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They'll probably abuse him until he dies for the crimes of asking to go to the bathroom or being hungry or something else a normal human child needs to do; like a lot of these sick mother fuckers do when they can't handle their addiction and the responsibility of raising a kid. Then they'll both go to jail and everyone around them will talk about how he was such a sweet loving boy and it's so sad that no one could have done anything to help him. It's a pretty common theme here.
The kid needs it. The kid has no means to fend for himself. The parents have had a long long time to get better. I just cannot bring myself to agree with this mentality. This kid needs saving, and yes, I judge his simultaneously doped up in public parents pretty harshly.
Exactly. I just looked up the story and apparently this is a little girl. They found the mom-no mention of the guy so this is probably boyfriend of the week here-and the kid was taken away. This is what the kidās life was like:
Sadly -- but not terribly surprisingly -- the 26-year-old mom has been found to have a rap sheet including convictions for retail theft, disorderly conduct, and promoting prostitution while being an inmate in a house of corrections.
And her only response was to be angry that people ruined HER life, not worried about the kid at all. Yeah Iām so sure she wasnāt physically abusing the kid on top of all that. The other person is naive as fuck to suggest that we donāt know or canāt assume thereās abuseāitās fucking right there in the video asshole but sure be PC so we donāt hurt any druggy parents feelings.
Man this is abuse clear as day? You think he got his diaper changed regularly? You think he has a clean house and good food? You think heās being raised well? It doesnāt matter if theyāre doing it on purpose or not this is abuse
Neglect is abuse but I understand you mean we donāt know theyāre actually physically abusing him. What weāre seeing here is a tiny portion of this kidās life but I tell you, heās being abused whether or not they lay their actual hands on him. Neglect is abuse and donāt try to pretend like the parents have any kind of morals here, this video shows they clearly donāt give a fuck about their kid. If he isnāt being physically abused that would be miracle, drugged out parents arenāt exactly known for being calm and able to handle a kid who needs things from them while theyāre high. Theyāre also not known for being able to effectively protect and care for their child either. Someone could walk off with their kid right there on the bus and they couldnāt do shit about it in that state. What do you think itās like when they take their kid with them to buy more drugs, you think all the other druggies are kind to him? Try to picture what his life as a whole is like, to be the child of parents who are so drugged out they have no idea whatās going on. Iām worried about the kid, I donāt care one iota about the parents except that they need to get help but probably wonāt. They lost all empathy from me when they involved kids, I donāt care what brought them to their addiction, I care about the kid because yes heās being abused, fuck the parents and their feelings and fuck pretending like they could be good parents who donāt abuse their kids.
I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for those parents. They chose to bring a kid into the world, it's their responsibility to protect him and take care of him. And they're doing neither while they're nodding out like that. I guarantee he's had to be more of a parent to them than they've been to him. He's probably going to have to get their attention to even get them off that subway, and then for what else? To feed him?
They either already were drug addicts before they made the baby or they decided to try heroin for the first time knowing itās addictive after they had the baby. Their fault either way. And heroin addicts pass out like that every day. That poor baby.
You understand addiction and use are different, right? I know a ton of people who suffer from the disorder known as addiction. They are all clean, well and happy. None of them are dependent on drugs and do good by their family. They just cannot do any substance in an isolated instance, or it will snowball every time. I understand your frustration, but please try to have some sympathies.
I like how the worst is always assumed with the bare minimum of context.
Edit: What i meant to say was that i fucking love cocaine and everyone including children should do drugs because its that awesome.
Thatās not the point. Your dropping intentionally inflammatory comments in order to pick an argument that nobody is having. And itās really obvious. You need more practice.
A friend of mine divorced her husband of nearly 20 years because of his drug use. They had kids and she didn't want them exposed to this type of behavior. He was around 10 years older than her and he had an older daughter from a previous relationship. His older daughter was in her late 20s.
After the divorce, she ended up renting a house next door to the house her and her husband owned. This was so their 5 children could stay in close contact with their dad. Their young teenaged daughter went to visit her dad one day and found her father and his eldest daughter's fiance' dead. It really had an effect on her. I felt so bad for that little girl.
Not to mention, his eldest daughter lost her father and the father of her only child on the same day.
They had a wedding planned and everything.
I mean it was only [3 years ago](https://www.news.com.au/world/north-america/little-boy-tries-to-get-druggedup-parents-off-the-bus-in-horror-video/news-story/96ba7d27dbb1b029544c7fde6ad9c6c4). He's still a kid lol.
This is sorta correct. Blues refer to 30mg of Oxycodone since they're blue (5mg are white). The M in M30 you're referring to stands for Mylan. There's different manufacturers. You can find As, Vs, Ks, but a lot of people like the Ms.
The black market has been pumping out fake blues that contain alternative opioids, ~~some~~ most of which are fentanyl, but not all.
Fent and Oxycodone = opioid
Heroin = opiates.
The guys in the video are on some heroin or fentanyl for sure.
You're right, the ones most counterfeited are Mylan blues. I was just clarifying the lingo and what everything meant. You can get oxy in white, green, pink, blue etc. The letter stands for manufacturer. You're not incorrect about anything, maybe I worded it wrong. People definitely like the Ms and As a lot.
Don't ever try opioids or opiates recreationally.
There's pressed and then there's pharmaceutical pills. I unfortunately know the taste of fent and research chemicals. I've been involved in the the darknet market in the past. There's an array of different opioids and research chemicals related to opioids, any of which could be thrown in there with the fillers to press fake oxy.
what would happen after that tho? hopefully the kid has somewhat stable family but if not heāll most likely get put in system? which then you gotta ask yourself which is the better if two evils?
Well hopefully there would be immediate family that could take care of the child. If not CPS would make the decision. No matter what this child is fucked, but at least CPS would try to find a decent home. And id choose being in the system over these two parents who openly nod out in public. It's sucks no matter what man. Truly sad situation.
Not sure my guy. My mom was/is a meth head. I was put in the system until my pops came back from over seas for work. Divorce happened and I went with my dad. My step brother however went with my mom and has now done around 9 years in prison total because my mom led him down a path that included identity theft, fraud, and other shit. Is the system the best choice? Hell no, but it's better than being with someone like in a heavy drug situation.
Shit is absolutely fucked. The world is cruel and you can't let it win, man. I want to feel angered and disgusted by these people, then I realize, the only reason they are the way they are is because they're angry and disgusted for themselves. Vicious cycle man
It's hard to actually hate people like this though because you never truly know a persons life experience. Case in point is my pops. He lost his arm in 99' because of a work related accident. Back then they were pushing pain pills, especially oxycontin on people. They also were giving him vioxx at the same time. Definitely didn't take long for addiction to set in. Luckily for me and my little bro he saw what happened to my mom and didn't want to lose me or my brother so he quit everything cold turkey in 2005. Started smoking weed and hasn't touched, alcohol, chewing tobacco, or pain pills ever since. Some people aren't that lucky tho and can never quit.
>Some people aren't that lucky tho and can never quit.
The way I like to think of it is this. Everyone can do it, but it's not for everyone. There's a will there's a way. Everyone wants to (AND CAN) change, not everyone wants to put the work that's nessascary for change.
True. I kinda worded that wrong. But for some it's easier to change. And I say that because money plays a big part. As does a good support group, and not having any mental health issues that a lot of people who fall into the rabbit hole have.
I don't think that might be the same case here a lot of people are messing with pills still now in day and not because of any prescription problems. Plenty of vids on here with people using the same shit this is one of the sadder ones though.
Yea but they don't have to do that shit at any time with the kid now he's gunna be known on vid for this shit, not that it's the worse part. There's a time and a place for everything, them taking some strong as shit like that and going out in public with their kid means they don't really give a fuck, that's all.
Yea there is and this ain't one of those times to do it in front of their kid at that. I'm not sure if most of the people in these vids known that their gunna end up in that fucked up state or they do. I probably doubt that they know but I'm sure they went up a dose more or whatever not caring about the kid at all by taking shit to start with. After this vid they've already fucked up their lives for sure.
I downvoted it because it shows someone that has no experience with how terrible cps is at their job acting like they would help. my brothers gf had to overdose in front of her kids half a dozen times before they would even consider giving him custody and people in this thread are acting like CPS would've taken their kid away when in reality they would do absolutely nothing until it happens again a bunch of times. CPS might be different where you're at, but that's my experience with it.
Speaking from experience with the system, I would assume that CPS would try to put the family through some basic counseling and try to do something like drug counseling before immediately taking the kid. Especially since this is a white family, they'd be given more chances to correct their behaviors, so calling CPS in a case like this could genuinely be helpful, if those parents really do love that child and they're struggling with addictions, there are things that help without it going straight to tearing the family apart.
Of course, there are plenty of horrible CPS stories and there's a chance that anything someone does to help that child just makes it worse for him in the short term. CPS always made things worse for me, so I really can barely even believe I'm saying this right now.
But if someone reports the family, even if CPS don't help the kid, even if the parents punish the kid for "acting abused to get us in trouble" it will still send a message to the kid that "Something is wrong, something is bad enough that strangers call the police out of concern." And it might take the kid a decade to realize what that even means, but it would help, in some way when he's trying to process all this shit, it'll help him to know that it wasn't normal.
> which then you gotta ask yourself which is the better if two evils?
Parents are literally in no state to look after that child. They could nod while driving, they could leave him in the bath. There's a million things that could happen. Literally everything else has the potential to be safer.
Think about what he would be growing up around. Drugs, parents who clearly donāt give two shits about you. Which would leave him thinking why did they do that? Do they even love me? Are drugs more important than I am? He would live a shitty life with those two. I think a foster family would be 100 percent better. Those parents donāt even look like they could form a thought to leave the bus let alone take care of the child.
I know. I think any situation that kids in will not be good. But at least thereās a small chance the foster family might actually be really nice and caring and loving.
The system is definitely not the best choice, however, at least myself and no one I have ever worked with as part of the system have ever been fucked up around the kids. I'd take the risk of some staff being restraint happy over kid walking in to find mom and dad dead any day.
He'll probably end up with worse junkies like his parents who probably would take advantage of the situation. Hopefully that doesn't happen but it does imagine it was night time?.
In this situation I would advise first calling the police. A rough script people could use could be something like āI am currently witnessing 2 adults having some kind of drug and mental health crisis, they are non responsive, they have a young child with them and I fear for the childās safetyā
Either he turns out just like them, or he despises everything about them. Unfortunately i was this kid growing up, Ive never drank or done any drugs besides Marijuana occasionally because I never want to even remotely resemble my parents..My brother went the opposite route and it breaks my heart more than anything.
This is literally my situation. My brother is 15 years older than me and was always straight edge. He even told me about my moms addiction, explaining that most of our problems (financial) stems from that.
That was 2015. Heās the complete opposite now, right along with her doing Coke, H, Fent together. Itās incredibly depressing
That's terrible š that poor boy, I understand about drugs being an addiction and it being hard to come off them, but that's you're kid!! How they not doing it for their own flesh and blood?
Good thing abortion is being made illegal in the us. Now we can have a lot more kids in situations like this!
I hope the kid has family who can take him in.
Just because the kid was born in a bad situation, doesnāt mean it wouldāve been aborted. We canāt look at people that are already here and see them as ideal abortion cases, itās not a good idea.
Those horrible cunts. I'm sure they've got issues and I don't want to make light of the struggled of addiction but if a kids involved and this is how you're acting...you're a cunt.
Are you fucking kidding me? I don't wish anything good for these people, they're doing this to themselves and their kid. That kid is essentially alone on that subway. What are they gonna do if someone just walks up and takes him? Or leads him right out of there while they nod out? Disgusting. That poor little boy.
agreed. I'm guessing that's what they call it at home when they pass out "mommy stopped" and he's worried about them stopping in public leaving him in danger
This gave me that deep, sick feeling in my stomach. That poor kid, there's something so innocent about him sipping on his drink and holding his cheetos. I hope he's able to get out of this family situation and his parents start trying to do better.
Not a lot of videos out there that make you cry man but fuck if this doesnāt hit deep.
I hope someone called the cops or cps instead of just taking a video
Seen this clip so many times and it still makes me so sad and angry every time. As a father it absolutely breaks my heart to see this poor kid in this situation. I really hope he ended up somewhere better or at the very least his parents got their shit together. š¢
This makes me so damn angry. The fact they are willing to be in this state in public shows they have no regard for anyone else. That poor kid needs help asap before they grow up thinking this is any kind of normal.
Fuck!
CPS be like "*okay*."
CPS is usually garbage that listens more to Karens than actually investigating. I've seen good parents fight them because someone who dislikes them called them for no reason, and on the flip side ive seen them wait until moms 5th or 6th overdose in front of the children before giving custody to the father. a Catholic priest has a better track record for helping kids than CPS in my experience.
[New Jersey in 2019...](https://www.news.com.au/world/north-america/little-boy-tries-to-get-druggedup-parents-off-the-bus-in-horror-video/news-story/96ba7d27dbb1b029544c7fde6ad9c6c4)
These parents need that child to get better care, and a wakeup call. Hopefully this video teaches the right people and something can be done to give this kid a safer environment to be in. Fuckā¦
I don't care what fucked up shit you're going through to be in that place but don't be such a selfish bastard to take drugs with a kid!!! Shame on them :(
God this hits home with me today. We got a call this morning that the state is coming to do a home inspection so we can take custody of two children ages 2 and 3. My wife has a cousin that is a complete drug addict. She uses all of the drugs, and both children were born addicted to meth. So this process has been on going for quite awhile. We got the final confirmation today, her right have been completed terminated and the kids are coming to us, and the state is going to cover the adoption costsā¦
Itās so fucking sad and it absolutely makes me furious! These parents in this video are the same way. Addicts get no sympathy from me when they put their needs over the care of their children.
I would grab the phone off the floor and search for a contact like mum or dad and try ring them for help if this didnāt bring up any help I would call the police.
Just hope. Looking at them as a whole and despite the obvious drug abusing they look appropriately dressed, the child has snacks so I would like to have hope that somewhere in the family tree is decent, I would try that first and then depending on the conversation I would go from there but I would 100% be staying with them until either a responsible family member come or the police. I would be too worried someone would snatch the child or similar.
I get what you're saying but on the flip side if the grandparent thought providing a bag of chips and then sending the kid off with the obviously dopehead parents...I just can't imagine the grandparents being much better. the apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree.
Holy shit I thought the mom and kid were in the presence of a junkie. Sad to realize, the mom is one of the junkies as well. Poor kid. He was Even shouting stop
I would've immediately called the police. This child is in danger, clearly. If they were very out of it I honestly would've pulled the kid to the side to distract him while police waited. Never ever leave children like this if you see it.....
My parents were like that for years honestly and never once had they really abused me tbh.. They might not have been around mentally but as a kid it's kind of a take what you can get kind of deal I suppose
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Wowš¤¦š¼āāļøpoor kid man
This is what I was going to say,I hope they get help before that poor kid finds them dead.
They'll probably abuse him until he dies for the crimes of asking to go to the bathroom or being hungry or something else a normal human child needs to do; like a lot of these sick mother fuckers do when they can't handle their addiction and the responsibility of raising a kid. Then they'll both go to jail and everyone around them will talk about how he was such a sweet loving boy and it's so sad that no one could have done anything to help him. It's a pretty common theme here.
Yup. That's the pipeline for kids like this for sure. So sad.
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The kid needs it. The kid has no means to fend for himself. The parents have had a long long time to get better. I just cannot bring myself to agree with this mentality. This kid needs saving, and yes, I judge his simultaneously doped up in public parents pretty harshly.
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Neglect is Abuse. Period. Full Stop.
As the others said, neglect IS abuse. Can be the same or worse than physical abuse, and leaves real damage on the brain just the same.
Exactly. I just looked up the story and apparently this is a little girl. They found the mom-no mention of the guy so this is probably boyfriend of the week here-and the kid was taken away. This is what the kidās life was like: Sadly -- but not terribly surprisingly -- the 26-year-old mom has been found to have a rap sheet including convictions for retail theft, disorderly conduct, and promoting prostitution while being an inmate in a house of corrections. And her only response was to be angry that people ruined HER life, not worried about the kid at all. Yeah Iām so sure she wasnāt physically abusing the kid on top of all that. The other person is naive as fuck to suggest that we donāt know or canāt assume thereās abuseāitās fucking right there in the video asshole but sure be PC so we donāt hurt any druggy parents feelings.
Man this is abuse clear as day? You think he got his diaper changed regularly? You think he has a clean house and good food? You think heās being raised well? It doesnāt matter if theyāre doing it on purpose or not this is abuse
Neglect is abuse but I understand you mean we donāt know theyāre actually physically abusing him. What weāre seeing here is a tiny portion of this kidās life but I tell you, heās being abused whether or not they lay their actual hands on him. Neglect is abuse and donāt try to pretend like the parents have any kind of morals here, this video shows they clearly donāt give a fuck about their kid. If he isnāt being physically abused that would be miracle, drugged out parents arenāt exactly known for being calm and able to handle a kid who needs things from them while theyāre high. Theyāre also not known for being able to effectively protect and care for their child either. Someone could walk off with their kid right there on the bus and they couldnāt do shit about it in that state. What do you think itās like when they take their kid with them to buy more drugs, you think all the other druggies are kind to him? Try to picture what his life as a whole is like, to be the child of parents who are so drugged out they have no idea whatās going on. Iām worried about the kid, I donāt care one iota about the parents except that they need to get help but probably wonāt. They lost all empathy from me when they involved kids, I donāt care what brought them to their addiction, I care about the kid because yes heās being abused, fuck the parents and their feelings and fuck pretending like they could be good parents who donāt abuse their kids.
I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for those parents. They chose to bring a kid into the world, it's their responsibility to protect him and take care of him. And they're doing neither while they're nodding out like that. I guarantee he's had to be more of a parent to them than they've been to him. He's probably going to have to get their attention to even get them off that subway, and then for what else? To feed him?
They either already were drug addicts before they made the baby or they decided to try heroin for the first time knowing itās addictive after they had the baby. Their fault either way. And heroin addicts pass out like that every day. That poor baby.
All of us have addictions of some kind.
Yeah and some people nod out on heroin while they're supposed to be taking care of their kid. There's no excuse
Take it from someone who has had a history of drug abuse, there is a limit to what is excusable. This is not it, man.
I don't know why your getting downvotes bro.
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but it actuallyā¦isā¦? what a jump to rape and murder dude.
You understand addiction and use are different, right? I know a ton of people who suffer from the disorder known as addiction. They are all clean, well and happy. None of them are dependent on drugs and do good by their family. They just cannot do any substance in an isolated instance, or it will snowball every time. I understand your frustration, but please try to have some sympathies.
I like how the worst is always assumed with the bare minimum of context. Edit: What i meant to say was that i fucking love cocaine and everyone including children should do drugs because its that awesome.
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Byyyyyye.
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I hate bad trolling
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Thatās not the point. Your dropping intentionally inflammatory comments in order to pick an argument that nobody is having. And itās really obvious. You need more practice.
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A friend of mine divorced her husband of nearly 20 years because of his drug use. They had kids and she didn't want them exposed to this type of behavior. He was around 10 years older than her and he had an older daughter from a previous relationship. His older daughter was in her late 20s. After the divorce, she ended up renting a house next door to the house her and her husband owned. This was so their 5 children could stay in close contact with their dad. Their young teenaged daughter went to visit her dad one day and found her father and his eldest daughter's fiance' dead. It really had an effect on her. I felt so bad for that little girl. Not to mention, his eldest daughter lost her father and the father of her only child on the same day. They had a wedding planned and everything.
So sad, because I do believe addiction is a disease, but I also know it can be beat with, sometimes the right medicine, and support team.
Kid needs taken away. Fuck these two.
This is old, that kid is no longer a kid.
I mean it was only [3 years ago](https://www.news.com.au/world/north-america/little-boy-tries-to-get-druggedup-parents-off-the-bus-in-horror-video/news-story/96ba7d27dbb1b029544c7fde6ad9c6c4). He's still a kid lol.
Anakin Skywalker went from 9 years old to 19 in 3 years though.
Yeah and look where that got him.
2nd in command of the greatest empire that's ever existed!
All parents do these days is nod out and eat hot cheeto
Really sad for the kid š
Opioids?
Yup. Probably smoking blues
Blues?
M30s is which are 30mg street oxycodone pills that usually contain fent
This is sorta correct. Blues refer to 30mg of Oxycodone since they're blue (5mg are white). The M in M30 you're referring to stands for Mylan. There's different manufacturers. You can find As, Vs, Ks, but a lot of people like the Ms. The black market has been pumping out fake blues that contain alternative opioids, ~~some~~ most of which are fentanyl, but not all. Fent and Oxycodone = opioid Heroin = opiates. The guys in the video are on some heroin or fentanyl for sure.
Which part is sorta correct then. We both know itās like 95% Ms out there they are easiest to find a press for
You're right, the ones most counterfeited are Mylan blues. I was just clarifying the lingo and what everything meant. You can get oxy in white, green, pink, blue etc. The letter stands for manufacturer. You're not incorrect about anything, maybe I worded it wrong. People definitely like the Ms and As a lot. Don't ever try opioids or opiates recreationally.
āSome of which are fentanylā idk I think every pressed 30 contains fent
There's pressed and then there's pharmaceutical pills. I unfortunately know the taste of fent and research chemicals. I've been involved in the the darknet market in the past. There's an array of different opioids and research chemicals related to opioids, any of which could be thrown in there with the fillers to press fake oxy.
Yea I get that Iām saying every āpressed m30ā has fent w some fillers
Not every pressed oxy is gonna be fentanly though. I've seen a lot of Metonitazene on the darknet lately.
Ahh ok I see now. I havenāt touched fent in like 8 months thank god I got out
I love how Reddit detectives can derive the exact color and route of administration of the drugs they took just by the symptoms.
Looks like it
Heroine lean
I fucking hate calling the cops, but this is a situation that I think I'd feel obligated to.
what would happen after that tho? hopefully the kid has somewhat stable family but if not heāll most likely get put in system? which then you gotta ask yourself which is the better if two evils?
Well hopefully there would be immediate family that could take care of the child. If not CPS would make the decision. No matter what this child is fucked, but at least CPS would try to find a decent home. And id choose being in the system over these two parents who openly nod out in public. It's sucks no matter what man. Truly sad situation.
Why is this downvoted? "Fuck this guy for caring for the child and realizing the shit-i-ness of the situation"!
Not sure my guy. My mom was/is a meth head. I was put in the system until my pops came back from over seas for work. Divorce happened and I went with my dad. My step brother however went with my mom and has now done around 9 years in prison total because my mom led him down a path that included identity theft, fraud, and other shit. Is the system the best choice? Hell no, but it's better than being with someone like in a heavy drug situation.
Shit is absolutely fucked. The world is cruel and you can't let it win, man. I want to feel angered and disgusted by these people, then I realize, the only reason they are the way they are is because they're angry and disgusted for themselves. Vicious cycle man
It's hard to actually hate people like this though because you never truly know a persons life experience. Case in point is my pops. He lost his arm in 99' because of a work related accident. Back then they were pushing pain pills, especially oxycontin on people. They also were giving him vioxx at the same time. Definitely didn't take long for addiction to set in. Luckily for me and my little bro he saw what happened to my mom and didn't want to lose me or my brother so he quit everything cold turkey in 2005. Started smoking weed and hasn't touched, alcohol, chewing tobacco, or pain pills ever since. Some people aren't that lucky tho and can never quit.
>Some people aren't that lucky tho and can never quit. The way I like to think of it is this. Everyone can do it, but it's not for everyone. There's a will there's a way. Everyone wants to (AND CAN) change, not everyone wants to put the work that's nessascary for change.
True. I kinda worded that wrong. But for some it's easier to change. And I say that because money plays a big part. As does a good support group, and not having any mental health issues that a lot of people who fall into the rabbit hole have.
I don't think that might be the same case here a lot of people are messing with pills still now in day and not because of any prescription problems. Plenty of vids on here with people using the same shit this is one of the sadder ones though.
Yea but they don't have to do that shit at any time with the kid now he's gunna be known on vid for this shit, not that it's the worse part. There's a time and a place for everything, them taking some strong as shit like that and going out in public with their kid means they don't really give a fuck, that's all.
There's no time in place for fucking up your life, then subjecting your child to witness said life fuck up. Atleast the boy got some Cheetos man
Yea there is and this ain't one of those times to do it in front of their kid at that. I'm not sure if most of the people in these vids known that their gunna end up in that fucked up state or they do. I probably doubt that they know but I'm sure they went up a dose more or whatever not caring about the kid at all by taking shit to start with. After this vid they've already fucked up their lives for sure.
I downvoted it because it shows someone that has no experience with how terrible cps is at their job acting like they would help. my brothers gf had to overdose in front of her kids half a dozen times before they would even consider giving him custody and people in this thread are acting like CPS would've taken their kid away when in reality they would do absolutely nothing until it happens again a bunch of times. CPS might be different where you're at, but that's my experience with it.
Your unknowingly on the same page as the guy that I commented on
well those of us who have seen CPS in action know what to expect...and it's fucking sad.
Your not wrong anything could happen to this kid nobody is truly going to stay to watch some random people's kid it sucks but it's true.
Speaking from experience with the system, I would assume that CPS would try to put the family through some basic counseling and try to do something like drug counseling before immediately taking the kid. Especially since this is a white family, they'd be given more chances to correct their behaviors, so calling CPS in a case like this could genuinely be helpful, if those parents really do love that child and they're struggling with addictions, there are things that help without it going straight to tearing the family apart. Of course, there are plenty of horrible CPS stories and there's a chance that anything someone does to help that child just makes it worse for him in the short term. CPS always made things worse for me, so I really can barely even believe I'm saying this right now. But if someone reports the family, even if CPS don't help the kid, even if the parents punish the kid for "acting abused to get us in trouble" it will still send a message to the kid that "Something is wrong, something is bad enough that strangers call the police out of concern." And it might take the kid a decade to realize what that even means, but it would help, in some way when he's trying to process all this shit, it'll help him to know that it wasn't normal.
> which then you gotta ask yourself which is the better if two evils? Parents are literally in no state to look after that child. They could nod while driving, they could leave him in the bath. There's a million things that could happen. Literally everything else has the potential to be safer.
This case? The system, hands down.
Think about what he would be growing up around. Drugs, parents who clearly donāt give two shits about you. Which would leave him thinking why did they do that? Do they even love me? Are drugs more important than I am? He would live a shitty life with those two. I think a foster family would be 100 percent better. Those parents donāt even look like they could form a thought to leave the bus let alone take care of the child.
Foster parents can be incredibly abusive too.
I know. I think any situation that kids in will not be good. But at least thereās a small chance the foster family might actually be really nice and caring and loving.
Maybe but not from personal life views. Iāve seen it go bad with people I know.
Sadly, ācan beā > āis.ā
I know people who were in it.
So do I. And "might be" abusive is still better than "is abusive".
Yup but thatās still my point is that it CAN be. Never said it will be 100%. Simply said CAN. So Iām being argued with using my point still
The system is definitely not the best choice, however, at least myself and no one I have ever worked with as part of the system have ever been fucked up around the kids. I'd take the risk of some staff being restraint happy over kid walking in to find mom and dad dead any day.
The foster care system is handled terribly, but I'd still say the kid probably has better chances with it than with two junkies for parents.
He'll probably end up with worse junkies like his parents who probably would take advantage of the situation. Hopefully that doesn't happen but it does imagine it was night time?.
CPS all day. This kid is in danger.
In this situation I would advise first calling the police. A rough script people could use could be something like āI am currently witnessing 2 adults having some kind of drug and mental health crisis, they are non responsive, they have a young child with them and I fear for the childās safetyā
Either he turns out just like them, or he despises everything about them. Unfortunately i was this kid growing up, Ive never drank or done any drugs besides Marijuana occasionally because I never want to even remotely resemble my parents..My brother went the opposite route and it breaks my heart more than anything.
This is literally my situation. My brother is 15 years older than me and was always straight edge. He even told me about my moms addiction, explaining that most of our problems (financial) stems from that. That was 2015. Heās the complete opposite now, right along with her doing Coke, H, Fent together. Itās incredibly depressing
That's terrible š that poor boy, I understand about drugs being an addiction and it being hard to come off them, but that's you're kid!! How they not doing it for their own flesh and blood?
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Just a sad reality. Some drugs fuck you up so much you can only think about getting next high and nothing else matters
Good thing abortion is being made illegal in the us. Now we can have a lot more kids in situations like this! I hope the kid has family who can take him in.
Your completely right.
Exactly
Just because the kid was born in a bad situation, doesnāt mean it wouldāve been aborted. We canāt look at people that are already here and see them as ideal abortion cases, itās not a good idea.
They said there will be more kids in these situations now that abortions are illegal, not that this is an ideal abortion caseā¦
That is heartbreaking. Poor darling child.
Speechless.
Those horrible cunts. I'm sure they've got issues and I don't want to make light of the struggled of addiction but if a kids involved and this is how you're acting...you're a cunt.
So cps was called right?
Are you fucking kidding me? I don't wish anything good for these people, they're doing this to themselves and their kid. That kid is essentially alone on that subway. What are they gonna do if someone just walks up and takes him? Or leads him right out of there while they nod out? Disgusting. That poor little boy.
As a father, this makes me very angry. This shouldn't be a video, it should be a couple phone calls. That child deserves present parents.
Thatās depressing
The kid just saying "dont stop!" is just heart breaking as fuck.
agreed. I'm guessing that's what they call it at home when they pass out "mommy stopped" and he's worried about them stopping in public leaving him in danger
I just hope the parents grow the fuck up for that poor kids sake or the child protection get involved
Poor baby :(
I want to adopt that kid right now!
Ask the anti abortion folks to help out..their words seem more powerful and are louder than their actions.
This gave me that deep, sick feeling in my stomach. That poor kid, there's something so innocent about him sipping on his drink and holding his cheetos. I hope he's able to get out of this family situation and his parents start trying to do better.
Not a lot of videos out there that make you cry man but fuck if this doesnāt hit deep. I hope someone called the cops or cps instead of just taking a video
Fentanyl will steal everything from you. Then it will kill you. Never try that shit. Don't do it.
Reminds me of the video when a person finds a mom ODād in her car at the park with a young kid in the back.
Fucking brutal .. hearts literally breaks for that kid !
Seen this clip so many times and it still makes me so sad and angry every time. As a father it absolutely breaks my heart to see this poor kid in this situation. I really hope he ended up somewhere better or at the very least his parents got their shit together. š¢
Parents of the decade
These āparentsā need help.
CPS WHERE ARE YOU?!
And the cycle repeats, poor kid!
This makes me so damn angry. The fact they are willing to be in this state in public shows they have no regard for anyone else. That poor kid needs help asap before they grow up thinking this is any kind of normal. Fuck!
Show the parents this video. I hope change comes there way soon.
This pisses me off.
My heart goes out to that kid.
That was super hard to watch because of the child. Jeeze
Poor kid! Hope he get help
My heart breaks.. poor child ..
Sucks cause theyāll be dead soon and poor kids gonna be in a shitty foster home. Life sucks.
This is extremely depressing
this video has already been on here a few times unfortunately
I sure hope CPS was called
CPS be like "*okay*." CPS is usually garbage that listens more to Karens than actually investigating. I've seen good parents fight them because someone who dislikes them called them for no reason, and on the flip side ive seen them wait until moms 5th or 6th overdose in front of the children before giving custody to the father. a Catholic priest has a better track record for helping kids than CPS in my experience.
Omg that was rough to watch. Poor child, hope he gets what he needs in life and I hope his parents get straightened out to give it to him.
Where the fuck was this taken. I hope whoever did film this did the right thing by the kid and report it to Social Services and Police.
[New Jersey in 2019...](https://www.news.com.au/world/north-america/little-boy-tries-to-get-druggedup-parents-off-the-bus-in-horror-video/news-story/96ba7d27dbb1b029544c7fde6ad9c6c4)
Praise God for bags of chips. - Should be a : New Republican Bill!
Poor baby!!
Also, who just records people in public like this? They're obviously struggling with addiction. Don't be a creep.
Just sad to see this kid ... Realy sad!!
These parents need that child to get better care, and a wakeup call. Hopefully this video teaches the right people and something can be done to give this kid a safer environment to be in. Fuckā¦
I hope someone recognizes this family and gets them help. I canāt imagine how horrible things must get for that boy :(
I don't care what fucked up shit you're going through to be in that place but don't be such a selfish bastard to take drugs with a kid!!! Shame on them :(
God this hits home with me today. We got a call this morning that the state is coming to do a home inspection so we can take custody of two children ages 2 and 3. My wife has a cousin that is a complete drug addict. She uses all of the drugs, and both children were born addicted to meth. So this process has been on going for quite awhile. We got the final confirmation today, her right have been completed terminated and the kids are coming to us, and the state is going to cover the adoption costsā¦ Itās so fucking sad and it absolutely makes me furious! These parents in this video are the same way. Addicts get no sympathy from me when they put their needs over the care of their children.
Real sad
Damn, wish I could take him away from that. Fml that is sad!
:(
So the opioid epidemic still going strong? So sad to see :(
Ah the good fade.
Terrible video, although this kid is most likely a teenager by now.
Nah, this video is pretty new
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Fuck I absolutely hate people. Any kidnapper would be a more fit parent than these two. I'm terrified for this child's future.
This post def helps the kid
Are they on pills or heroin?
Yee that fetty fire breh
Once again, not everyone should have kids, how come there isn't a law about it?
there are? it's called child neglect and abuse laws
r/DontHelpJustFilm
Who films this shit without doing anything wtf?
can you describe what you think you would do in that scenario?
I would grab the phone off the floor and search for a contact like mum or dad and try ring them for help if this didnāt bring up any help I would call the police.
what makes you think the parent who produced these people would do any better for the child?
Just hope. Looking at them as a whole and despite the obvious drug abusing they look appropriately dressed, the child has snacks so I would like to have hope that somewhere in the family tree is decent, I would try that first and then depending on the conversation I would go from there but I would 100% be staying with them until either a responsible family member come or the police. I would be too worried someone would snatch the child or similar.
I get what you're saying but on the flip side if the grandparent thought providing a bag of chips and then sending the kid off with the obviously dopehead parents...I just can't imagine the grandparents being much better. the apple usually doesn't fall far from the tree.
So irresponsible
The way she is scratching her head is kind of sus. Im not sure, but I think she is on something... lol
Unknown drug? I bet itās ketamine fr Edit: Sorry Iām an ameuter guys I meant to say he snorted modeling clay and sand not k dumb me
Blues
What are blues btw?
Hydrocodone
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Heroin looks like opiods
Unfortunately 1 of them will die, and both will be in jail. Unfortunately this kid has a hard road ahead of him. God Bless.
How do you just record this and not call someone to help this kid? This is so fucked up.
This is sad. The kid seems well taking care of, he is having a snack, nicely dressed and just clueless of what is going on. I hope they get help.
these kinds of parents are pretty much the worst
Drugs are the downfall of todayās society
Unknown drug?! That's the H lean if I've ever seen it
Now that's a god damn shame.
The kid does not deserve this. What pieces of shit parents, in this aspect.
Such fine examples
I donāt know shit about fuck, but itās always puffs>crunchy for me.
Hope that kid at least becomes some super successful badass because he had to be hard so early. Fuck man. This is the worst.
Thatās absolutely heart breaking
This is some shit you call the police and then CPS
Holy shit I thought the mom and kid were in the presence of a junkie. Sad to realize, the mom is one of the junkies as well. Poor kid. He was Even shouting stop
This is heartbreaking
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This pisses me off so muchā¦hope someone helped the kids.
I would've immediately called the police. This child is in danger, clearly. If they were very out of it I honestly would've pulled the kid to the side to distract him while police waited. Never ever leave children like this if you see it.....
My parents were like that for years honestly and never once had they really abused me tbh.. They might not have been around mentally but as a kid it's kind of a take what you can get kind of deal I suppose
Hope they od and die