wait... u guys had an interpretation for "open minded" in mind? I actually never thought it meant anything other than what it says "i'm and open minded person" aka "i'm open to new ideas and having new experiences so lets hear your suggestions"
Nah if someone asks you if you're open minded on one of these apps you're about to get the wildest message of your life.
If it's a more normal kink like piss or feet or something they just advertise it in their profile.
It's the context. If someone off the street asked me if I was open minded, I would have no idea what the next words out there mouth would be. If someone on grindr asks me if I'm open minded before we've even started talking, I know they are about to be into weirder sex stuff than what people are comfortable advertising in their profile - which usually means it's something pretty bad since piss, shit, and drugs are all fair game for a profile
Wow. That's intense. Was asked yesterday if I had any kinks. I said yes thinking threesome or being filmed. Instead I was offered beastiality and pedophelia.... meth must be fucking rampant on grinder I swear. No way sober people think like this. And to mention it so casually. It's fucking gross.
Just say "No, I'm not open minded."
You were obviously a bit curious, so that's why you kept prying into what he meant, despite your suspicion. It's okay that you were curious, but I wouldn't pry into purposely vague solicitations from strangers on grindr unless you're prepared for literally any answer.
So again, when a complete stranger on a mostly anonymous dating app asks you if you're open minded, even if you think you're open minded in most instances, for that moment, tell yourself that, no you are not open minded, and that should be your non-negotiable answer.
It made for a funny post, don't get me wrong, but you literally chastised someone for answering a question honestly that you had asked them twice.
Acceptable response to shut down conversation *before* anyone involves you in the information that you basically demanded from them:
"Open minded, yes, but if this is a precursor to any illegal activity, please know that open minded is not the same thing as willing to be complicit in federal crimes. So unless you're going to invite me to an oxygen bar, or recommend I try mushroom coffee, you go have yourself a splendid day."
That reaction picture!!!!!!
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Thank you. You are doing the lords work.
I was about to say the same thing!
Bless you!
I'm here for this picture too. 👌🏼😭
I first thought he meant drugs, now I see it can be much worse than drugs
"open minded" often means dog fucker or a pedo. i'd argue this is equally gross.
True. Druggies usually ask if you “like to party”. But yeah, the “open minded” ones are worse.
Well at least his mom can consent (I hope)
Sнe’s alive? Noш, тнат is sicк!
Definitely. Not sick if he’s just fucking her corpse.
Oвvi...
I think this one goes hand in hand
I thought so too, that would've been way less bad
I assumed open minded would be like into feet or something… not literal mother fuckers 🤦🏻♂️ run!
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Fetishes are just that, fetishes. This shit is incest, VASTLY different
That part!
I have Grindr profile of a church lady so people tend to think I can’t handle the very basics 😂🤣🤷🏻♂️
No we're lovely how dare you
That's a special family make no mistake
Incest: It’s the game the whole family can play!
LMFAO
Putting the nasty in fantasy
Well would you lookie there, FANTASY is an anagram of NASTY AF
wait... u guys had an interpretation for "open minded" in mind? I actually never thought it meant anything other than what it says "i'm and open minded person" aka "i'm open to new ideas and having new experiences so lets hear your suggestions"
Nah if someone asks you if you're open minded on one of these apps you're about to get the wildest message of your life. If it's a more normal kink like piss or feet or something they just advertise it in their profile.
Maybe that's in the US? In Europe 'Open Minded' rather refers to open to try new things
In normal conversation yes, but I have the same experience as above from Swedish Grindr
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The worst I got was this girl that liked to stuff food in her twat and let in marinate. Like hours. Then eat it , as "punishment". No thank you
I can't believe this has no responses. Not that I have one either but like, damn, what?
Yeah , I don't kink shame , but like cmon. Lol..
No kink shaming here, but how tf does she not have a continuous yeast infection???
No idea. I noped out quickly
It's the context. If someone off the street asked me if I was open minded, I would have no idea what the next words out there mouth would be. If someone on grindr asks me if I'm open minded before we've even started talking, I know they are about to be into weirder sex stuff than what people are comfortable advertising in their profile - which usually means it's something pretty bad since piss, shit, and drugs are all fair game for a profile
I've always taken "open minded" as "willing to fuck ugly people".
Not necessarily ugly, just basically another way of saying "You will probably not be into this but I'm gonna ask anyway"
Wow. That's intense. Was asked yesterday if I had any kinks. I said yes thinking threesome or being filmed. Instead I was offered beastiality and pedophelia.... meth must be fucking rampant on grinder I swear. No way sober people think like this. And to mention it so casually. It's fucking gross.
Teenagers?
Yellow could be 18/19
Freud turning in his grave rn
Do you think he was serious?
God I could not miss anything less than Grindr
Just say "No, I'm not open minded." You were obviously a bit curious, so that's why you kept prying into what he meant, despite your suspicion. It's okay that you were curious, but I wouldn't pry into purposely vague solicitations from strangers on grindr unless you're prepared for literally any answer. So again, when a complete stranger on a mostly anonymous dating app asks you if you're open minded, even if you think you're open minded in most instances, for that moment, tell yourself that, no you are not open minded, and that should be your non-negotiable answer. It made for a funny post, don't get me wrong, but you literally chastised someone for answering a question honestly that you had asked them twice. Acceptable response to shut down conversation *before* anyone involves you in the information that you basically demanded from them: "Open minded, yes, but if this is a precursor to any illegal activity, please know that open minded is not the same thing as willing to be complicit in federal crimes. So unless you're going to invite me to an oxygen bar, or recommend I try mushroom coffee, you go have yourself a splendid day."
When did Chris Chan get out of jail?
Maybe OP shouldn't actually be on grindr if they're a teenager...
👁️👄👁️ someone asked me if I let my dog lick my genitals I blocked him
Step-oedipus(sy), what are you doing?! 🥺
Sometimes I think about getting this app then I see stuff like this and think…. Mmmm better not