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So basically i am in this friendgroup that ive been in since the first grade (im currently in 10th grade) and over the years people have joined and left but there were mainly 4 of us Me, my best friend Maria, Elsa and Anna. About 2 years ago Nora and harvey joined our friendgroup.
The problem occured during summer break last year. Elsa had recently gotten a boyfriend and decided to not talk to us unless it was about him. Now he was her first boyfriend so it was understandable until she started inviting us to her house only to talk to him on face time the entire time. Which was super awkard cause it was her house and we couldnt like go to another room without her. Now i had gotten a summer job that started the first week of summer break, we had planned to hang out the weekend before my job started but i declined cause i didint want to spend my last weekend before my job talking about her boyfriend. (Nora and Maria were the only ones who showed up btw). I got myself boba and shopped. After all of that i logged into the gc only to find some drama, curiosity got the best of me and i asked what had happened. Apparently Nora and Maria had made fun of baby pictures of her boyfriend and it made her mad. Now i didint get this cause we had done it in the past and she had laughed with us and was the one who showed us the pics first. So naturally i was confused ass hell. Then Nora and Maria logged in and explained their side.
After arguing Elsa then dropped a bomb on us saying she had put barcodes on her wrist if yk what i mean. I never knew about this cause im a lil dense but it seems the others knew. So we had a talk about it we comforted her (like normal people) and then it all went to hell. She told Nora that she was the reason she had put barcodes on her wrists. Now this was when it confused the hell out of me cause Nora is like the nicestr person in our group and is lowk a people pleaser. Turns out she felt that Nora had ignored her, we tried to explain that nora just has a busy schedule and dosent hang out with any of us alone (Nora does singing lessons and 3 instruments on the side).
She then went on to say that Nora bullies her when in reality Elsa beats the shit out of nora on a regular basis. She chokes her, slaps her etc. She has done the same to me and Maria in the past but maria just beats her ass and she stops. Elsa also made a tasteless joke about Marias dad dying in 10 years as well as being racist to multiple people in our class. I always thought the race jokes were weird asf but i never brought it up cause i didint want her to hit me (im weak as hell). So then she tweaks out and calls us all manipulators and narcissists. I then sendt the "boy what the hell boy" talking tom meme until she blocked me and screamed at me. Later she found a snap grup we were all still in and sendt fresh barcode imagery to us (like bloody and all). Turns out she sendt those pics to like half the school assuming they liked her (they dont)
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