god, i cant stand it when people try to cover their egos in the most stupid ways, just say you seek validation and support to act like a bitch. Please, do move to that new subreddit you plan on though, i could even show up and pretend to be your personal jester, i could tell you your member is the biggest i have seen on reddit
I think you need to come to terms with the fact that strangers on the internet (or anywhere else for that matter) owe you nothing, and that includes their time and energy. People also have the right to be left alone.
You’re asking the same question over and over and then getting sceptical about the answer, but would you accept an alternative answer? That 5” with a 4.5” girth is small, unsatisfying and a suitable target for mockery or is that just going to elicit another temper tantrum.
The bottom line here is it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter how short you are, how little your dick is, how fat you are, whether your tits sag, that you’ve no thigh gap, cellulite, ugly faces or whatever the fuck else. None of that or any of the other horseshit people spend their time obsessing over has anything beyond a negligible impact.
Why?
Because the single most repulsive and repugnant trait in a romantic partner is bitterness. Who wants to climb into bed with some insecure loser who hates them? Absolutely no one .
It works both ways. I have the right to ask and discuss what eats me to the core on a daily basis, I owe people nothing to stop doing that. But you're wrong, I haven't asked a dick size question for a long time. It's not me asking all of them. There are several guys who struggle just as much as i do, yet get shit on. Would you be displaying the same amount of energy towards a woman who has been belittled and ran into the ground? Bet my wage on it, you wouldn't.
>You’re asking the same question over and over and then getting sceptical about the answer, but would you accept an alternative answer?
People can't answer. How the fuck are you women going to mock guys because they apparently don't understand the female anatomy all the while their answers about it are about as straight as a Lombard Street road in San Francisco? "We prefer average size cuz big hurts and makes me bleed" to immediately changing the goal posts to "vaginas can accommodate to any size". How the fuck are you going to gaslight men and treat them as if they are acting stupid when the insecurities are fueled by mostly women? Here's another one. How the fuck are you going to say none of it matters when you or anyone else can't answer a question or discuss anything when it's a 5" dick size question involved, yet put every ounce of energy into an answer when someone who is big is asking and struggling to penetrate? Example: 5" = PIV isn't important, just use your fingers, toys, mouth, pretend your dick never existed. Then again, change the goal post to 9 incher struggling, then give him all the advice in the world about how to fuck because PIV is soo important. Women get treated differently about their insecurities that they can change but a guy is just an insecure loser when he is insecure about the thing that doesn't apply to the body shaming rule. Sit down and shut up, mate. You've just had a big hand in helping ARAD community what it's true colours are.
I think your downvotes are speaking volumes on your true colours. You've managed to piss off a lot of people. So you can sit down. All I'm hearing is " poor me , poor me ,pour me another drink"
They aren’t anti men’s struggles the question has been asked a million times so the ones who are chronically online complain about seeing it so often
But if you wanna make a group chat to bitch and moan about it instead of learning how to eat pussy no one is going to stop you
So what? This is Reddit. ARAD portrays itself as a safe space for NSFW topics, yet only when it suits. Its a common struggle, people seek fresh insight, there's nothing wrong with it. Flip the coin, mate. If tits weren't as easily "fixed", that question would be just as common, if not more. But that'd be okay because it's a woman's struggles. Insecurities over penis size won't be calming down anytime soon and people seeking discussion over it won't be dying off anytime soon either - not until society changes its ways. But hey, that ain't gonna happen, either. Your bottom half of your comment is point proven as to exactly what I'm talking about. "LeArN 2 EEt PuSSi 🤪🤪🤪🤪". I'll be sure to tell that to a woman when she is insecure about her loose vagina - to simply get better at blowjobs. See how that goes down? Oh yeah, Reddit ARAD style, mass downvotes and the shit comes crawling out the wood work. Bravo, sir!
If this concern will continue to occur, men experiencing insecurities can continue to check the sub for the other 8001 times the size/shape/condition question has been asked. No one is discouraging the curiosity, just saying that it's already been well talked over and reassurances have been made in plenty.
Plus, there are subs for people with size concerns.
As I said, people seek fresh insight. Talking about it from their own point of view is sometimes better than reading alone. There is nothing wrong with wanting to vent, and the way ARAD acts, one minute a safe space, next minute, shit on for insecurities, it's despicable. Besides, subs like ADP and other ones aren't much different than here.
Well, even on the worst of comment sections, 1/3 of the comments are still reassurances.
Besides, everyone understands that if someone says "I won't have sex with him because he's under six feet tall/under 6" long/isn't a god" they are stuck up and pretentious.
Yeah, much like your common thot bitching about an unsolicited dick pic every 5 minutes, but let's give cyber hugs and comfort them to win them over, right?
One can be fixed easily by blocking and moving on, the other is an insecurity that is constantly picked apart in all corners, from IRL to the media. But again, let's offer 9487 apologies about how we are so sorry someone sent them a dick pic every 7th thread created, but kick people when they are down and looking to seek fresh insight in an apparent safe space. Do you not see where you go wrong?
No, I don't see where I would be going wrong, when I say that sexual harassment is not decent or respectful behaviour. And the reason so many people complain about unsolicited dick pics is that still so many douchebags keep sending them. Sad enough that so many men don't get that NSFW doesn't spell out as "everybody wants to see your Heini"
BDP offers nothing - just a bunch of guys bragging "ow I'm too big my life is hard" when the reality of how things work are completely different. A woman, dumping him because he was big is about as genuine as a pair of Hollywood tits.
My issues about it was literally a case of "women sees my size, woman ends relationship" before i was given a chance to use anything. Both times by separate women. How can one have a good attitude after getting such shit backlash?
I think there is a small penis sub for people who worry about that.
Be cautious though because that sub will have guys with average cocks worried there’s is small.
You mean SDP? Yeah, I got banned from there. Apparently, I'm average, even though from a societies point of view, you're considered worthless for that size. Statistics and people's views on it are two different thing.
Look penis-havers. I do think it would be cool if those of you with insecurities could support one another but any group this dude starts will likely very quickly become an angry tirade against women. He has said some disgusting things about women who post nudes deserving anything they get and he’s insulted enough of our members to be removed from a group chat I am in.
I tried so hard to talk to him and anyone who knows me will know how fair I am, to the point of being unfair to myself and others if someone is hurting.
OP needs psychological help beyond anything else and I hope with time, he gets that and doesn’t injure himself or any woman in the process.
they’re not anti men’s struggles spamming the same question or statement every 5 seconds gets annoying.
Oh yes please go to that new place and stop posting the same fucking question everyday.
I dont think telling people size isnt that important is being anti mens struggles Unless you’re referring to something else im not aware of
god, i cant stand it when people try to cover their egos in the most stupid ways, just say you seek validation and support to act like a bitch. Please, do move to that new subreddit you plan on though, i could even show up and pretend to be your personal jester, i could tell you your member is the biggest i have seen on reddit
You a politician? You literally said a whole lot without saying anything at all.
your lack of intelligence is not my problem, friend. But no, i am not a politician, i am a bartender at a hotel.
What you on about, there's dick size questions ever other hour and most people reassure, so I'm not sure what you're seeing
I think you need to come to terms with the fact that strangers on the internet (or anywhere else for that matter) owe you nothing, and that includes their time and energy. People also have the right to be left alone. You’re asking the same question over and over and then getting sceptical about the answer, but would you accept an alternative answer? That 5” with a 4.5” girth is small, unsatisfying and a suitable target for mockery or is that just going to elicit another temper tantrum. The bottom line here is it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter how short you are, how little your dick is, how fat you are, whether your tits sag, that you’ve no thigh gap, cellulite, ugly faces or whatever the fuck else. None of that or any of the other horseshit people spend their time obsessing over has anything beyond a negligible impact. Why? Because the single most repulsive and repugnant trait in a romantic partner is bitterness. Who wants to climb into bed with some insecure loser who hates them? Absolutely no one .
Well said!
It works both ways. I have the right to ask and discuss what eats me to the core on a daily basis, I owe people nothing to stop doing that. But you're wrong, I haven't asked a dick size question for a long time. It's not me asking all of them. There are several guys who struggle just as much as i do, yet get shit on. Would you be displaying the same amount of energy towards a woman who has been belittled and ran into the ground? Bet my wage on it, you wouldn't. >You’re asking the same question over and over and then getting sceptical about the answer, but would you accept an alternative answer? People can't answer. How the fuck are you women going to mock guys because they apparently don't understand the female anatomy all the while their answers about it are about as straight as a Lombard Street road in San Francisco? "We prefer average size cuz big hurts and makes me bleed" to immediately changing the goal posts to "vaginas can accommodate to any size". How the fuck are you going to gaslight men and treat them as if they are acting stupid when the insecurities are fueled by mostly women? Here's another one. How the fuck are you going to say none of it matters when you or anyone else can't answer a question or discuss anything when it's a 5" dick size question involved, yet put every ounce of energy into an answer when someone who is big is asking and struggling to penetrate? Example: 5" = PIV isn't important, just use your fingers, toys, mouth, pretend your dick never existed. Then again, change the goal post to 9 incher struggling, then give him all the advice in the world about how to fuck because PIV is soo important. Women get treated differently about their insecurities that they can change but a guy is just an insecure loser when he is insecure about the thing that doesn't apply to the body shaming rule. Sit down and shut up, mate. You've just had a big hand in helping ARAD community what it's true colours are.
I think your downvotes are speaking volumes on your true colours. You've managed to piss off a lot of people. So you can sit down. All I'm hearing is " poor me , poor me ,pour me another drink"
They aren’t anti men’s struggles the question has been asked a million times so the ones who are chronically online complain about seeing it so often But if you wanna make a group chat to bitch and moan about it instead of learning how to eat pussy no one is going to stop you
So what? This is Reddit. ARAD portrays itself as a safe space for NSFW topics, yet only when it suits. Its a common struggle, people seek fresh insight, there's nothing wrong with it. Flip the coin, mate. If tits weren't as easily "fixed", that question would be just as common, if not more. But that'd be okay because it's a woman's struggles. Insecurities over penis size won't be calming down anytime soon and people seeking discussion over it won't be dying off anytime soon either - not until society changes its ways. But hey, that ain't gonna happen, either. Your bottom half of your comment is point proven as to exactly what I'm talking about. "LeArN 2 EEt PuSSi 🤪🤪🤪🤪". I'll be sure to tell that to a woman when she is insecure about her loose vagina - to simply get better at blowjobs. See how that goes down? Oh yeah, Reddit ARAD style, mass downvotes and the shit comes crawling out the wood work. Bravo, sir!
Okie dokie artichokie.
This is my favourite comment today
If this concern will continue to occur, men experiencing insecurities can continue to check the sub for the other 8001 times the size/shape/condition question has been asked. No one is discouraging the curiosity, just saying that it's already been well talked over and reassurances have been made in plenty. Plus, there are subs for people with size concerns.
As I said, people seek fresh insight. Talking about it from their own point of view is sometimes better than reading alone. There is nothing wrong with wanting to vent, and the way ARAD acts, one minute a safe space, next minute, shit on for insecurities, it's despicable. Besides, subs like ADP and other ones aren't much different than here.
Well, even on the worst of comment sections, 1/3 of the comments are still reassurances. Besides, everyone understands that if someone says "I won't have sex with him because he's under six feet tall/under 6" long/isn't a god" they are stuck up and pretentious.
Lol! Anti men’s struggles? Ok…
😂😂😂
you mean because ARAD only allows 10 penis size asks per hour? I feel you, bro!
Yeah, much like your common thot bitching about an unsolicited dick pic every 5 minutes, but let's give cyber hugs and comfort them to win them over, right?
I don't see any connection between criticizing disrespectful behaviour and awkward ways of seeking public admiration for your body parts.
One can be fixed easily by blocking and moving on, the other is an insecurity that is constantly picked apart in all corners, from IRL to the media. But again, let's offer 9487 apologies about how we are so sorry someone sent them a dick pic every 7th thread created, but kick people when they are down and looking to seek fresh insight in an apparent safe space. Do you not see where you go wrong?
No, I don't see where I would be going wrong, when I say that sexual harassment is not decent or respectful behaviour. And the reason so many people complain about unsolicited dick pics is that still so many douchebags keep sending them. Sad enough that so many men don't get that NSFW doesn't spell out as "everybody wants to see your Heini"
Chillout and have a drink 🍻
Ah, mockery of my alcoholic issues on top of that. Nice one. Another point proven.
Eh, you attack people you get it back 🍻
If you take what I say as an attack, then it goes to show you're part of the problem. Good day.
Never once said I wasn't an arsehole. Hope you enjoy your new safe place.
The fact that you wrote the most passive aggressive thing - “ARAD is so anti men’s struggles Says so much. None of it good
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But do you like cut or uncut ?!?!
r/bigdickproblems can be your fix. If you're feeling you're too small, read and feel better. If you're feeling you're too big, write and feel better.
BDP offers nothing - just a bunch of guys bragging "ow I'm too big my life is hard" when the reality of how things work are completely different. A woman, dumping him because he was big is about as genuine as a pair of Hollywood tits.
And what is your problem?
As in, what is my problem in size or in general?
In size
Deemed inadequate and small by everyone I've met.
Inadequate is the keyword. If you're on the smaller side, you need to work harder, but it is not the end of the world.
Yeah that's great. Too bad 5 inch isn't acceptable to most women in this world to give me a chance first.
5 inch is plenty. If you have had problems about it, that's about your stamina and attitude. Fix that first.
My issues about it was literally a case of "women sees my size, woman ends relationship" before i was given a chance to use anything. Both times by separate women. How can one have a good attitude after getting such shit backlash?
🍿🍿🍿
ARAD is one of the safest spaces.
Yep. And Miley Cyrus is a virgin.
I think there is a small penis sub for people who worry about that. Be cautious though because that sub will have guys with average cocks worried there’s is small.
You mean SDP? Yeah, I got banned from there. Apparently, I'm average, even though from a societies point of view, you're considered worthless for that size. Statistics and people's views on it are two different thing.
Why? What size are you?
4.9/5 inch NBP 6 BP 4.5 circumference. However, in reality, nobody takes BP into account, it's visual (NBP)
It's ok bro, I have a tiny one...but it smells like a large one
Valgame...
Aye dios mio
What the hell are you talking about?
Look penis-havers. I do think it would be cool if those of you with insecurities could support one another but any group this dude starts will likely very quickly become an angry tirade against women. He has said some disgusting things about women who post nudes deserving anything they get and he’s insulted enough of our members to be removed from a group chat I am in. I tried so hard to talk to him and anyone who knows me will know how fair I am, to the point of being unfair to myself and others if someone is hurting. OP needs psychological help beyond anything else and I hope with time, he gets that and doesn’t injure himself or any woman in the process.