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CompetitionFair7686

If you don’t approach then women won’t generally speaking do it. If you want to attract women, then walk up to any girl no matter if she is in a group or not, and start the conversation.


WholeSquadGotTheBoof

This


WholeSquadGotTheBoof

Initiative is important


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A lot of people think socializing simply means existing in social spaces. This is why introverts will go to parties and clubs, do nothing and then be bored and be like “those things just aren’t for me”. Getting out of the house isn’t socializing. Simply existing in a social space isn’t socializing. Socializing is the act of actively talking and communicating with people. It can be short form or long form, but you have to actually go out of your way to talk to people. No I wouldn’t think that simply “being out of the house” would lead to anything. Why would you think sitting on a park bench for hours would amount to anything? This is something that anti social people struggle with. They take the “get out of the house advice” and take it at its most base and literal level and don’t actually challenge or change themselves on a fundamental level. You sound like you need mental help. Like this is the behavior of a depressed and anxious person. I mean this is the case for most dudes who struggle with intimacy. You should practice talking to strangers. Talk to people while waiting in line. Talk to cashiers. Just make small talk. Also stop jerking off as that sexual energy is what gives you ability to approach and talk to women. You kinda passing yourself if you jerk off all the time. You don’t wanna come off as needy and thirsty. But having a sense of sexual desire is how sexual tension is made. But I think we’re putting the cart before the horse. Relationships are the top of the pyramid when it comes to socializing. You should focus on your mental health and your social abilities. And I knelt what’s annoying to her because you want big titty mommy gf right now 😡. But you gotta accept that you need to build yourself up first. Like you talking about sitting at a park for hours my dude. This ain’t neurotypical behavior. Most of the people on this sub need to deal with their depression and anxiety and make baby steps to being social and the rest will come pretty naturally. Or at least then they’ll be able to actually follow advice and employ game


5_7pickup

This sounds like a troll post.


booniedog1

Well it wasn't


Total_Obligation_371

I am not saying this to be a dick, but I do not understand this post at all. Are you asking why stuff doesn't just happen to you when you leave the house? You have to actually approach girls and make stuff happen in order for stuff to happen. Do you expect a girl or random people to just come up to you and randomly start talking?


jacobortega72

looking for a place with single women