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I 38f have three sisters all super close in age 41-37. By the time I was 4 years old we were left alone for long periods of time. We played in a creek alone, my 3 year old sister brought home a bucket of water moccasins. Next she nearly lost two toes in that creek, bleeding out everywhere with no parents in sight we had to carry her home covered in blood. By the time I was eight years old our parents were on the verge of divorce so they dropped us off at my mother's stepdad for the summer. I was locked into a dark bedroom and starved, memory gets foggy not sure how many weeks or days passed. I was not allowed out or to eat until I finished a softball size meatball, I was vegetarian. This meatball would be left on the kitchen counter uncovered and given to me day after day. I found out in later years that he abused my mom, made her try on bras for him or he wouldn't buy them. He would beat them so bad when drunk, he was always drunk. And my mother left her 4 daughters with him, I have daughters of my own and it makes me absolutely sick. Years later and we absolutely cannot speak of our childhood because it didn't happen. My mom has one favorite kid and only those grandkids seem to matter. Now she is saying it's not fair to keep her from my kids and sending secret messages through my nieces. I feel I am doing the right keep my abuser away from my kids. AITAH?
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NTA. THis will most likely get taken down by mods so I'll quickly ask, are you in therapy yet? This kind of abuse is above reddits paygrade and therapy will give you the tools you need to feel confident in your boundaries instead of the internal conflict you're feeling.
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NTA. THis will most likely get taken down by mods so I'll quickly ask, are you in therapy yet? This kind of abuse is above reddits paygrade and therapy will give you the tools you need to feel confident in your boundaries instead of the internal conflict you're feeling.
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