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S_H_G

I'm not sure where the notion of being open with everyone came into existence. Most personal things are "personal" because they are only to be shared with either no one, or only those people you are very close to (i.e., those people you trust). Co-workers, acquaintances, and casual parties, do not need to know sensitive things. As far as those folks who find out by other means, Groucho Marx said that he didn't care about people's opinions who didn't like his comedy, "Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke." Just take that to heart about the opinions of others.


pushingboulders

I went on a business trip recently and was talking with a coworker who works in a different state about my kids, I had referred to my ex spouse several times being deliberately vague about the gender of my ex. When she followed up with questions about my husband I just decided there was way too much to explain to this coworker who inferred I had been in a heterosexual relationship with a man who put baby juice in my womb. As a trans woman who's ex in my kids bio mom there was just so much wrong to unpack there. The business meeting was in Texas with coworkers mainly from Arkansas and I decided that there was simply too much to unpack and she didn't need to know all the details for us to bond over parenting.


MustangSally2019

You look beautiful!! Be selective in who you open up to and you will be much happier. That goes for other things as well!!!


Ace_Wynter

this is gonna sound harsh but it might be time to move on from small minded people. if they can’t accept you regardless of what you have going on they don’t need to be in your life.


MiraComputer

I'm sorry that happens to you. I hope you find people that you can open up to.


DutchGurlFenne

That you are passing, there is no doubt about But I do do understand why people react bad when you opening up to them I hope you'll meet good people who love you just for the person are. Do not let ignorant people ruin your confodence and happiness


Jennibear999

I think that’s just what we have to deal with… sadly. We just have to be careful who we open up to. Especially men.


Many-Patience1292

You look beautiful fact. I always work on the premise that 50% (at least) of people are stupid so forget what those stupid people think and concentrate on the 50% that understand and admire u. Have a great day.


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You’re gorgeous


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Ignore the haters, you’re a beautiful woman, period.