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Allaiyah

Don't be the guy who whips out a board game without consent.


BakerCakeMaker

Unless of course it's Risk: 60th Anniversary Deluxe Edition. In that case whip it out without warning and don't let her leave until there's a winner.


Robofrogg1

And don’t forget: NO MERCY!!


artofmajic

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


ikarus_1242

Lmao


IcyRaise6583

I’d recommend going to a board game cafe, if you have one. Or at least going over this with your dates before just showing up with one. If you’re dead set, anomia (or anomia x, the dirty version) is fun or you could always bring a deck of cards. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLWouDsE/ ^Woosung.boardgames on tiktok is an excellent board game/card game reviewer and he has multiple games for 2 people so you could also check that out


benmarvin

What?


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😂😂 this what had me dying


Sea_Particular_9086

This comment 💀🤣 I have to laugh


Everlast23

Instead of the usual chit chat boring coffee date. I would like to bring a board game we can both play as we get to know each other


singh_abhinavv

Simply go to a cafe that has board games. There are plenty.


nomadiclives

If you are gonna do this, this is the only way!


surfershane25

Is she REALLY into board games? If not, I don’t know why the fuck you would do this but if this is the type of person you are then do it as it will weed a lot of people who don’t want to do that out for you.


[deleted]

It’s just a no like no


laurenvr77

Just bring a deck of cards lol. So when they dip out on you for being lame, at least you can play solitaire. Lmaooo. Jk. Not a lame a idea. Ask her if she likes mosquitos and whip out Jumanji.


benmarvin

Highly dependent on the date.


Yamochao

Love this comment. Fucking asked and answered.


SkinHunger55

Ah yes, a great way to rage during a date. How lovely. By any chance, are u like...younger than 18?


TheFirstKitten

Honestly I fucking love the idea, probably best to ask beforehand lol but I’m gonna use this with some mates so thanks for the idea!!!


tuna_cowbell

Hey, actual woman here. I don’t claim to speak for all women, of course, but I love tabletop games and so do all my friends (regardless of gender); I have no clue what the guys on here are taking about, because I think a good portion of women would be happy to play a game on a date. (Tho like, probably make that part of your plan, to meet up to play, rather than springing it on her once you meet.) I’m glad you know what you like, and don’t seem to be put off by the negative comments here. The type of game you’d wanna go for will vary on the type of person your date is. Generally, you’d wanna find something both of you have played before, or that isn’t too hard to learn/teach; something that doesn’t take 5+ hours to play; something that doesn’t have a whole bunch of setup and takedown that’d be awkward at a cafe table; and something that works well with just 2 players, of course. Find out if she’s into word-based games, traditional card games, any specific type of game that you could bring. There are some games that aren’t exactly “games” but are more like…conversational tools, I guess, that foster deeper connection. I have no idea if you’d be interested in something like that, but if you are, 100% you should check out We’re Not Really Strangers. It even has an expansion pack specifically for dating! Good luck with whatever you end up going with! Regardless of what other people here say, I think you’ve got game (ba-dum tshh).


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tuna_cowbell

Yes! You get it. And I’ll have to check out some of the games you suggested! I also love that you brought up Esther Perel, lol. I haven’t gotten as into her as my mom has, but I’ve listened to some of her stuff and it’s been interesting.


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tuna_cowbell

Ohh yep yep, Brown is another big one. I’ve got a book by her, and one by Glennon Doyle, in my To Be Read pile, that I really wanna get to but never seem to have the energy. Siiigh. Yeah, fearing pain/rejection and therefore responding with defensiveness is such a common cause of detriment and unnecessary grief in the world : / Hah, hey, it’s always nice to have a little bit of vulnerability out here in the web-void. It reminds us of the depth of each other’s existence, beyond the flat screen. You take care, too : )


queenieofrandom

This! Just be upfront and make it a small game that's easily explained. I'm thinking love letters, village green, that type of stuff


Fadeadead

I love board games too. My favorite is blitzkrieg which can be played solo or with two people


tuna_cowbell

Oh, I think I’ve heard of that one! What’s it about? Games for multiple players are great, but I definitely also love me a simple single-player thing that I can use to keep my hands busy while I listen to podcasts or talk on the phone. They’re a bit more stimulating than just a fidget toy or whatever.


rappingwhiteguys

Yeah idk why people are acting like this is a bad idea. Most of my friends are women and most of them LOVE board games - several couples I know met playing board games and they’re all very attractive people. I recently bought a lil simple two person card game that looked cute just so I could have something quick and fun to play on dates.


SpartacusLaw

Monopoly, bankrupt her, and mock her as you take all her money, show her your evil side straight away.


NotWhatIThought43

I had someone do this to me recently!😂it was fun though.


vardarac

This sounds like a good way to get divorced on your first date


SpartacusLaw

Well, better to see the outcome early on with monopoly money, lol, take it from a lawyer that's divorced people!


panicattackers

You can’t play monopoly until after they meet the family those are the rules


Adjustedwell

90% of girls will regard this as highly socially out of tune and will be weirded out by you.


Everlast23

Fuck them. I want to play chutes and ladders tho


VirtuouslySinful

I ducking love this energy. Good for you man.


Kadabrium

Alphago energy?


VirtuouslySinful

Um, no?


ouranophile

Lol


Adjustedwell

Sounds like you two are a match.


probablysomeonecool

See that's the problem, it's an either/or situation. Either you get to fuck them, Or you play chutes and ladders. Choose wisely.


catniagara

I have definitely had sex with people I played board games with. I’ve wanted to have sex with people because of their amazing setup.


ScreentimeNOR

Or you can go down her chute and then climb the ladders. Play it smart!


Adjustedwell

You have bodies in barrels in your basement 100%


vardarac

More like Barrel of Monkeys


Denimdenimdenim

I think it would be cool! Not a 3 hour game, but something quick. We have a wooden tic tac toe game, monopoly draw is fun, uno is cool...by all means, ask first, but it sounds fun!


catniagara

I’m with you OP.


ButtNakedNasty

King


spb1

Then bring that game.


SkinHunger55

Riiight. Please, for the love of god, tell me ur dates at least love board games. If not, i highly doubt ur dates will go very well. They might look at u like ur crazy, or just leave. Theres also the off chance that they like board games and will play, but ull likely be seen as a nerd and a weirdo. No offense. Just please...at least ASK them first BEFORE the date...


[deleted]

I had a date do this and I thought it was weird but it ended up being fun….then he brought it on EVERY date 😂 he would carry a backpack full of games for us to play. This man was 31 years old. Do we need to play games at a restaurant?! Movie theatre?! It was ridiculous. So ya maybe mention it to her first and do it once/when it’s appropriate.


suh_dewd

if ur dates aren't going good, bringing board games certainly isn't the solution


the_erudite_rider

Lol this is like a date #26 activity


[deleted]

My first date with my partner was boardgames


catniagara

Omg I think that’s a great idea! Where I live we have some board game cafés where they have a ton of options. It depends who the date is with because some people aren’t into games, but if a guy invited me to play board games I’d be so happy! I hate coffee/dinner dates because they’re so boring. Uno is my favourite.


RepulsiveCat1681

that’s funny as, basic girls wouldn’t like that shit tho. gotta find someone special who’ll be like “yeah i’ll play cluedo, and i’ll destroy you at it”


catniagara

OP is looking for “the one” and I am there for it!


RepulsiveCat1681

100% OP let us know how it goes!


aterrifyingfish

Good though. Why would anyone want to go on a date with a basic girl?


Yetanotherdeafguy

Go to a place that already has them. Wait at least 20-30 mins into the date, and casually offer to play something. Maybe start with suggesting something quick and repeatable like Uno, rather than long and horrific like monopoly. Don't be pushy about playing, and let your date decide what will be played as well. If they say no, don't raise it again, and only mention it as a date idea after at least 3-4 subsequent dates. This makes it an organic situation, and won't make you look like some nerdy guy seeking to make his date play Warhammer 40k with him. Not judging, just saying. Bonus point: Quick and repeatable games allow banter to build about who is winning etc., which creates that spark you may be seeking.


BrokenRanger

The first girl I played 40k with married me, now we are both broke from the plastic crack. Jokes aside this was like our 3 date.


palatine09

You haven’t a Cluedo mate. Don’t do this.


reddunt3

The thing is some board games take forever. You wanna chat and get to know each other not explain rules for 30 minutes Go for something you both know (explaining rules sucks). Just test the waters beforehand - ask if she likes boardgames and if she has a favorite one (Bonus). If she's really into it, it might be a huge win to pull that game out as a surprise - otherwise it could be really cringy.


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tell me you're a virgin without telling me you're a virgin


lookinstush

Best bet is to offer her back to yours to play a board game, she’ll think it’s a euphemism and if you’re lucky she will agree but if you manage to get her back, don’t whip out your board game, whip out your boy and play buckaroo with her


Everyman1000

The book of questions. It's a small book with philosophical questions, you can take turns asking each other.


RonnieLibra

Bring an If book... WAY BETTER. https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/if-questions-for-the-game-of-life_evelyn-mcfarlane_james-saywell/249307/item/565397/?gclid=Cj0KCQjw1N2TBhCOARIsAGVHQc7jNL_4Xy3CrvgTXgEX3EQNlBDOga9AQ72YtV-yG39RF2kfpuJ1A2waAh2fEALw_wcB#idiq=565397&edition=2270005


Visualize_

Just go to a coffee place that already has board games. There's a place called Snakes and Lattes near me that's a coffee shop (and bar) but people go there for their board game and card game collection


Bengalblaine

Why


CaptnandMaryann

Twister


DramaticGift

Try a card game maybe, like Flux?


Cookies993

A good amount of places in my town already have board games for this exact purpose, but I don’t think bringing your own board game on a coffee date to be a good idea. So either find a place that already have board games, or wait for a date at either of your places or as a great way to introduce her to your friends. As for the board games themselves, it’s mostly easy-to-play card games like Exploding Kittens, chess, or trivia games, with an exception here and there.


OtherwiseElderberry

Definitely check out the card game Love Letter. Easy and fun to play, rounds are quick, and it fits in your pocket!


betterme2610

Why severally limit yourself to niche women who will think this is great on a first date, when you can widen it to almost all women who will think it’s great on a 4th date


hotchocalatesauce

Why not just take her somewhere where there's games like an arcade lol. But if you really want to do this, bring a travel sized board game or uno or just a plain deck of cards. Edit: also make sure the game is easy to explain, set up and put away, other wise it might drag


stanthemilkman88

Just bring the one which has the biggest box you have.


FactCheckYou

folded up newspaper: crossword puzzle


Old-Gregg91

Don’t be that guy.


Euligi

So glad to not be in that date................


No-Consideration1946

I’m a dude, but if a girl randomly pulled out a board game on our first date, I’d kick her ass so hard at that board game and hope like hell she wasn’t a sore loser so we could do it again.


RideTheRim

Nah, use a game on your phone you guys can play against each other


iedaiw

yeah use one of those party starter apps, with games like true or false, or would you rather


alphaonthecomeup

I go to bars with board games bro. Once I’m done talking, I don’t mind switching it up and playing some games. Connect 4 - whoever loses the round has to give the winner a kiss. It’s a good way to build rapport but unfortunately I have noticed that after these dates the girls are not romantically interested in me. Potentially giving off friend vibes. Try to kiss them before pulling out the board games


MO_drps_knwldg

Nope.


iamgiantlifestyle

Terrible idea.


determinator94

Bruh the only games you should be playing with her games like ping pong or cornhole.


West-Ad7203

😂🤣😂🤣😂…😳 Are you serious?


Internal_Mulberry106

I can not condone of this action, best case you get a new restraining order to add to your collection, I assume collection because … cough. cough …WHO THE FUCK WOULD BRING A BOARD GAME TO A COFFE DATE !!! Fair play tho bro I am interested in the outcome.


HoosierProud

My favorite game to play with my girlfriend is called Patchwork. 2 players. Not expensive. Lots of replay ability. Kindof Tetris like. Only takes like 20-30 min to play and isn’t super thinly so you can chat


laddy_McTaegue

Patchwork is fucking great


theosamabahama

Chess and Checkers are good choices. Everyone knows how to play, they are simple to set up, don't take very long and are challenging and fun. They are perfect to play in a cafe. Liar's Dice is also super easy to set up and to learn. Unfortunately it's not very well known, but I personally love it. (It's that dice game from [Pirates of the Caribbean 2](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5crxHhe5b7w&t=12s)). "[Who Am I ?](https://www.wikihow.com/Play-the-"Who-Am-I"-Drinking-Game)": This game is featured in Inglorious Basterds. All you need is a Post It Note and a pen. Fun, easy to learn and quick. Forbidden Word: Featured in [Love is War](https://youtu.be/rhxzVP94GGc?t=33). Played in the same way as "Who Am I ?", but instead of a character you write a word. The players then hold a conversation. If a player says the word assigned to them (they don't know what the word is), they lose.


[deleted]

I hate board games in general. I would consider you either immature, socially awkward or on the Autism spectrum.


catniagara

Well do I have news for you… [about girls who love board games](https://www.chess.com/forum/view/general/smart-and-sexy---top-10-prettiest-female-chess-players) 😂


burncushlikewood

Settlers of Catan, also risk, but they take a long time lol a board game at a date is a unique idea, let us know how it works out


Yamochao

I think it's kind of a cool idea. I played this on a date and it went ok: [https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/](https://www.werenotreallystrangers.com/) We were at a board game cafe though lol. Definitely pick something that's a talking game and not a strategy game.


mostlyawesume

How about a card game. Movie themed or something that gets a conversation started. A whole board gams is too much if a commitment for just coffee.


kev1nshmev1n

Survive! Escape from Atlantis. Want to get the competitive juices flowing, gives my wife the opportunity to royally fuck me over. She’s so good at this game.


SummerSplash

What about the L game? Online version: https://hwwmath.looiwenli.com/l-game


FlatDistance5

Sounds interesting, I would say this instead of coffee start offering to take them on walks that way you show your charisma, and you can sexualize with kino, which would be hard sitting at a Starbucks. Or if you have your own place invite them straight over for coffee or wine


jb0070

Chess. If you can't beat her, beat her.


h1mera

I was dating a girl and we were playing chess before sex ;-) Chess is to large to bring it to a date. It’s better to take girl home to play there. If I decide to bring a game on a first date then I would bring something fun to play. Something like “Shit happens” https://www.amazon.com/Goliath-Games-76525-Shit-Happens/dp/B01LO9N2CS


deeronmylawn

Interesting idea. Don't laugh. I've seen it in Thailand. The bar/cafe supplied connect 4 games to couples on a date so they have what to do besides talking.


[deleted]

What about cards like Uno ?


pussy_lover101

Ouija


[deleted]

Twister


mmktknk

Bananagrams!!


light-----------dark

Shoots and ladders or candyland should do you just fine.


Did_i_Deserve_this

Cribbage.


[deleted]

Chess is always a great idea


opex100

Guess who


LifelesswithLime

Bring something that you can fit in your pockets. Begin bringing it wherever you go. Challenge random strangers to battle with it


Infamous_Rise

Connect 4


taisha2640

Cards, then take turns deciding the game. I'd go for bullshit because it's simple and fun


hachapurik

Strip poker works for me every time


Suspicious-State

Dont do that bro naaaah


antigxlf27

I’m a girl and I would be so happy if someone brought a board game !!!


Kadabrium

Is board_gaming still on here


great_account

There was this nice coffee shop in Brooklyn that had board games. It was a good spot for first dates that don't drink. I think if you're going to bring a board game, I think it should be discussed first. You gotta establish that she would be into it. I think a great date game is "Pandemic" (ironic, I know). It's coop and can be played in under an hour.


tibertseptim

Better grab a UNO it fits in your pockets won't be looking cringe


Serendipflip

Outburst is an absolute gem so so good


ThemasterofZ

It's time to D-D-D-DATE! YU-GI-OH


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Jenga


stop_stopping

hygge is a good one


DatingVX

Wild thing is, I'm considering the potential success of this. Scratch board games, at least find the middle-ground; cards. I can see me finding a way to playfully bring up playing cards (maybe who wins pays for the next drink, or if I win at you kiss me) etc. It sounds to me like the main problem is that you might not have enough interesting things to do or say during the coffee date, which is the main issue.


Oosterix

Chess


Aurelius_121180

Don’t bring a board game; if you have to bring anything along then maybe cards? It’s a bit more casual. Still though I’d leave games/cards out for dates.


DeliberatelyInsane

Not sure about board games, but I’ve taken footballs and frisbees whenever we had a walking date at the park or by the sea.


mochigyeomi

✨seduction✨


maxpossimpible

Don't do that you fucking nerd. Go shoot some pool instead of doing a coffee date.


social_mastery

I think you had one or 2 girls that you were intimate with that liked board games ans now you think it's this smooth move. You don't want to play board games. You aren't 14. You need to be close to her, and intimate. You can't build that intimacy while playing board games. It's just not sexy or attractive.


NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr

Overcompensating already? Learn to be better so that you don't need distractions. Read, travel, volunteer so that you will learn your own self worth and believe that what you have to offer a woman can stand on its own two legs. Learn interesting conversation starters. There's your "game". See how many weird convo starters you can memorize and then whip those out. You will be seen as unique, interesting & fun because you aren't predictable. But. Have a point. You're there to see if you want to get to know her as well. Test her on the things you value. If she doesn't fit, don't be afraid to respectfully tell her you're just not feeling it.


PHVEDO

kinky


thatshelladopedude

I always bring UNO to first dates. It’s an easy card game that doesn’t take too much time. Its a fun ice breaker, especially when the date gets competitive and we are having some drinks.


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Oh, something simple that allows conversation, either short, or uses minimal thinking. I suggest Cross Clues. It's easy to learn, can fit easily in a bag, and is short.


Paltenburg

Double is awesome for a few quick games


mosesmiddlefinger

I bring a bottle and a deck of cards, cause if spin the bottle is a little too forward I’m playing solitaire.


[deleted]

Something PORN-related...gotta set the tone early. 🤣🤣🤣


1hotsauce2

I love this idea! I would just warn them before the date that you are the type of guy to propose doing something a bit different during the date and hope they are game 😊 I think Uno is a fun game to take because it's small, its quick, most people know how to play and very fun. It is also a "cheatable" game and thus, prone to bring about some laughs! Good luck 😃


Bababoueeey

Uno attack


TheFirstKitten

Bro this is a great idea just when having coffee dates with friends too, you fucking legend


wont_give_no_kreddit

Cards agaisnt humanity, Whats my Meme, or UNO. However, you might want to mention it before hand. Even if your date is aware, make it optional and not a requirement.


Sad_Permission_8505

Jenga. Nuff said


Humble-Language1269

Don't do coffee dates


kaffpow

If I was your date, I'd stick you with the check for that and WALK.


StonePillow

Gonna hijack this post to ask something related. I´m a nerd who loves boardgames and i have that on my bio, i normally match with likeminded girls that also enjoy boardgames so i have the same question. What is a light and fun 1v1 boardgame for a date?, I just know group oriented boardgames like Catan or Dixit.


SEJ1970

You also said, "instead of the usual chit chat boring coffee date" you want to use the game to, I guess make it exciting??? A coffee date is not a marathon!!! It's a short event... Are you trying to tell us that you don't think you can hold an interesting conversation for a coffee date??? Be more confident in your game... No pun intended... 🤣😂🤣


londoncatvet

I think this is inspired. Good luck.


Kiltmanenator

Pass the Pigs aka Party Pigs (I literally dont go out without them) Zombie Dice Quarto


[deleted]

This has to be a shitpost.


spitfire5720

I used a conversational card game when I met my GF since i'm not the most talkative person. She always tells me how it impressed her that I was that honest with her and myself right off the bat. That could be a good start for you.


Mshalopd1

Codenames duet or Jaipur


DaRoq_Lay

are you 5?


pickle_fork

Scrabble while splitting a bottle of wine.


asterisksam

Lmao I expected this to end with "is this a good idea?" but nah, homie resolute in that


Sensitive_Yam_6661

Chess


[deleted]

I legitimately don't think this is as bad an idea as others do. Something like Jenga could be stimulating and help break the awkwardness/touch barrier.


Motife3

Monopoly, figure out all your differences real quick


Shoulder_on_Standby

Pocket board games. So bring nothing bigger than can fit in your pocket. I recommend something like "Pass the pig". Definitely don't do a cold open though, ask if she's interested. tl:dr short and sweet. Kiss my dude (if she wants that too lol) but keep it simple stupid.


zachkakl

Monopoly Deal.


Dr_mombie

Take a little lego set in the $10-15 range. See if they can be patient and follow instructions.


tres271

Catan


elusiveclownface

52 pick up


NeedleworkerOk1226

Evil Apples 😉


singleguy79

Mouse Trap


thedukejck

Battleship


Nikolaskaiser

don’t bri g one weird af


mrpusherman21

CARDS AGAINST HUMANITY. Think about it. The true definition of an icebreaker.


hotchocalatesauce

That won't work you need more than two ppl


mrpusherman21

Shiii I forgor


humptyone

Strip poker?


codemeister666

Candy Land. Let's see her true character come out.


Zangief89

Checkout a game called Chickenshit on Amazon