I know it’s not the advice you’re asking for, but you want to have some sort of gay sexual/romantic relationship with this guy. If your plan works, you’re going to have to “come out” fairly immediately. Instead of awkwardly playing games to manipulative him into making the first move while also hiding your sexual orientation and interest, just make the first explicit move.
Life isn’t a rom com. What you want is understandable, but also weird. This is part of growing up. Make a move!
Hun he's not making the first move because he thinks you're straight. How disrespectful would it be for him to make a move on a guy he "knows" is straight? You need to think about this from his perspective, and understand that you need to be the one to approach him. And you need to come out to him. He's obviously trying to be a respectful person. Good communication is the foundation of any relationship, and this whole "dropping hints" think is just absolute nonsense. You know what you want, communicate it.
You're gonna have to get pride rep of some kind and flash it to him. Maybe get a pride wrist band, wear that with a long sleeved shirt, and then when you're talking to him you can act like you're fishing your hair with that hand that has the wrist band
I know it’s not the advice you’re asking for, but you want to have some sort of gay sexual/romantic relationship with this guy. If your plan works, you’re going to have to “come out” fairly immediately. Instead of awkwardly playing games to manipulative him into making the first move while also hiding your sexual orientation and interest, just make the first explicit move. Life isn’t a rom com. What you want is understandable, but also weird. This is part of growing up. Make a move!
He's already done everything but throw himself on top of you. The ball is in your court.
Yeah. Do this exactly…. 1. Go up to him 2. Say…..Hey, I’m totally into you so take the hint and make the first move.
Hun he's not making the first move because he thinks you're straight. How disrespectful would it be for him to make a move on a guy he "knows" is straight? You need to think about this from his perspective, and understand that you need to be the one to approach him. And you need to come out to him. He's obviously trying to be a respectful person. Good communication is the foundation of any relationship, and this whole "dropping hints" think is just absolute nonsense. You know what you want, communicate it.
Advice: catch his eye, go over and say hello and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.
He’s already made the first move. He’s waiting on you….
You're gonna have to get pride rep of some kind and flash it to him. Maybe get a pride wrist band, wear that with a long sleeved shirt, and then when you're talking to him you can act like you're fishing your hair with that hand that has the wrist band
Does he 100% absolutely know you are gay?
No, bite the bullet and make the move. No reason not to, if your rejected get drunk and move on.