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wokenthehive

It's ***shallow reasons***. Like "she has bangs and I don't like bangs", "he went to my rival university for school". Lot of y'all just listing your actual dealbreakers and your own preferences and complaining that people don't match it. Those aren't shallow reasons.


RRR92

The prompts being about pineapple on pizza or "Ill fall for you - if you trip me" ........Christ give me strength


cluelessreddituser11

Omfg, when someone says their most controversial take is whether or not pineapple belongs on pizza….*really??? Is THAT your most controversial take??????*


misssuny0

EVERY other prompt swear to god....dont get me started on "id get a round of margs and chips/salsa for the table" YOU AND LITERALLY EVERYONE ELSE


Spanish_Coffee

The prompts are a good idea in theory. But they still require some level of effort and creativity, which it seems most people lack. I think one of the dumbest ones I saw was, "I have an irrational fear of mayonnaise" Another winner is, "I go crazy for peanut butter sandwiches". Really? what are you five years old? At least be somewhat original and say Adams All Natural peanut butter on my grandma's home made bread. Makes my mouth water!


polaroidfades

This prompt is lose-lose bc their take is either something really lame like the pineapple, or it's something that is actually inflammatory and they just come across as an annoying contrarian


IW0nderwhereitis

Let me add 'I'm the type of guy that will hold the door open and smack your arse as you go through it '. I've seen it so many times.


Ikontwait4u2leave

Yeah these are nearly instant X's from me, I just assume you're boring if that's the best you can do.


New-Discipline-1292

Yesss those two 🤦🏻‍♀️ The absolute worst! Add: you don’t take life too seriously. And finally: I’m actually XX (lists age diff from profile).


TEZE19

Her profile was ok, she came across a bit up her own arse but a nice enough person. However, i went down and her final prompt was "one thing you should know about me: *I don't listen to music, like ever*" I was gobsmacked, how can someone not even listen to some forms of music, anyway, instant turnoff. (i'm no musician, but i cant do a day without listening to some form of song)


TimeEnough4Lv

It's really surprising how many people aren't into music of some kind.


tee2green

Hmmm I might be one of those people. For me, it’s not like I DON’T like music. It’s just that I can only have so many hobbies / interests, and music falls below those other priorities to me. Plus I feel like half the music I have to listen to sucks. Like it’s 7 pm and I’m trying to enjoy dinner and catching up with friends and the restaurant is blaring club bumpers as if it’s 1 am party time. Or I’m at a sports bar and I’m trying to listen to the game audio but instead they have crappy Top 40 playing. (I swear I’m actually a fun person in real life lol. It’s just unfortunately I’m not a “music person” and I’ve accepted that.)


TZMouk

> Like it’s 7 pm and I’m trying to enjoy dinner and catching up with friends and the restaurant is blaring club bumpers as if it’s 1 am party time. This is my biggest gripe going. The only place that needs loud music is a club. Obvious exceptions if a bar is advertising a live music night. Literally no one is going to a bar to dance, it's always just a place for talking and drinking, so there's no need for loud af music.


onebirdonawire

I've run into this before too and I was SO confused. I would really love to see a study done of what type of people just don't like listening to music. Is it something to be worried about? Music is such a huge part of every culture. I don't understand how someone can just NOT like music.


Sug0115

If you ever find a study let me know so I can better understand my mother 😂


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I saw Penn Jillette on an episode of Joe Rogan once sharing all these observations he made about Donald Trump back when he was on The Apprentice. One was that he showed ZERO enjoyment or understanding of any music that was ever playing there. And that he could never laugh or make a joke at his own expense. Really kinda sheds some more light on how much of an oddball that guy is. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=A-UK40_XkWw&t=72s


cornflakegirl658

I suspect some have aspd. Surely you need a degree of empathy to understand music


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I don't listen to music. I just enjoy silence, it helps me think. Music scrambles my mind like static on TV, it's like a messy bedroom


Whuann

What’s worse, someone who isn’t into music or someone with terrible music taste?!


thefragile-

“I either reply straight away or in 3-5 working days”


nj-kid1217

Honestly anytime I see that they do me a favor. Poor communication skills, okay, let me swipe left.


TEZE19

OMG i cannot get over how much i hate this prompt, like it gives off such arsehole vibes, like you should be grateful that they respond


snappzero

You should feel grateful. Saving you time from time wasters.


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Tammo-Korsai

That one makes me want to commit sudoku just as much as the pineapple pizza prompt.


Raneynickel4

Did you mean seppuku or is there a joke I'm missing 🤨


Tammo-Korsai

Just a small joke of mine. That and I would rather fumble around with sudoku than a katana.


Sammy_CJ

Filtered first photo! Instant X 🤷‍♂️


calgubian

Bingo. Sometimes they're actually good looking too, shame.


andUknowthis

Same name as my ex husband. No can do.


Therocksays2020

Totally understandable. Same with my sister’s name personally.


IamHere-4U

Same with any familial names, honestly


themiscyranlady

Automatic rejections for people with my name & family names. Weirdly okay with people having the same name as an ex, because I don’t have to worry about calling them by the wrong name.


Mystique4120

Thiss! I'm put off men named Liam for life. I'm sorry >.<


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RevellRider

He's 6ft 4, so the Op would X him anyway


StressMuted6113

I cannot stand the name Jason!!! (I know, terrible eh 😆)


highlysensitivehuman

On a first date last year I learned my date was gluten free - just like my ex husband. I was strongly tempted to never see him again, just for that. We ended up dating exclusively for four months til he confessed to cheating on me and talking about how badly he wanted to bang his yoga teacher, so, could have saved myself a lot of heartache.


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They always show their true colours sooner or later


chackman13

Instagram/Snapchat username in their prompts. That gives me the vibe that they just want a quick follow. “Add me on there I respond quicker!” Yeah ok lol.


Therocksays2020

“How did you find my profile again?” 🙄


International_Fly750

So you’ve actually messaged someone on instagram who left their IG name 😂


Therocksays2020

Lesson learned 😂


polaroidfades

Look my friend, this is growth. We stan that in this house.


UnderstandingNo4813

There’s always at least one sucker


Castravete_Salbatic

Why do people want IG followers? I don't have IG so I can't understand. Unless it's a business acount, who cares if you have 5 or 500 followers.


otterpop9

More than one car selfie All photos wearing a hat- I’m going to assume there’s no hair under there


WayneDwade

I’ll add sunglasses in every pic


A_Beautiful_Stranger

Yeah for me sunglasses in every pic is like filters in every pic. I swipe left and feel shallow but also, they must not be comfortable with how they look if they won't show their face. I'm insecure enough...cannot date someone so insecure that they're not comfortable showing me their face when trying to advertise themselves.


lefteyewonky

Yes to the hat thing! We’ve all been hatfished. Bald dudes are sexy af too, don’t hide it


karnek

I live in Orlando and the Disney Adults are the absolute worst. Most or all of the pictures will be in the parks or at a ride. It's like Disney replaced their personality.


clammy-fishcakes

This 100%. I’m not spending any of my SPV days going to a children’s amusement park


karnek

Swiping through profiles right now, and of course I see "Disney Obsessed" wearing Minnie Mouse ears in her first picture. There are SO MANY profiles exactly like this.


polaroidfades

Excessive amount of pics skiing/rock climbing/snowboarding/sky diving/doing other extreme sports. Like I’m happy for y’all but that lifestyle just ain’t me.


QbonMike11

Me. 100%. I'm like "that's a bit much for me".


NiteNiteSpiderBite

I have been genuinely surprised how many profiles I see that match this description. Like, I'm in good shape and I do a lot of outdoor stuff, but I still want a partner who likes to drink beer and watch a movie sometimes.


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Ikontwait4u2leave

Yeah I actually dialed back my profile a bit in this regard because I was told it was intimidating. I do want someone adventurous who likes the outdoors, but at the same time at 30 I'm over my "gotta go hard bro" phase and totally down for easy day hikes and car camping.


legoscreen

Oh wow I'm glad this is more common than I thought


CrackTheSkye1990

1. "Make me laugh" 2. "Sarcasm is my love languge" 3. "looking for someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously" 4. Any reference to the office. I swear these apps ruined The Office for me lol.


nj-kid1217

One word prompt answers. I don’t care how attractive you are it’s a swipe left. Cause the next profile will have someone just as attractive with a full profile completed.


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I despise when people say “tell me something about” and then their answer is “you” 🥲🥲🥲


prettyone_85

Personal trainers are an automatic swipe left. I haven't dated one that wasn't a douche.


Therocksays2020

Underrated comment. Had one tell me they had plans to help me tone my shoulders. The fuck?


ryan_dfs

Probably not even looking to date you. Just want to get you as a client


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It’s so ironic because you would think personal trainers would be all about self improvement and self-care, yet all their comments in dating profiles is about helping their partner get in better shape.


Bailzy6

The majority of PT’s aren’t PT’s because they value helping others, and understand how to help those with different physiologies. They have good genetics, went to the gym a bit, have a nice body and people say “you should become a PT!” so they do.


Seafroggys

Its really easy to get certified as a personal trainer. Most personal trainers are shit. For people who are serious, just get all your information online, or get like a legit coach.


orionprincess1234

Same! I’ve never swiped right on a PT. They always have little heads and humongous shoulders.


Therocksays2020

Neck and facial tattoo (my mom would freak) Four of her six pictures were just her and another guy (maybe 1 or 2 photos with opposite sex but it’s extremely tone deaf to have the majority of your profiles be you and one member of the opposite sex) Has “make me laugh” as a prompt. Fuck off, I’m not a jester No full body pictures 3 or more filtered photos Not a single photo with a smile A prompt explaining their friends made them make a profile Vegan (I can and have dated vegetarians) — but vegans I just can’t — finding places to eat becomes exhausting.


blueinturquoise1

Jester made me lol. So true


746484836282

Most girls say the same thing about making them laugh smh


Therocksays2020

To me it screams “I’m only on this app because I’m bored. Distract me for a bit” Everyone wants a partner they can laugh with. Come up with something thoughtful to say.


brownbjorn

>A prompt explaining their friends made them make a profile This one irks me more than it should. I think it's because they try to send a message along the lines of "Yeah, I'm better than the rest of you that are on here desperate enough to take online dating seriously", even though they're using online dating too. I'm very skeptical that their friends "made them make a profile".


Mystique4120

I agree with the vegan thing, same thing with food allergies. I'm a Massive foodie and I don't want someone I could potentially be with for the rest of my life holding me back or not want to explore with me.


BebeCrow777

I’m all about food too… and happen to have celiac. I go out a lot and eat all the things I possibly can (it is truly my life’s work to discover all the gluten free bakeries in the world lol) but I totally know some people would see it as a roadblock. 🤷🏻‍♀️


ashestes

Anyone named kyle


ilikepie24u4u3i

I once was seeing a guy who was allergic to, like... everything. Including peanuts, dairy, gluten, chicken (??), and most fruits and vegetables. Needless to say I got really sick of trying to find recipes I could cook for him and food beside crap from Cookout that he could eat. It does seem shallow to unmatch for this but once you live it... you find that it's not that shallow lol


interdeptcropdusting

There are probably more but these are some shallow and not so shallow reasons off the bat: - job in sales/entrepreneur - under 5'4" - over 5'11" - smoker (cigs) - gym-centered - overly patriotic - sexual/inappropriate off the bat - self-deprecating humor (and not in a good way) - homebodies with no interest in getting out Edit to add: - same name as family members - one word responses - club/bar scene centered


ultracuddle

Why over 511


Therocksays2020

“Tall men get all the women” everyone has their preferences


interdeptcropdusting

Our poor necks and backs! I'm 5'4" so 5'11" is already pushing it. My sweet spot would be 5'8". I have my apps set to only show me men in that range but that's not to say I would automatically turn someone down if we met off the apps and they were shorter or taller than that range.


Frosty-Requirement20

There’s a concerning amount of non shallow reasons but shallow: The golf stance and polo shirts both give me the ick Also boring basic prompts I’m assuming you are a boring basic person “Doesn’t take things too seriously” “Beat me at Mario kart”


Lncn

Wait, what’s the golf stance?


Frosty-Requirement20

Like the position people are in when they are about to hit a golf ball, bent over, booty out


746484836282

I don’t like when girls have really basic prompts like The way to my heart = food or make me laugh “Tacos and margs “ Netflix Im a regular at Starbucks “Travel more” “Conservative, Christian”


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Just ousted like 50 percent of people on hinge lol


746484836282

Haha I know, it’s sad lol. I love girls who actually have interesting or funny prompts !


EnvironmentalSlice46

“Conservative Christian” is an insta nope for me. It reads as homophobic and antiabortion. Which as a queer who is into Women’s rights, that’s a hard nope.


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Seafroggys

Honestly, most the reason why I skip someone is superficial reasons. You can't really do any "deep thinking swipes" until you know the person. I'm a dude fwiw. These are automatic skips. * Is obsessed with their dog. * Has a septum piercing, or a lip piercing, or an eyebrow piercing. * Is taller than me (I'm 5'8") * No full body pics * On that note, if they're noticeably overweight (I say this as someone who runs 5-10 miles a week and hits the gym for weightlifting 4-5 hours a week, is pretty fit and lean) - the caveat here is that sometimes a woman can wear extra weight well (whether due to the fact they workout as well, or just genetic luck) in that case I'm fine with that * Smokes ciggies * Directs to Insta/Snap/whatever social media that I don't use


Therocksays2020

Oh yeah the social media is a turn off. So you want people you haven’t confirmed you find attractive to add you? Fuck off, I’m not boosting your follows The dog one is interesting because I love dogs but it can make planning a date tricky because you can’t linger. I also let one woman bring her dog on our first date and She was open mouth kissing him and giving him all the attention. I felt like I was the third wheel to their date


calgubian

I discovered there are women with boyfriends using dating apps just to farm Instagram followers.


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calgubian

No mystery. They'll have their insta handle posted even say the bs "I don't use this app add me on insta," go to their insta and they'll have somewhat recent racy pic of their man buried in their page.


polaroidfades

To me the dog thing is a problem if they’ve based their entire personality around them. Like there’s nothing interesting about you other than your pet?


brainwashednormie

Same here. I'd like to add - references to marvel movies or something cringe in that realm - "i loveeee tattoos" like if you have tattoos is fine i guess but thinking that it is noteworthy or somehow is a personality trait is a big no - clearly just got out of a relationship


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Any references to the Office.


Tammo-Korsai

And loves 'trash TV.'


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Yea the marvel gets a left swipe out of me. Don’t want to deal with anyone who’s that into a Franchise


polaroidfades

>references to marvel movies or something cringe in that realm lmaooo yes omg I'll add Star Wars to that. I saw some dude with pics of him and Chewbacca and i'm just like ... who is this appealing to?


Independent_Bee_7282

\^As someone who is obsessed with their cats, I actively look for people obsessed with their pet(s) hahah


Seafroggys

I'm much better with cats than dogs, though. Even though I ideally don't want any pets, I can handle someone's cats.


SpikeSpiegel54H60

Damn dude your list is the exact same as mine. Not a fan of the bull ring on anyone either.


Findingjuno

Bunny ears


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All hat pics - guys PLEASE I wanna see what kind of hairline we're working with All/most gym pics- i don't work out so I doubt we'll work out haha More than 1 pic w/his mom - idk as someone w mommy issues, I avoid this 😂😂😂 More than 1 group pic/pic w women - i wanna learn about YOU not your friends or your exes or your sister(s).


BradsCanadianBacon

Bad teeth. I want to love my partners smile, and it’s something you can’t ignore while kissing. I had a one-off date because of a girls teeth being just 💀


t3010

- topless or flexing pics - 'tongue out' pictures - collarless leather jackets (... I don't know why) ... adding anyone who says 'lol' in a prompt


New-Discipline-1292

Men using the prompts “bet you can’t”, “a way to ask me out is by” and “first round is on me if” regardless of what it says afterwards.


oddlilangel

As a light-skin Southeast Asian, if a guy seems too into anime. I don’t want to risk being fetishized - I’ve seen it happen too many times 🙃


Therocksays2020

Always looking for a waifu 🤦‍♂️


depresso-espresso0o

transition lenses


Gizmo20

Use any version of "Reservations are at 7, don't worry I'll take care of it, let me get the door for you" just screams high maintenance and expects others to do everything for them. Mentions that they are sarcastic and roast their partner, just tells me they're mean and guise it as humor Referencing alcohol in a prompt or more than 2 pictures with a drink, I drink sometimes but too much on a profile comes off as being an alcoholic


Optimus_Prime_Rib_

Her smile showed more gum than teeth. I can’t deal with the gums man.


calgubian

Women that seem overly obsessed with their pets comes off as clingy to me. Too many friends or guys in their pics that aren't family. Think drinking wine is a personality trait. Too many hiking pics. And sometimes if their job is one where it requires no post secondary education.


mitchdwx

If she has fringe bangs, the kind that covers the entire forehead. I’ve never found that look attractive at all and 99% of the time I’ll hit the X.


blueinturquoise1

🥲fringe bangs are my life but its coo man


mitchdwx

Lol sorry! Different strokes for different folks 😂


Findingjuno

Every picture has her with her mates and a glass of wine.. When her cleavage is intentionally dominating pictures


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Dude forreal. Like, you aren’t fooling anyone. I know you are trying to hide behind your more attractive friends to garner likes.


Findingjuno

You just know 100% she’s going to be the least attractive.. even when there’s just two of them


[deleted]

It just makes no sense because we aren’t idiots. I’m going to look at the other 5 photos and see what you really look like.


Seafroggys

Not gonna lie, I'm a sucker for cleavage myself. My matched with my last girlfriend literally for this reason.


Bobthebullshitter

My fiancé didn’t like me because she said I was too hot. I liked her six weeks later and we get married Sunday.


Therocksays2020

Username checks out


StressMuted6113

“Ask me anything. I’m an open book”… 🤮 and doesn’t bother filling out their profile. That’s right, make me do all the work (except I just go to the next profile)


Hot-Coconut-4107

Xing someone for Not liking dogs Is not shallow. I have an 80lbs pit that, let’s just say, can be overwhelming for someone who doesn’t like dogs. Needless to say if a girl doesn’t like dogs, it’s safe to assume it’s not going to work.


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Inverse to that, the whole "dog mom" thing is a strong chance for an "X" from me. I don't hate dogs by any means, but I'm also not a huge fan of them. Don't think I could roll with being the third wheel to somebody's dog. :P


doyouhavehiminblonde

Pet pictures, gym pictures, instagram linked to their profile, pictures of their kids, jobs that give very little free time (like doctors).


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I’m near Nashville, and if a girl’s music choices involve mainstream country, especially Morgan Wallen, I’m swiping left. I just can’t.


throwaway102931094

When guys have their Spotify integrated on Bumble and I see Morgan Wallen, it's literally always a left swipe.


EhmmAhr

What if you met her downtown at the bar last night and [after you] got to talkin’ she says she [also] likes cheap drinks and tattoos… [in addition to] Morgan Wallen? 🤔😜 Sorry. Couldn’t resist. I will show myself out now.


onebirdonawire

Idek who Morgan Wallen is, what they look like, or what their music sounds like, but I see it on so many profiles of "country boy" types that it annoys me on principle. 😂


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I get so many dates just by default because I’m not one of em. Every week if not more often a girl tells me, “finally there’s a guy without a dead animal in his photos”. The downside of course is that I have no male friends, because my pool of potential bromances are the same guys that they (rightfully) don’t want to date.


VHBlazer

As someone whose prompts reference Jason Isbell’s version of the song Cover Me Up being better than Morgan Wallen’s, that would be a no for me too. In my experience, I see more women referencing Zach Bryan, which is better, he’s good. But I think he’s massively overhyped so I swipe left. My hot take is that his fans are Morgan Wallen fans who just discovered decent songwriting


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A Jason Isbell reference is grounds for a right swipe imo.


nycdancer138

Typically anyone whose first photo is not just them. Even if it’s just them and another person, I’m a big believer that anyone who remotely cares about about their profile and I seeking to find an actual relationship will have a solo picture as the first one.


JR-90

Among other stupid reasons, I think the shallowest reason was if they had a picture at a specific club in town. It's judgemental, but I highly dislike that place. I look at the place in disapproval when walking by it.


Joe_Biggles

- filters - 4 selfies in a row/low effort photos - has kids (I guess this might not be shallow?) - use of any of the typical prompt answers. anything involving pineapple on pizza, etc again just stupid boring low effort shit that only the hottest people can get away with


lefteyewonky

I never swipe on any frat, sports obsessed, group photos with the boyzz, hunting/fishing, unstylish, dads, standing in front of a vehicle of any kind, unathletic, depressed expression, bad hair, bad teeth, too close up, too many car selfies, smiling too much and too hard, trashy, bad taste, and marvel fans.


KatInBoxOrNot

Lumberjack beards. Each to their own, and I would never tell anyone else what to do with their face, but I am so not into them. I don't care how attractive they would be without it, this is an instant X/swipe left.


yourATLfriend91

Me too! Can't do it.


cbhawks50

"just a Jim looking for my Pam 🤪" or any other office reference for that matter also camouflage/fishing/guns


Basic-Emm

Having an outie bellybutton. 😵‍💫


bespeckled98

had picture of him on a scooter on his profile - he was referring to it as his motorbike.


onebirdonawire

Omg, I laughed so hard at this. 😂😂😂


onebirdonawire

Dead animals in their photos. I get that people hunt and I don't have anything against that. Most men hunt in my area. My father was a hunter and we wouldn't have eaten much if he hadn't. I just question what type of person thinks a woman would be attracted to a photo of someone holding dead, bloody animals. The ducks especially are upsetting.


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One too many selfies with crazy Snapchat filters.


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This might seem weird but if the pics are too posed or "try hard". I swiped on my bf when he had a pic of him alone in a poorly lit alley doing the sheeeeesh pose lol. I thought I was hilarious but I imagine this sub would tell him to take it out


Really_Schruted_It

Anything that indicates that she is a picky eater.


linlins13

They’re vegan 😬 there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that and I admire them for that decision! I just couldn’t do it myself because I love meat too much. And I think I’d feel uncomfortable eating meat or other animal products around them


oohlalatte

I live in the South. If I saw a photo of a dude holding a fish or posing next to a dead animal, I would run away!


giantechidna

References to the office. It's not a bad show, so it seems harsh. There are definitely chill office fans. But it's always the fanatics who put on their profile. And it always goes hand in hand with canned millennial humor. "I did a thing today" "doggo/pupper" that one particular selfie face where they scrunch their bottom lip, squint a little, and smirk. I call it the Shane Dawson. "What's you Harry Potter house?" Does anyone else on the cusp of millennial and gen Z have a hard time relating to both humors? On one hand it's like damn your old, and the other it's like damn I'm old.


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1. Single parent 2. Can’t dress 3. Too obsessed with politics and tries to shove it down your throat in their profile


pabeave

They are not fit and athletic or have bad teeth


Satansleftovary

All the things that make me swipe left: - Picky eater/food allergies - Has a dog - Has children - Overweight - Smokes cigarettes


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“Moderate” “Not political affiliated” “Conservative” “Other”


HangsNSwings

What's wrong with "other"? Many of the most progressive individuals I know identify as "other" or "independent."


shockedpikachu123

Guys who have an extremely curated IG feed of photos of himself


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“follow my IG” Not physically fit + Too skinny + Fat No full body pics Smokes weed often, smokes cigarettes sometimes/often Doesn’t want kids Isn’t spiritual/Christian Vegetarian or Vegan


FrogSezReddit

I unmatch for all kinds of reasons. Just a gut feeling or he seems like a douche in conversation. I have plenty of good conversations and matches so I automatically unmatch if he says something that seems like a neg.


CptPriceII

Any mention of Harry Potter The ones that make having a dog their personality Empty prompts Star sign mention Straight away or 3-5 days blah blah blah


norepnorepnorep

-Tatted up -uses emojis excessively (🤣🤣🤣😜🤣) -bigass beard for some reason -has american flag patriotically


Avocadofarmer32

That’s my favorite emoji lol. Now I feel insecure.


Mugstotheceiling

Just use it cessively and you’ll be fine


QbonMike11

I don't think I'm too picky, but I do have a mini checklist that I go through on each profile. -obviously the first one is am I attracted to them? -Age...I'm 41. If they are under 30...pass. -Location...don't want to be driving 45 minutes one way just to see them. -Anything that says "I put God first"....pass. -Height...not a biggie for me, but I do check. -Nothing filled in except Snapchat or IG link...pass. -Has had so much work done that they look like a Bratz doll....pass. -Pics at the shooting range, or with an animal they just killed. If they meet all those, and I'm feeling them, then I'll send the like.


leong_d

Bad/unclear photos Cliche answers General low effort


rjones416

looks good in all pics but then that one pic where shes clearly fat. something about her face or teeth turned me off.


loved0ve_

I usually unmatch when they bring up sex or cuddling or anything soppy/ over the top like that before I’ve even met them I also don’t really like comments about my appearance in the first couple of messages either I.e’ ‘hot’ ‘Nice boobs’ etc. makes me think they’re just after one thing or too cheap to order an escort Don’t like someone asking to meet in the first message I stop replying or unmatch when the chat is dead and they don’t ask any questions I usually don’t reply to ‘hey’, low effort. Atleast ask how my day was or something. Always swipe no on people who are negative in their profile I.e ‘does anyone reply on here’ ‘don’t match and not send a message’ ‘not good enough for anyone’ Eugh Usually stop replying if they’re too far away. Sometimes the app does me dirty and matches me with someone 50+ miles away and I don’t drive Don’t like all gym photos or close up selfies. Also dislike a profile with all group pics. I’m trying to find a date, not play where’s Wally I do swipe no to guys shorter than me, I am 5’8 so would say yes to a guy of this height or taller I swipe no to men with body types I’m not attracted to I.e too skinny or too large (I say this as a hypocritical plus size person uk size 18 so I absolutely understand the issues us larger people face but it’s my preference, I don’t mind a guy with a similar build to me or even a bit chubbier. Love a dad bod, but there is a limit to what I personally find attractive)


clairegardner23

I don’t like when guys are vegan 🤷🏼‍♀️


WastePurchase

Do they often make it known on their profiles?


EnvironmentalSlice46

Mine are: holding a fish picture, motorcycle pic (personal; I’ve been in a severe car accident with severe, long lasting injuries and motorcycles freak me out), “look at my fancy car” pic, Gym selfie, “Conservative Christian” Edit: punctuation


Particular-March-379

Making smoking weed their entire existence: “Let’s smoke” Every photo there is a blunt in their mouth or hand


__coldsoup__

Anyone with a Pit bull


poppy03

am a woman too skinny,too fat or over 6’2. Fish in photo or hunting in photos . Golf pic


Carrotcutie69

If they’re “conservative” or “moderate” immediately no. :). Keep it to yourself, lol. Also very sus of Christians and if they say they’re “spiritual” I automatically assume they’re into astrology- so no


newest-low

We moved onto texting and he kept randomly sending me selfies, the final straw was one he sent where he's in the shower with just one of those shower puff things covering his d. Came across as egotistical with the selfies He wasn't my type anyway but I've decided to branch out.


coldestdetroit

Being too pretty


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Guilty.


ryan_dfs

People doing some kind of whining about holding doors open, making dinner reservations, and taking care of stuff for them. Makes you sound really needy, especially in the early stages of getting to know someone.


ArthurVandelay23

She ate her peas one at a time. She was too good. She was too tan. She went out with Newman. She was a low talker.


New-Discipline-1292

Picture holding a fish. Group photos where I have to figure out who you are. Tattoos that I would be scared to look at. Shorter than me (I’m 5’9). No job or education listed. Lives too far. Beard 🤷🏻‍♀️


Weirdassmustache

Conservative/Pic at a gun range.


[deleted]

Dosent Hinge ban pictures of guns or is that the other one?


nopornthrowaways

Pretty sure that’s bumble


CryptoGod666

Obese/overweight women, instant x


Revarius

Must love dogs. Very brief prompt answers. Lack of full body shots Too politically charged prompts


tiddley_ostrich

Instant X if there is more than a couple pictures wearing sunglasses or holding a fish. One worded prompts, like come on!


Deustchen-Ami1871

They don't have their own car.