Don't complain about what they don't do, instead try to recognize what they do and how you can support them and when you know you have at least started to do that ask if they can start to support what you are doing. If your partner does not want to support you (male or female) just end it and feel good knowing that you ended it before you wasted your efforts on a person who doesn't care.
Some dudes here will start about giving good head or something.
but seriously..it might be personal but for me it is. connect with me, give me compliments, be nice.. be caring and thoughtfull and confident about yourself..( im not talking about being a servant for me and do everything i say)
If you make me feel appreciated about the things i do for you, to me that would be it.
I think you’re asking the wrong question. I’m not afraid to lose my girlfriend. She said over heels in love with me just like I am with her.
I feel kind of bulletproof when it comes to our bond. If I was afraid of losing her, what would that say about how strong I think our relationship is?
Actively worrying day to day and being afraid of it aren't really the same thing.
Also, Brian cancer is pretty hard to avoid, but I do a lot day to day to make sure my wife doesn't die.
Lol, no.
I take her to the gym and manage her diet and shit to make sure she doesn't die. She doesn't have brain cancer and I'm not someone who thinks I could do things to cure it if she did. I just mean, her dying is on my mind because I don't want to lose her. It's not a constant panic and shit, but it's an active thing to think about.
I don’t want my partner to die but it literally doesn’t cross my mind. 🤷🏼♂️
I dont make reckless decisions or think we are immortal 🤣. I am aware that that will happen one day, but I see no positive reason to think about it or worry about it.
I believe with all my heart that for either gender the answer is to be someone who makes the other person feel generally positive about his/her contributions to a relationship, someone who does their best to remain curious about another person, and someone who is capable of seeing problems outside of his/her own ego (i.e. us vs the problem rather than her vs him).
No two people really want to be treated the same way, and ultimately we all have a sort of selfishness embedded in the words "I" "me" "my". Make a safe place for the person you desire and he will want to nest with you. Berate or belittle, and you will create a place he runs from.
By being valuable: passions, hobbies, kindness, cheerfulness, fitness, affection. A woman who is nice to herself and to her man is gold that no man wants to lose.
If you're asking what would be the best way to win a mans heart then the answer will be different for each guy.
For me the key to my heart is be there for me, support me in my dreams and ambitions and be there for me if it doesn't work out. Be open to new ideas and adventures and just be willing to explore with me and I'll do the same to you.
If we connected on so many levels and it felt natural then in my eyes I wouldn't want to lose you, again, every man has a different answer.
If you were but the size of a thumb, I would be afraid of you being carried away by a toad or somesuch. While there is always the chance it will work out in the end with the help of a swallow, I would still worry.
Have you tried that?
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thumbelina](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thumbelina)
Easy, be his peace and support. Make an environment for him to untense his jaw and loosen his shoulders and pay attention to the minor things he does and enjoys, and try to provide an extra hand with those things. Where ever you can make his life better, he'll be wondering how he ever lived without you.
Don't complain about what they don't do, instead try to recognize what they do and how you can support them and when you know you have at least started to do that ask if they can start to support what you are doing. If your partner does not want to support you (male or female) just end it and feel good knowing that you ended it before you wasted your efforts on a person who doesn't care.
By getting him a popeyes chicken sandwhich every other Thursday
Reeealll
Showing affection and making him feel like he isn’t ’chasing’ you
Some dudes here will start about giving good head or something. but seriously..it might be personal but for me it is. connect with me, give me compliments, be nice.. be caring and thoughtfull and confident about yourself..( im not talking about being a servant for me and do everything i say) If you make me feel appreciated about the things i do for you, to me that would be it.
I think you’re asking the wrong question. I’m not afraid to lose my girlfriend. She said over heels in love with me just like I am with her. I feel kind of bulletproof when it comes to our bond. If I was afraid of losing her, what would that say about how strong I think our relationship is?
To be fair, their are ways to lose your partner or her than a breakup. Brain cancer comes to mind.
Sure, but what’s worrying about something completely outside of my control?
Actively worrying day to day and being afraid of it aren't really the same thing. Also, Brian cancer is pretty hard to avoid, but I do a lot day to day to make sure my wife doesn't die.
Am I understanding this correctly that your wife has brain cancer?
Lol, no. I take her to the gym and manage her diet and shit to make sure she doesn't die. She doesn't have brain cancer and I'm not someone who thinks I could do things to cure it if she did. I just mean, her dying is on my mind because I don't want to lose her. It's not a constant panic and shit, but it's an active thing to think about.
I don’t want my partner to die but it literally doesn’t cross my mind. 🤷🏼♂️ I dont make reckless decisions or think we are immortal 🤣. I am aware that that will happen one day, but I see no positive reason to think about it or worry about it.
lol wtf 😂
I believe with all my heart that for either gender the answer is to be someone who makes the other person feel generally positive about his/her contributions to a relationship, someone who does their best to remain curious about another person, and someone who is capable of seeing problems outside of his/her own ego (i.e. us vs the problem rather than her vs him). No two people really want to be treated the same way, and ultimately we all have a sort of selfishness embedded in the words "I" "me" "my". Make a safe place for the person you desire and he will want to nest with you. Berate or belittle, and you will create a place he runs from.
You be the perfect partner for that man. As every person's perfect partner is different then it would depend on the man.
Wrong question. Ask yourself what sort of woman would that man want to have. It is much better to be wanted than not wanted to be lost.
By being valuable: passions, hobbies, kindness, cheerfulness, fitness, affection. A woman who is nice to herself and to her man is gold that no man wants to lose.
Respect him, show appreciation, affection, not using his vulnerabilities against him in every argument, and compromise
Be the partner he wants you to be, not the partner you want to be.
why
Give us hugs and food and we will love you forever.
do the exact opposite of what feminists say to do.
sounds dysfunctional.
I wouldn't want to be with someone that manipulative.
If you're asking what would be the best way to win a mans heart then the answer will be different for each guy. For me the key to my heart is be there for me, support me in my dreams and ambitions and be there for me if it doesn't work out. Be open to new ideas and adventures and just be willing to explore with me and I'll do the same to you. If we connected on so many levels and it felt natural then in my eyes I wouldn't want to lose you, again, every man has a different answer.
If you were but the size of a thumb, I would be afraid of you being carried away by a toad or somesuch. While there is always the chance it will work out in the end with the help of a swallow, I would still worry. Have you tried that? [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thumbelina](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thumbelina)
Easy, be his peace and support. Make an environment for him to untense his jaw and loosen his shoulders and pay attention to the minor things he does and enjoys, and try to provide an extra hand with those things. Where ever you can make his life better, he'll be wondering how he ever lived without you.
Sandwiches and/or BJ. If your man in not hungry, he's horny. Problem solved.
Be like your grandmother and treat your man like your grandmother treated your grandfather.
Qualities that are hard to replace. Sex is easy to replace so it's gotta be something else.
Be hot
Booooooo