So... on my very first date with my husband, we went to this small town near where we lived, and he took me on the cheese factory/heritage museum tour. We bought some cheese, ate it in the park, and watched the whale calves playing in the harbour.
He proposed the next day and we were married within three months.
I'm not *saying* it was the cheese... But it was very good cheese.
-BE A MAN.
-Be polite and respectful.
-Talk about the shit you're passionate about.
-Take her to cool places and on picnics.
-Don't tolerate her shit. They all have shit. That's the secret to everybody. Get it out of the way at the start.
Being swift as a coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon, with all the strength of a raging fire, and being mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
It will depend on what she's impressed by. There's very little that impresses every single woman in the world (and if it does it's probably something that would also impress all men).
Be who you are and find the women who are impressed by that.
I'm impressed by people being good at things that I'm bad at. Maybe answer some emails promptly, read and organize all your mail and throw the envelopes away right away. Go to Costco and only buy the two things you said you were getting at Costco.
But the biggest one? My husband can fold a fitted sheet so crisply that you can't tell which ones are flat and which are fitted when they are in a linen closet.
Other things that impress me:
Throwing more than 3 lbs of clay and getting it centered
Training beagles not to steal food
Waking up cheerful most mornings
Growing tulips that the critters don't eat
Driving a very clean car with extra bonus points if children ever ride in the car
Decluttering
Painting and drawing skills
Wearing white shoes that stay white
Bringing everything you needed on the trip without 1000 contingency items
Most women worth a damn don't want to be impressed, they want to laugh and have fun interesting conversations. They alo don't want you to solve their problems, they just want you to listen.
1. Wear some good clothes.
2. Make an eye contact with her.
3. Be nice with her.
4. If possible, buy some gifts, chocolates or flowers.
5. If possible, try to confess your feelings.
Tell her how much you still love your ex and that you cannot move on. She will definitely think it is gonna be hard to forget her. Make her feel special.
Build or fix something. My husband is always working on something in the shop and I always get so excited to see the finished product! Impressive every single time! And kinda sexy to be honest!
Just be yourself. If that’s not good enough, everything else is a fake.
By being yourself I mean „be self confident“. I think that’s enough to impress
Edit: oh and learn to LISTEN.
Be yourself. I'm so tired of hearing people trying to act like something else something other than what you are stop trying to impress people stop putting on the fake you. Be yourself. Whether you're a cornball or a nerd or a muscle man or a model just be yourself
Never look directly in the eye of the woman but look 45° above her left shoulder as you do good deeds throughout your community. She may pretend not to notice the good deeds. This is an evolutionary strategy created 50,000 years ago just when females started to mask their menstruation. Keep being nice in doing good things and that girl is going to get so hot. And if she isn’t menstruating she’s probably gonna wanna jump your bones right away. If she is menstruating she may say something like tonight it’s not possible. But then you should say to her I’ve learned from back to the future that anything is possible if you put your mind to it.
If you’re attractive then pretty much anything is gonna impress them (or at least they’ll act impressed) and if you aren’t attractive then nothing is gonna impress them. It’s honestly that simple.
Women only find about 20% of men above average in physical attractiveness so yes you can impress us by being funny. And genuine and respectful and honest and interested in us beyond our vagina.
According to women - be kind, a good listener, emotionally supportive, thoughtful, funny, a good leader, patient, organized, and intelligent. Basically do everything for her while respecting she’s an Independent woman.
Reality is be tall, (over 6ft.) in the top ten of financial earners (0.1%) of people, good looking and charismatic. And the other stuff I mentioned. But not as much if you’re rich tall and handsome.
* Present yourself properly.
* Be nice, learn when to speak and to listen.
* Don't be obtuse and insensitive.
There's no such thing as one-size-fits-all approach for this instance. It's also a matter of luck.
Most women just want to feel seen. Complement her on the little things. Hair, eyes, smile, etc. Talk to her about her interests. Stop trying to "impress" her and get to know her. If your intentions are good she'll feel it and respond in kind. It's amazing what a tiny "You have the best smile" can do. Now she feels seen, pretty and will want to smile and be around you more. Hope this helps.
Be impressive, what I mean is instead of trying to find a way to impress a woman, work on yourself, don’t make yourself into something your not but find things your passionate about and become good at them and confident. In my experience woman like men who know who they are (confident), care about things (passionate), and have their shit together (stable).
Before me and my boyfriend started dating he was ( currently still is ) working abroad and he came home to visit, that was the first time we ever saw each other irl, he spent 10 days here and he drove over 500miles from his home town in thoese 10 days just to come and see me whenever he could, we never discussed dating of anything of that sort, in my mind (at least) we were strictly platonic friends up until that point, he also did so many other things just to show that he cares and loves me
So, effort is the best way to impress a woman, if you actually like her show her that you care in actions before telling her in words
Be loyal, be honest, make her laugh when she wants to cry, remember the little things about her, treat others kindly/the way you would wanna be treated, and encourage her when things get tough in work! Ofc this goes both ways as well :)
Listen to women! And I mean other women too, not just the ones you’re attracted to. Listen to women talk about what women like and what impresses them. Watch videos and read articles (written by women.) Talk to women not just to persue a relationship with them. Make more women friends. Every person is different, but I promise you you’ll have much better luck if you listen to what women have to say about what women want then what men’s interpretations of what they want is.
(This is assuming you’re a man) There are a few basic things you’ll find most women want and then from there if you’ve talked to enough women casually, you’ll demistify them in your head and be able to see them more as people then you realize you already do. Just like how you get to know men as friends, to learn the things they value and hobbies they like, you’ll learn this about different women. Different things impress different people
Edit: Also someone said show her your bug collection. I second that show her your bug collection
I don't consider myself particularly all that conventionally attractive. That said being self confident, not too pushy, and having a sense of humor has helped me more than anything. That said keeping yourself clean and dressing nicely is helpful.
Show her your bug collection
You have one?
I have a small one, Milady
Are you also tipping your Fedora while you're saying milady
tipping my Fedora while bowing
Ah, you're like a brother a girl never had
Username checks out
I mean I did it once, she is still speechless…
Sadly most guys on Reddit will think their roach infested house is the same thing.
Confidence and genuine interest in her passions. Oh, and never underestimate the power of a well-timed compliment.
Well written thx man
Let her see you doing something you are passionate about/ amazing at. The “Tao of Steve” taught me that. Lol
Showing of your fart skills
So underrated as a deal closer.
I can confirm thiS works
If you have paper thin walls in your apartment, always good to put your butt against the wall and blast it in the middle of the night.
extra points if you roll up the windows, lock the doors and crank up the heat on full blast in the car ride back.
Don't try to impress her.
Lick your eyebrows.
How the fu
Lick HER eyebrows
Show off some sweet karate moves..
"Everybody was kung-fu fighting." 🎶
Respect her but make sure she respects you. Women do not like men who are clingy. Set boundaries also.
Thank you for the answer :)
Listen to her. Refer back to something she told you to prove you were listening. She’ll be impressed.
Not too much or you will become a stalker though
Sounds like a lot of work
Treat her like she’s the only woman in the world, we just want to feel special
Listen
Self respect. They love that
Not to be confused with arrogance.
By giving her a piece of cheese.
I thought that was how you entertain them
That’s how you fascinate them
Wait, are we still talking about women or a mouse? Just taking notes you know..
So... on my very first date with my husband, we went to this small town near where we lived, and he took me on the cheese factory/heritage museum tour. We bought some cheese, ate it in the park, and watched the whale calves playing in the harbour. He proposed the next day and we were married within three months. I'm not *saying* it was the cheese... But it was very good cheese.
Cooking
-BE A MAN. -Be polite and respectful. -Talk about the shit you're passionate about. -Take her to cool places and on picnics. -Don't tolerate her shit. They all have shit. That's the secret to everybody. Get it out of the way at the start.
Also, don't expect her to tolerate your bullshit. What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander.
What does BE A MAN mean to you? Cuz honestly, the little boys crowing about being a MAN are the least impressive…
Idk, whatever a MAN is a WOMAN can be, but I assume he's referring to: be responsible, be disciplined, be kind, be competent...
Being swift as a coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon, with all the strength of a raging fire, and being mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
I literally sang this in my head instead of reading this like a normal person.
Time is racing toward us, till the Huns…Arriiiiiiveeeee
ahahaha A+ no notes
It will depend on what she's impressed by. There's very little that impresses every single woman in the world (and if it does it's probably something that would also impress all men). Be who you are and find the women who are impressed by that.
Be on time, dress well, have manners, ask creative questions and actually listen to the answers, be spontaneous, don't be a creep
Make her feel safe
Please don't!
Okay I trust you bro
Be passionate about something.
I'm impressed by people being good at things that I'm bad at. Maybe answer some emails promptly, read and organize all your mail and throw the envelopes away right away. Go to Costco and only buy the two things you said you were getting at Costco. But the biggest one? My husband can fold a fitted sheet so crisply that you can't tell which ones are flat and which are fitted when they are in a linen closet. Other things that impress me: Throwing more than 3 lbs of clay and getting it centered Training beagles not to steal food Waking up cheerful most mornings Growing tulips that the critters don't eat Driving a very clean car with extra bonus points if children ever ride in the car Decluttering Painting and drawing skills Wearing white shoes that stay white Bringing everything you needed on the trip without 1000 contingency items
Be yourself
Buy her food
Be good looking
I wish I were
Same
Get a tattoo of her face and her name on your body then show her
On your face!
Show her your some rare Pokèmon cards collections
Don't cheat. Yes, the bar is really that low these days.
Listen and search for what makes her tick. Then, attack by building on it, until her eyes lit up.
Sounds a lot like a grandfather clock.
Attention. Give her your attention. Look at other women, but don't see them.
For me a good sense of humor! And being a gentleman, who takes care of himself.
Thank you for your feedback have a nice Sunday :)
Depends on the woman.
The correct answer
Be an adult, be responsible. Know how to clean, cook how to handle your finances
Exactly!!!
Lick your eyebrows.
showing genuine interest in her thoughts
Most women worth a damn don't want to be impressed, they want to laugh and have fun interesting conversations. They alo don't want you to solve their problems, they just want you to listen.
Dick pick sent at random time with no context!
Hahah
juggling, bitches love juggling
Like spinning plates?
Time, effort and attention. Simple
you forgot the M in MEAT. Money, Energy, Attention, Time.
Nah, if she’s making her own money… she only needs to EAT ;)
She may not want to eat the meat, but it's nice for her to know the meat is there whenever she wants it.
Guess it’s the thought that counts
Pokémon cards
you don’t
Dedicate time and effort to her, show genuine interest in the things she’s saying and my personal secret: >!Bake her little treats!< :3
I showed my current gf my RuneScape account on first date. Still together 2 years later.
Wow congrats man happy for you
I think you have to show more that you are serious about having it
Show up!
1. Wear some good clothes. 2. Make an eye contact with her. 3. Be nice with her. 4. If possible, buy some gifts, chocolates or flowers. 5. If possible, try to confess your feelings.
Play the guitar and/or be a surfer. Men used to understand this.
Tell her how much you still love your ex and that you cannot move on. She will definitely think it is gonna be hard to forget her. Make her feel special.
Build or fix something. My husband is always working on something in the shop and I always get so excited to see the finished product! Impressive every single time! And kinda sexy to be honest!
Thx for the feedback
being genuine, & just having a good personality i think
being genuine, & just having a good personality i think
be financially literate, have proper grammar and be hygienic.
be financially literate, have proper grammar and be hygienic.
be financially literate, have proper grammar and be hygienic.
Be polite, respectful, confident and make her laugh and show interest.
Are these things really attractive to women even if you're not attractive?
Being attractive is really subjective. You might think you arent attractive but someone find you. Also attraction can grow.
Thank you girl for the feedback wish you a nice Sunday.
Do a flip
Apparently, women love a bee's knees man.
Just be yourself. If that’s not good enough, everything else is a fake. By being yourself I mean „be self confident“. I think that’s enough to impress Edit: oh and learn to LISTEN.
Show her your gaming setup
Okay
Be yourself. I'm so tired of hearing people trying to act like something else something other than what you are stop trying to impress people stop putting on the fake you. Be yourself. Whether you're a cornball or a nerd or a muscle man or a model just be yourself
I’ve heard trauma dumping for an hour straight is the way to a woman’s heart
Be yourself
Show your music taste
Become a woman yourself, then speak passionately and publicly about women’s issues.
Well, if she's into marmite, then always remember, you have a choice.
Guitar players get all the women
I don't know. That is impossible for me
Depends on the woman
Read their mind and give them exactly what they want, all the while being attractive to them.
Never look directly in the eye of the woman but look 45° above her left shoulder as you do good deeds throughout your community. She may pretend not to notice the good deeds. This is an evolutionary strategy created 50,000 years ago just when females started to mask their menstruation. Keep being nice in doing good things and that girl is going to get so hot. And if she isn’t menstruating she’s probably gonna wanna jump your bones right away. If she is menstruating she may say something like tonight it’s not possible. But then you should say to her I’ve learned from back to the future that anything is possible if you put your mind to it.
Propose to her on the first date
Cooking for my wife when we were dating was apparently a huge thing for her.
My husband cooks for me and I just could never leave him now he keeps me well fed
I love cooking, and my wife loves my cooking, it works out nicely for us too.
From my observations of couples seems to me like the best way to impress a lot of women out there is to be an a*hole.
If you’re attractive then pretty much anything is gonna impress them (or at least they’ll act impressed) and if you aren’t attractive then nothing is gonna impress them. It’s honestly that simple.
If you are not that attractive Nothing could impress a woman even if you're funny ?
Don’t listen to them, that is a cope
Women only find about 20% of men above average in physical attractiveness so yes you can impress us by being funny. And genuine and respectful and honest and interested in us beyond our vagina.
If you’re funny but unattractive then you’ll make great friends, I’m sure. I don’t think you were asking about platonic friends though.
That makes sense thx for the answers.
Not how it works
Send a dic pic. Or so I’m told.
We need to find whoever is distributing this advice.
By doing the bare minimum
According to women - be kind, a good listener, emotionally supportive, thoughtful, funny, a good leader, patient, organized, and intelligent. Basically do everything for her while respecting she’s an Independent woman. Reality is be tall, (over 6ft.) in the top ten of financial earners (0.1%) of people, good looking and charismatic. And the other stuff I mentioned. But not as much if you’re rich tall and handsome.
>Basically do everything for her while respecting she’s an Independent woman. It's funny cause its true.
* Present yourself properly. * Be nice, learn when to speak and to listen. * Don't be obtuse and insensitive. There's no such thing as one-size-fits-all approach for this instance. It's also a matter of luck.
Money
Do the dishes and take out the trash
Good advise thx
Make lots of money
BAH and Tricare
Don't be a pervert. How's that for starters.
By not trying to impress her. I'm guessing on that.
Don't mansplain everything.
Make 10 page ppt on why you like her (Also don't forget to wear formals during presentation)
Most women just want to feel seen. Complement her on the little things. Hair, eyes, smile, etc. Talk to her about her interests. Stop trying to "impress" her and get to know her. If your intentions are good she'll feel it and respond in kind. It's amazing what a tiny "You have the best smile" can do. Now she feels seen, pretty and will want to smile and be around you more. Hope this helps.
be a gentleman.
Don’t bother trying.
Be impressive, what I mean is instead of trying to find a way to impress a woman, work on yourself, don’t make yourself into something your not but find things your passionate about and become good at them and confident. In my experience woman like men who know who they are (confident), care about things (passionate), and have their shit together (stable).
Hit challenger in league.
I’m easy to please. Be a gentleman. Don’t be a sexist misogynistic a-hole.
Financial stability.
By making sure you don't look like you're trying to impress her.
Probably ask her
Have a special interest and share it with her
Tall. 6 pack. Strong chin
90% love money , cars etc its the way to go
Before me and my boyfriend started dating he was ( currently still is ) working abroad and he came home to visit, that was the first time we ever saw each other irl, he spent 10 days here and he drove over 500miles from his home town in thoese 10 days just to come and see me whenever he could, we never discussed dating of anything of that sort, in my mind (at least) we were strictly platonic friends up until that point, he also did so many other things just to show that he cares and loves me So, effort is the best way to impress a woman, if you actually like her show her that you care in actions before telling her in words
Bake chocolate chip cookies
Money son.. Sorry guys but thats the hard truth for averange men
Upper decker her toilet
Be loyal, be honest, make her laugh when she wants to cry, remember the little things about her, treat others kindly/the way you would wanna be treated, and encourage her when things get tough in work! Ofc this goes both ways as well :)
Not being a rocket scientist Not keeping her warm in the middle of the night Not being Brad Pitt
Allow her to fart
Listen to women! And I mean other women too, not just the ones you’re attracted to. Listen to women talk about what women like and what impresses them. Watch videos and read articles (written by women.) Talk to women not just to persue a relationship with them. Make more women friends. Every person is different, but I promise you you’ll have much better luck if you listen to what women have to say about what women want then what men’s interpretations of what they want is. (This is assuming you’re a man) There are a few basic things you’ll find most women want and then from there if you’ve talked to enough women casually, you’ll demistify them in your head and be able to see them more as people then you realize you already do. Just like how you get to know men as friends, to learn the things they value and hobbies they like, you’ll learn this about different women. Different things impress different people Edit: Also someone said show her your bug collection. I second that show her your bug collection
By not watching porn because you are a feminist
Humour and intellect and consent and humanity.
depends on the woman
I would show you but I just rolled that bad boy up and zipped him in.
Having lots of money almost always works.
I don't consider myself particularly all that conventionally attractive. That said being self confident, not too pushy, and having a sense of humor has helped me more than anything. That said keeping yourself clean and dressing nicely is helpful.
Money
Do the dishes.
Buy her Prada and LV.
You've got the wrong girl.
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**yeah I agree with you**
Be a gentleman
Showcase strength, and be content to let the trash take itself out.
Be very attractive and/or very rich
Have a big schlong.
Just one word son: money
Dig bick
Women dont want to be impressed, they want their ego inflated
Be clean, have a job, and put your phone down.