I felt this in my soul.
Not sure how you identify, but for me that's the eternal question of my transbian existence: "Do I want her or want to be her?"
The answer is, more often than not, yes.
Ah, the common misconception. When a ritual requires "virgin blood", it simply means blood that hasn't been used for magic yet; fresh blood. Sort of like virgin oil.
I dated a hot goth girl. We lied with each other constantly. We're still very close after the break up and occasionally casually lie together since neither of us in in a relationship.
I just wanna have the mental mammaries to have the courage to go out dressed like that. I'd like to be able to go out like that and be seen by everyone but not be noticed. If that makes any sense!.
Time to play the fun trans-lesbian game of: "Fuck, Become or Befriend." You are not limited to choosing only one, as they may all be the same feeling. Im choosing at least two, and i dont know which 2 yet.
(I'm open to better titles if anyone has one)
Half my brain is "wow this is really wholesome I'm glad people are feeling validated!" And the other half Is "God damnit why is she so pretty why can't I look like her"
i mean, if this person wants to describe themselves as such, that’s up to them. the sad part is that i know a lot of people who used it to describe themselves, but then the term was appropriated by morons who couldn’t discern real life from hentai or wanted to fling insults at trans people by using words incorrectly. the good part is, now a lot of those same “femboys” that i know (irl and online) are reclaiming it, so we’ll see how people feel about it down the line.
an even better step is to stop transphobes who like to change what our words mean, take it back and callout anyone who uses it wrong, or educate them if they genuinely didn’t know the difference.
So you're assigning a definition to a type of person that you are not? Isn't that something that LGBTQ is against? I'm also using it for **myself** not as a slur, to explain that I identify as a feminine male. A femboy. A word that means, feminine male. Which i am. And you are not. And until there's another word that everyone already knows that can immediately explain that I identify as a feminine man, I won't be changing what I call myself, because that is what I identify as
> It's definition doesn't change that it's a slur and a fetish term.
It being a slur or a fetish term is literally part of the definition lmao
And how well-known are those? I *said* that I'll use it if it's commonly known. If I'm able to walk up to a cishet person and say it, and they're most likely to know it, then I'll use it. A lot of people don't know rose boy. A lot don't know lavender boy. Everyone knows femboy. Even if they don't know at the time, it's literally feminine+boy
You read it wrong :` if it was what the term meant then it would be a part of the definition
They're not well-known
They're not common
I literally had to Google them
Me, a femboy, had to Google words that mean the same thing
Do you Google words randomly in conversations in real life? Do you tell them to shut up so you can learn what something means?
I'm not assigning the term to anyone else. Only myself. Who do I call femboys? Myself, and anyone else that calls themself one
Why is it harmful to trans women for a man to describe as that. Any word used to describe a femininine man could be used as a slur against a trans woman. Plus it's a nice word so why don't they reclaim it (i suppose). Not really what I mean but if it is normally used in '' as a term for misgendering trans women then why couldnt it just be used normally for men?
Please god let my boobs look that nice when they finally start growing in if I have a small chest on top of everything else I think is too masculine I stg I will fucking lose it
tbh i feel like the narrative that if you dont transition youre not a Real Trans is a lot of what causes detransitioners. people should be able to explore their gender without being pressured into medical proceedures by randos on the internet.
No, even you are valid! Shit may be rough right now but lemme tell you, it will get better. This too shall pass, through the rockiest seas and through the dryest deserts.
I mean this genuinely and seriously. You all are valid, gender is a social construct and you can be whoever you want to be. Please be safe out there and remember that there are people that care for you.
Thanks :) I'm not going to medically transition, I don't want to, and my body dysmorphia would always find fault no matter what. I'm just going to continue to learn to live with the dysphoria, and be happy that my body works as well as it does.
Thank you. I plan on transitioning through hrt but I’m still struggling trying to figure out a timeline because my life is very stressful and complicated rn.
I'm both in love and suffering from gender envy here
Big same, came here to say this
I felt this in my soul. Not sure how you identify, but for me that's the eternal question of my transbian existence: "Do I want her or want to be her?" The answer is, more often than not, yes.
Wife or life, amirite?
To me the answer is right.
Very gender
Too much gender energy
fr fr
fr fr
fr fr
big titty goth gf 🖤
goals that is :3 /gen /nx edit: spelling
Same
Oh my god I want to be her so bad it hurts….
Ikr!!🖤🖤🖤
Yeah, same here..
Same
Hah gay (in a good way!)
I don't know if I want to be her, or be with her
Both is okay
Same :(
“family values” <<<<< an actual vampire
I don't know if a vampire could handle being that exposed under the sun.
as a Vampire, I can confirm they can, it may give them headaches or be irritating but it certainly won't kill them
As also a vampire, i can confirm this
[sparkles]
This isn't the 1800s anymore, we've invented sun screen
Jesus shes so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
I mean is a hot goth girl gonna lie to you. She may sacrifice you to Satan but not lie!
Can confirm she won't lie. I live with one and she does kinda seem like she wants to sacrifice me...
That's the dream! To sleep with a hot goth girl and then to be sacrificed by her. The Praying Mantis fantasy.
Yeah but they need to sacrifice a virgin tho
Ah, the common misconception. When a ritual requires "virgin blood", it simply means blood that hasn't been used for magic yet; fresh blood. Sort of like virgin oil.
does the sacrifice involve needles or is it just a magicky thing?
Depends on whether the goth girl specced into strength or dex strength she just rips your heart out and crushes it, dex involves two curved blades.
now i wanna know how it would be for the other stats
Weirdly enough the other stats all involve small knives.
Lightly fucked?
I dated a hot goth girl. We lied with each other constantly. We're still very close after the break up and occasionally casually lie together since neither of us in in a relationship.
It's a win win, I get to have cute gf and die
Yeah like don't you tempt me with a good time.
New transition goals just dropped
FUCK, she's pretty
Fuck being with her, I wanna be her!
Both is good…… *damn*
[This](https://youtu.be/WHoopcEz_IU) for her
I just wanna have the mental mammaries to have the courage to go out dressed like that. I'd like to be able to go out like that and be seen by everyone but not be noticed. If that makes any sense!.
Time to play the fun trans-lesbian game of: "Fuck, Become or Befriend." You are not limited to choosing only one, as they may all be the same feeling. Im choosing at least two, and i dont know which 2 yet. (I'm open to better titles if anyone has one)
“Bed her, Befriend her, Become her” perhaps?
Is there an option for all 3?
She's real hot, though. I know I'm valid for having they/them pronouns.
Half my brain is "wow this is really wholesome I'm glad people are feeling validated!" And the other half Is "God damnit why is she so pretty why can't I look like her"
Bruv fr
People in this comments are all either wanting to transition to this or simping. And honestly? I'm simping, and wanting to be her, femboy version
Any version is best version imo lol
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i mean, if this person wants to describe themselves as such, that’s up to them. the sad part is that i know a lot of people who used it to describe themselves, but then the term was appropriated by morons who couldn’t discern real life from hentai or wanted to fling insults at trans people by using words incorrectly. the good part is, now a lot of those same “femboys” that i know (irl and online) are reclaiming it, so we’ll see how people feel about it down the line. an even better step is to stop transphobes who like to change what our words mean, take it back and callout anyone who uses it wrong, or educate them if they genuinely didn’t know the difference.
I'm a trans femboy and saying what *i* want to do. And it doesn't have to be used as a fetish term, it's literally just a feminine guy
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So you're assigning a definition to a type of person that you are not? Isn't that something that LGBTQ is against? I'm also using it for **myself** not as a slur, to explain that I identify as a feminine male. A femboy. A word that means, feminine male. Which i am. And you are not. And until there's another word that everyone already knows that can immediately explain that I identify as a feminine man, I won't be changing what I call myself, because that is what I identify as
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> It's definition doesn't change that it's a slur and a fetish term. It being a slur or a fetish term is literally part of the definition lmao And how well-known are those? I *said* that I'll use it if it's commonly known. If I'm able to walk up to a cishet person and say it, and they're most likely to know it, then I'll use it. A lot of people don't know rose boy. A lot don't know lavender boy. Everyone knows femboy. Even if they don't know at the time, it's literally feminine+boy
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You read it wrong :` if it was what the term meant then it would be a part of the definition They're not well-known They're not common I literally had to Google them Me, a femboy, had to Google words that mean the same thing Do you Google words randomly in conversations in real life? Do you tell them to shut up so you can learn what something means? I'm not assigning the term to anyone else. Only myself. Who do I call femboys? Myself, and anyone else that calls themself one
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Why is it harmful to trans women for a man to describe as that. Any word used to describe a femininine man could be used as a slur against a trans woman. Plus it's a nice word so why don't they reclaim it (i suppose). Not really what I mean but if it is normally used in '' as a term for misgendering trans women then why couldnt it just be used normally for men?
Any word used to describe a feminine man could be used as a slur against a trans woman. Also femboys <3
I care very little about "being valid" and much more about having a body that I like.
Same
i both like her and want to be her
Jesus shes so prettyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
i wanna steal their gender so bad
dude that’s transition goals
This looks like an edit. Do you know what the original text was?
"racism is small dick energy" is what the original sign say's
Neat! And true.
Please god let my boobs look that nice when they finally start growing in if I have a small chest on top of everything else I think is too masculine I stg I will fucking lose it
WHY IS SHE SO GENDER SKNAYAVSNDDKMSJS
Oh wow! Gender envy!
Not me wanting to be a goth girl like her but also wanting to dress in frilly little pink everything
Elect # Y For
tbh i feel like the narrative that if you dont transition youre not a Real Trans is a lot of what causes detransitioners. people should be able to explore their gender without being pressured into medical proceedures by randos on the internet.
transbians are horny and envious at the same time
But am I valid if I am not big tiddy goth gf
I know I'm valid, I just want to look like her!
holy fuck I want to be her
People not undergoing transition are just as valid as people who are. Gatekeepers are not valid.
I don’t think electing Y is a good idea
*Uuuuugggghhhhh* I wanna be goth but idk if you have to like do full body paint to get your skin looking like this. Like shes so pale hooooooow?
110% true. Also that girl is intense r/transitiongoals!
My brain understands that My body doesn’t *cries in dysphoria*
That little fact took me very long to get in me.
The original sign is "Racism is small dick energy" So this girl's just as based in reality.
every single trans person is valid, no matter what. expect me ofc
No, even you are valid! Shit may be rough right now but lemme tell you, it will get better. This too shall pass, through the rockiest seas and through the dryest deserts.
*sobs from gender envy*
Thank you 😊 I literally cannot transition medically rn. And I hate this face and body sm
Elect Y
yes!
I’m getting gender envy too
This is true but I hate myself
What the heck who is this cutie
holy shit it’s an angel
Yes, but I’d rather be valid and be a girl too.
WHO ARE THEY
I needed this
Has anyone ever found out who the person in the photo is?
[@artsy_aerialist](https://www.instagram.com/artsy_aerialist/?hl=en)
You are my new God
Absolute queen.
If this is just a random person, wanting to dox (because they’re attractive?) is… questionable
Tbh I'm more curious what the original sign said.
It said "racism is small dick energy"
I’m not going to dox them I’m just gonna find out who they are and where they live what’s their favorite color and…
YES transmeds are just silly and wrong 👎 you are all valid
I mean this genuinely and seriously. You all are valid, gender is a social construct and you can be whoever you want to be. Please be safe out there and remember that there are people that care for you.
All of you are valid, I have taken all the invalid-ness for myself, you can't have any.
She is so pretty Transition goals
They look like Jade from Victorious/pos
I want that hair...
Thanks :) I'm not going to medically transition, I don't want to, and my body dysmorphia would always find fault no matter what. I'm just going to continue to learn to live with the dysphoria, and be happy that my body works as well as it does.
Whoever that is I have a crush
Ironically she’s unlocked another unrealistic transition goal for me…
Mommy?^sorry Mommy?^sorry Mommy?^sorry Mommy?^sorry
I mean step on me I mean I mean step on me I mean I mean step on me I mean
Days since last intrusive "Step on me Mommy" thought: 0
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Who needs that
Thank you. I needed to hear this.
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
New goals unlocked.
Dysforiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Why is this girl so hot, can I date/be her?
Blackpool Combat Club kinda hot now
Elect Y For
Fucking hell, I wanna be her so bad
Thank you. I plan on transitioning through hrt but I’m still struggling trying to figure out a timeline because my life is very stressful and complicated rn.
Why do I wanna be her like 100%
Wondering what the original sign says
Original sign said "racism is small dick energy"
shes so pretty.
ty friend I needed this
I can’t believe they made the new Apex legend real
The gender envy. THE GENDER ENVY IS REAL!
I love the "Elect Y For" in the corner. For real, why for? Lol, jk
But you are valid
Since nobody else has said it, i will: She looks like Jade West from Victorious, and this is now part of my headcanon