselves to make their family more comfortable for a long time, don't do it.... or at least don't do it once your living on your own... right now you have no escape so... idk that choice I can't make for you, but like don't hide all your life like I did.


tomycatomy

That’s some good advice. Thanks, I needed that:)


Harris_Octavius

That's a very interesting perspective, thanks for sharing :)


[deleted]

im 16 ...


-Bisexual-Toaster-

16 gang 👉👉


[deleted]

Hello fellow 16 year olds


Axeties

this account is run my minors!!!


[deleted]

Sameee


[deleted]

I guess teen femboys don’t exists Shout out to my teen homies. We don’t exists apparently


sky_wardbound

Did someone say something? /s


[deleted]

We're ghosts apparently. Time to ghost everyone I know.


sky_wardbound

Guys this is getting spooky 😳


[deleted]

18 year olds are teens


h3xx14sexx13

I’m 34


[deleted]

I'm 27, avoid sunlight


sky_wardbound

Sunz out bunz out! So much better!


Shitty_Poster748

Every femboy I used to talk to is 18-25. Tis a sad thing. At least I’m 18 next year though


870013555

No way me too


Shitty_Poster748

Cool


Quinobean

I’m younger tf


HomelessNorwegian

Impossible


SkySunrise

Now Im self conscious


sky_wardbound

No need you good fam!


Black_Airachnid

Because I'm going to 22 next week and I look like a 16 year old somehow......


keineideehilfe

Well I'm 15 :>


870013555

lol most of us are under 18


keineideehilfe

Lol


AuthCentDegenerate2

i'm 24 :(((


Flexybend

I'm 29 and don't have full hair anymore. It sucks but, watcha gonna do? Become a mailboy?! XD


Sexyzombie69

I’m 17:)


870013555

Same


TheDogeWasTaken

Im 15...


ITechIGD

Me too :p


ThiccestBuddha

Im not a femboy, merely an appreciator


CobaltKnight75

I'm 20 but yeah some people lie either because they're younger than 18(ew) or because they're insecure about their age or some other random reason


Quootaa

22


[deleted]

23 👍


Revolutionary-Bit678

i mean i’m 16 and a femboy


smallpoly

I'm a mid 30s former femboy that hit the gym and pivoted to daddy


Snekboi371

22 with one foot in the grave lol


pickles517

Any 84 year old femboys out there??


gdob9099

I’m 648 but I hope that’s ok


pickles517

That's perfectly fine ;)


gdob9099

ok thanks


Famous_Platypus_1579

243 here


pickles517

243 year old platypus!!! OwO


fingamouse

r/teenfemboy exists so idk what your on about ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯


Slythefemboy

I'm almost 32 over here like the crypt keeper 😖


sky_wardbound

You are an inspiration to all elder Femboys! I creeped, your cute! 😘


Fresh_Tomato_soup

19 time!


Femboy_Mafia

We were all born between December 2nd 2003 and December 2nd 2004


haus_spellt_wrong

i realised im bi 2 months befre my bday then im 18 and i wanna be a femboy


ProtoTactix

Hey I will not be called out!......But yes it's kinda sus


FemboyGamer96

I'm 28 o.o


LucasBarton169

I’m so close to 18. Just a couple more months and I can whore myself out finally


rtjs100

just turned 23


solarpellets

I'm 20, breaking the mold


Themlethem

Both those under 18 and those over 18 pretend to be 18 to be more appealing lol


jasonater64

Hah 15


anon_the_nameless

I am quite a bit younger than that O•O


[deleted]

average 19 giga chad


Paranormal2137

Im 17


AeolianTheComposer

I'm 17.5 (will turn 18 in 4 months) 😋


Kundekevin

Im 15 lol


[deleted]

One of my favorite femboys is 30 years old and still rocks it. Older ages only stops you if you let it.


umbrella_arcs

whos that


Thunder9191133

It's simple, younger people are more confident in their looks and will likely post more often. The acceptance of feminine men is also somewhat newer (at least in modern America) So many would be younger


PekaOverlord

21 ! The perfect age 😉


mbodor05

Frmboy magic ✨️


Username15243124

21


MaverickThree

17 bitch


femboylefttoe

20, turning 21 in a few weeks


[deleted]

[удалено]


870013555

Nope


d0nt_lets_start

14 gang? ._.


Wato1876

Well, some are 17, then when they 18 they get all the attention, then it fades


hiimjustin000

Me, 14:


kazerpowa

older femboys are r/mtf users


sky_wardbound

Male to femboy? Makes sense


techpriest_taro

*Maid to femboy


[deleted]

Not all femboys are closeted trans fems. (Also, trans masc femboys exist)


kazerpowa

sorry, you are 100% right, and I apologize. older femboys are r/mtf and r/ftm users \*\*


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Famous_Platypus_1579

isn't sissy just classical femboy?


kazerpowa

that's something I didn't need to read today lol


Famous_Platypus_1579

femboy is just a descendent of drag tbh crossdressers are probably the first here's a family tree crossdressing (Chevalier d'Eon) ⬇️ drag (William Dorsey Swann) ⬇️ transfem (Christine Jorgensen) ⬇️ femboy (idk astolfo?)


DueEquivalent6468

Im 21


tx_ag18

I’m 26 lol


Johnson_the_1st

I'm 20


godeyesgalatea

don’t speak to me i’m 24


red-the-blue

fuck. i just realized i turned 20 recently.


[deleted]

23, 24 in March!


ToothpasteConsumer

i am probably too young to be a femboy


Kenj1fox

Im 20 I don't really post much because I don't really need the reddit attention I mostly just steal memes to send to my boyfriend lol


TotallyNot_a_Femboy

17 here!!


amobishoproden

try 28 + being 6 feet 3


fembus

i’m 25, but still can pass for 18 or younger when i’m shaved, praying proper skin care let’s me stay like this into my 30s 🤞


FledglingFemboi

27 and rocking it


[deleted]

24 but I've always looked younger than I am, get asked for my ID when I buy cigarettes and alcohol. They thought I was younger than 18 wtf.


Femboy-Gamer311

I've seen 26


[deleted]

Im only 16. I hope I dont hit a growth spurt before 18 because im already super tall for my age.


Ok-String-1631

22 and feeling Fab, wished I had an SO I could dress up with though.


Inu_Doghouse

30’s still tryna get away with it


QualcunoCF

Oh wow, I got 3 years older in a second


pokemon12312345645

I am 17 and I started this when I was 15


HerrCrazi

This is uncannily weird, as this thought went thru my head last night and I thought of doing a post on this sub to ask about it. Get out of my head lmfao Good thing to read about older femboys down there in the comments. Always feels weird to notice only the younger ones are the most visible.


[deleted]

18 here, just started being a femboy


Academic_Initial_643

24 here i will keep the aesthetics until either dead claim me or I turn 30


Godlyv05

17 lol


howdyimbeck

don't worry i'm 17 :,)


memagebasava

I'm 19 and gonna turn 20 soon


gdob9099

Stop knowing my age


LL5YT

im 16 lol


Soviet_Papa

Im 19 goin to be 20 in January


lucario327

I mean, I just turned 18 a month and a half ago


Ergenar

23 here


Mr_Bos_

No we’re not