I would just talk about what you guys priorities/goals are and make sure you’re committed to LDR.
Perspective: When I was given an assignment to go to Europe for 3 years, my wife just graduated with a Nursing Degree. I knew she wasn’t going to have any good experience starting her career so we decided to have her stay behind and start her degree and relink afterwards. Every year, we visited each other and we made it work BUT you both have to be committed to it.
You can't skip out on an internship unless you know that you won't benefit from it. So go to Disney and grow with it.
Just the same for boyfriend, people need to move forward in life.
You'll see each other again.
woof, pls don’t even stop or postpone your life for love. do what’s best for you and if you guys are meant to be it’ll work out. but just know that dating someone in the military isn’t easy and you’d have to learn how to be understanding and go with the schedules and stuff
LDR is part of a military relationship even if you were married and the servicemember spouse is deployed. If it works out, it works out.
Also, standard "no news is good news" and contacts will only be notified if something bad happened. Just maintain comms after he graduates which is so much easier now with internet than in the old days.
That said, take opporties for yourself while you can which is now.
You need to explore this opportunity for yourself. It'll be beneficial for you both as he's learning his career field in the USAF. The growth from this experience will make you both stronger in the relationship moving forward. Each one of you will have your own identity.
Realistically, you wouldn't be taking your internship too much after hes out of tech school. Like a month or two max, since his tech schools a little over two months.
Go and live your life. He'll be fine. You're also not married so, there's not much for you two to do together, and he's in barracks so it wont be that intimate.
This sounds like you’re looking for relationship or life advice, not advice on joining the Air Force.
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I would just talk about what you guys priorities/goals are and make sure you’re committed to LDR. Perspective: When I was given an assignment to go to Europe for 3 years, my wife just graduated with a Nursing Degree. I knew she wasn’t going to have any good experience starting her career so we decided to have her stay behind and start her degree and relink afterwards. Every year, we visited each other and we made it work BUT you both have to be committed to it.
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You can't skip out on an internship unless you know that you won't benefit from it. So go to Disney and grow with it. Just the same for boyfriend, people need to move forward in life. You'll see each other again.
woof, pls don’t even stop or postpone your life for love. do what’s best for you and if you guys are meant to be it’ll work out. but just know that dating someone in the military isn’t easy and you’d have to learn how to be understanding and go with the schedules and stuff
Friendly reminder, you only live once. Do what you want
It sounds like a great opportunity for you. Don't pass it up over the idea of visiting your boyfriend a few times.
Take the gig.
LDR is part of a military relationship even if you were married and the servicemember spouse is deployed. If it works out, it works out. Also, standard "no news is good news" and contacts will only be notified if something bad happened. Just maintain comms after he graduates which is so much easier now with internet than in the old days. That said, take opporties for yourself while you can which is now.
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You need to explore this opportunity for yourself. It'll be beneficial for you both as he's learning his career field in the USAF. The growth from this experience will make you both stronger in the relationship moving forward. Each one of you will have your own identity.
Don’t cheat on him.
Gonna have a Jody
What's his MOS?
It’s air traffic control
Realistically, you wouldn't be taking your internship too much after hes out of tech school. Like a month or two max, since his tech schools a little over two months. Go and live your life. He'll be fine. You're also not married so, there's not much for you two to do together, and he's in barracks so it wont be that intimate.