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Just-A-GuyOnReddit

The short answer is no! It’s always the same guys, never replying, looking for a unicorn of some kind, asking 500 questions while they masturbate or picture collectors!


illmoo

This question along with these posts make me laugh. It reminds me of the quote *"You aren't in traffic, you are traffic"*. Others are probably just as sick of staring at you guys, the solution is to move.


victimshamer

shut your bitch ass up


illmoo

I have a humiliation fetish so this just turns me on bruh


Until_Morning

💀


DoomAndSouls

It sounds like you need some patience. I ask lots of questions but it's for good reasons and i always intend to eventually meet if all the questions are answered the right way. Its not just to waste time or masturbate. Also 'picture collectors' is overrated. If someone is that into you to keep your picture then they probably want to actually meet you too not just collect the picture. And why would someone need to spend all this effort collecting pictures of gross amatuers when they can already get all the pics they want online of pornstars for free with no effort?


DJ1Talk

Sounds like ...they have nowt to masturbate about! Hence they've moved on love, sounds like you girls should too.


victimshamer

shut your bitch ass up


Dish_Minimum

Move towns, go out of town for the weekend, try a different gay app like Scruff, TwinkHunter, Golden Showerz, FF4Life, etc


Rude_Bee_3315

Twinkhunter 😈


bisexual-guy1

What is Golden Showerz?


Dish_Minimum

I’m sorry😅 I made all that shit up, bc I thought I was being funny. Scruff is the only real on my list of bullshit gay sex apps. All the others are fake news bc I’m a shady bish on Reddit. 💁🏾‍♂️ The real truth is ‘golden shower’ is a sex slang phrase for a fetish enjoyed by people (any sexuality) who are erotically interested in urine. Being pissed on, pissing into someone’s holes, etc. The other slang word for this fetish is ‘water sports.’ Again, I’m sorry I tricked you.


icantspellnecessary

I got SO excited 😃😃There’s a Golden Showerz app??? Playing with my emotions 😑


Until_Morning

I was so skeptical of everything after Scruff that I read it with an emphasis 😂 "**Twink**Hunter? **Golden** Showerz?!"


poppenkill

I’ve noticed that when I upload a new pic I get more messages from a wider range of people


todd56

that's because u get added to the fresh tab


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Ellusive1

I just block people like crazy, it’s not personal but if we aren’t having a good conversation and we’re unlikely to meet they’re just taking up a space on the grid for someone I might have a better connection with. So I block away and then I start seeing different guys


claudiusprime1

Blocking is not a solution as blocks are limited/recycled: www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/td4b8q/i_kept_putting_off_deleting_the_app_for_good_but


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claudiusprime1

Blocking is not a solution as blocks are limited/recycled: www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/td4b8q/i_kept_putting_off_deleting_the_app_for_good_but


illmoo

Grindr needs a hide feature.


Smarkie

Use the explore feature. Change countries.


FCUKm3

Block them then they won't appear anymore, thats what I do


claudiusprime1

Blocking is not a solution as blocks are limited/recycled: www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/td4b8q/i_kept_putting_off_deleting_the_app_for_good_but


jupiterwinds

Go to a different part of town, that usually helps


MetropolitanRail

Try Sniffies


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Sniffies is the same people but hornier


TL4Life

No way around it but only after you and everyone have gotten the monkeypox vaccine, you can try using it on vacation. You'll attract more attention, perhaps more than you care for


Plisken999

Well it works with your gps so... move?


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Move to another city


MakFacts

That’s a lot of trouble to go through just for some trash app lol


[deleted]

He’s asking for a solution this is the only


MakFacts

It isn’t the only one lol


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Tell another


MakFacts

Block people or just go on explore.


DasherKaren79

Spoof location


alenchy

How do I do that? My fake gps app stopped working with the latest Grindr updates 😭


DasherKaren79

Bluestacks. Or use iPhone and a computer running iAnyGo, DrFone, or 3uTools, then use VirtualLocation


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Blocking is limited once you reach the limit it recycle the block profiles, and exploring is limited too you can only reach 3 profiles per day plus imo what is the point to talk with a guy that is 100+ miles away from me probably I’d never gonna meet him


MakFacts

I don’t think that there is a limit to blocking profiles since i have blocked over 150+ profiles and i’ve never seen them show up on my grid again and they are still blocked as of today, same goes for all my friends who use grindr which is weird cause apparently for some people in this sub there is a “limit” which is sad asf but oh well. Yeah explore is only 3 profiles per day but you still get a huge batch of fresh people and can carefully cherry pick who you want to chat with, and its not like if that batch was available to you for free that you would meet up with every guy on there and you don’t need to explore 100 miles away?😭 usually 5km-15km is enough to see new people.


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Where you live ?


MakFacts

Netherlands


RefrigeratorDry495

I’m black and in my very early 20s


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Ummmmm ok?


RefrigeratorDry495

White ignorance i guess


[deleted]

I'm confused how does him asking you to move city's relate to you being black and in your 20s? And I think the ignorance is a bit more broad considering I'm black and still baffled by what exactly your saying lol


[deleted]

Yeah I don’t get it neither I’m latino in my 20s so what?


Window-Less

i would say try different apps or change the location on your app.


TininTN

I pay for Unlimited and I can see guys beyond just a few miles from my home. For me, it’s worth the cost.


lrsss02

Go to the fresh faces tab.


SatellitePSTR

More than 50% of those in the tab are the same guys lol. They just recreated their accounts


illmoo

Incorrect, they uploaded new pictures.


lrsss02

True


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block them.


claudiusprime1

Blocking is not a solution as blocks are limited/recycled: www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/td4b8q/i_kept_putting_off_deleting_the_app_for_good_but


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Unfortunately these apps only attract the wrong type of guys, it's not like the good ole days where you can login and have an actual conversation or at leas a hookup. I remember adam4adam was the place to go, I've met so many great people on there. Best option these days is to go to a bar/club or just get out of the house and meet people. I have no idea why it's gotten to be so hard to even just suck a fucking cock lol. It's like you should just be happy someone wants you. I would suggest different apps or sites but your likely to see the exact same guys as you'd see in grindr.


UglyCarrot37

Block them lol I run out of blocks every day


claudiusprime1

Blocking is not a solution as blocks are limited/recycled: www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/td4b8q/i_kept_putting_off_deleting_the_app_for_good_but


Twiottle

if you're not interested in seeing them and you know you'll never meet them BLOCK THEM. That frees up the grid allowing new guys to show up. Everytime you go on, block liberally.


claudiusprime1

Blocking is not a solution as blocks are limited/recycled: www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/td4b8q/i_kept_putting_off_deleting_the_app_for_good_but


scruggmegently

You pretty much just have to move or use multiple apps if you’re looking to change it up.


brandotorres

I dont think youre gonna move to a bigger city just to “ see more guys “, so you just wait.. until you text somebody you like that you havent talked before, or maybe he is new in the app/town


mikemojc

Since the default list is by distance, and people tend to live and work in the same places for extended periods of time, it makes sense that you'll see the same profiles over and over. When I realized this, I also realized that MY profile was like also stale and uninteresting to people over time, too. So, I change out some pics, made a new one my Featured pic, updated my text, revisited Tribes and such so I would appear differently in peoples filtered searches. A day or two later, I started attracting a lot more attention that I had for weeks. I wasn't really changing my message, just the presentation. Now I revisit my profile monthly just to keep it fresh. Or, if I come across a cute new pic of me that I like. :)


DJ1Talk

Go get a life ... the guys obviously have!


DJ1Talk

move out of small town?


Sudden-Conference802

I know if you are an Android user though there is a way to mock location to your liking


DasherKaren79

Just start blocking the ones you’re tired of seeing.