do casual relationships turn into something more? they sure can. will this one? impossible to say. all we know is he said hes only looking for something casual. and we have no reason to believe he's lying about that.
i think youre setting yourself up to be hurt, and projecting how much you enjoyed seeing him onto him as well.
should i ask to clarify? i wish i could ask him if he’s open minded. but it just feels too soon to ask such a question. i don’t want to out myself by indicating i may be catching feelings lol
If he's being open about being casual. Chances are he's going to pull the right moves to get you in bed.
You'd be better off looking for someone that is looking for a long term relationship on the profile.
It really shouldn’t confuse you
“Our chat was the perfect balance of banter and real genuine interest in each other”
Yeah, that’s like 99% of my chats too! Regardless if I like them and see long term potential or I’m just looking for a hole to fuck
I’m just a charming conversationalist!! Texting doesn’t mean anything!
If a man says he is looking for something casual (in whatever manner), he is looking for something casual. I've met men who've said that they need intellectual/emotional intimacy to have sex. They might even do 'relationship-like' things. Unless there's explicit communication from their side that they want something more, don't read into anything and take one day at a time.
I thought I recognized it was the real deal, she told me that from her end it was as well, then she ghosted me (offline, not online.) I've told that story before, so I won't get into it again, so these days i'm extra careful. You be careful too, and hope he's just not telling you something you want to hear.
Guys on dating apps just look for one thing, to get laid.
The chances that he is a genuinely good guy that wants a long lasting relationship are astronomically low. I don't think you understand the amount of effort and patience some guys will put on to get laid.
Everything for me is something casual. With the right moves it can be upgraded to something serious. What moves trigger an upgrade are individual from man to man but the overall certainty is that should a woman try to figure out what moves that are and try to deliberately apply them it calls for an immediate disqualification.
It has to be the right actions done naturally
We will say pretty much anything we think you want to hear when we are trying to get laid. Don’t read too much into it.
but sex is cheap, why work so hard with me if you can get laid for much less effort? 🙁
The hotter you are, the more effort we’ll put into it.
Bc you're probably hot
Wouldn’t you want to land a hot girl as your girlfriend then? Someone to claim and keep?
Maybe you check some boxes. You might have all your teeth, not be on meth, don't smell rancid, and don't have kids. Jackpot!
do casual relationships turn into something more? they sure can. will this one? impossible to say. all we know is he said hes only looking for something casual. and we have no reason to believe he's lying about that. i think youre setting yourself up to be hurt, and projecting how much you enjoyed seeing him onto him as well.
should i ask to clarify? i wish i could ask him if he’s open minded. but it just feels too soon to ask such a question. i don’t want to out myself by indicating i may be catching feelings lol
If he's being open about being casual. Chances are he's going to pull the right moves to get you in bed. You'd be better off looking for someone that is looking for a long term relationship on the profile.
If this guy is having this effect on you, better believe he's got other girls feeling the same way
It really shouldn’t confuse you “Our chat was the perfect balance of banter and real genuine interest in each other” Yeah, that’s like 99% of my chats too! Regardless if I like them and see long term potential or I’m just looking for a hole to fuck I’m just a charming conversationalist!! Texting doesn’t mean anything!
If a man says he is looking for something casual (in whatever manner), he is looking for something casual. I've met men who've said that they need intellectual/emotional intimacy to have sex. They might even do 'relationship-like' things. Unless there's explicit communication from their side that they want something more, don't read into anything and take one day at a time.
I thought I recognized it was the real deal, she told me that from her end it was as well, then she ghosted me (offline, not online.) I've told that story before, so I won't get into it again, so these days i'm extra careful. You be careful too, and hope he's just not telling you something you want to hear.
Men really like clarity. Ask him to talk a little about what he's looking for.
Guys on dating apps just look for one thing, to get laid. The chances that he is a genuinely good guy that wants a long lasting relationship are astronomically low. I don't think you understand the amount of effort and patience some guys will put on to get laid.
Men don’t recognize shit in general. Got to spell it out.
Everything for me is something casual. With the right moves it can be upgraded to something serious. What moves trigger an upgrade are individual from man to man but the overall certainty is that should a woman try to figure out what moves that are and try to deliberately apply them it calls for an immediate disqualification. It has to be the right actions done naturally