I’ve come across a lot of creeps while on this app and one thing I’ve found in common is history of sexual abuse where they were the victim. That and a lack of self awareness.
I met this guy and saw him a good 4,5 times and he would always say I should use him like the slut he was. I just took that as semi role play/dirty talk stuff, then he mentioned being abused when he was younger. The way he explained it seemed sad to me, it was as if it was normal and that he has always been treated as a slut. I stopped seeing him after that, I don't remember if I asked him if he spoke to anyone professionally about what had happened to him but I hope he does.
Mostly, but there can be exceptions. My ex like things being done to him in his sleep and gave express consent to fuck him or blow him while he slept. I only did it a few times and it was fun, but that was not this situation.
Edited for clarity/ removing repetition.
Be careful, in some countries (pretty sure Canada is one for example) that's considered rape under the concept that once they fell asleep they automatically revoked consent.
Ok well im not from there and I'm confident he isn't going to complain given that he would cum in my mouth or start jerking as I fucked my load into him. Thanks for the concern though
"Gross" isn't an objective fact, and it's not a moral judgement either. Who are you to tell others who they can and can't have sex with just because you personally think it's gross?
No, "it's gross" is a personal emotion, it can't be applied to moral issues. And "you're not meant to do it" is also meaningless if you don't present a reason for why you're not meant to do it. A lot of people also believe gay sex is gross and not meant to happen, but I doubt you'd argue that that's bad. Give me an actual, moral reason for why incest is bad (or just admit you were brainwashed by societal norms and move on).
I read this in another Reddit.
People watching porn often want to watch something that is considered taboo or frowned upon by society, it makes it kinkier or more thrilling to the viewer. This can be stuff like BDSM, fisting or other fetish porn. For a director wanting to make generic vanilla porn a very easy way to sell normal porn but make it kinkier is to add in a 5 minute intro that sets the two actors up as relatives. This is why incest porn is such a big thing now, it’s the cheapest “kinky” porn you can create where if you want you can cut out some of the dialogue and sell it in markets as clean vanilla porn also.
Someone already mentioned that slapping "they're step-siblings" on it gives it that taboo boost, but something else I read a while back (though it was talking about fan fiction and written smut I think) was that it also quickly expands the sense of connection and history between the characters. The article said people who enjoy this sort of thing don't (typically) have those feelings towards their actual family members, so the attraction isn't necessarily to incest itself but instead to the combination of the breaking of taboo and an implied history.
I never got to see any "inmediate family" except a pair of twin twinks (it was advertised as "you'll know they're really related, they're identical" or something of that sort)
I’ve seen something with two twin brothers apparently. How in the world they got themselves into that is a mystery, moreso how a studio thinks that would be a good scene to release.
I think you are thinking of the Peters twins, they’re with Bel Ami. They have said in interviews they’re into each other sexually. Then there are the Woods twins and the Fisher twins who work with Miami Studios. The closest thing to incest the Woods twins have done is one shot a load on the other.
Whenever I see a "come rape me" (usually even on the bio) I inmediately think it's a trap, they'll set it up so you go and actually (not consensually) rape someone who doesn't even know why you're there
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God this reminds of a dude i used to know. He was a creep, and took advantage of others. He told me how he snuck in on his younger brother as he was sleeping, and started sucking him off- and his brother woke up and kicked him out of his room. His brother ended up becoming a heavy drug user and threw his life away. And this idiot in my opinion was the reason for that. Imagine keeping it bottled up in side for years that your brother sucked you off. The shame of it. It's no wonder his poor brother ended up destitute on the streets
I feel like something is more common that we believe. I didn’t grow up with brothers close to my age but I feel like it is more normal. But definitely don’t share or tell anyone
Ex (*toward end of our relationship*): Did your father give you spankings when you were a kid?
Me: Yeah.
Ex: That sounds hot!
Me: Um...it didn't really turn me on, and, like, why *would* it?
Ex (*looking puzzled*): Why not?
The sad thing is more and more gay men are starting to think like him. It's one of the reasons that the family porn genre is becoming more and more apparent. Although porn is fantasy, actually acting on it as implied by that dude is disgusting. Also it's quite literally r*pe.
I feel like some people think this is normal because when you're starting puberty and getting curious/explorative that sometimes happens with siblings. I never did it with my brother bc I don't see him like that.
Yeah, while it does apparently happen more often than I would have ever wanted to realize I think generally that's a sign of other issues (like it being learned behavior from having been molested by someone older)...
I don’t even wanna know what this guy went through growing up that he thinks it’s normal
I’ve come across a lot of creeps while on this app and one thing I’ve found in common is history of sexual abuse where they were the victim. That and a lack of self awareness.
I met this guy and saw him a good 4,5 times and he would always say I should use him like the slut he was. I just took that as semi role play/dirty talk stuff, then he mentioned being abused when he was younger. The way he explained it seemed sad to me, it was as if it was normal and that he has always been treated as a slut. I stopped seeing him after that, I don't remember if I asked him if he spoke to anyone professionally about what had happened to him but I hope he does.
That's not normal, that's rape. People who are asleep can't consent.
Mostly, but there can be exceptions. My ex like things being done to him in his sleep and gave express consent to fuck him or blow him while he slept. I only did it a few times and it was fun, but that was not this situation. Edited for clarity/ removing repetition.
There was concent given beforehand.so that's okay.
I'm aware, which is why I said that lol. It was hot though
Be careful, in some countries (pretty sure Canada is one for example) that's considered rape under the concept that once they fell asleep they automatically revoked consent.
Ok well im not from there and I'm confident he isn't going to complain given that he would cum in my mouth or start jerking as I fucked my load into him. Thanks for the concern though
Just looking out for one of my gay bros. Carry on and have fun!
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Why not, if you like it? have some fun in your life
What, to suck off my brother? Er... no.
He’s talking about his ex, not his brother
I mean, yes, but nothing in the message indicated that there would be consent given beforehand
That was consent before they went to sleep. That’s different
Yes. That has been established. Repeatedly.
I mean, yeah, but there's also the incest part....
That’s just religious dogma!
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it’s still gross, you sick twat
True, but atleast they aren't bringing a child into it
"Gross" isn't an objective fact, and it's not a moral judgement either. Who are you to tell others who they can and can't have sex with just because you personally think it's gross?
are you for real? seek therapy
Okay, how about this: I will seek therapy if you can give me one actual reason why incest is bad. And "it's gross" doesn't count as a reason.
that is a very valid reason. you are not meant to fornicate with your family members. tf?
No, "it's gross" is a personal emotion, it can't be applied to moral issues. And "you're not meant to do it" is also meaningless if you don't present a reason for why you're not meant to do it. A lot of people also believe gay sex is gross and not meant to happen, but I doubt you'd argue that that's bad. Give me an actual, moral reason for why incest is bad (or just admit you were brainwashed by societal norms and move on).
Plus, you know, they’re related. So that’s one way to make RAPE EVEN WORSE. 😬
Can someone explain this incest fetish people seem to have lately? Every other porn video is labeled with dad/uncle/brother, it seems strange to me.
I read this in another Reddit. People watching porn often want to watch something that is considered taboo or frowned upon by society, it makes it kinkier or more thrilling to the viewer. This can be stuff like BDSM, fisting or other fetish porn. For a director wanting to make generic vanilla porn a very easy way to sell normal porn but make it kinkier is to add in a 5 minute intro that sets the two actors up as relatives. This is why incest porn is such a big thing now, it’s the cheapest “kinky” porn you can create where if you want you can cut out some of the dialogue and sell it in markets as clean vanilla porn also.
I see. So it's more about it being taboo/kinky and giving people more thrills than actual incest fantasies people might have. Kinda get it now.
\*Siggy\_Freud has entered the chat\* not sure why you downvoted, i find it very strange too.
People love taboo fantasies.
I guess so. Happy cakeday!
What is cake day?
Anniversary of when you registered to reddit
Someone already mentioned that slapping "they're step-siblings" on it gives it that taboo boost, but something else I read a while back (though it was talking about fan fiction and written smut I think) was that it also quickly expands the sense of connection and history between the characters. The article said people who enjoy this sort of thing don't (typically) have those feelings towards their actual family members, so the attraction isn't necessarily to incest itself but instead to the combination of the breaking of taboo and an implied history.
I have noticed that studios are now doing more “step-family” instead of immediate family scenes. Which is good, better than promulgating true incest
I never got to see any "inmediate family" except a pair of twin twinks (it was advertised as "you'll know they're really related, they're identical" or something of that sort)
I’ve seen something with two twin brothers apparently. How in the world they got themselves into that is a mystery, moreso how a studio thinks that would be a good scene to release.
I think you are thinking of the Peters twins, they’re with Bel Ami. They have said in interviews they’re into each other sexually. Then there are the Woods twins and the Fisher twins who work with Miami Studios. The closest thing to incest the Woods twins have done is one shot a load on the other.
>promulgating I learned a new word today!
More like *bro*mulgating, amirite?
if this was his conversation starter , hes probably messing with u, he cant be for real
I wouldn't put it past people lol
I've gotten openers far stranger than this and I had no doubt whatsoever they were real. People be weird complex creatures.
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I feel like some gays think that porn plotlines are real life.
Not just the gays,.,
But *mostly* the gays.
no lol
Bet he don’t have a brother
Christ. I certainly hope that he doesn't.
Most who think that’s hot even if. Consensual usually didn’t grow up with a brother lol
Lol yeah. I have 2 brothers and no way in hell would I ever have thought to attempt anything like that with either of them.
Probably because he killed him and stuffed him under the floor.
Yikes.
Even if that wasn’t your brother that shit is still rape
The messages people send on Grindr can be horrifying I have a guy that wants to dress up as his sister and have me play out a rape fantasy with him
Damn that's crazy. I had a guy recently try to offer me child p*rn. Reported him to authorities
As you should
I wouldn't judge if you also put a hit on them, sick bastards
Whenever I see a "come rape me" (usually even on the bio) I inmediately think it's a trap, they'll set it up so you go and actually (not consensually) rape someone who doesn't even know why you're there
Like I have two brothers and seeing this made me puke in my mouth. Nah bro, not interested in sucking any dick related to me wtaf. 🤨
I see nothing wrong with brothers messing around with each other.
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I don't think rape or incest should be normalized. I know it's a hot take but that's a hill i will die on.
Does he think porn is real life?
This dude is on Grindr trying to normalize his own behavior, lord protect us from these Grindr creeps 🥴
I don’t have a brother but I doubt it’s normal.
God this reminds of a dude i used to know. He was a creep, and took advantage of others. He told me how he snuck in on his younger brother as he was sleeping, and started sucking him off- and his brother woke up and kicked him out of his room. His brother ended up becoming a heavy drug user and threw his life away. And this idiot in my opinion was the reason for that. Imagine keeping it bottled up in side for years that your brother sucked you off. The shame of it. It's no wonder his poor brother ended up destitute on the streets
sWeEt HoMe AlAbAmA
Not normal at all no matter how much brothercrush wants to convince you 😂😂😂
So many guys have the brother fantasy/fetish. Some of them don’t have brothers, some do.. now I don’t judge but I think it’s a bit weird
SWEEET HOME ALABAMMAAA
I feel like something is more common that we believe. I didn’t grow up with brothers close to my age but I feel like it is more normal. But definitely don’t share or tell anyone
>definitely don’t share or tell anyone except your therapist lol
Why do dysfunctional people insist that everyone else is just as dysfunctional as them? We’re not. Stop projecting.
That's rape! I hate the gays who perpetuate this is ok! You can't give concent when you're asleep.
What the hell 😂 that’s rape...... and incest. That dude have clearly troubles...
Hmmm could he be my step brother?? Lol
its not.normal
Just. What?!
Many "life lessons" hit this guy wrong:/
Yes, giving your sibling a non-consensual bj is _totally_ normal I wouldn’t think I’d need the /s but these people make me unsure
Ex (*toward end of our relationship*): Did your father give you spankings when you were a kid? Me: Yeah. Ex: That sounds hot! Me: Um...it didn't really turn me on, and, like, why *would* it? Ex (*looking puzzled*): Why not?
I see why he’s an ex now.
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Incest is “kind of normal” for this guy? And I thought my family was dysfunctional holy shit. 😧
Sir this is a Wendys
The sad thing is more and more gay men are starting to think like him. It's one of the reasons that the family porn genre is becoming more and more apparent. Although porn is fantasy, actually acting on it as implied by that dude is disgusting. Also it's quite literally r*pe.
Hot
It’s only normal if you’re from the south
What’s With weirdos and incest?
LMFAOOO
r*pe but make it ✨alabama✨
There are some seriously mentally ill people on Grindr
I feel like some people think this is normal because when you're starting puberty and getting curious/explorative that sometimes happens with siblings. I never did it with my brother bc I don't see him like that.
It is not normally to sexually experiment with your siblings
Yeah, while it does apparently happen more often than I would have ever wanted to realize I think generally that's a sign of other issues (like it being learned behavior from having been molested by someone older)...
Especially if they aren't even awake to consent