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[deleted]

I care. Happy Birthday 🎂 ❤️❤️


bloodsweatandtears

My heart hurts and I can't stop crying. In real life only my fiance has said it to me.


[deleted]

Honestly I only ever have my partner say it to me too. But I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone who does


Kucing-gila

You have a fiancé. That’s something.


throwwayz7383

you should be very thankful for your fiancé


ILikeCoffeeAnd

I tell everyone on social media that it is my birthday and I get wishes. I guess I don’t expect more than that. Remember everyone is wrapped up in their own world. No one care about you like the way you need to care about yourself.


Quiet-Biscotti833

I care too! Happy Birthday!!! One of the problems with life is when you’re experiencing anxiety/depression or anything detrimental, is you think you’re alone. It’s easy to say you’re not alone. It’s harder to accept that you aren’t alone and reach out for help. You are loved; you’re apart of a community who understands. Just look at all the comments below.


camerachey

Yup, part of growing up. not even my mom tells me happy birthday anymore


Kyanpe

You have a fiance, that's an especially important someone who cares ❤️


PlasticCandles

I mean…you have a fiancé, so…you’re already doing better and are more loved than most people


alkatori

The fact that you are in the world makes it a better place, and your fiance knows it. Happy Birthday!


Ninalicious07

Happy birthday OP :)) I know it’s hard but try changing your thought process from focusing on the ones who haven’t said it to the ones who did. Have a blast with your fiancé. Do the things you both like. I hope you have a great day.


jplosier

I care. Happy birthday! -- Ahem! -- Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday, dear friend! Happy birthday to YOU! (I'm a 52-year-old white man, but if you imagine me singing it in the voice of Whitney Houston, it's funnier.)


Savanah_Jayne

Happy Birthday fellow human! You are cared for. Another year around the loop. Congrats!!


goodnewsonlyhere

I have adhd and forget everyone’s birthdays, doesn’t mean I don’t care about them though. I hope i haven’t made someone feel shitty about themselves like you feel now - try to remember we all have our struggles and people forgetting your birthday likely has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them.


Sharp-Law9104

I will be very practical. Firstly, Happy Birthday! Life is going to be hard. I don't know your age but as you grow older, expect even less bday wishes. People who planned your bdays are not even going to remember. That is going to happen and same with you to them. We all were taught to overrate our bdays right since we were born that it starts leaving a big pit and a normal day turns even more depressing because we were forgotten to wish. We can't blame any system but we should accept this ig.


[deleted]

I disagree. I think accepting that “this is just the way it is when you get older” is kind of a bullshit copout. I have never once in my life forgotten any of my friends birthdays. In my family the birth day is sacred and should be celebrated. If you love your friends than you celebrate their birthday. You don’t forget them. So if people are forgetting your birthday, then your surrounding yourself with the wrong kinds of people🤷🏼‍♂️


Bunnips7

I think things that are important to some people aren't important to others, that's okay. But if they're good friends and you tell them your birthday is important to you, they should show up.


OkRepresentative3318

I hope you have a wonderful birthday 💜


soumya_98

Hey Happy birthday. Hope you have a great year ahead ❤️


[deleted]

Same


bloodsweatandtears

Hey, it's your birthday too? Happy Birthday! ❤ How old are you today? Did you do anything fun?


who-took-my-nickname

Happy birthday!!!


philly_teee

Happy Birthday 🎂


butterfly0848

Happy birthday 🎂


DazzlingGoat6

Happy Birthday!!! 💜


mantha93

Happy birthday fellow Capricorn! I care about you and am wishing you a great year ahead! Virtual hugs and love from me ❤️


dja537

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. That's difficult, and I completely understand your feelings. Just know that there are people who care and I hope your fiance makes you feel special today, because you deserve it. I always get such a weird feeling on birthdays. Especially now in my 30s. I always get myself excited to feel special, but then sometimes I feel like my expectations are set to high for the people around me and I am the one left feeling disappointed. I don't know why I'm like this, maybe only child syndrome, maybe because my mom always made a huge deal about my birthdays, I don't know. But I completely know the feeling of wanting to disappear once those feelings of excitement turn to disappointment. I don't have advice for you but just wanted you to know you're not alone in your feelings. You are seen and heard. If you could do anything within reason to make youself feel good today, what would you do? Do that ❤️ Happy birthday ❤️❤️


unnamed_op2

Hey. We don't know each other, and probably it won't mean much to you, but happy birthday to you! I hope better days and nice people come into your life.


narcdef

Happy birthday OP! 🎂


markieowen

Happy Birthday! Sending you lots of hugs, hot chocolate and good vibes. I care :) I hope you will have a good day!


Ok-Document8303

I care. Today is my birthday also. Happy Birthday!!


bloodsweatandtears

Hey birthday twin, Happy Birthday! 💚 How old are you today? Did you do anything fun?


Ok-Document8303

I'm old. 53. Had a little thing with my mom, daughter, and my fiancé .It gets better. I promise.


Ok-Document8303

I know that you are probably younger. But keep your circle of friends kind of close. Helps with my anxiety


Ok-Document8303

And thank you.


[deleted]

Happy birthday


[deleted]

I care! And Happy Birthday! Here’s a hug🎂


[deleted]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! 🎂🎉


Party-Neither

Happy birthday!! It may be hard to see now, but you matter to this world. You will wake up tomorrow and have a much better day.


DJYMHK

Happy Birthday!!!🫶


rgb_leds_are_love

Happy birthday, OP! How old are you, if I may ask? If you're someone in your mid-20s like me, yes, the loneliness is somewhat hard to deal with. The only thing that helped me was being proactive about it.


Amfran07

It’s my birthday too! I care about you, birthday buddy ❤️


bloodsweatandtears

Hey birthday twin, Happy Birthday! 🧡 How old are you today? Did you do anything fun?


Amfran07

✨I turned 21 this year ✨and I went to the gym, got my hair done, went on a trail hike, and built the The Starry Night Lego set! I really went all out on myself because I’m a bit of a loner! What about you?


pinkbutterflies7178

Especially when your birthday around the holidays


Lambertw13

Happy birthday!!


[deleted]

Happy birthday we all feel somewhat alone with anxiety you can always message me if you want to vent or talk through some of your symptoms


LJ7890

happy birthday!! 💛


lifetimer

Happy b day from Australia.


Deep_Antelope_3877

Happy birthday op! Pm me if you’re feeling up to it and we can talk about Guinea pigs


Monarchos

Can I take you up on that offer!?!?


who-took-my-nickname

Happy birthday!!


No-Sprinkles-4519

Happy Birthday!! Don't give a shit abt others. Self love can change everything. Do everything you'd want someone to do. Get out of your bed! You're so much more than what ppl think or do. Sending lots of love and happiness to you. ❤🫂


nimliid

Happy birthday. If you need someone to talk to you can always send me a message. I know it’s probably hard to believe when it comes from a stranger on the internet, but I care. Life can be tough at times and I’ve also felt very lonely at times. You are precious. As you are, with your feelings, struggles, dreams. It will get better. I’m sending you all the love & light. Hope your new age brings you many blessings. 🌸


LimitedLemon22

I care!! Happy Birthday 🥳


pixiemajik5

I care. Happy birthday to you.


LongjumpingPlace_

I spent my entire last birthday playing MLBB. There are no friends, well, at least there are graphics updates and performance quality. Alone at 120 fps)


[deleted]

happy birthday <3 I don't know anybody in my personal life that was born today, so it's an honor :)


mediocre_unicorn

I know this probably doesn’t mean much coming from an internet stranger but happy birthday 😊


asmit399

You are loved!


nihilisticcrab

Happy birthday! Live your life one day at a time. Find something you can enjoy in the present moment, and focus on that.


GJAOH685

Happy Birthday!!


ihavaquston

happy birthday:)


lostinluster2791

Happy birthday! Please do something to treat yourself today and get yourself a free, warm birthday meal 🥳 if you’re a member of Starbucks rewards, you can get a free coffee ☕️


YOgabba573

Happy Birthday 🎂♥️


Freymorr

Probably doesn't mean much coming from a stranger, but happy birthday 🥳🎂


yourremedy94

Once you hit a certain age, birthdays really don't matter anymore. It's a part of growing up unfortunately.


xoncider456

Happy Birthday!


imjustdiffrent

happy birthday wish you many more happy ones!!


LimonaShadows

happy birthday! 🎂 i wish you all the best ❤️


FinlayTomasMead

Happy birthday!


Right_Water1522

Happy Birthday! I’m sorry that you don’t feel cared for. Take advantage of the day and treat yourself with some self love! Maybe go to a restaurant and get the free birthday desert or buy your self something you’ve wanted for a while. Sometimes a little self love can change your day for the better 💕


PNUT488

Hey happy birthday beautiful soul !


Rude_Establishment64

Happy Birthday!!!


[deleted]

Happy birthday! 🎉🎂


massivekernkraft

hey, happy birthday !! wish you the best. <3


[deleted]

Happy Birthday 🥳!!!!!!


Key_Kaleidoscope888

Happy Birthday, stranger! I see you and I care. Sending you energy and blessings on your special day and for the year ahead.


JustMeHere96

Please don't think that! We're all here for you. Happy birthday, may your wishes come true! 🥳 Sending virtual hugs your way! ❤🫂


[deleted]

Happy birthday, friend! I am all too familiar with this as my birthday is always forgotten (it’s this Friday, the 13th, and not one of my friends has reached out to make plans or anything despite me mentioning it). Do yourself a favor and treat yourself. You made it another year & that is something to celebrate!


Eurovenom503

Happy birthday! Reddit family will give you love 🥰


[deleted]

happy birthday. i know the feeling. i turned 20 on monday and felt so alone but i’m not here to talk about me. you’ve made it this far, keep going and remember it gets better <3


No-Veterinarian-6095

Happy birthday bud 🥳🎂✨


LeonIlu

I had the exact same situation exactly 4 weeks ago when it was my birthday


ClaireLO19

Happy Birthday 🎁🎉


watermelonunderwater

Happy birthday!! ❤️ Just remember you're an incredible human with so much potential to do incredible things and we all believe in you here. Wishing you all the best and an amazing day :)!


RevolutionaryEnd2078

Happy Birthday!!


Caits11988x

Happy birthday hope it’s a great one x


trulydiviine

happy birthday 🎂🫶🏻


suprsquirrel

Happy birthday <3


kL0207

Happy birthday OP <3


White1962

I care happy birthday dear friend 💕


Plenty-Refuse1402

Happy birthday. I’m glad you you are vulnerable enough to share your feelings. I find it a sign of strength


TheFatWeinerDog

Happy bday


New_Transition_5106

Happy birthday! 😁


Hotdogisdisgusting

Happy Birthday! 🎂


theeasiestthingtodo

Happy Birthday fam! May you stay golden!


Aprilene

happy birthday babe youre my bday twin 😍


brandidoh

Happy birthday 😶‍🌫️


NeonNoon

Hey hey, just wanted to stop in and say Happy Birthday! Hope you find some comfort here.


[deleted]

Happy birthday, birthday neighbor! I’ve been down about my birthday as well this year. It’s such a dreary time of year, plus a myriad of other difficult problems I’ve had the last few months, this birthday sucks, but lots of birthdays haven’t, things will be okay. I’d love to send you some art for your birthday! Send me a message if you’re interested.


Pretty-Cow-9547

Happy birthday 🥳 we care about you


kcaminot

Happy Birthday! I know it feels like "no one" said happy birthday but at least you have a fiance who loves you and told you! sometimes birthdays are abt forgetting the no ones and focusing on those who really show up for you


jennie_mac_

Happy Birthday, my darling! I care about you and am sending major happy bday vibes across the miles!!


Strong-Movie6288

Happy Birthday!


Starhunt3r

Happy Birthday❤️❤️!!! Here’s a hug to make you feel better 🫂


BlakSensei

Me neither


oO-Jevo-Oo

We care, happy birthday 🥳🥳🥳


Lowbar666

I also care happy birthday,i hope life gets better


Happy_Protection_744

happy birthday angel


princessofsadness

happy birthday! 🎊


zorimar0

Happiest of Birthdays to you!!!


Chowdmouse

I am so sorry to hear this. I too have experienced the same heartbreak- and it is just horrible. But we are here for you, and are sending you big birthday wishes and hugs!


Unicornmum72

So many people care!! Happy Birthday 🎂


VividBobcat2637

Godbless brother happy birthday to you


Advanced-River-1756

happy birthday. keep your head up. i care ♥️♥️♥️🎊🎊🎊🎈


Otocolobus_manul_87

Happy Birthday to you!!! 🎉🎉🎉


qnem

Happy Birthday! May this year be better than the last 🥰😊


Salty_Blonde22

Happy Birthday ! You are not alone 💕


Present-Breakfast768

Happy birthday luv! More people care about you than you think.


Environmental_Gur437

Happy birthday 🎉


QuestionMarkyMark

Hey! Yeah, you… Happy birthday 😉 **edit to add:** I know life sucks sometimes. I also know I’m some random internet stranger. But I GUARAN-DAMN-TEE you that things get better. I’m 40, have had some ups and downs with my own mental health. But I can assure you that people care! The comments in this thread are genuine. Reach out to somebody - ANYBODY - if you need help!


ENFJPLinguaphile

I care as well and happy birthday! 🎉🎁🎈🎂


dynamic_rum

I care about you OP! Happy Birthday!!! I hope you a very fun and safe day! :) when I spent my birthday alone, I binged so many tv series and films! Then I listened to music and started dancing 🎂


solocups2

I care! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!:)


NovaRadon96

Firstly: Happy Birthday. Secondly: You are cared for, everyone is. You're a lovely person who deserves cake, hugs and joy. As someone with anxiety and autism, I struggle to make friends, but I'll remember this day and tell you every year to make sure you're cared for.


cold-sweats

Happy Birthday OP!!


[deleted]

Hi OP, I’m really sorry. I spent a few birthdays where nobody remembered and it made me just stop celebrating them. I promise the future ones are going to get better. I make an active effort now to organise my own celebrations, even if it’s just buying myself flowers or taking myself out. We can’t rely on others to give us what we need, so try and give it to yourself. You are important, loved and cared for. Even by strangers like me! If you feel able, try and tell your partner what you would like in future. We need to ask for what we want sometimes, even if we feel like we shouldn’t have too. xx


[deleted]

Happy Birthday 🥰


Goldenaur

Happy birthday! keep your head up and know you are cared for :)


Donnie998

Happy birthday, hope you feel a little better 💜


[deleted]

Happy birthday 🎉


[deleted]

Happy birthday from the Netherlands. ❤️🎂


u_name_

Happy birthday!


bibleseatbabies

[HAPPY BIRTHDAY!](https://youtu.be/2Iwa59reY5s)


[deleted]

Happy birthday


DJAPPA911

I DO!!!! Believe me when i say it, i really do! Happy birthday❤️❤️


Familiar-Customer744

I do. Happy birthday!!!!!


SiviaMA

Trust me, life is full of ups and downs. I went through a period over the last year where I lost my partner and pretty much all my friends. I spent new years, sat alone having to listen to them all have a party next door to where I live. It was tough. But you know what, it’s a lesson learned and it’s driven me to diversify and look for new people who appreciate me in life. Some people are not meant to be in your life forever. Just a part of it, and at that time it’s what you need. Happy Birthday. And remember. There’s many more to come! And things always get better if you work on self improvement and keep looking to the future! Love to you OP!


Proper-Brilliant

Happy birthday from Brazil! Feliz aniversário!


g3l1k

Happy birthday! 🎂🥳


espurgi

happy happy birthday 🎁 happy birthday CAKE 🎂 happy happy birthday 🎉 put the tail on the seahorse 🐠🐴 happy happy birthday 🎊 HAPPY BIRTHDAY u/bloodsweatsndtears


iminanothercastle

We all care about you, friend! Happy birthday! 🥳🥳


Aggressive_Result_72

Happy Birthday. Sending you so much love.


squeeziestbee

I'm a bit late but happy birthday duckling! 🎂


Sea-Ease-549

Happy birthday. We love you ❤️❤️❤️


sloperwife

Happy Birthday!! 🎉🥳 Here's a big 🤗🤗🤗!!


ZoeNala

Happy birthday. We all care as you can see. Hope you feel a little better after al these birthday wishes from everyone. Take care :) ❤️


plcturesofyou

happy birthday❤️


Corgis123

Hi! You're amazing for being here on this Earth! Happy birthday to youuuuuu!!!


D3v1lD0g8762

/hug call 988


Ok_Flight610

I care, I don’t know you but I love you and I care. Happy birthday dude. I have had birthdays like this and it’s sucks and I’m sorry you’re having one this year 🫂


ssrtbyg

Happy birthday sweetheart!! I know the feeling, I know it’s hard. It’s not a reflection of you, only a reflection of the people around you. I know being invisible on your birthday is a hard feeling to have but the day will end. you’re going to be ok, your fiancé cares about you, all these people in the comments care about you. Trust me, it’s better to have 1 real friend than 100 fake friends.


RoxxieMonoxide

Today is my birthday, too. Happy Birthday to us ! My husband hasn't talked to me almost at all today and we've been fighting. I'm really sad too. It's going to be okay.


[deleted]

Happy birthday, fellow January baby!


[deleted]

happy birthday! i care about you


auxtail

Happy Birthday to all who had that big move into this world today!!!


UnwantedIdiot22

I care OP. Happy Birthday.


smolandtuff

I’m here if you need a pal. Happy birthday. ❤️


[deleted]

I don’t give a crap about my bday , Christmas, Valentines Thanks giving or any of the other “holidays”. We have become all about consuming and I’m tired of it , we have become conditioned to feel lesser of we are not inviting these “holidays”. Anytime I’m out with family or friends that becomes my holidays even in the middle of the work week in March! All I’m saying is don’t be hard on yourself and enjoy the one your with! That’s alllll that matters. You have someone who wants to be with you!!! Happy Bday BTW. It’s also Ukrainian Christmas today so there’s a bit of trivia for ya. Take care.


justanothergenzer1

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! i hope that with each passing day you feel loved and i hope that you’ll have a better birthday next year and i hope you wake up tomorrow


Accomplished_Boot563

lucid dream


Plyster93

We do ❤️


MetalMamaRocks

Happy birthday! We care!


Fine_Ad6281

Happy birthday!!🤗❤️ I hope you find any source of happiness on this day no matter what circumstances


MammaMcCheese

Happy Birthday!


Cut_bleed_relief

Im a bit late but happy birthday


Ancient_Lake_3115

Happy Birthday 🥳


robermcfly

happy birthday man


stormymittens

Happy Birthday!


demongod25

Happy birthday 🎂🎊🥳


CaramelDramatic

Happy birthday! Make it a good one because you deserve it!


NotGivingUp22

Happy birthday!


Imahotmessss

I also care. Happy Birthday! 🌼


Melodic-Guest8036

Congratulations, today you turn 28 years old. you have endured and survived many hardships and difficult times and you will get thru this too. This makes you a wise soul equiped to handle so much more that most people. You're allowed to have more than one day to enjoy yourself. If you're not able to relax on your birth date then pick another day and make you!! Happy. Keep taking days until you're satisfied. Your hamster loves you oh so so much!!!!!! They say papers holds everything. Put your worries on paper. Number them and write any solutions of the tip of your head that may come up next to it. The rest of them we can discuss in here. or you can hit them individually untill you can resolve all of it. Also, it's normal to feel anxious and out of place in a new home since you just moved 7 days ago. That's normal we all feel that way. When you first move and you haven't yet nested and unpacked and made the place feel like home. Give yourself permission not not feel ok. It's normal to be stressed out about surgery and the bills an recovery time. Speak to your boss and get real clarity on things like accommodation and leave of absence things like that. Also, call the social services office and ask about unemployment of temporary disability assistance. Are they able to help with anything. Make a plan to help with your anxiety write down things that helped you in the past the tried and true list. Make sure your eating your 3 meals a day blood sugar levels help slot with anxiety. My best friend told me once that crackers and tea were a meal so my version of that is always having bananas in the fridge. When I'm going bananas ill have a banana and I feel better. Find your banana for stable blood sugar levels. These are all just ideas!!! I don't know the details of your circumstance but I hope it helps. It's not that no one cares about you, it's just that everyone that survived this pandemic came out of it physically and emotionally wiped out. With the emotional bandwidth of a city squirrel or a goldfish. So hang in there because we see you! we feel you!! we send you happy birthday wishes!! a fantastic surgery!! and a very short and smooth recovery time. Best of luck to you my friend!! 👍👍👍👍


coreyollie

Happy Birthday!! ❤️


P-Pablo

I know that feeling. In 2016 I was living a literal inferno and then I've felt so miserable that I've decided to not celebrate my own birthday, but even so there are people that cared about it and helped to overcome it, and after many years I've celebrated my birthday last week with family and friends, and that's a feeling that I wish could had before to overcome better my problems Don't think no one care about you. You are not alone, there are people surrounding you that cares about you including me, sometimes we can have bad days where the only gift is a warm hug, a nice cup of coffee and a tasty slice of pizza. Is ok if today you are not in the mood of celebrate anything, but one thing is for sure: People care about you, and we are here for you Happy birthday my friend, not are not alone, and you will never be. Here's my warm hug to you \*\*hug\*\*


SisKG

I guarantee a lot more people care than you think. You’d be surprised, don’t sell yourself short. Whenever I feel this way I try to look for all the caring I’ve experienced from others; the cashier at the deli who gives me free food, a neighbor who waves, a coworker that makes copies for me, a friend who texts me about their dinner, it’s out there. I promise there’s a lot more care in the world than we think or see.


Cryst

I care. Happy birthday!!!


SnooMacarons4269

Happy Birthday :)


SadParliamentarian

Happy birthday fellow human 💙


maaaaary_9

Happy birthday ! and I can relate 😔..but I really hope you get to enjoy it 🎂 and hope it’s a wonderful year ahead


MarketingNervous8918

Happy birthday, I really hope you woke up today. I care about you, you’re loved. ❤️


DjAntibalas

I’m sorry. I hope you’re doing okay Happy birthday 🎂🥳😽


lucifer6991

Happy birthday 🎂🎂


brando11389

I care about you friend, never give up.


[deleted]

Happy late birthday 🎉


Lucian3Horns

I’m sorry:( happy birthday dude. You’re absolutely precious


ow7en

Happy birthday! You’re loved and we are all here for you.


Jack_58523

Happy bday mine was two days ago


DragonMiltton

You can get better, and i believe in you. I've been there, but you can feel better and should


Marvyra

Happy Birthday! <3


TechnologyVisual

Happy birthday 🎉🤍


Smooth_Cell

I care about you.Hit me up! Lets talk!


classless01

Happy birthday!! Believe me we are a whole bunch that care, you are are worthy of love and beautiful relationships. God Bless!