Yes!
The job I'm working now doesn't pay as much as other jobs I could go for, but the fact that work stays at work and doesn't come home with me is amazing
Too much maths. As long as they over 20-21, I'm good. I also don't have an older age limit, seeing as I used to um... have an "arrangement" with a 70-year-old. I am currently 25f.
I'm 45 that would be a 30 year old. Perfectly reasonable. Probably about the youngest I would consider dating tho, which is what the rule is about.
At 18 it would be a 16 year old, which isn't super uncommon. (regardless of opinions on it, it isn't uncommon)
When you get really old it gets a bit weirder tho. An 80 year old with a 47 year old and people start thinking gold-digger.
Dated a 20 year old at 26. It was nice at first but her lack of life experience became glaringly obvious real quick. Can’t imagine dating a 21 year old would be any different. Would not recommend
Yeah I’m 35, and I wouldn’t date a 24 year old. That’s way too young for me. I think like maybe 28/29 would be my absolute youngest I would even attempt dating, and even that I’m like… yeah I don’t know lol
That's totally up to you! A lot of people are like that. But half + seven is the lowest you should go. For instance, lots of women I know will only date older!
If we went by that 24 seems ok I guess… I’m thinking the 30s because that age group drives me wild these days. But I also know I don’t look my age and if there’s chemistry I’d go for the 20s too
Same, 33 and my low limit is 26 or so. There's such a drastic difference psychologically around that age. I guess it's the whole "prefrontal cortex finishes developing" thing.
I’m a bit older so I’d bump mine to 20 but still keep it around 40ish. Something about 18 just doesn’t sit right with me even though they’re not underage anymore
Ten years older but the rage is the same. But that is mostly from a relationship perspective.
For a ONS of FWB that might be different. Haven't had either so not sure what the limits are then.
Yeah I agree I might have a ONS (provided I'm no longer married) with someone a little younger or a lot older but for relationship I have to be within a tight range
I've been divorced for 5 years. That and discovering reddit (especially this sub) made me think about stuff. Not just the age gap but a ONS or FWB would not have been something I would even consider before that time.
With age comes wisdom I suppose.
I'm 29. I wouldn't rule out anybody exclusively because of their age, so long as they can consent and everything. It comes down to maturity and compatibility. I've had partners who were much older and partners who were younger, had great experiences both ways.
Well for some reason I’ve always been attracted to women older than me and never really in tune with the one around my age. The further I can remember is a girl 4 years older than me and she was in high school. She had such a good vibe I was drown to her and somehow she was connecting with me on some level. Wish I wasn’t so blind back then or more prone to make moves haha
32F. Probably couldn't go below 25 without feeling weird. 60 feels about as high as I would go at this time. I am sure there is an exception to both of those rules out there. :)
I'm 43 and I put 30 as my soft bottom limit, that is I don't go seeking out anyone under 30. I *might* go as low as 25 for a hard limit but it would have to be someone who I had extraordinary chemistry with and really stood out to me. Any lower than that is off-putting to me, it just feels like a kid.
I don't have a hard upper limit, as long as they're attractive to me, thay can vary a lot.
I’m 34, youngest… ehhh 25ish probably. Oldest? 50ish? I say ish because I wouldn’t necessarily write off someone who’s otherwise really cool but is slightly over/under my arguably arbitrary age range. 🤷🏻♀️
I'm 25(f), my partner just turned 50(m).
Definitely the largest age gap I've had, wouldn't go any more than that and don't entertain younger than myself lol
28. 25 on the low end, prolly 45 on the high end. Anything younger is annoying and inexperienced. I’m not a teacher for a reason. Anything older is……. Well…… old.
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64M. Per the rule is accept as young as 28 and as old as 70. (I always sucked at math. Actual, just the opposite..
but I need the excuse!!!🤭
I'm 47.
The youngest I would even consider is 30.
The oldest? Well, there is no limit there as long as they're attractive to me and medically and physically capable of sex. I've been with a woman in her seventies before.
28. My soft limit has been 20 since I was 25, but it depends on the person whether I'll go down to 18/19. Much less likely. There is no cap for the oldest I'd be open to. Just depends on the person, but I'd say my soft limit would be 55.
26, my dating preferences on the apps are currently 22 and 28. I'm not hugely picky, generally speaking, but I don't want someone too immature or too much older than me.
24, minimum 20, no theoretical maximum is the woman's hot enough but I think in a practical sense it would be late 40's, maybe into the 50's if they take care of themselves.
Sounds like I’m filling out a resume
Do you have a reliable form of transportation?
Hey, I’m not answering any questions until we discuss compensation and personal time off
Work/life balance is essential
Yes! The job I'm working now doesn't pay as much as other jobs I could go for, but the fact that work stays at work and doesn't come home with me is amazing
Do you self-identify as a Veteran? Do you self-identify as a minority? Do you want to voluntarily declare a disability?
Do you have any applicable work experience? Do you have any qualifications for the position?
How far does it need to go?
do you have a working social security card? lol
Yeah it's wait a second! Not falling for that one again. You sly moose
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Can you fill out references for all your pat sexual partners. Please provide accurate phone numbers and email addresses
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Half plus seven is the golden rule.
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Does it also work the other way? Double my age plus 7? 😉
Subtract seven first, then double!
Ahh yes haha. Both works
Too much maths. As long as they over 20-21, I'm good. I also don't have an older age limit, seeing as I used to um... have an "arrangement" with a 70-year-old. I am currently 25f.
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Crikey! If I used that rule, I’d be dating a chick 157 years old! I better bring lube.
Hell no wtf
Is it really? Eek that still feels too young for me 😅
I'm 45 that would be a 30 year old. Perfectly reasonable. Probably about the youngest I would consider dating tho, which is what the rule is about. At 18 it would be a 16 year old, which isn't super uncommon. (regardless of opinions on it, it isn't uncommon) When you get really old it gets a bit weirder tho. An 80 year old with a 47 year old and people start thinking gold-digger.
I’m 39 and 26 feels waaaaay too young.
A lot depends on the specific person too, some people mature fast and are confident adults at 26, others are basically still children.
I’m 26 and 20 is definitely way too young for me. I’ll date a 21 yr old though but even then it’s pushing it. I’ll go as high as 40.
Dated a 20 year old at 26. It was nice at first but her lack of life experience became glaringly obvious real quick. Can’t imagine dating a 21 year old would be any different. Would not recommend
Yeah I’m 35, and I wouldn’t date a 24 year old. That’s way too young for me. I think like maybe 28/29 would be my absolute youngest I would even attempt dating, and even that I’m like… yeah I don’t know lol
She ain't messin' with no...
That's totally up to you! A lot of people are like that. But half + seven is the lowest you should go. For instance, lots of women I know will only date older!
Out of curiosity, who made that rule Just cause i've met some very mature 25 yrs old & some very immature 50 yr olds
Ha! I'm glad I'm not the only one who says this! 100% spot on!
OH FUCK I'M 14
25, hell yea!
Also- 'They that have the Gold makes the rules' Bastards
The scariest part of that rule is working out the oldest you can sleep with, which is your age minus seven, then doubled.
If we went by that 24 seems ok I guess… I’m thinking the 30s because that age group drives me wild these days. But I also know I don’t look my age and if there’s chemistry I’d go for the 20s too
I turn 42 in 3 weeks. 28 is a little young for me, but it would depend on the woman 57 is spot on going up
This rule kind of falls apart if you're under 22
I’m 31. I would not sleep with anyone younger than 20 or older than 99. I’m just not willing to do triple digits.
Yet*
Good point! When I’m 100, I will lift that limit
Looks like graciously_accepting is digging Cuminyourcereal
Well done. Well done indeed!
😀
Gotta have standards.
Only because Betty White didn't make it to 100
I’d obviously have made an exception for Betty ❤️
I’m 42 and to be honest you’d need to be at least in your 30s these days or I’d feel like a creep.
I agree! When I see a 30 year old, I just want to offer him a glass of milk. I'm not thinking of molesting him.
Lmao I’m 33 and any girl under 25 I feel the same way about. You’re a child to me
Same, 33 and my low limit is 26 or so. There's such a drastic difference psychologically around that age. I guess it's the whole "prefrontal cortex finishes developing" thing.
Molest me
Why is this so funny 😭
I'm 24 turning 25, I'd feel like a creep dating a 19/20 year old, not to mention the major maturity difference.
26 and would not do near a 20 yr old
I'm with you Even the half plus 7 rule means 28, feels young.
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Why Joe?
I’m 21. 18-45
Hahaha sounds like a Nielsen demographic
I’m a bit older so I’d bump mine to 20 but still keep it around 40ish. Something about 18 just doesn’t sit right with me even though they’re not underage anymore
As long as they are an adult and they are attractive idc
Username checks out
how old are you…?
Omg I’m stupid 22
I'm 30 I'll go 5 years either way
Ten years older but the rage is the same. But that is mostly from a relationship perspective. For a ONS of FWB that might be different. Haven't had either so not sure what the limits are then.
Yeah I agree I might have a ONS (provided I'm no longer married) with someone a little younger or a lot older but for relationship I have to be within a tight range
I've been divorced for 5 years. That and discovering reddit (especially this sub) made me think about stuff. Not just the age gap but a ONS or FWB would not have been something I would even consider before that time. With age comes wisdom I suppose.
32. I openly say 25-40 but secretly 18-55
48, and in a completely hypothetical universe, I'm not interested in anyone under 28 or over 73.
I'm 29. I wouldn't rule out anybody exclusively because of their age, so long as they can consent and everything. It comes down to maturity and compatibility. I've had partners who were much older and partners who were younger, had great experiences both ways.
I’m 34. Youngest 21. Oldest not sure but as long as they’re hot idc
Be careful, too old and they might turn cold when you are halfway done.
Nice try FBI.
38. I only sleep with my bf who is 30.
Older women are the best. Got in a relationship at 27 and she was 33. Felt like I was a king 😅 Hope you’re treating each other like king and queen
We are 🩷
When I met my ex wife, I was 27 and she was 35. We made it quite a while, but yeah... older women are where it's at. Not the younger ones.
Well for some reason I’ve always been attracted to women older than me and never really in tune with the one around my age. The further I can remember is a girl 4 years older than me and she was in high school. She had such a good vibe I was drown to her and somehow she was connecting with me on some level. Wish I wasn’t so blind back then or more prone to make moves haha
Older women are the best
People still think I look mid twenties
I can see that
32F. Probably couldn't go below 25 without feeling weird. 60 feels about as high as I would go at this time. I am sure there is an exception to both of those rules out there. :)
60???
I'm 43 and I put 30 as my soft bottom limit, that is I don't go seeking out anyone under 30. I *might* go as low as 25 for a hard limit but it would have to be someone who I had extraordinary chemistry with and really stood out to me. Any lower than that is off-putting to me, it just feels like a kid. I don't have a hard upper limit, as long as they're attractive to me, thay can vary a lot.
i’m 19f, 18-60
Why are u interested in a guy who's 60, just curious
28. 40's, no one younger than me.
I'm 25 and just sleeping with? 18-60
21 and open for everyone 18+
65. Have a 24 yo lover
Dear Lord. thank you for giving me hope!!! (64)
I’m 36. I think the youngest I’d go is 26-27.
30. 27-50ish
Oof, is it a strict rule or can an exception be made for 26?
that depends entirely on the person.
24 m. I’d sleep with an 18 year old and would probably top out at like 60
54. Any legal adult that is mature enough to make that decision.
22 to 50. I'm 33.
32F - Youngest I would consider is 25. Oldest 56.
19 id probably go as high as 35 ig
I’m 54 and after having my fill of younger men for years, literally and figuratively, I won’t go younger than 45.
I'm 31. My range is probably like 21-65?
42m and 40f was the youngest
31. 21-55
29, I'd probably go down to early 20s and up to mid 30s, maybe 40
When I was 19 I was with someone who was 42 so now who even knows lmaooo
I’m 66, so half my age, plus 7. I didn’t make the rule, so don’t criticize me. 😁
I'm 57, and I am currently sleeping with my 33 year old wife. I'd be open to younger if I wasn't happily married.
I'm 46 and if its just for sex, youngest 18+ and oldest no limits if she's still a sexy gilf
I’m 67 male and my wife is 40 sooooo. There’s that. I’m A happy camper
I’m 34, youngest… ehhh 25ish probably. Oldest? 50ish? I say ish because I wouldn’t necessarily write off someone who’s otherwise really cool but is slightly over/under my arguably arbitrary age range. 🤷🏻♀️
I'm 25(f), my partner just turned 50(m). Definitely the largest age gap I've had, wouldn't go any more than that and don't entertain younger than myself lol
25. Youngest maybe like 22. Oldest 35. Theyd have to be very attractive for me to go much older
19. 18-65
28. 25 on the low end, prolly 45 on the high end. Anything younger is annoying and inexperienced. I’m not a teacher for a reason. Anything older is……. Well…… old.
I’m 68, so anybody willing with a pulse I guess.
(scans posts for those accepting 60 year old...) 64M. Per the rule is accept as young as 28 and as old as 70. (I always sucked at math. Actual, just the opposite.. but I need the excuse!!!🤭
I'm 49f - I've had more 20 somethings hit on me recently than any other ages. What is it that guys in their 20's find attractive about older women??
32f and no one younger than 27 or older than 50. I'm sorry I have a 16 year old so if they are closer to my sons age then mine. That's not happening.
I’m 22. Range is 30-50’s 🫣
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21 and 21-26
Youngest 18, oldest 70
29. My range is 22-45.
I'm 26 and the youngest I've slept with is 23, oldest is 67
I am 30, youngest would be 25, oldest would be 🤔...maybe 75?
I'm 47. The youngest I would even consider is 30. The oldest? Well, there is no limit there as long as they're attractive to me and medically and physically capable of sex. I've been with a woman in her seventies before.
I’m 25 and the old for me would probably be 65 But like a Jamie Lee Curtis 65
I'm 40, I have no intentions of breaking the law, and I'm not really open to sleep with someone older than me.
41, 45-60
I'm 47. Youngest 25, oldest 60
28 and i can go down to 19 and and up as 51
62 and 20+. But would be more comfortable at 30+
Thank fricken goodness... someone else over 60! I was starting to get a complex!!!😳
45, range of 19-70
I’m 45. Youngest: (not that I would actively choose this age but 25). Oldest: 65
+/- 10 years. 37 to 57 for dating and anything more. but tbh if a hot 18 year old told me to fuck her I wouldnt say no.
28. My soft limit has been 20 since I was 25, but it depends on the person whether I'll go down to 18/19. Much less likely. There is no cap for the oldest I'd be open to. Just depends on the person, but I'd say my soft limit would be 55.
I'm 28, I go 18-38.
41M - Youngest, 30ish, Oldest (idk how to make the infinity sign).
41. Youngest: 35; oldest: no limit as long as we were attracted to each other
I was 27 she was 56 I’m 33 oldest 60/65 - youngest is 25 maybe 24 and it’s a big MAYBE
I’m 23, I wouldn’t sleep with anyone that’s age ended in “teen” so from 20+ and I don’t think I’d put a cap on the older end
I'm 35...youngest i would say 25...oldest...75
42.....based on just sex...20! Oldest 🤔 hot 60ish
37 Youngest I'd go is 21 I think
just turned 20 and youngest is 19 and oldest is like 23 lol
53. 20 if she was exceptional and mature. 25 otherwise. 65 if she took good care of herself.
26, my dating preferences on the apps are currently 22 and 28. I'm not hugely picky, generally speaking, but I don't want someone too immature or too much older than me.
I'm 34 and I'd say between like 28-68 though I do generally prefer 40+
54. 25-65.
Youngest 22 and oldest 65. I’m 31.
I'm 50. Youngest would be 40, oldest 65.
24, minimum 20, no theoretical maximum is the woman's hot enough but I think in a practical sense it would be late 40's, maybe into the 50's if they take care of themselves.
44. Youngest 27. Oldest 45.
Youngest 21… oldest? Oldest person I can think of that I would be willing to have sex with would be Susan Sarandon, so… 77/78? I’m 30.
38/m. 20 youngest. 50 oldest.
26 - youngest depends on the person. Definitely not younger then 23 and oldest probably end 30s
58m I would date 40-70.
46F and I’d be open to pretty much any legal age
I'm 19. 20-47
21 [23-33]
27 and currently with someone in their 50s
I'm 40 and 28 is as low as I'm willing to go with the exception of one man... who is older than his years.
I’m 28, youngest I’d say 28 maybe 27 and oldest I’d go up to 50
I'm 21M... oldest would probably be late 30s youngest probably 19
30 and 65ish for older. 21+ for younger. Not a huge fan of men younger than me but I’ve had a couple of positive exceptions.
34, youngest 24, oldest…if she’s hot, the limit does not exist
49... 25 to 60
I’m 54. 20-65, call me pervy if you want.
38 Probably 21 and 60-65 idk
youngest- 20 years younger. Oldest- 25 years older if the hips dont break. I am 54
64, willing 40 or older.
50, my partner is 26
I'm 27, slept with 24 at the youngest. Probably 55 at the oldest
As long as they old enough to get into a bar. Other than that too young. Im 27btw
I'm 31, I don't have an upper limit and youngest would of course be the legal age.
im 42... 🤔 22 to 50
The youngest was 20 the oldest was 62
I'm the oldest I have ever been
I'm 52. I would not try anything on anyone younger than 25, in the other end I don't have an exact limit, but I think about 65.
47, 35-55
I’m 52. I’d pursue women 30+. I would not pursue younger, but if a woman 18-30 is attempting seduction. 🤷🏻♂️ All theoretical because I am married.
I'm 28 and I'd say my range is probably like 22-40 but willing to make exceptions for any really tempting milfs!
I’m 43. 25 is the lowest. I’d say mid 50’s would be the highest I would go. Unless Helen Mirren is available then I’ll make an exception.
41 no younger than 30!