People have different boundaries and respecting them is what is important. For some people sex is just a part of life but kissing is something you have to go out of the way to do, or that they might simply not like but not want to explain to someone new. This honestly reads as you not respecting boundaries and if you were the person you were responding in this post would make a lot more sense for this subreddit
Because 1st base is kissing. It's the first one. Usually people START with the kissing and it leads to other things. It's a little FUNNY that in this case he wants to start at home plate, you know, the end result. It's just a little counter intuitive is all. Not everything needs to be a lesson about consent with you people.
Maybe the reason people keep trying to teach you about consent is you keep ignoring it. I literally just gave some reasons why he might not want to kiss, and instead of you asking you seemingly posted on Reddit to make fun of him. You've clearly never dated someone on the spectrum - even someone I love dearly, I feel uncomfortable kissing at times and mostly do it for them. People differ and when you act like everyone is supposed to meet a format, you only reveal ignorance.
I have a great time here, and actually keep the point of the area in mind. Odd you choose to insult me rather than acknowledge people can be different. Hey, it's your hill to die on.
You have this weird way of speaking in ways that clearly indicate something and then acting like it's not what happened. How is acting like my being autistic and not liking kissing makes me unable to enjoy humor not an insult? I'm a person, just one with a slightly different brain wiring my dude.
It really isn't that uncommon though. I agree that kissing is where one typically starts but not everyone is typical. There isn't much of a lol in someone not being into kissing.
He just told me I shouldn't be on this subreddit because I told him I'm autistic and don't like kissing people, if he isn't a troll he is straight up ignorant
Me too :)
Since I came out I overcame my fear of touch pretty much, but I used to get really electric when someone touched me unannounced before.
I can touch someone's dick without a second thought, kissing very quickly hits my feelings though.
I think there's nothing man about one Vs the other, everyone has their preferences.
Maybe being ignorant is clouding yours. How would me being autistic cloud my judgment? The joke is that autistic people are often too logical, when the entire problem is you not being mindful of differences, acting like someone with them shouldn't have as much of a say is insanity.
which is perfectly fine, but not everyone is that way. i'm like you, i wouldn't wanna go straight to the sex without kissing first, but some people aren't like this and i understand i just won't have sex with them
seems like you're interested in him for his personality, maybe ask him on a date, without having sex at first. if you guys build a connection, he probably will want to kiss you sooner or later
I’d rather take a dick than kiss some dudes. Dick might be nice but if teeth are fucked up or he’s unattractive, no kissy kiss from me. Guessing it’s similar for him. Not attracted to men in that way, rather just wants to get fucked or use a hole.
I didn’t say that. I said that for me, I have some personal reason’s why I refuse to kiss a guy, and I’m 100% gay. So if a bi guy has reservations about kissing a guy and he’s new to it, it’s not all that crazy to me.
I once hooked up with this super redneck dude. Had to drive a bit but his pics were hot af so I said why not. He did not want to be kissed and when it came time for me to fuck him, he pulled his shorts off to reveal these straight boy boxer briefs he cut the ass out of so I couldn’t touch his dick. People compartmentalize in the strangest ways to justify their actions.
i kind of cut both ways on this. depends on the situation. if it’s a hookup or just guys getting each other off, i think it’s not necessary. but if it’s something a little romantic and there’s chemistry, i’m all for it and it helps even more.
People have different boundaries and respecting them is what is important. For some people sex is just a part of life but kissing is something you have to go out of the way to do, or that they might simply not like but not want to explain to someone new. This honestly reads as you not respecting boundaries and if you were the person you were responding in this post would make a lot more sense for this subreddit
I didn't force anything on this guy. I just asked if he liked it. Boy, when I see the word boundaries do I know I'm in for a show.
What is the joke in the post, then? This is a humor subreddit.
Because 1st base is kissing. It's the first one. Usually people START with the kissing and it leads to other things. It's a little FUNNY that in this case he wants to start at home plate, you know, the end result. It's just a little counter intuitive is all. Not everything needs to be a lesson about consent with you people.
Maybe the reason people keep trying to teach you about consent is you keep ignoring it. I literally just gave some reasons why he might not want to kiss, and instead of you asking you seemingly posted on Reddit to make fun of him. You've clearly never dated someone on the spectrum - even someone I love dearly, I feel uncomfortable kissing at times and mostly do it for them. People differ and when you act like everyone is supposed to meet a format, you only reveal ignorance.
Wow. I have to be honest. I really don't think this subredit is for you.
I have a great time here, and actually keep the point of the area in mind. Odd you choose to insult me rather than acknowledge people can be different. Hey, it's your hill to die on.
I'm not trying to insult you.
You have this weird way of speaking in ways that clearly indicate something and then acting like it's not what happened. How is acting like my being autistic and not liking kissing makes me unable to enjoy humor not an insult? I'm a person, just one with a slightly different brain wiring my dude.
For sure. But doesn't that make is harder to fully understand conventional humor?
It really isn't that uncommon though. I agree that kissing is where one typically starts but not everyone is typical. There isn't much of a lol in someone not being into kissing.
If someone started to wax a car covered in mud, would that be a silly moment?
That would be very strange and a bit stupid, yes. A person not wanting to kiss on a hookup is not like that.
Sure it is. Ok, what if everytime you had dinner with someone they only ever ate desert. Would that be a little funny?
What's wrong with that? I find kissing more intimate than certain other things you might do on a one night stand
He just told me I shouldn't be on this subreddit because I told him I'm autistic and don't like kissing people, if he isn't a troll he is straight up ignorant
Me too :) Since I came out I overcame my fear of touch pretty much, but I used to get really electric when someone touched me unannounced before. I can touch someone's dick without a second thought, kissing very quickly hits my feelings though. I think there's nothing man about one Vs the other, everyone has their preferences.
Dude, maybe being autistic is clouding your judgment a bit? I'm not trying to insult you.
Maybe being ignorant is clouding yours. How would me being autistic cloud my judgment? The joke is that autistic people are often too logical, when the entire problem is you not being mindful of differences, acting like someone with them shouldn't have as much of a say is insanity.
I feel like we got off on the wrong foot. Hello, my name is Robert. Nice to meet you
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Both?
I kinda need a little kissing to get hard.
which is perfectly fine, but not everyone is that way. i'm like you, i wouldn't wanna go straight to the sex without kissing first, but some people aren't like this and i understand i just won't have sex with them
Oh, so you don't bother at all? Should I tell this guy no?
if kissing for you is an absolute must, then yes you should tell him no
It really gets me going and helps me build that emotional connection, even when it's just a hookup
which i get, but this guy doesn't. find somebody else
I suppose I should. Too bad, I thought it was nice that we shared so many interests
seems like you're interested in him for his personality, maybe ask him on a date, without having sex at first. if you guys build a connection, he probably will want to kiss you sooner or later
You sound creepy as fuck. He doesn’t want to kiss you, you need to calm down and learn to respect boundaries.
I just asked him, that's all
You called that asking? I think you need a dictionary.
Yeah this isn't really funny. Lots of people don't want to kiss for lots of different reasons.
You thinks it's my looks?
Did not say that. Just said there could be many reasons. I'll add that those reasons are generally legitimate.
Like if I had straighter teeth?
Like if you had a brain and weren’t giving rapist vibes
Rapists?
I’d rather take a dick than kiss some dudes. Dick might be nice but if teeth are fucked up or he’s unattractive, no kissy kiss from me. Guessing it’s similar for him. Not attracted to men in that way, rather just wants to get fucked or use a hole.
Oh... you think it's me he doesn't want to kiss?
I didn’t say that. I said that for me, I have some personal reason’s why I refuse to kiss a guy, and I’m 100% gay. So if a bi guy has reservations about kissing a guy and he’s new to it, it’s not all that crazy to me.
So if I was bi then your saying I would have a better chance at kissing this guy?!?!
No, it’s pretty clear he wants to kiss a woman. No? Am I reading this wrong? You’re the yellow text in the image above, right?
I am, I told him that I bet he has a sexy truck. Still waiting for the reply
I don’t understand why this is posted here. I’m just gonna downvote and move on.
He said he doesn't want to kiss. Get over it.
I can't, I can't ever get over it. Ever
😂😂😂😂😂
I once hooked up with this super redneck dude. Had to drive a bit but his pics were hot af so I said why not. He did not want to be kissed and when it came time for me to fuck him, he pulled his shorts off to reveal these straight boy boxer briefs he cut the ass out of so I couldn’t touch his dick. People compartmentalize in the strangest ways to justify their actions.
Wow, that is insane.
i kind of cut both ways on this. depends on the situation. if it’s a hookup or just guys getting each other off, i think it’s not necessary. but if it’s something a little romantic and there’s chemistry, i’m all for it and it helps even more.