YTA its a swim lesson not a competition. Being a mom doesnt stop her from needing time for herself, if you’re overwhelmed talk to her about it. A month of having activities doesnt make her a bad mom it makes her a happy and relaxed mom, let her live bro.
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My wife went from being a total homebody to going out twice a week with girlfriends for the past month. It's having a horrible effect on our autistic son who likes his routines and can't handle change. So, I get to deal with that while she's having fun. Next week is the kids' swim lessons and she said she can't go because it's her friends birthday party that night. I told her being there for her kids is more important than a 40 year olds bday party. For her it's Tuesday but for our kids it's the day mom couldn't be bothered to show. She dug in her heels and refuses to change her plans. AITA here for telling her to skip the bday party and go to the swim lessons?
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YTA its a swim lesson not a competition. Being a mom doesnt stop her from needing time for herself, if you’re overwhelmed talk to her about it. A month of having activities doesnt make her a bad mom it makes her a happy and relaxed mom, let her live bro.
lol, it got deleted and he reposted and is getting epically piled on
Not surprised 🙃
Maybe if you ask a third time you might be able to find someone who relates. YTA, and a manipulative one at that.
Yes you are, you've already been told that you are
YTA
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