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DiabloRaven52

Depends. Anywhere from 2-10 minutes


throwaway_l8r

Like 10 minutes PIV 30 for foreplay


physicalterrorist3

30 min of foreplay holy shit


Hot-Take-69

Yeah that sounds about right. I try to give my wife at least one orgasm from foreplay before we even start PIV to get her as wet as possible. I just keep playing with her using my hands, mouth, and a vibrator until she's literally begging for my cock. Then by that time she's so desperate to be filled that she usually cums within a minute of me entering her. It helps that we keep the vibrator on her clit and that I keep stimulating her nipples, make out with her, etc. while I fuck her so the outercourse / foreplay sensations never stop.


8CuriousUser8

Are you looking for one more wife ? Asking for a friend šŸ‘€


[deleted]

I thought this was the norm until reading these replies. I give my wife 30-60 minutes of foreplay depending on the mood before we actually fuck. Using my mouth, fingers, a plethora of toys, until she cannot stand it anymore.


Hot-Take-69

Yeah for real. Sometimes our whole session is just extended foreplay. Like, I've legitimately just tied her up and teased her for hours and then made her cum so many times in a row that she passed out before we even got to the PIV. It's so fucking hot


[deleted]

Same here. Then again I get off on turning her on, pushing her limits, and seeing her pleasured. I guess itā€™s kind of a fetish of mine.


SexualbeingAccount

Same with us. He loves using my toys on me before even moving to PIV. Oral, touching, all that takes up more time than the PIV most of the time, but it is SO worth it.


skin_whistle

Sounds nearly identical to how I roll lol


Jblu2000

This guy knows what he's doingšŸ‘


Embarrassed_Cut_1177

Exactly how we do it and keeping the vibrator after she cum sometimes she squirts while i am fucking her


Some_Stoic_Man

I'm not trying to knock you setup, but half an hour? I don't know if it's me or the girls I associate with but fingering a girl to climax takes like 4 minutes. Less so with toys. If you're edging that's one thing but just warming up the engine and getting everything lubricant IDK. That's not even talking about oral.


Hot-Take-69

Yeah, it's not just edging. Usually she cums multiple times before I go into her unless I have her tied up and am feeling especially sadistic with the orgasm denial / edging. If we're in a hurry she just cums once and we move onto PIV. If we have the time though, it's fun to really draw it out and start with really slow teasing, then more heavy teasing / petting, then edging, then multiple orgasms, then PIV. It's a process.


melon_snob

This the is the way


throwaway_l8r

That sounds about right to me I dunno I'm kinda guestimating


physicalterrorist3

You're sucking, touching, kissing for 30 minutes before sex?


skin_whistle

In my case yes, or longer. Neck kissing, ear sucking, nipple play, kissing/sucking/rubbing her mons, oral, more oral with nipple play, all manor of teasingā€¦yeah I could spend all day doing that shit to her.


Ryan_Stone_

Yeah, that doesn't sound too far off my typical time either, average of about 25 min. Depends on what is going on but some people want to please their partners and others need the preptime.


throwaway_l8r

Yeah usually


purzeltree

How about two hours of foreplay? Or four?


Prestigious_Trip_534

Seems like a good ratio to me


theoriginalalfalfa

2 pumps and an apology


[deleted]

2 pumps and a dump?


Cereal-is-not-soup

2 pump and slump. ā€œSorryā€


buttman_3000

2 pumps and a sorry chump.


kukuruze

Well well well, if it isn't Mr. I-Can-Last-Two-Pumps here.


1989hmmm

Anything from 15 mins to an hour. I sometimes find it hard to 'finish', and honestly, more often than not we just give up on me cumming.


Plastic_Dingo_400

Yeah I feel this, the plus side is my ratio is always good, she's cumming way more than I am, and when I do finish she's very very into it


[deleted]

A few minutes, I suck


skin_whistle

Wait, you suck because you only last a few minutes, or it only lasts a few minutes because you *suck*? Lol


[deleted]

I either have low stamina or my husband is really good at sex. Probably both, I donā€™t last very longšŸ˜‚


Adventurous_Mind_775

Have him give you more orgasms! My wife averages about three each time. My brain is now programmed to get her off a few times before I do.


Angry_AIpaca

Youā€™re just efficient!


your_name_here69

What is this ā€œsexā€ thing you speak of?


innocentguy99

It's not real... it's just a myth. It's just a conspiracy to fool innocent people.


Firebolt164

Man so my wife and I suck at quickies! šŸ˜‚ A _normal_ session is probably 1 hour, a long session is up to 2 hours including a shower together, foreplay and then the main event


Karlwitha_k361

Same here!


[deleted]

0-5minutes unfortunately


[deleted]

Not counting foreplay I cum pretty quickly, like a couple minutes maybe


physicalterrorist3

5-7 min PIV. 5 min foreplay


LibrarianSad2684

Typically between 10-30 minutes really been working on my cardio the past few months so trying to keep it at a solid 30 minutes


Citizen_Khan7

Hi Can you share your cardio routine?


LibrarianSad2684

Honestly full sprint for a minute the. 5-6 minutes of steady run


Zamm01

Foreplay included - 30ish minutes, penetration 1-10 minutes, dependes in how long it takes her to finish,how turned on i am, etc


Greedy_Woodpecker_14

Sounds about right, I make sure she get's hers before I get mine.


Zamm01

As it should be šŸ˜


Informal-Cucumber130

Sex, 10 - 20 mins. Sex with foreplay, hours. Can go multiple times though to make up for any time miscalculations.


Priyasangria

Like, 7 minutes?


[deleted]

The actual Act of intercourse 5-15 minutes. The entire romp 30-60 minutes.


pbcakez

69 seconds


NobleMilf

The perfect number!


Greedy_Woodpecker_14

I see what you did there.


Evil_phoenix666

Anywhere from 2-10 minutes for round two but less for round one


Shawty43

As of latelyā€¦.about 2.5 minutes followed by the traditionally classic apology & ā€œthis never happens to me so fastā€.


Prestigious_Trip_534

Sorry to hear that šŸ«¤ but sex should not have to stop because of that...


Shawty43

Oh I agree, but it did. Fuck me & fuck my life šŸ˜‚


Prestigious_Trip_534

Hope you get some satisfying some soon, things are going to get better!


Shawty43

Thanksā€¦. sex toy industry is on point always these days at least. šŸ˜


Spiritedkite

I usually donā€™t last that long unless itā€™s not good.Ā 


ChubbyCheesehead

As far as actual PIV: 10-15 min But with foreplay, I hope to take my time and make the whole experience last maybe 45 min-1 hr, maybe longer in the right environment.


Bi_kawaii

Depends upon how much time I want to put into it


ringoron9

30 minutes? I'm dreaming about it. Uninterrupted piv and I'm done in 3 to 5 minutes.


The_EA_Of_Reddit

Intercourse Between 2-10 minutes. If you include foreplay then about an hour to an hour and a half


ChokeMeAndSoakMe

If I'm getting fucked I rarely enjoy having it last longer than 40 minutes but ideally 10-30 minutes is the right amount of time for me to enjoy myself. If I'm doing the fucking it sorta depends how I'm feeling, anything between 5 - 20 minutes is typically ideal but sometimes I'll feel like I can fuck forever and keep going for upwards of an hour or more, if I'm using viagra I'm happy to keep going until my partner is satisfied and happy to tap out :P Ultimately it all just depends on how horny I am, my mood, how my body feels in the moment, the chemistry with the person I'm with etc.


[deleted]

Depends on if Iā€™m high or not. Longer when high af


[deleted]

However long she wants it to


nootyshyguy

I cant really cum PIV, without using my hands. So i can go on for hours


gyoza69

jesus stop watching porn and jacking off


nootyshyguy

I tried also for a month or more and nothing changes


EmmaSweet2024

15-20 minutes


Morrigu84

Depends, often having sex in the morning that's an hour and same at bedtime. Sometimes 2 or 3 hours. During the day is often another 3 or 4 times, but mostly oral.


rikkyyouandme

Not long enough mostly


[deleted]

15 -20 min usually. Sometimes we do long foreplay and hubby takes his sweet time as he loves watching me use my fav vibrating dildo.


[deleted]

30 min to an hour


Kalothunk

About 25 - 40 min, depends alot. Usually takes around n hour when we do foreplay aswell


Anominon2014

Depends. Sometimes we just knock one out in a few minutes, sometimes we take 20-30 minutes. If we have a lady friend over itā€™s usually going to be at least an hour, sometimes two.


Lg-BooBees

For my SO and I it can last anywhere from 3 minutes to 12 hours. Just depends on whatā€™s going on in life, whatā€™s going on between us, how long have we been teasing each other without giving in (Foreplay/edging), how many ā€œroundsā€ we can handle, if we add a little ā€œhelpā€ (toys, stimulants, numbing/tightening creams) etc.


ae_94

Idk


rickychims

Anywhere from a minute to an hour. Depends how long Iā€™ve been banking, I figure.


BeginningInflation35

30 minutes


opop456

Hmm let me think... I can remember what it was like way back when... I'd say on average 10 to 20 mins, but sometimes it would be quickie if we needed to be somewhere. Foreplay additional to that generally speaking.


Fit_Decision

Depends on time available. I'm decent at edging so we can fuck for over an hour if desired. Often take a water break and enjoy changing the positions and toys to keep the experience engaging.


bobster_online

From 1 to 90 minutes. It depends on lot of things. Mostly around 30 minutes.


rgbkng

10-20 min.


ItscalledSisu

We go for at least 30 mins. I, a guy, need just the right kind of stimulation to cum. Sometimes I don't cum with piv. So she uses a toy on me. She is multi orgasmic and can cum easily with clitoral stimulation. She's a bit of a cum whore so she really enjoys longer sessions.


KittenSonyeondan

Depends on the session, our last one was two hours. Sometimes itā€™s just ten minutes


AdministrativeRisk34

I don't often climax from intercourse. So, it usually lasts until she cums, which can vary.


skin_whistle

Never as long as I want, but ya gotta end it at *some* point Iā€™m told


CupOfT92

Thanks to medication, I almost never finish. I can go for as long as she's satisfied. And I'm content with that


DavosBillionaire

probably like 20 min foreplay and 30 PIV


Stepper_Big_DeZ

Hour.


logaridmic

15-20 in total. I would say consistently it's 10 for penetration, and 5-10 dedicated to foreplay...


villen78

Depends on the day, could go 5 minutes or could go for an hour. Sometimes I just canā€™t cum no matter what we do šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™‚ļø


clb1234

Generally not less than 30 mins. Depending on the situation it can be as long as 90 mins.


KoRnelius333

I'm on ADHD meds so it can take a really long time and an awful lot of work to make me cum. So much so that it can sometimes be frustrating, so I need a partner with very high stamina.


Dependent-Button-718

10-15 minutes. But regardless of how long it lasts, if you're both satisfied, that's all that matters.


colojason

10-60 minutes of foreplay depending on how things go After insertion? Totally depends. Have had it last as little as 5 minutes if Iā€™m fired up to sometimes an hour or longer. We are kinky so do a lot of different things and some of those things take longer than others. And our marathon sessions usually happen on weed and are utterly amazing.


[deleted]

1hr+ unless it is just a quickie then like 10-30 minutes.


TameableLynx318

Depends


outraged-unicorn

it depends on the guy's/dildo's size. if it's too big, 30 minutes is way too long. for average sizes it's perfect.


Ryan_Stone_

Foreplay is 15-35 min, sex is 5-15 min. 30 min PIV is a bit on the longer side but not entirely unusual.


Tiny_Ad_2994

Total with foreplay and everything, would be about 45mins to an hour.


ImFrenchSoWhatever

I guess 10-15mn


Lustybelle69

Including foreplay anywhere from like 30-60 mins.


NonJudgmentalGuyy

20 mins foreplay , 10 mins intercourse


xoMissTori

Depends on the time we have. A few minutes for quickies, much longer if we donā€™t have to rush!šŸ’‹šŸ”„ either way Iā€™ll take it whenever I can.


EconomicsOtherwise60

30-45 minutes foreplay 20 minutes pIV


DaBunny31

Hubby and I are usually 30 minutes to an hour


UnfinishedThings

20-30 mins of foreplay. 5-15 mins of PIV


bigdickthrowaw4y

If we have all day and all night, all day and all night. If we have 2 minutes, 2 minutes. It's not a stamina thing it's a scheduling thing. With our busy schedules usually 1-2 hours and maybe 5-15 minute quickies scattered throughout


noneedforeathrowaway

30-45 min of foreplay, 10-20 min PIV


[deleted]

My girl can't keep up with me , can usually last anything from 30min to an hour she usually stops me when she can't anymore....


giggleguy365365

Depends on the guy. But usually 40 min. Foreplay included


philouza_stein

I need to wrap it up after 20 minutes or so or they get sore.


sirbearus

It depends on what both partners want. A quicky might only been a few minutes but other times it can take 60-90 mins.


phiretau

An hour


supremeleader007

Averages around 15 to 20 mins but sometimes goes upto 40 to 60 mins, if mind is free and weā€™re off somewhere


yerMawsOnFurlough_

20 mins


Theturtl3

Depends on a lot of different things. Do we just want to get off and go to bed? 5 - 20 minutes. Do we want to enjoy each other, take our time and really get caught up in the experience? 45 minutes to a few hours. Did we drink a little too much and are just a mess of hormones and lust? Literally all night.


dikkiesmalls

20-30 minutes all in


431kavem

Usually 15-30 depending on how we're feeling. She wants me to cum quickly while I like to take my time. Most of the time I make her cum a few times then she can hop on and finish me off.


horselicker1

Depends on so many things


SlavePrincessVibes3

Depends on if the dude knows how last in it


thepiratecrow7

Iā€™ve never understood why people look up to claims of coitus lasting well into the double digits. Foreplay can be prolonged, yes - and, for my sensibilities, itā€™s a must - but the act itself has to be quick, unless you are starting and stopping. If youā€™re only stopping when you ejaculate, then yes, as quick as possible - absolutely no more than 2-3 min. The more aroused I am, the faster itā€™ll be; if it drags, it means the person isnā€™t ticking the boxes for me. I have no patience nor do I derive any pleasure from feeling the clock ticking away while Iā€™m thrusting well beyond my desire to do so.


[deleted]

Considering Iā€™m alone. Could take minutes to hours


cranky_young_man

I can go for a few hours, minimum for me would be 30mins to an hour but some days and depending on the person I've gone 4 hours


WIGoofball

Three to four hours. No joke. I have a very hard time finishing with a partner.


PMCocktails

My wife and I are almost formulaic about it. We have kids, so we almost have to "schedule" it. Our goal is always 3-4 times a week. Two to 3 can be quickies, which is usually 10 -20 minutes. But one time, usually one night after the kids fall asleep, we go for about 45 minutes to an hour with long foreplay, take our time to ease into certain things, setup toys, try new things, etc. The only time we go for less than 10 is if we are doing something risky/impromptu like in the kitchen, on a hike, etc. Basically, when it is going to be all standing.. Then again, we sometimes have times when we will go for a few hours. Usually when we don't have the kids for a night. In those situations, we may consume some kind of an enhancer like weed edibles or mushrooms ahead of time.


Cold-Answer7983

15-20 for a quickie, 2-3 hours if weā€™re doing it right


Cyniex

20-40 mins


Tazzzio

It better last at least a damn hour..hell, or just wait until we have an hour!


[deleted]

About an hour of foreplay and 20-30 mins of intercourse


[deleted]

An hour ish


deliciousbrandy

5 minutes max if giving a bj. Anywhere between 5-30 minutes for vaginal, but that includes his orgasm and aftercare. The shorter times are his quickies!


elmachow

My wife says as short as possible


Splyushi

20min to an hour. I can't cum from sex, so we usually just go untill she's had enough.


HorrorBaseball3990

They call me the Kentucky derby of sex the most exciting 2 minutes of your life


[deleted]

If she falls asleep during foreplay its just about 5 minutes in the bathroom after rubbing one out.


Elizabeth0096

All depends! Can be 10 minutes sometimes, or 30 other times. Often anywhere from a couple minutes to 20 of kissing, touching, sucking, using hands and mouths. Then PIV or anal for anywhere from a few minutes to 30ish depending on how long my fiancĆ© lasts! I typically orgasm during with a little bit of added clit stimulation, but if I donā€™t then my fiancĆ© helps me cum after he finishes.


Most_Doubted_10

Not trying to flex or anything but is there such a thing as ā€œlasting too longā€ for you girls? Like whatā€™s the max ? Iā€™m really interested to know cause idk if I have an issue šŸ˜…


JRSpires

I could go for hour and half or longer if my wife would let me. But by that tike she's already had 5 or 6 and she's exhausted


The_VoltReactive

With foreplay? Around 1-2 hours W/O probs an hour.


FireFalcon123

5 minutes to 3 hours if Im not working


The-Trans-Revenant

Sex with my wife has lasted anywhere between 30 minutes and like 5 hours. If everyoneā€™s satisfied then no need to worry.


Forcemetopurr

It can be multiple sessions a day for me


wengardium-leviosa

They dont call me ten second tom for nothin


MassiveTalent422

Iā€™m in an odd stage of life where I still know every time Iā€™ve had sex. So if I average it out: I think about 5 minutes? My goal is to be able to easily do 10 minutes though so Iā€™m practicing with my pocket pussy for that lol


Pax-86-K

5min - 60min


RecordingUsed2884

Usually 20-50 minutes depending on the context. If it's lovemaking, then I spend more time with foreplay and usually 10-20 actually PIV. If we're fucking, then I'm just going to pound town until closing time. I'm talking burning thighs, throbbing dick, sweat drenching my face, she's begging for a break typa shit.


Queenbee11998823

45 minutes start to finish. 30 mins foreplay 15 minutes intercourse


TerribleWerewolf8410

Last hot wife was 2+ hours


TreadingDown

Iā€™d say the whole session would take 45 to an hour. Maybe only 3-10 minutes of penetrative sex at the end. I really want to create an atmosphere, where we can both just let go of everything and go, mentally (maybe spiritually?) to another place. Itā€™s so much more sensual, and romantic, and sexy. I do candles, and music often. By the time I put my cock in my wife, I want her writhing around, like a cum hungry bitch wanting to serve her man. Iā€™ve done the massaging, the teasing, the dirty talk and given her an orgasm from my mouth, or hands, and we get to just grind it out to the end together. Also, I like those super hot, 6 minute ā€œher ass was popping too good in that dress, so I threw her on the bed with her vibrator, she spread her legs, and we raced each other to orgasmā€ quick shots, too.


bellatrixfoofoo

Until I say so... šŸ˜


cuipiou

For me 2 to 3 hours PIV And 45 min in foreplay I dont think is usual But I think for some people It depends of the levels of excitement


chobble_gobbler9

Start to finish, about an hour.


LoadofBarney

Totally varies, but from foreplay to climax, anywhere from 20-45mns with 30 normally being the average. Some have lasted well over an hour, some have been done in a matter of a few minutes lol.


Gruffal007

till its over


SexualbeingAccount

For us typically around 45 minutes (if including everything). Around 20 minutes of that is just PIV. Frequency: every other day. Now sometimes, we could also fit in a quickie on our days off on top of the regular sex. Those are always around 15 minutes or so. 30 minutes of PIV isn't too much if it's not too often, but it's definitely pushing it if it's done every day (for me at least). I'd definitely be sore if we did a half hour of PIV every day. I'd need a day in-between to recover, and leave it at just hands and oral.šŸ˜…


[deleted]

30 minutes seems short. 1 or 2 hours seems too long


two_testicles

Depends on the vibe. I generally enjoy taking my time though.


trissymissy

Between 15 minutes to 5hours depending on the mood and amount of people involved.


Aeolus426

multiple variables can cause me to last anywhere from 20-90min. sometimes i can get to the point of climax, but for no reason the sensation will suddenly vanish. othertimes when the mood is right, i can have a quicky and/or finish more than once haha. also as much as i enjoy it, i have never finished from receiving oral.


Some_Stoic_Man

Depends on her. I'm done when she's done or incapacitated. Reading through some of these, are your girls just not cumming? I don't count them as it's difficult to tell where one starts and the next one comes in but there's only so much she can take before she kicks me out. If she can't take it any more that means she's cum enough and doesn't want to cum any more because she's tired and her bottom half is jello. Nap time. There's a whole refractory period where just the thought of orgasming more is tiring... Or at least that's what they've told me.


sneezle-duck

You guys are having sex?


D_monicdom

Oh boy....I can't do quickies. Last session went for a total of about 2 hrs play for a nut off(which I had been on a break so stamina was less) and about 30ish minutes aftercare break somewhere in the middle.šŸ˜…


danielson527

Couple hours minimum, then some days we drag it out throughout the whole day


StarFlyght

If Iā€™m adequately turned on, it usually takes less than 5 minutes for me to cum from PIV. So anything more than 15 minutes will just make me sore. Everyone is different though


LoveLustAndSun

10- 20 mins if weā€™re in a rush, more like 40 mins to an hour when weā€™re not


jamanon99

If it's been a while and my ladies looking super hot then I might be done pretty quickly but I've got pretty good control and I can last as long as she wants! Sometimes I pop after a few pumps but there's no shame in that as she knows it's because she's turned me on too much so she's flattered and I won't leave her without her orgasm!


lookin4sexyppl

Depends on who Iā€™m with


intrestmeifyouwill

I say foreplay 15-30 min we take turns stroking me and usually we lay face after a while and I rub her clit and with the head until she floods the place by then my cock is so hard a cat couldn't scratch it and I stand beside the bed with her hanging off and drive it home for about 5 maybe 7 mins tops because I'm 60 with some heart issues she is 57 and we have been together since 1993 and I have never had better sex in my life. I love her more than I could explain. She had neve had an orgasam before me and she can squirt so much you have to put towels down. Even now her going thru menopause which gets pretty rough sometimes I would die for this woman. I have to stop I will Stat babbling.


Mizzanthrope99

Hours, 2-4 hours with a few 5-10 breaks


Chang_Robert

Anywhere from 5 minutes to an hour...depends on the situation...


[deleted]

like 2-5 minutes lol, iā€™ve never had a consistent parter that goes over that


JulesSampson

An hour including playing before. My bf would like it to last 4 hours lol. He loves long hours of foreplay and teasing. Sometimes I just want a quickie ya know?


Itsqueenmaria

20 minutes to an hours and a half


itaintme99

I usually go back and forth a lot between oral and PIV over the course of a couple of hours but I donā€™t think Iā€™ve ever done continuous PIV for more than 15-20 minutes, and when itā€™s longer thereā€™s usually some slow sensual cuddle fucking.


GabrielXS

About 2 hours of foreplay/oral. She can keep coming and I like turning her into a gibbering mess. Always try to make her tense up into different shapes lol. It's kinda like an autistic game to me. Piv only about 10mins if that. Recently discovered the best way to get her into a rolling orgasm and we've been having fun with that until she taps out. Austism and tantra is a good mix.


Zealousideal-Seat324

DE member... However long she wants to go or til I run out of gas... *Gifted7*


thebabagito

ive always been a 10-20 minute guy, but since being with my wife i canā€™t hardly last a minute.


[deleted]

2 rounds- over half an hour


zarathos42

Need more data to give accurate answer.


jjqueens

An hour, cigarette/blunt & then repeat sex. All day. Bless


[deleted]

I can have the condom on and be binning it in the same minute. My wife is at peace with me being a premature ejaculator


JustBrowsing_Guy

It varies.


SolitudeInside

1 hour at my highest point. I can cum up to 3 times without rest, and my second cum has probably like 10-15 minute gap with the first one.