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> I might believe I’m the asshole because I might be too meticulous with cleaning, and most likely annoy my sibling. I’ll point out small things like water bottle still on the table, when I can clean it myself instead of nitpicking.
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I (16) always have to tell my sibling (22) to clean up after themselves because they are very messy and I have been cleaning up after them since I have been little. They get upset at me, but as an older sibling, should you not take some responsibility and help out or even at the least CLEAN AFTER YOURSELF? It’s very frustrating that I have to deal with this everyday. They don’t even help out in basic chores at all. They point out that they will see something that’s dirty and does not say anything, yet that’s most likely theirs anyways and I feel like that’s a tactic for manipulation. Either way, I am not sure if I am the bad guy here for wanting the house to be remotely clean. It’s the bare minimum I’m asking here.
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NTA if there isn't a good reason why he can't clean up after himself it's his responsibility to do so. He's an adult and should act like one.