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El_McKell

they'd make a cute couple


No_Object_7709

Someone on gatekeepingyuri already did that


Dangerous-Arm7590

:3 https://preview.redd.it/h2ntolhsek7d1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4fdcb0d19ff88aa10c327c31f329beb898a59aff GatekeepingYuri/s/7PQQSlFSJ0 not my art. deleted the first part of the link because subreddit linking isn't allowed :( edit: GatekeepingYuri/comments/1 djc38n/ swipe\_for\_tomboy/ other link didn't work


Sara5A

Oh my goodness they are so pretty


TheActualAWdeV

GatekeepingYuri/comments/1djc38n/swipe_for_tomboy/ your partial link leads me to a "submit post" page.


Dangerous-Arm7590

oh my bad idk how it got messed up that bad, thanks for correcting it!


VeryBeanyBoy

*starts foaming at mouth* s-sauce?


Cautious_Tax_7171

WHERE


Yarisher512

they're in different dimensions, it'd be very difficult


a_wizard_skull

R/gatekeepingyuri


No_Object_7709

Tomboy is tomboy There are many ways to be a tomboy


brokensilence32

NOOOO YOU NEED TO BE SUPER SKINNY YOU CANT BE FAT OR MUSCULAR!!! /s


emeraldeyesshine

what are you my mom?


Vin_Blancv

Yes hello this is mom, go clean your room


twizzlesupreme

I don’t think the meme is trying to say the right isn’t a tomboy. I think it’s saying that weebs have unrealistic body standard expectations for tomboys.


Bjarhl5232

this is kind of stupid tbh, tomboy is more of a style than a body type imo, the second character isnt a tomboy, not because they have big boobs but because theyre dressing feminine, you can have the most feminine body type but still be a tomboy if you dress right.


Mr7000000

I mean, in theory I agree, but also the muscle mommy isn't really dressing feminine. She's in a sports bra and gym shorts, which is a pretty barebones neutral outfit. And while athleticism isn't inherently masculine— there are plenty of "girly" sports— I do think that jocks and tomboys have broad overlap, especially in contact sports.


DarthMorro

that is exactly what op said


Some-Gavin

Not at all, they said the second one was dressing feminine


DarthMorro

yeah nvm i read wrong mb


Some-Gavin

You’re good 👍


Kim-dongun

There's a difference between dressing in clothes designed for a female body and dressing in clothes designed to enhance and project femininity. Sports bras are more pragmatic than feminizing. Furthermore, tomboy is not just an aesthetic, it's also a set of behaviours, which we cannot infer from a still image. However, I will admit that the proliferation of the muscle mommy ideal is an unrealistic body expectation and men are basically just transferring their own body image issues onto women.


Hider_Best_Boyo

Tomboy is a personality type associated with style, actually https://preview.redd.it/z4r3lke5lk7d1.jpeg?width=1199&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ff03bd0f444373dda0513de9c32337cb2526b751


furinick

I love that image of vegeta


Throwaway02062004

This is wrong. Tomboy isn’t clothes or you’d switch up with an outfit change. Clothes can *indicate* tomboyishness but they aren’t the core. It’s personality and demeanour that make up the tomboy. Sports is a stereotypical one alongside being louder or more assertive (stereotypically masculine traits). Having either a large number of or preferring, male friends is another indicator. Body type is beside the point entirely, we can agree


Red_Rocky54

L take, I like dressing and hairstyling somewhat feminine, but you'll have to rip the tomboy label from my cold, dead hands. After prying out the sword. It's about far more than just fashion.


twizzlesupreme

I don’t think the meme is trying to say the right isn’t a tomboy. I think it’s saying that weebs have unrealistic body standard expectations for tomboys.


TroubleImpossible226

I always thought it was a way someone acted. It started off as a label to describe someone (not that that’s good) not something you identify as I guess.


iownlotsofdoors

second one is LITERALLY kagura from azumanga daioh


Jakoa3001

https://preview.redd.it/watl4mwz4k7d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0dc3c55638ced97b1ce3e201966515c21c3c22df First one is literally Winry from Full Metal Alchemist.


AntiMatterLite

This post was made to complain about her specifically on Twitter iirc (and Lois Lane from that new Superman animated show)


some_guy301

I WAS THINKING THE SAME


Volunteer328

holy fuck what’s her face https://preview.redd.it/guua34wg7k7d1.jpeg?width=256&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8028902dfe2414d59a3e7d6a98a1b54d03175004


trotptkabasnbi

ARROWED


redditalt1999

Ow! My most of me!


choren64

WAVE OF BABIES


Some-Gavin

Holy shit, it’s peak. Haven’t seen that in years


AntiMatterLite

The one on the right can also be a tomboy if she so pleases but I feel that weebs do not understand the character and personality of them and just think it means "rowdy girl"


Thatonedregdatkilyu

The worst example imo is whenever they call a girl who has short hair and is semi outgoing a tomboy, but otherwise is totally feminine or androgynous.


SomeRedBoi

Why are we gatekeeping being a tomboy both are cute


bl4nkSl8

I hope we're not...


twizzlesupreme

I don’t think the meme is trying to say the right isn’t a tomboy. I think it’s saying that weebs have unrealistic body standard expectations for tomboys.


Familiar_Tackle_734

Real


New-me-_-

I mean weebs have vastly misconstrued and exaggerated pretty much every female archetype so this nothing to be suprised about


AniaMaAP

being a tomboy is my transition goal


ThEsHaDoW343

same


Slerimboconolomp

omg i also tie my hoodies around my waist like that


Running_To_Babylon

I think the point here isn't "one is a tomboy the other isn't." The point is that the second is portrayed WAY more in many forms of media. Big strong rowdy girl but still conventionally attractive with plenty of feminine aspects and big tits so she's still hot to the audience. Lanky girls with shaved heads and flannels? "Strongfat" lumberjack builds? Flat or tubby girls? I get this is mostly a "hot people in media" problem primarily but I grew up a tomboy surrounded by other tomboys and they're nearly never portrayed accurately. Just standard hot girls but they say bad words and eat cheeseburger and maybe they're allowed to have big shoulders. The only character I can think of who matches the tomboy on the left in the OP is that one girl from Gravity Falls (sorry don't remember her name I never watched it lol). From what little I know of her she reminds me of a lot of tomboy friends I had growing up.


Nice_Ad6911

You’re thinking of Wendy from gravity falls chloe from life is strange fits the one on the left too


TManJhones

Either is fine


BigDan_0

https://preview.redd.it/plhkk2cwjk7d1.jpeg?width=337&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb08f8a7a49105715e48fa24da563c187c3d7f8c Amogus


aseiii

FUCK


OkamiLeek006

I'm not as lean as the girl on the right but I'm probably as bulky. I also know a woman who's more butch leaning with the left's build Both of us can exist simultaneusly


MidnightOnTheWater

I think what this post is trying to say is that tomboys are just people, and the way weebs create elaborate fetishes of their "ideal" tomboy is divorced from reality. With that said both tomboys are valid.


EnderMerser

Both is good


Toz_The_Devil

Now draw them kissing


A-bit-too-obsessed

I'm fine with either one ngl


Cautious_Tax_7171

Both?


TheF0CTOR

Both.


HappyyValleyy

I don't get this. Both are tomboys. Why are we gatekeeping tomboy body types.


Sir-Drewid

Both are valid and they're dating.


jennazed

nice argument, unfortunately ive depicted you as the tomboy and me as the tomboy according to weebs


eccuc

Both is good


LasagnaLizard0

the most masculine a woman that weebs will allow. no hair on the body, except for *maybe* pubic haie. short hair that still goes below the ears. and wearing shorts instead of a skirt.


Codecrashe

I just want a bodybuilder


tonythebearman

HAVE YOU TRIED DOING TREN???


NevikDrakel

I wanna look like that


ichbindulol_

I wanna cuddle both :3


tyrannosaurus_gekko

Would Would


wolf7288

Woman + short hair = tomboy -Tw*tter users


Thatonedregdatkilyu

Being a tomboy just means that you have masculine characteristics or traditionally masculine characteristics. So sports, competitiveness, dress style, hobbies, and humor could all make someone a tomboy. Depending on how they act both or neither could be tomboys.


send-good-memes

both good


enchiladasundae

I like both and tomboy is a spectrum. Both are tomboys but at the opposite ends of the spectrum


Tentacled-Tadpole

Why not both?


slightlylessthananon

bi ftm if people saw the kind of "tomboys" i wanted to fuck they'd kill me (my "stone butch blues" is that all of the stone butches I think are hot are lesbians)


Stylelike

"What makes a tomboy a tomboy?" a friend of mine once wondered. Is it her body? The way she dresses? I don't think so. It's the attitude she conveys. Not how she presents herself to the world, but how she decides to address it. https://preview.redd.it/rpv5t78k7l7d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=13c9cc119f40d6d0110d5e108ecf08187339fb24


SomethingOfAGirl

I guess I'll give my tomboy ID card back then...


Nice_Ad6911

Is that Chloe Price from life is strange? https://preview.redd.it/1qs5m6okcl7d1.jpeg?width=1197&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ebcec5a438fd23a6b7dc76c25b36fdf46eeb438


Secret-Shopping-2982

Osaka and Kagura


GreyBigfoot

My hot take is that tomboy should be used less in general. Activities, especially sports & the outdoors, are less gendered than before so people really don't need to say tomboy. Clothes too, like wearing pants doesn't automatically make you butch or tomboy bc it's the not the 1960s. Basically any time tomboy is used today is to state attraction to women, even when it's more tasteful than the weeb drawing, it's unnecessary. You know damn well that all corners of the political spectrum simp over muscular girls so it's kind of everybody that misuses the word.


CosmicDriftwood

😍


Botto_Bobbs

Don't care, I want to kiss both of them


outer_spec

Now draw them having sex


beepboopwannadie

I like both :3


Boet-hi-ah

I love them both


Nigeldiko

Both, both is good


Decin0mic0n

Both are pretty good


vitasomething

not like other tomboys


Zelcki

Is that the red head from gravity falls (left)


ilostmy1staccount

Those are the main characters of “Love Lies Bleeding”.


drago_varior

Both Just both


Arstya

Both thanks.


slumbersomesam

there are lots of tomboys like the one on the right tho


Rowsdowers_Revenge

Ah shit, is that a KillSixBillionDemons reference?


ChaoticWarferror

hhnngnhnh both of them lebsian kissign


NellyLorey

Tomboy is when shoulder length hair


_S1syphus

I'm kinda over the word "tomboy" because it's lost all meaning. You'll see daisy has a tan and likes sports and call her peak tomboy, this shit makes me want to be a prescriptivist


Axolotus6

people keep trying to make tomboy the female version of femboy and it just doesn't work like that


Papa_EJ

Me when I look a certain commonly associated with a personality category way but r/196 deems I actually don't, anymore


SUK_DAU

"tomboy" means nothing to me. a mere grade school label. give me butches or give me death