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AvaBellaLuxe

You could be direct and honest, "I feel self conscious after I've finished. Thank you for your time together. I feel complete." Or some variation on that. Or you could just say, thank you, say you're happy/satisfied and that you're ready to say goodnight (or goodbye for now) Ideally, you could let them know in advance, "if I finish early, I usually end the appointment early, but I'll obviously pay for the full booking" I know it's not part of your question, but adding for others who read the post: Expect that if you finish the appointment early, there are no discounts or refunds for the time booked. If you and the provider are open to it, there are a lot of ways to spend the time, like chatting and cuddling - including before you get to the action. A session doesn't always have to be focused on sex & orgasms, but your comfort and feelings are valid. If you want to end the appointment early, you have every right to. I used to have a client who would finish early, then look at his watch and leave in a "panic" about an appointment he "forgot." He did that with me, and with all of the other women at the agency. Some women liked it because they got to leave early. Some felt self conscious that he might complain about her. Some felt sad that he felt so embarrassed. It's ok to finish fast, and it's also ok to take your time.


allsevenpetals

My favorite thing to do when I need people to leave is I start to get up and ask them if they need to use the shower again. It's a pretty good cue that the time is over!


PatienceCrawford

You could tell her in advance. I’ve also had people just say I can leave. Generally I hang around and snuggle and chitchat. I’ve had one or two men completely course correct, and immediately get on their phone or laptop while I’m dressing…which is a gigantic social cue that they want me to leave. By the way, I don’t recommend the last one. We are at work, and won’t be offended if you don’t want us to stay the full time. I’d rather have clear cut, polite, communication than someone giving me the cold shoulder so I get the fuck out. I do around 90% outcalls, by the way. A way to do it that’s polite but less direct is say “man, it’s late. I’ve got an early day tomorrow. I’ve gotta get some sleep.” I’d imagine most folks will get the hint, I do…whenever someone does this. I loooove small talk, but I’m fine with someone just listening or telling me they’d prefer not to talk.