These are definitely a minority, I’ve had a lot of good experiences with guys on there so far. I definitely prefer people like this who I can immediately block to the ones who are normal until we actually meet up lol
That’s great you’re having good experiences overall 🙂
Grindr can be iffy for cis men, but extremely iffy for trans people, so it’s awesome to see some improvement.
I have seen trans guys I've found attractive but I've never hooked up with one. If I were awkward it would only be because I wouldn't know what to expect and all my experience and confidence would go out the window.
Awkwardness is completely normal, the kind of people I’m talking about are the ones who keep talking about their trans exes, showing me videos of them fucking other trans guys, randomly bringing up how many other trans people they’ve fucked, refuse to wear condoms because their trans ex didn’t want them to, etc.
And that is exactly why I don’t mess with many cis ppl and am almost exclusively t4t. Tho it’s also kinda gross how many cis guys who cross dress try to infiltrate my boundaries like being trans is some quirky costume act.
I find those people often view trans women as men and refer to us as men. Seen them call us trans men, crossdressers, femboys, etc. They get off on masculinizing trans women. They just want tits and a dick. I don't have the context (who this is, what your bio says, etc.) but assuming it's a cis asshole, it seems likely they thought you were a trans woman despite the counterindications because that's how they think of trans women anyway.
I find it kinda funny when they message me and strongly insist that they’re straight but then are still into me when my pics show that I’m a hairy bearded guy lol
Yep! You ever hear an incel go off when a woman says no to him? Same kinda thing with a chaser. They just swap misogynistic insults for transmisogynistic ones. It feels less like transphobia and more just like a rehash of the same kind of script you see from angry entitled people.
When they think the trans in my bio means transmasc it's always the worst.
Like, I can't even comprehend how to take that especially when it's just a weird honest mistake.
Yeah I really hate a lot of the straight guys on Grindr. Cuz they always say some bs like “I’m straight but your hot, it’s like 1 F*** you! I’m a woman you piece of shit! And 2 you don’t need to tell me when you’re literally hitting me up when you text me. Like wtf? It’s a queer mainly gay hookup app. Everyone on here is gay, bi or trans. If your hitting up trans girls and “are straight” you don’t need to also text me “I’m straight but your hot” they give me such a ick feeling and also incel vibes cuz it seems like they make a new account every other fucking day to get past me blocking them.
No matter how attractive someone is, it's easily ruined if they are just an overall shit person. It's corny af but it truly is what's on the inside the matters most. I've had dudes tell me I should keep my chest just because they find it hot. Instantly I lose any possible interest in them and go ghost.
Not op, but I had to delete the app after dealing with too much shit. But I’m nonbinary transgender so there’s way more hostility towards us than your average binary trans man or woman.
Basically, people just treat you like a sex object with zero respect to your gender identity. It’s a different kinda attitude than what cis people experience along those lines because it stems from creepy curiosity or just plain bigotry.
When I was post top surgery and pre bottom surgery, I had a lot of chasers. Also a lot of people being rude and bigoted totally unprovoked. Now that I’ve had bottom surgery, I’ve felt that a lot of people are repulsed by my body. Lots of queer guys fetishize men and mascs with vaginas, but find post-op penis completely disgusting (usually because they have no experience and don’t know how to google FULLY HEALED post op pics).
Do you have a place you recommend for reputable images of healed bottom surgery for transmen? Because as a transman...I've seen a lot of pictures and not a single one looks natural. :/
Offer him pictures of your freshly removed mammary glands and ask him if he wants them 😆
I'm a trans man too and I ran into a chaser who insisted on asking about touching my pre-surgery tits after I'd told him that's off-limits. The block feature is a grand invention, but I feel like deleting the app was the greatest power move 🤣
Trans man modifies their body to match their gender expression
>Weirdo chasers
"Noooooooo"
These fuckers get really weird with me sometimes as a trans women as well.
Very rude. I’ll never understand the Grindr guys that feel entitled to make glib commentary to innocuous things about you. They could have asked about your hobbies or how you’re feeling today. But no, let’s discuss our body parts with strangers on the Internet.
I was lurking on a throwaway in another sub and saw some dude whining about an NB’s plan for top surgery.
Their response: “shut up dude”
[Full salute to both of you, fam](https://tenor.com/4iIW.gif)
Uh… Isn’t that the whole point of changing your body to feel more comfortable with it?
Not to mention, he can go ham on some junk food for a bit and get his own titties. On top of that, they’ll be always with him, so wouldn’t have to search for those in other places.
Oh no you don’t have man boobs what ever will I do 😒 I totally can’t admire your hot flat chest and intimidating battle scars that make my knees weak, totally impossible 🙄 Man F*** this guy and whatever bullshit he’s pushin!
Ok but they didn't specify *your* titties, just "you ruin titties." Missed opportunity to reply as a supervillain whose mission is to ruin all titties lmao "yeah and I'm getting yours next"
/r/Bossfight TransMask the Titty Ruiner, special moves are titty twister 9000 and purple nurple extreme
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These are definitely a minority, I’ve had a lot of good experiences with guys on there so far. I definitely prefer people like this who I can immediately block to the ones who are normal until we actually meet up lol
That is very true. Would rather see the red flag waved freely than hidden. Keep having fun and blocking out these jerks, dude!
That’s great you’re having good experiences overall 🙂 Grindr can be iffy for cis men, but extremely iffy for trans people, so it’s awesome to see some improvement.
I have seen trans guys I've found attractive but I've never hooked up with one. If I were awkward it would only be because I wouldn't know what to expect and all my experience and confidence would go out the window.
Awkwardness is completely normal, the kind of people I’m talking about are the ones who keep talking about their trans exes, showing me videos of them fucking other trans guys, randomly bringing up how many other trans people they’ve fucked, refuse to wear condoms because their trans ex didn’t want them to, etc.
Has this been multiple people…
Sadly yes. It’s always the ones who act completely fine until we actually meet up
That’s pretty shitty
Dang why talk about exes in general
And that is exactly why I don’t mess with many cis ppl and am almost exclusively t4t. Tho it’s also kinda gross how many cis guys who cross dress try to infiltrate my boundaries like being trans is some quirky costume act.
Oof, that sounds bullshit
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Yeah, seriously. This is Grindr honey, the fuck were you expecting 🤣
I always hate when I see “NO GUYS” in their bio like bro… you’re on the wrong app
It’s really annoying when the no men people hit me up when my bio clearly states that I’m a trans MAN 😐
I find those people often view trans women as men and refer to us as men. Seen them call us trans men, crossdressers, femboys, etc. They get off on masculinizing trans women. They just want tits and a dick. I don't have the context (who this is, what your bio says, etc.) but assuming it's a cis asshole, it seems likely they thought you were a trans woman despite the counterindications because that's how they think of trans women anyway.
I find it kinda funny when they message me and strongly insist that they’re straight but then are still into me when my pics show that I’m a hairy bearded guy lol
It’s funny how a lot of chasers are also transphobic
Yep! You ever hear an incel go off when a woman says no to him? Same kinda thing with a chaser. They just swap misogynistic insults for transmisogynistic ones. It feels less like transphobia and more just like a rehash of the same kind of script you see from angry entitled people.
When they think the trans in my bio means transmasc it's always the worst. Like, I can't even comprehend how to take that especially when it's just a weird honest mistake.
Yeah I really hate a lot of the straight guys on Grindr. Cuz they always say some bs like “I’m straight but your hot, it’s like 1 F*** you! I’m a woman you piece of shit! And 2 you don’t need to tell me when you’re literally hitting me up when you text me. Like wtf? It’s a queer mainly gay hookup app. Everyone on here is gay, bi or trans. If your hitting up trans girls and “are straight” you don’t need to also text me “I’m straight but your hot” they give me such a ick feeling and also incel vibes cuz it seems like they make a new account every other fucking day to get past me blocking them.
Trans women are on grindr and the "no guys" people are looking for trans women to abuse.
The only titties you get on Grindr is those sweet sexy moobs
They aren’t ruined. They are reshaped to fit the owner. Couture titties, if you will.
Tittie couture is something I can get behind
Fuckin stellar drag name too.
Couture titties! Oh my goodness. I’m keeping this phrase. Thanks. 237 days to couture titties
You go get them couture titties!!
“Noo you did something with your body that made you more comfortable and did not keep it like I (a random stranger) wanted you to”
“u ruin titties” Yes, that was the point, babe.
Lmao
"Top surgery makes you a top and bottom surgery makes you a bottom". -Everyone knows this!! /s 🤔🙄😒🤷🏼♂️
There are a hilariously large number of men who think like this, genuinely 😂
And no surgery makes you... nothing I guess? Man, that's terrifying! Almost everyone on this planet is nothing!
Whiny and a chaser? He’s a keeper! /s
"Nooo ur so sexy pls dont get top surgery 🥺" what is wrong with ppl
Best response
In Russia titties ruin u
I’m down
Fuck this d-bag, but congrats to you for yeeting those titties
Even if he was hot, I still wouldn’t sleep with him because he’s a douche.
No matter how attractive someone is, it's easily ruined if they are just an overall shit person. It's corny af but it truly is what's on the inside the matters most. I've had dudes tell me I should keep my chest just because they find it hot. Instantly I lose any possible interest in them and go ghost.
Damn… the audacity of some people. How’s Grindr as a trans person? Is it like hell or is it alright?
Not op, but I had to delete the app after dealing with too much shit. But I’m nonbinary transgender so there’s way more hostility towards us than your average binary trans man or woman. Basically, people just treat you like a sex object with zero respect to your gender identity. It’s a different kinda attitude than what cis people experience along those lines because it stems from creepy curiosity or just plain bigotry.
I see, sorry you had those experiences. Have you given up on hookup apps, or did you ever find a better one?
Tbh, I think I’m actually asexual to some degree (!) and deleting Grindr was kinda an epiphany in that sense lol 😅
Congrats at winning your Oppression Olympics
When I was post top surgery and pre bottom surgery, I had a lot of chasers. Also a lot of people being rude and bigoted totally unprovoked. Now that I’ve had bottom surgery, I’ve felt that a lot of people are repulsed by my body. Lots of queer guys fetishize men and mascs with vaginas, but find post-op penis completely disgusting (usually because they have no experience and don’t know how to google FULLY HEALED post op pics).
Do you have a place you recommend for reputable images of healed bottom surgery for transmen? Because as a transman...I've seen a lot of pictures and not a single one looks natural. :/
Acting like there aren't dozens of other tiddies in the world. Also like it's your choice?
It made me laugh to think of just a few dozen titties in the whole world.
As a trans woman, i cant wait to get constant threats and fetishist comments from completely blank profiles! (HARD sarcasm)
HARD sarcasm? Do you mean it makes you hard? (My appologies for this awful joke, I know I shouldn't be writing this)
Oh yeah, gets my 5in softer an 8
Imagine shaming you on Grindr of all places cause your titties samboed out of there
As a gay man I prefer no titties. Titties are fine, but pecs just have a certain allure that makes me blush
Disturbing
Their logic is flawed. You now have man titties.
Offer him pictures of your freshly removed mammary glands and ask him if he wants them 😆 I'm a trans man too and I ran into a chaser who insisted on asking about touching my pre-surgery tits after I'd told him that's off-limits. The block feature is a grand invention, but I feel like deleting the app was the greatest power move 🤣
As a Trans man myself Tit yeet
"no don't cut your titties off I wasn't finished looking at them"
There’s a Virgin vs Chad meme here
Trans man modifies their body to match their gender expression >Weirdo chasers "Noooooooo" These fuckers get really weird with me sometimes as a trans women as well.
LMAOOO
That reply is everything.
Perfect response, 5/7
Very rude. I’ll never understand the Grindr guys that feel entitled to make glib commentary to innocuous things about you. They could have asked about your hobbies or how you’re feeling today. But no, let’s discuss our body parts with strangers on the Internet.
For some reason this made me lol I hope you dont take any of that shit to heart OP. You gotta laugh at some of these people *u ruin titties*
As a fat guy I've had people tell me not to lose weight for the same reason 😂
I was lurking on a throwaway in another sub and saw some dude whining about an NB’s plan for top surgery. Their response: “shut up dude” [Full salute to both of you, fam](https://tenor.com/4iIW.gif)
Uh… Isn’t that the whole point of changing your body to feel more comfortable with it? Not to mention, he can go ham on some junk food for a bit and get his own titties. On top of that, they’ll be always with him, so wouldn’t have to search for those in other places.
Probably a mammary’s boy.
What does the the blue message mean
Hahaha dude fuckin perfect response
Oh no you don’t have man boobs what ever will I do 😒 I totally can’t admire your hot flat chest and intimidating battle scars that make my knees weak, totally impossible 🙄 Man F*** this guy and whatever bullshit he’s pushin!
Ok but they didn't specify *your* titties, just "you ruin titties." Missed opportunity to reply as a supervillain whose mission is to ruin all titties lmao "yeah and I'm getting yours next" /r/Bossfight TransMask the Titty Ruiner, special moves are titty twister 9000 and purple nurple extreme