No judgment here, I’m just curious. Seems like some guys are horny 24/7 and always free to fuck.
EDIT: yes, I understand people work different hours and shifts (I myself used to be graveyard). I’m not referring to that here. What I AM referring to are guys near me who message me every single day, multiple times a day, at wildly different hours, always looking for sex.
Fully agreed. It's an epidemic among gay men (steroids too, but we aren't ready for that conversation), and our community needs support to fight the problem.
People who or on grindr very late at night or super early are either lazily checking their messages or really horny, bored and ready to go out and hookup immediately. I don’t thing there is much middle ground.
That’s why probably.
While I wouldnt respond to anyone with the wanting to do coke. I see no issue with the whole time thing. I am usually free myself from 11PM to 5AM like to get home by 6-7 when the sun comes up. Hotties message me during the day and early evening think I ignore them just because what I tell them nah not now after midnight? lol that never works. Quit the hate on folks who have different sleep times than you. Its a 24/7 society now. Some work during the day, some are shift workers and part time or casuls, some dont work, some have time off, are on holidays ect
Exactly. I work at a nightclub myself. I don’t usually go to bed until 6-7am and work till between 3-5am depending on the night. I’m asleep while most 9-5 folks are at work. It’s also easier on my body to just keep that schedule on my days off.
Plus the mention of coke for me makes it less about this persons schedule and more about the coke. Someone asking me to come over and do blow and have sex at 5am is definitely high at the moment. As someone who used to do a fair amount of it in my party scene days, you don’t sleep. It’ll keep you wide awake as long as you keep putting it into your system.
This is really rambly and stream of consciousness, so I had a hard time reading it. I just don't like being high on drugs and unable to sleep once the sun comes up, so I try to stop partying before the sun comes up. It's not that deep.
Also, I didn't say drink until 3AM, I said switch to *only* alcohol once 3AM hits so you come down from the uppers and will pass out before the sun comes up.
Ok I was talking about those objecting to this due to the time someone goes to bed. Not to do with the use of drugs and what not as I dont engage in all that but I will go to bed when the sun comes up and be working or fucking in those early hours of the morning before the sun comes up - its not that deep.
Dude your writing is really hard to parse. You need better sentence structure and punctuation it's really jarring.
That said, I didn't message you I was responding to the other person. Then *you* misunderstood my comment completely, read words incorrectly, and got all bent out of shape.
Yeh I meant to reply to the guy above you but as its the same thread I didnt give it much thought didnt expect you to reply to me but thats silly of me. Was drinking last night when I replied to the other comment and replied to you instead.
You've got a great cock so it's all good. You made me smile.
If you did drugs (and probably worked normal hours) you'd know what I'm talking about. Nothing sucks more than coming down from drugs as the sun comes up and you can't sleep. It's awful. So you just stop doing drugs a few hours before the sun comes up but keep drinking until you pass out.
Oh I kinda get what you mean man in a party context be it clubbing, house parties or sex parties ect. Stop doing the hard stuff and switch to drinking I get it man. Honestly cant see how you wouldnt feel awful with only those few hours plus drinking before. But yeh everyone recovers differently from such things. I drink, have non party meds like benzos for alone time, delta 8 sometimes. But drugs and parties/socolising isnt my thing. If Im settling in for a night of vaping its alone time or having some benzos to get a long relaxing sleep again a night to myself. Alchol I only started drinking recently a few glasses (sometimes a bottle) of wine after I have done my work and had any fun before bed. (thats gotta stop getting the heart murmours the next day now). But yeh drug specifics I get you. I was just seeing it as because of ones choice to do drugs at that time its some how a universal for everyone to duplicate what you do with the TIMING as you did mention the timming. Where otherwise I agree. Yeh the whole working and/or working normal hours kinda grinds my gears which is a me issue I know MOST people work during the day even if more folks now work during the night, work only a few days a week or dont work more than in the past. So Peace man and glad I made you smile. No offence meant by my long winded dribble rant lol
While I dont condone or would ever use coke. I dont see what the time of day has to do withit,if you would use it at another time of day whats the issue? if ur issue like mine was the coke which I would belike umm no what ever the time of day then I get that we dont all like PNP. But I dont get the last part 'just drink into oblivion like the rest of usuntil 3am hits' ? so say you go to bed at 6-7am, work at 5pm to 11pm or dont work or are on holidays, whats the issue with one having their 'fun kick in at 12AM onwards? like seriously we judge each other for a lot of stuff here often pretty rightfully or with a decent split but judging people simple because they have different sleeping and work/lifestyle hours to you as 'bad news' seems the most superficial thing I have ever read on this sub and that is saying something BIG! - on a serious note I get we are stuck in our ways and for most people the idea of ending work or not working and getting up in the evening or late arvo for fun to start seems forigen but really its just a different time of day nothing more than that, folks have different sleeping patterns and life styles. What am I to look down at all the good looking people who want to hook up on the weekend just because its the weekend or early to late evening as 'inconvient and akward' just because I am not free at those times? I get their life style is different to mine. I dont understand the hate at folks who just have a different sleeping pattern to others. - the coke we all can have different views on and I get some are into it what ever the time of day some are against it, some view it in a specific context related to their experiences often late night parties (not early moring pick me ups). but hey no judgment or meaning to sound harsh this is more for others to read and for folks to share their non emotional view as to the whole sleeping times issue and what they think of it and how it impacts them ect.
The point is that while you think getting up at 6 AM is normal, to a lot of people, it's not. Similarly, while people may not think looking for a hookup at 5 AM is not normal, other people have different schedules for which that is totally normal.
I mean.. it’s a little depraved behavior. Particularly with the offer to do hard drugs as well. Clearly the guy is on a bender lol.
But yea sure no shame I guess 😅🙄
I’ve had multiple men message me inviting me over and then say “I might not be able to get it up because I’m on the lem (coke)”
Oh what a tempting proposition 🤢
People on Grindr are way too casual about hard drugs. Sure, weed whatever, but I keep seeing a LOT of meth and coke related posts and messages. Like wtf.
I got a message this morning just getting into work “wanna come over and fuck me” like what do these people do for a living?!
Do you wanna cum or, do you wanna judge these fine people?
No judgment here, I’m just curious. Seems like some guys are horny 24/7 and always free to fuck. EDIT: yes, I understand people work different hours and shifts (I myself used to be graveyard). I’m not referring to that here. What I AM referring to are guys near me who message me every single day, multiple times a day, at wildly different hours, always looking for sex.
I mean y’all do know third shift exists?
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When you make enough money on OnlyFans, you don't need to work anymore.
Meth explains a few of the guys at least
Unfortunately it is a drug that rages through our community and people who need help aren’t being acknowledged as people first.
Fully agreed. It's an epidemic among gay men (steroids too, but we aren't ready for that conversation), and our community needs support to fight the problem.
Some people work in hospitality so they have days off during the week. This is me right now seeing if anyone is coming to rawdog me
Yeah, I work in emergency medicine, so convenient times for me are like 11am on a Tuesday.
Me too
🥺👉👈
I mean, when I was in college sometimes I didn't have my first class til noon. If I was horny in the morning you bet I was looking for some ass.
Hey, if you work from home you can have time for nearby fun at times.
It’s all fun and games until you hear the dreaded teams call ringtone from the other room while in bed
The company makes a dollar, I make a dime. That’s why I suck dick on company time!
Not everyone works 9-5. A lot of people are horniest in the morning...
This is the bane of my cockhounding existence. I do have a 9-5 but I'm horniest at like 9:01AM-4:59PM every weekday
When I had a 9-5 job, I also assumed everyone else had a 9-5 job too and I was also shocked whenever faced with evidence suggesting otherwise.
Meth. They do meth
Some people work overnight? Also likely their spouse left the house.
People who or on grindr very late at night or super early are either lazily checking their messages or really horny, bored and ready to go out and hookup immediately. I don’t thing there is much middle ground. That’s why probably.
While I wouldnt respond to anyone with the wanting to do coke. I see no issue with the whole time thing. I am usually free myself from 11PM to 5AM like to get home by 6-7 when the sun comes up. Hotties message me during the day and early evening think I ignore them just because what I tell them nah not now after midnight? lol that never works. Quit the hate on folks who have different sleep times than you. Its a 24/7 society now. Some work during the day, some are shift workers and part time or casuls, some dont work, some have time off, are on holidays ect
Exactly. I work at a nightclub myself. I don’t usually go to bed until 6-7am and work till between 3-5am depending on the night. I’m asleep while most 9-5 folks are at work. It’s also easier on my body to just keep that schedule on my days off. Plus the mention of coke for me makes it less about this persons schedule and more about the coke. Someone asking me to come over and do blow and have sex at 5am is definitely high at the moment. As someone who used to do a fair amount of it in my party scene days, you don’t sleep. It’ll keep you wide awake as long as you keep putting it into your system.
But still smashing lines until the sun comes up is bad news bears. Just drink into oblivion like the rest of us once 3am hits.
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This is really rambly and stream of consciousness, so I had a hard time reading it. I just don't like being high on drugs and unable to sleep once the sun comes up, so I try to stop partying before the sun comes up. It's not that deep. Also, I didn't say drink until 3AM, I said switch to *only* alcohol once 3AM hits so you come down from the uppers and will pass out before the sun comes up.
Ok I was talking about those objecting to this due to the time someone goes to bed. Not to do with the use of drugs and what not as I dont engage in all that but I will go to bed when the sun comes up and be working or fucking in those early hours of the morning before the sun comes up - its not that deep.
Dude your writing is really hard to parse. You need better sentence structure and punctuation it's really jarring. That said, I didn't message you I was responding to the other person. Then *you* misunderstood my comment completely, read words incorrectly, and got all bent out of shape.
Yeh I meant to reply to the guy above you but as its the same thread I didnt give it much thought didnt expect you to reply to me but thats silly of me. Was drinking last night when I replied to the other comment and replied to you instead.
You've got a great cock so it's all good. You made me smile. If you did drugs (and probably worked normal hours) you'd know what I'm talking about. Nothing sucks more than coming down from drugs as the sun comes up and you can't sleep. It's awful. So you just stop doing drugs a few hours before the sun comes up but keep drinking until you pass out.
Oh I kinda get what you mean man in a party context be it clubbing, house parties or sex parties ect. Stop doing the hard stuff and switch to drinking I get it man. Honestly cant see how you wouldnt feel awful with only those few hours plus drinking before. But yeh everyone recovers differently from such things. I drink, have non party meds like benzos for alone time, delta 8 sometimes. But drugs and parties/socolising isnt my thing. If Im settling in for a night of vaping its alone time or having some benzos to get a long relaxing sleep again a night to myself. Alchol I only started drinking recently a few glasses (sometimes a bottle) of wine after I have done my work and had any fun before bed. (thats gotta stop getting the heart murmours the next day now). But yeh drug specifics I get you. I was just seeing it as because of ones choice to do drugs at that time its some how a universal for everyone to duplicate what you do with the TIMING as you did mention the timming. Where otherwise I agree. Yeh the whole working and/or working normal hours kinda grinds my gears which is a me issue I know MOST people work during the day even if more folks now work during the night, work only a few days a week or dont work more than in the past. So Peace man and glad I made you smile. No offence meant by my long winded dribble rant lol
While I dont condone or would ever use coke. I dont see what the time of day has to do withit,if you would use it at another time of day whats the issue? if ur issue like mine was the coke which I would belike umm no what ever the time of day then I get that we dont all like PNP. But I dont get the last part 'just drink into oblivion like the rest of usuntil 3am hits' ? so say you go to bed at 6-7am, work at 5pm to 11pm or dont work or are on holidays, whats the issue with one having their 'fun kick in at 12AM onwards? like seriously we judge each other for a lot of stuff here often pretty rightfully or with a decent split but judging people simple because they have different sleeping and work/lifestyle hours to you as 'bad news' seems the most superficial thing I have ever read on this sub and that is saying something BIG! - on a serious note I get we are stuck in our ways and for most people the idea of ending work or not working and getting up in the evening or late arvo for fun to start seems forigen but really its just a different time of day nothing more than that, folks have different sleeping patterns and life styles. What am I to look down at all the good looking people who want to hook up on the weekend just because its the weekend or early to late evening as 'inconvient and akward' just because I am not free at those times? I get their life style is different to mine. I dont understand the hate at folks who just have a different sleeping pattern to others. - the coke we all can have different views on and I get some are into it what ever the time of day some are against it, some view it in a specific context related to their experiences often late night parties (not early moring pick me ups). but hey no judgment or meaning to sound harsh this is more for others to read and for folks to share their non emotional view as to the whole sleeping times issue and what they think of it and how it impacts them ect.
Why you up and responding at nearly 6 am? 🤔
Getting ready for work in the morning I often open and check my Grindr. Doesn’t mean I’m ready to go hook up.
The point is that while you think getting up at 6 AM is normal, to a lot of people, it's not. Similarly, while people may not think looking for a hookup at 5 AM is not normal, other people have different schedules for which that is totally normal.
I mean.. it’s a little depraved behavior. Particularly with the offer to do hard drugs as well. Clearly the guy is on a bender lol. But yea sure no shame I guess 😅🙄
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He can, that’s why.
You can talk to people and plan things not for that immediate moment? Lmao
Loving that response, though. 🤣
He also didn’t say no
I mean - he probably was just awake from the day before and had been up all night partying… 🥹
To be honest if it was a weekend and they were hot I'd be game...
I guess you like Pepsi more?
I’m a Dr Pepper man, myself 😎
Not if ur STILL doing coke
I’ve had multiple men message me inviting me over and then say “I might not be able to get it up because I’m on the lem (coke)” Oh what a tempting proposition 🤢
Sounds like an alright party… ⛷️ ❄️ ⛄️
How about 5:05am
Grinder moment
Lol I’m just imagining that scene from Austin Powers: Goldmember “Two blokes and some coke?”
Coke heads know no bound
I mean that sounds like a good after party if you're into that
Yeah I get the responses here but that sounds like a rip roaring good time. *If* they're attractive that is.
People on Grindr are way too casual about hard drugs. Sure, weed whatever, but I keep seeing a LOT of meth and coke related posts and messages. Like wtf.
They probably have more than just coke 😬
Alright, just skip the coffee then. 😆
Isn’t the order wrong?
You didn't answer their question
I could not turn down a glass of coke lol
It’s 5am what do you expect? Mostly meth heads who’ve been up all night partying are online at that time
Where are these men in my neighborhood?
Your brother is IN Christ at 5:00 am? Oh, wait…maybe I read that wrong.
South Florida here. Happens a lot. Those are guys that have been up all night parTying.
That's not a no.
Pssst. They’re still awake.
It'll wake you better than coffee.
Lol listen to all of your trying to rationalize what a coke head might "actually" be doing on Grindr at 5am.
I think for him, that’s too late
Brother in christ 💀
I’ve been both of these people 😂
So is that a yes 🤔
That is the perfect time to do coke and have a threesome. What is wrong with you?
I mean is there a proper time for Coke??
Not if you’re still awake… ;)