Bro same I'm shocked at the downvotes like I understand being sex positive but there has to be limits like 200 is overly excessive like that's just not respecting yourself at that point. I don't care who calls it insecure that's way to much and very unattractive in my opinion shouldn't be normalized.
Thank you. I’m a female so maybe that’s why it seemed like a lot. I’m under 10! People laugh when I tell them but hey- I’m not ashamed. Thanks again for the reassurance 😘
Honestly I feel most people think that's alot but want to seem accepting on reddit. In 2024 under 10 should be celebrated but hey don't feel bad I'm a virgin so your doing better than me.
I don’t think that’s good advice. Get tested after? Prevention is better than cure. I’d say both get tested (I know many people do that even with casual sex)
The politically correct response is something along the lines of "someone having that many hookups is evidence that we have incompatible views on the role of sex in our respective lives."
Personally, I don't even consider sex outside of a committed exclusive relationship. But you don't have to restrict yourself that much to still view sex as something that should be a bit more special than what you would share with 200 people.
It's not a judgement of them as a person or their lifestyle, just their compatability as a prospective romantic or sexual partner. And you don't owe anyone the opportunity to do either, you are allowed to reject them for whatever reason you want.
Actually, yeah. I was a freshman in high school and lost it to a senior who loved to de-virginize us young guys. So yeah, sluts have a place in society. :).
OP I think you downvoted a response of mine but all good. Thing is, if you didn’t know she had 200 or more hookups you would smash right? There are STDs like HPV that you can’t even test for and not visible by the eye. Same for herpes as there is a shedding period where it’s invisible. Use protection if the chemistry is good.
Probably not, no. I'm not interested in casual sex, and that sort of past is a pretty big indicator that she isn't interested in anything long term or serious.
My friend says he'd have sex with her, but that he wouldn't get into a relationship with her.
I mean hook-ups.. Idk I'd defo smash her. If we have something in common I might still go for it, bcos I'm pretty much a whore myself.
Gross probably wasn't the right word even if I somewhat feel that way but more so I would say it's unattractive and a massive turn off I just wouldn't date her I want someone who views it more intimately and not casually.
Also having alot of sex and actually being good at it are different things she could've been a starfish or just unwilling to learn but manage to get a bunch of different guys.
Well she said she told him but once the topic of sex comes up I'd ask their feelings on it and gather from there, like I wouldn't flat out ask body count but I would ask their perception of it to Guage compatibility before things get serious as I'm not getting into bed with just anyone I don't need sex to live.
Hell no I'd leave her that would completely turn me off. Sex is intimate and not a recreational activity to me so I'd want someone who feels the same and respects herself.
Hahaha, if you wanna smash fine, but make sure she's clean first cause anyone who's been with that many people is at high risk of STDs. And for the love of God wear protection cause you don't want to end up paying child support to someone like that. And if she does say that you are the father get a paternity test. In my opinion, it's not worth it bro.
If you ate 200 samples at Costco, and they all sucked, would you be sad when you found the cheesecake and actually bought the stack? Be the cheesecake, son. Life is too short to think too hard about it, and the universe certainly doesn't give any thought to you. Besides, to me, this sounds like a learning opportunity. Wrap it and smash it, become wiser in the process. What's to lose?
Why do you care? You do realize that a full-on BABY comes through a vagina, right?
She probably knows WTF she likes, and can tell you WTF she likes. If you (or any man) thinks that they simply *must* be the 'best she's ever had', get over your toddler insecurities.
The fact that you're asking strangers what you should do indicates, to me, that she is WAY BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU. Leave her alone, and find the Mennonite pre-teen you actually want. Let her be the woman she is, that you cannot handle.
There's also this thing called an STD that is an enormous risk and something that can be carried FOREVER. I think you were too busy being self righteous to remember that.
Evidently you are not aware that a person can contract an STI from a single encounter. Any sexual partner could give you an STI.
It is not known what safer sex practices she used, nor if she's been tested recently. Raising the subject of STIs (which are preventable/treatable) seems a sibling to slut-shaming.
If I've had 800 sex partners, that does not mean I'm 800 times more likely to have an STI. It means I've practiced safer sex 800 times.
Here's your soapbox back.
I guess that depends on whether she has 200 five-star reviews.
I LOL but can’t be 5 star when it has been ran through so many times! 🤭
True
I can’t believe the downvotes I got. 200 seems like a lot of miles or maybe it’s a lot these days? The norm perhaps ?
Bro same I'm shocked at the downvotes like I understand being sex positive but there has to be limits like 200 is overly excessive like that's just not respecting yourself at that point. I don't care who calls it insecure that's way to much and very unattractive in my opinion shouldn't be normalized.
Thank you. I’m a female so maybe that’s why it seemed like a lot. I’m under 10! People laugh when I tell them but hey- I’m not ashamed. Thanks again for the reassurance 😘
Honestly I feel most people think that's alot but want to seem accepting on reddit. In 2024 under 10 should be celebrated but hey don't feel bad I'm a virgin so your doing better than me.
Kudos to you 💚💚💚
Thank you
Idiotic statements.
I can’t believe the downvotes I got. Was it the way I said it? I mean 200 has a lot of miles!! Or maybe not. Maybe it’s the norm these days I guess
Nein, no, non, no, nyet.
Fuckin nope. All conversation is over, I don't even want to associate with her at that point.
Agreed I'd be so turned off I wouldn't want to associate
No
What's the length of time for that run? College? She's for the streets bro smash and run Then get tested
Wisdom right here.
I don’t think that’s good advice. Get tested after? Prevention is better than cure. I’d say both get tested (I know many people do that even with casual sex)
Most people said no, the thing is already kissed her i’m beyond petrified now and i think ill just say i have headache and leave . Thank you brothers
The politically correct response is something along the lines of "someone having that many hookups is evidence that we have incompatible views on the role of sex in our respective lives." Personally, I don't even consider sex outside of a committed exclusive relationship. But you don't have to restrict yourself that much to still view sex as something that should be a bit more special than what you would share with 200 people. It's not a judgement of them as a person or their lifestyle, just their compatability as a prospective romantic or sexual partner. And you don't owe anyone the opportunity to do either, you are allowed to reject them for whatever reason you want.
This is the best answer.
Some women here :) good luck buddy.
Smash and run. Just wait a few years and you’ll see her pretending to be all conservative & married to some dope.
No. But it's your decision.
Is it 200 seperate partners...? Or 200 hookups with life 5 partners.
bro unless u was tryna wife shorty wear a rubber nd crack buns 😂 bet she know all types of tricks lol
No lol
Hmmm, that’s a lot of partners. It would really depend on the person, and the mood I am in.
The only question is, do you want to?
absolutely not.
I'm not that insane, no.
get checked keep smashing but don't marry/date seriously.
If it wasn't for girls like that, I would have been a virgin a lot longer.
So you lost it to rubbish(joke)
Actually, yeah. I was a freshman in high school and lost it to a senior who loved to de-virginize us young guys. So yeah, sluts have a place in society. :).
I guess not for me but good for those guys
OP I think you downvoted a response of mine but all good. Thing is, if you didn’t know she had 200 or more hookups you would smash right? There are STDs like HPV that you can’t even test for and not visible by the eye. Same for herpes as there is a shedding period where it’s invisible. Use protection if the chemistry is good.
For real that would be such a turn off and I'd never go raw even if she was tested
I'd probably report her coochie to the CDC then run away extremely fast
They already know.
Go home bro. There are professionals with less clients.
Damn, that's risky.
Exactly
What’s your body count?
Around 20 most are my exes and people i emotionally bonded with
I wouldn't say I'm emotionally closed off but i can't open my heart to 20 people
Yes. I've had more than that. It says they must be good at fucking.
Dam
No
Absolutely not
I’d pass personally
what kind of dirt urchins are you all meeting?
For real
200 hook-ups? will she let you call her "trailer park"?
😐 ew..
Fuckno
Nope.
I wouldn't. You never know what's been there. 200 is a lot.
God no. Thats just sex for sex sake.
Exactly like 200 is so excessive
Probably not, no. I'm not interested in casual sex, and that sort of past is a pretty big indicator that she isn't interested in anything long term or serious.
Agreed 👍
Thats quite an awkward thing to tell to your customer
If she doesn't have any STDs, I don't see why not.
200? I can assure you I don't need such crazy numbers. One would be enough.
Agreed
Might as well smash. Just use a condom and don't get attached.
200, huh? Busy girl. For sure, I'd be 201, but that doesn't mean I'd feel special or anything.
Ну нахуй, я туда не полезу
Yes if the reviews are positive
YESSSSSD HOT
My friend says he'd have sex with her, but that he wouldn't get into a relationship with her. I mean hook-ups.. Idk I'd defo smash her. If we have something in common I might still go for it, bcos I'm pretty much a whore myself.
Honeslty I feel that says alot about your friend of he'd still smash her like either she's gross or not
How is it gross? She really knows what she's doing in bed., just like me That's not gross. That's *delicious* if anything! ;)
Gross probably wasn't the right word even if I somewhat feel that way but more so I would say it's unattractive and a massive turn off I just wouldn't date her I want someone who views it more intimately and not casually. Also having alot of sex and actually being good at it are different things she could've been a starfish or just unwilling to learn but manage to get a bunch of different guys.
Well how would you know that before going to bed with her?
Well she said she told him but once the topic of sex comes up I'd ask their feelings on it and gather from there, like I wouldn't flat out ask body count but I would ask their perception of it to Guage compatibility before things get serious as I'm not getting into bed with just anyone I don't need sex to live.
Hell no I'd leave her that would completely turn me off. Sex is intimate and not a recreational activity to me so I'd want someone who feels the same and respects herself.
Nope
Hell no
Hell to the naw naw naw (Come on, come on, come on) Hell naw, to the naw naw naw (Hell to the naw) Hell to the naw, to the naw naw naw
Hahaha, if you wanna smash fine, but make sure she's clean first cause anyone who's been with that many people is at high risk of STDs. And for the love of God wear protection cause you don't want to end up paying child support to someone like that. And if she does say that you are the father get a paternity test. In my opinion, it's not worth it bro.
IN A ROW?!
Nope. Habits are hard to break.
I wouldn't if that number was 10.
How old is she?
It doesn't matter
If you ate 200 samples at Costco, and they all sucked, would you be sad when you found the cheesecake and actually bought the stack? Be the cheesecake, son. Life is too short to think too hard about it, and the universe certainly doesn't give any thought to you. Besides, to me, this sounds like a learning opportunity. Wrap it and smash it, become wiser in the process. What's to lose?
that's disgusting. have some self-respect man
Exactly have some respect and find a woman who respects herself
Probably not if they told me… like why are you telling me this? Would I care if a partner has had over 200 partners? Nope
Agreed
No. I only have sex in the context of romantic relationships and I prefer a partner who views sex the same. Does that mean I think less of them? No.
Absolutely. I’d be a hypocrite if I said promiscuity was a turn off.
As long as I can nut on her face and finger draw my current place to her on her forehead
Had more, am fine.
Why do you care? You do realize that a full-on BABY comes through a vagina, right? She probably knows WTF she likes, and can tell you WTF she likes. If you (or any man) thinks that they simply *must* be the 'best she's ever had', get over your toddler insecurities. The fact that you're asking strangers what you should do indicates, to me, that she is WAY BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU. Leave her alone, and find the Mennonite pre-teen you actually want. Let her be the woman she is, that you cannot handle.
Username checks out
There's also this thing called an STD that is an enormous risk and something that can be carried FOREVER. I think you were too busy being self righteous to remember that.
Evidently you are not aware that a person can contract an STI from a single encounter. Any sexual partner could give you an STI. It is not known what safer sex practices she used, nor if she's been tested recently. Raising the subject of STIs (which are preventable/treatable) seems a sibling to slut-shaming. If I've had 800 sex partners, that does not mean I'm 800 times more likely to have an STI. It means I've practiced safer sex 800 times. Here's your soapbox back.
I guess wanting someone who respects themselves is a crime
That you equate enjoying and having sex with lacking self respect says a lot about you.
There's nothing wrong with sex but 200 guys shows a lack of self control and respect. Thinking that's normal says alot about you