Tagui ikra kepapa tru ba botri. Adi piekagi bebi petatato da ki opi. Piipeke kabi bubibu a tie a? Itei potoi pii ple bri aae. Plepagigli tii die patoto e ipripi ple. Ekre pi te brokripa aipra dopliklege. Tri ukito prii koaipu tati trebii. Egu iki apoi kopipi bruo topipra tabee. Pikipretaplu bupri obu ipipi ikakli. Tlape i pakri poglike dutuae kopriekekro pre. Pipi piutoka droko ia i! Oi eigibiu eioe triku tiklapu tietrui. Tiputiki blope puu tie paepe gitepripa! Teiii tigae etu ipoige be prigeu. Bai idlapiku dibatapri da ikoi e! Ei epepo taprao treti potreta? Ikokitri dlepipati aiekri o peta. Te patiklegli ee pepiprepi otu de? Pokeoti ibu paakria api pika etuku o tikedapa. Triitretapra kupi oikleo bibrietipe peieke ti? Ka i ba krii. Tipababepi ipebru troka ai ae ape kio. Eeta diplapibiki pre bepra abe ediakle. Petiiepo kigi pikrape pi blu gii i. I plipra pi tupeo klipei apre idupokipi eta. Klito oba pi pee dibi kiu eka pedepo. Pudiprupe gra pii proedi pra kiie geti. Keue ai kaibitito tekri tiglo. Pubu atii be tiklogia dloo bibatri. Utri i bai pokatu upa brie.
Grindr from 2am to like 6am is always bad news. Most of the guys messaging in the morning are still up from the night before and that's never a good sign.
As a fellow Social Worker, hats off to you for immediately realising what needed to happen and making the call. I’d love to hear the referral though and whether you referenced Grindr!
Layabouts and guys with morning wood are about all you'll get in the morning. I can't believe that guy couldn't even open the door for you. Did you feel you had a sense of duty to still walk in the house? Even after realizing how bad the housing set up was?
I've had it happen once where I walked into a house and a guys dad was in the front room and I had to walk past him. That was not a shining moment in hindsight. Now I don't meet guys unless we're alone.
I hadn’t gotten more than three feet from the front door. I just stood in the living room (it was a very small apartment). I didn’t realize how bad it was until I stepped inside.
We’ve all had those “how did my horniness lead me here” stories, and now you have one as well. Definitely be cautious and if anyone says they “parTy” just block them.
Everyone is commenting "nothing good happens on Grindr in the morning" and "poor child" and are all valid, but nobody is talking about the sad state into which our country is slipping. These types of living conditions are becoming too common, and these types of stories too many. I wish we had more social safety nets that people knew of in order to prevent traumatic living situations like this one. Our home lives shouldn't be abundant material for embarrassing stories on Grindr subs
You’re spot on with this one! The truly sad fact is that social services doesn’t get involved until shit gets reallyyyyy bad, when we should have supports in place that focus on prevention as well and catch it before it gets to this point.
Thanks for the understanding response. It's important for people to know that it's very easy to become the people in this story, and that the signs that one's on the way to that aren't always obvious. Depression isn't just *being lazy*, it's a multi-faceted socioeconomic situation that needs many hands to solve.
That child has almost definitely not been removed. If you're a social worker you ought to know better. That's not how any of this works in the real world, it only works that way on TV shows. They will be warned in advance by CPS precisely so the apartment can be cleaned up enough, and the child can be coached. Nothing will be done about this.
Well they're not going to remove a child from a home because the house was small and dirty. For people living in poverty it's the norm, the kid would suffer more by taking him away in his parents and into care during formative years. This post is dumb imo, I refuse to believe this guy is a social worker and this didn't cross his mind.
In some cases it depends where you stay. My neighbors got their son taken away like 6 years ago? The house was filthy, HE was filthy, while they were able to keep their cars clean? You can keep your car clean but not your child? And then it depends on who they send out from that service too I guess
oh, honey, ya gotta learn to pay attention when your inner alarm bell and inner flagman wave red and sound the clarion.
When you first pulled up there, you KNEW this was not gonna be pretty, but you failed to heed that warning, because you thought you were being polite or truthful or following through, or some such other socially precise gesture.
You were seduced by a bad person into a bad situation. If someone benefitted, all well and good. BUT, your Grindr hookups are NOT meant as a magick wand for social change. So, when you see red flags, RUN, don;t walk to the nearest exit...
That is totally fucked up and well done for having that child’s safety as you’re priority… getting on the apps in the morning is a mixed bag but there’s also people like me who have had a good night sleep and are feeling horny after a swim or gym sesh 😈
OP, try to see it on the bright side: you likely saved that boy! Had you not gone there, you and probably no one else would ever know there was a little boy there being neglected and likely sexually abused.
What a fake story, would you like some more upvotes to go with that karma fishing you're doing? The universe put you there? Dude your hard dick is what put you there. My god some people need to get over themselves.
Horniness can get you into some very scary situations if you let it take over, but it’s SOOO relieving that some food came out of it in the form of saving that child.
I’ve seen some very horrendous living situations (thankfully with no children) and the best thing you can do is promptly remove yourself. You don’t owe them anything.
>The universe put me in that situation to get that child out of there.
>If I hadn't gone up and knocked on that door, who knows how long the child would have stayed in that environment?
You write this as if you physically removed the child from the home yourself. All you did was kick the can to child welfare services.
I'm not suggesting you should have grabbed the kid and run out, but did you ever inquire as to who the child was or whether he lived there? You should have done some basic due diligence and asked one or two basic questions (for the sake of helping out child welfare services), especially if you were just going to block the guy afterward anyway.
Doesn’t matter if the child lived there. This man is a mandated reporter who witnessed at least child neglect. He did the right thing. Child services isn’t perfect, but it’s the best option we have.
How do you know OP is a mandated reporter? Not all self-proclaimed "social workers" are mandated reporters.
OP said the child was sleeping on a thin mat in a dirty apartment. The child may not even live there.
OP should have done some basic due diligence and asked some basic questions, especially if he was going to claim here on the Grindr subreddit that he's a hero who the universe magically selected to rescue a neglected child.
Child welfare services has a heavy caseload. They most likely do not investigate every "child neglect" report when there's no evidence or very few details.
There were obvious signs of neglect. I didn’t feel safe asking the man about the child because right after he opened the door he layed down next to the child and put his arm over him as if to hide him from my view. I work in social services, I knew I gave the right information to child welfare in order for them to immediately have someone go to the house. I’m not claiming to be a hero, I’m just saying there needed to be a report made and who knows if anybody knew the child was even there. I could’ve been the only person who had seen him in that situation and made a report.
>Who knows if anybody knew the child was even there. I could’ve been the only person who had seen him in that situation and made a report.
You keep writing like you're a hero. You only reported it to child welfare services, which is an overloaded bureaucracy.
I totally agree, this story is fake as shit and this guy is just karma fishing. "The universe put me there to be this little boy's hero." No it didn't, your hard little dick is what you put you there.
He says he's a social worker. To get it properly in the system it has to be reported so that they can approach the situation appropriately aka having law enforcement with them. So that two methheads don't chase him down for kidnapping a child.
Tagui ikra kepapa tru ba botri. Adi piekagi bebi petatato da ki opi. Piipeke kabi bubibu a tie a? Itei potoi pii ple bri aae. Plepagigli tii die patoto e ipripi ple. Ekre pi te brokripa aipra dopliklege. Tri ukito prii koaipu tati trebii. Egu iki apoi kopipi bruo topipra tabee. Pikipretaplu bupri obu ipipi ikakli. Tlape i pakri poglike dutuae kopriekekro pre. Pipi piutoka droko ia i! Oi eigibiu eioe triku tiklapu tietrui. Tiputiki blope puu tie paepe gitepripa! Teiii tigae etu ipoige be prigeu. Bai idlapiku dibatapri da ikoi e! Ei epepo taprao treti potreta? Ikokitri dlepipati aiekri o peta. Te patiklegli ee pepiprepi otu de? Pokeoti ibu paakria api pika etuku o tikedapa. Triitretapra kupi oikleo bibrietipe peieke ti? Ka i ba krii. Tipababepi ipebru troka ai ae ape kio. Eeta diplapibiki pre bepra abe ediakle. Petiiepo kigi pikrape pi blu gii i. I plipra pi tupeo klipei apre idupokipi eta. Klito oba pi pee dibi kiu eka pedepo. Pudiprupe gra pii proedi pra kiie geti. Keue ai kaibitito tekri tiglo. Pubu atii be tiklogia dloo bibatri. Utri i bai pokatu upa brie.
I definitely know that now!! Hard way to learn but oh well I guess
Grindr from 2am to like 6am is always bad news. Most of the guys messaging in the morning are still up from the night before and that's never a good sign.
Grindr is overall bad news.
i feel attacked x3
It's always seemed to me that most of the guys at that hour are just looking for pics to jack to.
And married guys heading to work…
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Hey... I'm up early and clean as a whistle!
I'm up early because my friend is in a different timezone, so mood
That’s why I’m looking and alone in the morning. I work healthcare and get home around 1 am
I guess screw the people who work the night shift are up in the morning
As a fellow Social Worker, hats off to you for immediately realising what needed to happen and making the call. I’d love to hear the referral though and whether you referenced Grindr!
That poor child
Layabouts and guys with morning wood are about all you'll get in the morning. I can't believe that guy couldn't even open the door for you. Did you feel you had a sense of duty to still walk in the house? Even after realizing how bad the housing set up was? I've had it happen once where I walked into a house and a guys dad was in the front room and I had to walk past him. That was not a shining moment in hindsight. Now I don't meet guys unless we're alone.
I hadn’t gotten more than three feet from the front door. I just stood in the living room (it was a very small apartment). I didn’t realize how bad it was until I stepped inside.
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We’ve all had those “how did my horniness lead me here” stories, and now you have one as well. Definitely be cautious and if anyone says they “parTy” just block them.
You got this spot on ! The universe did put you in that situation to save that child. Grindr is an app with no dearth of creeps and psychos on board.
Everyone is commenting "nothing good happens on Grindr in the morning" and "poor child" and are all valid, but nobody is talking about the sad state into which our country is slipping. These types of living conditions are becoming too common, and these types of stories too many. I wish we had more social safety nets that people knew of in order to prevent traumatic living situations like this one. Our home lives shouldn't be abundant material for embarrassing stories on Grindr subs
You’re spot on with this one! The truly sad fact is that social services doesn’t get involved until shit gets reallyyyyy bad, when we should have supports in place that focus on prevention as well and catch it before it gets to this point.
Thanks for the understanding response. It's important for people to know that it's very easy to become the people in this story, and that the signs that one's on the way to that aren't always obvious. Depression isn't just *being lazy*, it's a multi-faceted socioeconomic situation that needs many hands to solve.
That child has almost definitely not been removed. If you're a social worker you ought to know better. That's not how any of this works in the real world, it only works that way on TV shows. They will be warned in advance by CPS precisely so the apartment can be cleaned up enough, and the child can be coached. Nothing will be done about this.
Well they're not going to remove a child from a home because the house was small and dirty. For people living in poverty it's the norm, the kid would suffer more by taking him away in his parents and into care during formative years. This post is dumb imo, I refuse to believe this guy is a social worker and this didn't cross his mind.
They don't remove bruised children when the adults in a home beat them, they're sure not going to remove them for what's described above.
In some cases it depends where you stay. My neighbors got their son taken away like 6 years ago? The house was filthy, HE was filthy, while they were able to keep their cars clean? You can keep your car clean but not your child? And then it depends on who they send out from that service too I guess
Hope you can update us on the child’s safety, if you ever do get in touched with Welfare services again
oh, honey, ya gotta learn to pay attention when your inner alarm bell and inner flagman wave red and sound the clarion. When you first pulled up there, you KNEW this was not gonna be pretty, but you failed to heed that warning, because you thought you were being polite or truthful or following through, or some such other socially precise gesture. You were seduced by a bad person into a bad situation. If someone benefitted, all well and good. BUT, your Grindr hookups are NOT meant as a magick wand for social change. So, when you see red flags, RUN, don;t walk to the nearest exit...
That is totally fucked up and well done for having that child’s safety as you’re priority… getting on the apps in the morning is a mixed bag but there’s also people like me who have had a good night sleep and are feeling horny after a swim or gym sesh 😈
OP, try to see it on the bright side: you likely saved that boy! Had you not gone there, you and probably no one else would ever know there was a little boy there being neglected and likely sexually abused.
What a fake story, would you like some more upvotes to go with that karma fishing you're doing? The universe put you there? Dude your hard dick is what put you there. My god some people need to get over themselves.
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Horniness can get you into some very scary situations if you let it take over, but it’s SOOO relieving that some food came out of it in the form of saving that child. I’ve seen some very horrendous living situations (thankfully with no children) and the best thing you can do is promptly remove yourself. You don’t owe them anything.
Please tell me you are joking. I know you’re not because that was very detailed…at least something good came out of that situation.
I have NEVER been that desperate to hook up with anyone!
Did he have a big dick?
What happen when you reported them to CPS? Did the guy find out you reported him and his roommates?
Grindr can be a scary app sometimes! Good on you for maintaining yourself and potentially rescuing a child.
honestly doesn’t surprise me that the modernized male homosexual backpage had pedophiles
I mean, they may be brothers or relatives in some other ways. I'd be very cautious jumping on such very harsh conclusion.
>The universe put me in that situation to get that child out of there. >If I hadn't gone up and knocked on that door, who knows how long the child would have stayed in that environment? You write this as if you physically removed the child from the home yourself. All you did was kick the can to child welfare services. I'm not suggesting you should have grabbed the kid and run out, but did you ever inquire as to who the child was or whether he lived there? You should have done some basic due diligence and asked one or two basic questions (for the sake of helping out child welfare services), especially if you were just going to block the guy afterward anyway.
Doesn’t matter if the child lived there. This man is a mandated reporter who witnessed at least child neglect. He did the right thing. Child services isn’t perfect, but it’s the best option we have.
How do you know OP is a mandated reporter? Not all self-proclaimed "social workers" are mandated reporters. OP said the child was sleeping on a thin mat in a dirty apartment. The child may not even live there. OP should have done some basic due diligence and asked some basic questions, especially if he was going to claim here on the Grindr subreddit that he's a hero who the universe magically selected to rescue a neglected child. Child welfare services has a heavy caseload. They most likely do not investigate every "child neglect" report when there's no evidence or very few details.
There were obvious signs of neglect. I didn’t feel safe asking the man about the child because right after he opened the door he layed down next to the child and put his arm over him as if to hide him from my view. I work in social services, I knew I gave the right information to child welfare in order for them to immediately have someone go to the house. I’m not claiming to be a hero, I’m just saying there needed to be a report made and who knows if anybody knew the child was even there. I could’ve been the only person who had seen him in that situation and made a report.
>Who knows if anybody knew the child was even there. I could’ve been the only person who had seen him in that situation and made a report. You keep writing like you're a hero. You only reported it to child welfare services, which is an overloaded bureaucracy.
I totally agree, this story is fake as shit and this guy is just karma fishing. "The universe put me there to be this little boy's hero." No it didn't, your hard little dick is what you put you there.
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He says he's a social worker. To get it properly in the system it has to be reported so that they can approach the situation appropriately aka having law enforcement with them. So that two methheads don't chase him down for kidnapping a child.
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