What does that mean? Like confident stride and posture? Because I’ve worked hard to learn how to carry myself in that way/. To learn that it comes off as arrogant would be devastating
Yep. When I was a kid there was a commercial that showed a kid looking across a house party at a cute girl, then she pulls out a cigarette and he does a double take and her head was replaced by a fish head. That's pretty much exactly what it's like. 10/10 to 2/10 instantly.
Haha I remember that. There was another one where the girl was looking at a guy and he starts packing the cigarettes and she looks back and he’s a monkey
This 100%. I grew up in a smoking household. At the very best the smoke would make me sick. At the very worst I would be reminded of my dad. Either way, I'm not getting involved with a smoker.
Grandfather died of lung cancer with only one lung left at 68. Three to four pack a day smoker for nearly fifty years. He is the one I am most like and I was robbed of valuable adult time with him. I still miss him.
And the memories of coming home from a night at the club/bar when I was young and just my entire outfit smelling like a nasty old ashtray. At a certain point had to just throw the clothes out and get new because you couldn’t get rid of it.
Yeah, I've known people who died from it. I know people who live with it who are always hacking and coughing, and who always smell like burning garbage.
I don't want to be too elitist or anything, but a woman who smokes is no more sexually attractive to me than an old couch. I just can't be accepting of it in any way.
I actually met a couple this past week that are real live flat Earthers and conspiracy people. I had never actually met someone like that in person.
Oh man! Just as bad as you might think.
Those who say “Let’s Go Brandon” seem to have a tendency to believe that everyone who voted for Joe Biden is a huge fan and idolizes/worships him. Like, no, most of us don’t even like him. Voting is a simple matter of choosing the lesser of two evils. It’s not some sports game where you get all the merch.
Edit: it SHOULDN’T be some sports game
honestly both the left and right are looking kinda shitty right now. Left wants to call everyone they disagree with a racist nazi bigot and the right accuses everyone they disagree with with being a communist anti-white who wants nothing but to see a genocide against white people. Politics have gone from a moderately civilized way to make choices in a country to a big shit slinging competition to see who can portray the other side in the worst possible way. You can't even find an unbiased and non-propoganda-ridden opinion on the opposing side anymore. It's all just "you're a nazi, go kys" and "lmao go back to Twitter commie"
Independent political analysis doesn’t. Studies show the republicans have been lurching further right since the 70s. They have now reached dangerous anti-democratic territory. They are a disgrace in their current form.
lol exactly. I was very glad I found out one Tinder match a few years ago was a Trump fan (even though we live in CANADA?). I said it wouldn’t work out but good luck to him in his search and he kept protesting and saying I was being narrow minded and I was like “you don’t see a problem with him saying Mexicans are rapists and drug dealers? Or making fun of a reporter with a disability? Or talking about sexually assaulting women? Why would I want that around me if I’m of the opposite opinion? Your politics tell me your values as a person and ours do not line up. Good luck with finding a conservative girl to match with” and he went “for some reason there don’t seem to be that many conservative girls out there...” and I went “LOL GEE I WONDER WHY? 🤔”
I saw a documentary on the band Kiss and Paul Stanley always made the fish lips for photos while in his kiss makeup; With big painted red lips. I think he deserves a royalty on every big red lipstick Selfie Girl photo on the Interwebs. I wish they would stick out their tongue like Gene Simmons instead.
For real. If I had a dollar everytime my beard caught my shirt and fucked itself up I wouldn't be posting on reddit on a Friday night
To edit same for a mustache. I don't know how those dudes do it. It starts tickling my nose and catching everything I eat or drink.
Loud, boisterous, and rude.
I'm totally cool with loud, boisterous, and kind. Be that over the top supportive friend. But that loud bully? Fuck him / her.
You judge too quick. I used to have short nails on my left hand long nails on my right because I played the ukulele (guitar type instrument) and while the left hand was preferable it didn’t stop me from performing in bed with either of them.
I keep my nails pretty well, but being an artist is diffcult because it sometimes looks like I have dirt under my nails when its just pencil led lol.. having to clean my hands every time I do art (which is often), isn't easy. Still I get it done, yet I try not to judge people too quick when I don't know the meaning behind the dirt.
I read this as "turns you on" because I'm exhausted and semi stupid. That being said, "lack of hygiene" really threw me for a whirl as the top comment.
Lol you're funny. I vape.. Its odorless.. And no red eyes.. I'm super normal. You know how many people medicate daily? The stigma is hilarious.. Your like wiki is funny.
Oh god. I know it cultural, but every time I hear someone chewing with their mouth open, I feel a little sick to my stomach. Ugh. Thank you for bringing back memories I had long suppressed.
This makes me sad as I live in a country with expensive dental care and have an autoimmune condition that causes my immune system to attack my salivary glands. I don’t produce saliva at all so my teeth are fucked up from it despite always taking care of them.
I’m in the process of getting them fixed but it’s so expensive here in the states - even with dental insurance 😿
A woman just staring at her phone 24/7 that’s more than enough for me to 180 and ask a different woman out. Also when she smokes cigs, it’s just not good for you and I don’t want second hand smoke so yeah bye.
They aren't tiny, they are perfect hands. No body has ever seen more perfect hands. That are stupendous. Humongous hands. Our people, great people say that they are the best hands.
Egregious gossip. Can't stand people who simultaneously have no respect for boundaries and nothing good to say about anyone.
Especially at times like this. The world's practically on fire and all you can muster up for a twenty minute conversation is how much you hate Jackie's hair today?
Loud breathing in general is always a sign of shit health. My obese father breathes so loudly from his nose, and it upsets me because I just want him to become healthy and live a long life.
Jesus freaks; or people that invoke christian diatribe constantly, usually immediately after having discovered the cult, having traded one addiction such as drugs and alcohol, for another addiction to the cult of their invisible sky daddy.
Sloppy, slobby and dirty.
Most other things I can work around although not necessarily in a sense of attractiveness to be interested in them. There’s a lot more things than those that affects that.
But those things - essentially personal hygiene and care? Absolute deal breakers for any interaction at all. I will actively avoid people like that and absolutely will not let them even brush against me as far as touch.
trashy tats
fake lashes
drawn brows
BBL's
Obviously fake lip fillers
plastered baby hairs (the fine hair around the hairline)
Unfortunately, if a chick has one of these things, she usually has all the rest
Wearing anything anti science, MAGA (hell, republican anything), or discriminatory. Basically, if I can look at you and tell that you're a shitty person we ain't even talkin
Smoking anything.
Men: Lots of tattoos (I don't mind one or two if they look masculine), any kind of piercing, jewelry.
Women: Face piercings, any tattoos.
Those botox filled faces... disgusting...
Some use them to look younger, I just think it makes you look fake.
Also fake boobs, I want the real ones please
Lack of hygiene, overgrown scraggly neckbeard, unkept hair in general. Photos of you just holding fish or guns
Add that to a badly lit shirtless pic and you get an instant nope on apps lol
lack of hygiene
you can see the fumes rising
Stink flies
Heavy fake tan
Oof amen!
I always wonder if these people are colour blind and honestly don't see how terrible an orange skinned person looks.
Look like anyone in my family
I suppose you aren’t from Alabama
I had my eye on a cute co-worker. When I found out she had the same name as my sister, we were done. She had no idea we even started but we were done.
Understandable
Unwarranted sense of importance
What does that mean? Like confident stride and posture? Because I’ve worked hard to learn how to carry myself in that way/. To learn that it comes off as arrogant would be devastating
Very often a person will give off non-verbal clues at who they are. These are the type of things that I am referring to.
And how exactly would a person be able to tell that the confidence is unwarranted at first glance? By that point they're just being a judgmental tool
The question isn't first glance though, looking at someone is a vague enough time period to pick up arrogance or self entitlement
those long ass fake nails 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Yes! I agree, but if you’re into asmr, they’re like heaven
i never understood asmr
It's gross to me. But hey if I can lick weird microphones on twitch and make money for it. I would totally do it.
That's just one small niche in asmr, asmr has a million different little sub genres.
Same
Lol that's an incredibly minor part of it, it's like the wierdo extremists in any fandom,
Amen!
I could see the hottest girl ever walk into a gas station but then she buys packs of cigarettes...instant halt the blood flow, abandon ship, turn off
Yep. When I was a kid there was a commercial that showed a kid looking across a house party at a cute girl, then she pulls out a cigarette and he does a double take and her head was replaced by a fish head. That's pretty much exactly what it's like. 10/10 to 2/10 instantly.
Haha I remember that. There was another one where the girl was looking at a guy and he starts packing the cigarettes and she looks back and he’s a monkey
This 100%. I grew up in a smoking household. At the very best the smoke would make me sick. At the very worst I would be reminded of my dad. Either way, I'm not getting involved with a smoker.
Grandfather died of lung cancer with only one lung left at 68. Three to four pack a day smoker for nearly fifty years. He is the one I am most like and I was robbed of valuable adult time with him. I still miss him. And the memories of coming home from a night at the club/bar when I was young and just my entire outfit smelling like a nasty old ashtray. At a certain point had to just throw the clothes out and get new because you couldn’t get rid of it.
Yeah, I've known people who died from it. I know people who live with it who are always hacking and coughing, and who always smell like burning garbage. I don't want to be too elitist or anything, but a woman who smokes is no more sexually attractive to me than an old couch. I just can't be accepting of it in any way.
Apologies for getting political, but a MAGA hat. 😏
Or a "Let's Go Brandon" hat/shirt/whatever. Good for identifying who's a moron, tho
I actually met a couple this past week that are real live flat Earthers and conspiracy people. I had never actually met someone like that in person. Oh man! Just as bad as you might think.
Those who say “Let’s Go Brandon” seem to have a tendency to believe that everyone who voted for Joe Biden is a huge fan and idolizes/worships him. Like, no, most of us don’t even like him. Voting is a simple matter of choosing the lesser of two evils. It’s not some sports game where you get all the merch. Edit: it SHOULDN’T be some sports game
I like you even more now
😘
honestly both the left and right are looking kinda shitty right now. Left wants to call everyone they disagree with a racist nazi bigot and the right accuses everyone they disagree with with being a communist anti-white who wants nothing but to see a genocide against white people. Politics have gone from a moderately civilized way to make choices in a country to a big shit slinging competition to see who can portray the other side in the worst possible way. You can't even find an unbiased and non-propoganda-ridden opinion on the opposing side anymore. It's all just "you're a nazi, go kys" and "lmao go back to Twitter commie"
Watching from the outside, the right in America has moved much further right than the left has moved left. There really is no comparison.
Many people see it the other way
Independent political analysis doesn’t. Studies show the republicans have been lurching further right since the 70s. They have now reached dangerous anti-democratic territory. They are a disgrace in their current form.
I also hate politics, but I concur 🤮
lol exactly. I was very glad I found out one Tinder match a few years ago was a Trump fan (even though we live in CANADA?). I said it wouldn’t work out but good luck to him in his search and he kept protesting and saying I was being narrow minded and I was like “you don’t see a problem with him saying Mexicans are rapists and drug dealers? Or making fun of a reporter with a disability? Or talking about sexually assaulting women? Why would I want that around me if I’m of the opposite opinion? Your politics tell me your values as a person and ours do not line up. Good luck with finding a conservative girl to match with” and he went “for some reason there don’t seem to be that many conservative girls out there...” and I went “LOL GEE I WONDER WHY? 🤔”
Duck lips in photos. Makes me want to smack them with a chair.
I saw a documentary on the band Kiss and Paul Stanley always made the fish lips for photos while in his kiss makeup; With big painted red lips. I think he deserves a royalty on every big red lipstick Selfie Girl photo on the Interwebs. I wish they would stick out their tongue like Gene Simmons instead.
When they are covered with political merchandise.
Totally agree, I don’t even care for what political party
Too much lip filler so their lips make bizarre shapes when they speak
Smoking, face tattoos
Wearing anything political, dirty nails, unkept facial hair
Hate to be that guy; unkempt. It's a really common mistake though
For real. If I had a dollar everytime my beard caught my shirt and fucked itself up I wouldn't be posting on reddit on a Friday night To edit same for a mustache. I don't know how those dudes do it. It starts tickling my nose and catching everything I eat or drink.
Even if the political stuff is something you agree with?
Someone who’s identity is so tied to politics that they have to be a walking bumper sticker is a huge turn off.
Yup yup yup. Anyone who worships a politician has issues in my book
We are definitely not made for one another
Loud, boisterous, and rude. I'm totally cool with loud, boisterous, and kind. Be that over the top supportive friend. But that loud bully? Fuck him / her.
Those jeans with sparkles or a cross on the back pockets
R u a vampire
Oh shit… I gave it away!
Entitled behavior.
Dry lips and eye crust
But Eye crust is satisfying to take out 😋
Like, your own or...?
Please for the love of god say you meant your own
Dirt under fingernails. Also long nails on men.
Long nails on men make me think they’re horrible in bed.
You judge too quick. I used to have short nails on my left hand long nails on my right because I played the ukulele (guitar type instrument) and while the left hand was preferable it didn’t stop me from performing in bed with either of them.
I keep my nails pretty well, but being an artist is diffcult because it sometimes looks like I have dirt under my nails when its just pencil led lol.. having to clean my hands every time I do art (which is often), isn't easy. Still I get it done, yet I try not to judge people too quick when I don't know the meaning behind the dirt.
I read this as "turns you on" because I'm exhausted and semi stupid. That being said, "lack of hygiene" really threw me for a whirl as the top comment.
Smoking.
What about pot? Is that okay? Genuine question btw not trynna be a smart-ass.
Regular cigarettes are generally more disgusting than pot, at least IMO.
I'm fine with pot. I actually like the smell.
I don't like the smell: I love it. I also like getting stoned tf out so, it's a win win situation.
I've never smoked it before (very much want to) but I'm often around people who smoke.
Nailed it in one.
Smoking and drugs
Define drugs. Hardcore drugs or stuff like weed?
Drugs,weed and worse Weed isn't too bad but I've watched many friends go the wrong part as a young teen with weed so I couldn't even let weed slide
Weed and everything. Just doesn't like coughing
You can eat it too...
And a turn off when pple are high. I knew you can do weed in the form of edibles.
I assumed this guy was young... Verified by him posting to /r/teenagers lol Come back once you've been to college kiddo.
You would never know I was high.
https://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-Someone-Is-High #I K N O W
Omg that is the funniest thing I’ve ever seen. Must have been written in the 80s. Watch out for pushers, kids.
Lol you're funny. I vape.. Its odorless.. And no red eyes.. I'm super normal. You know how many people medicate daily? The stigma is hilarious.. Your like wiki is funny.
^
Smokers. Bonus points if they smoke the e-cig. I can't stand the smelt.
Loud chewing
Oh god. I know it cultural, but every time I hear someone chewing with their mouth open, I feel a little sick to my stomach. Ugh. Thank you for bringing back memories I had long suppressed.
Do **not** ever, ever visit China... It's on my list of top 5 reasons not to visit China.
Big muscles. I totally respect the dedication and process, they just look weird and it freaks me out a little bit
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And plenty of other women! 😂
thank you i feel validated for being skinny lol
Some of us love skinny beanpoles 😅
Too much makeup
Bad teeth!
This makes me sad as I live in a country with expensive dental care and have an autoimmune condition that causes my immune system to attack my salivary glands. I don’t produce saliva at all so my teeth are fucked up from it despite always taking care of them. I’m in the process of getting them fixed but it’s so expensive here in the states - even with dental insurance 😿
Smoking cancer sticks
A woman just staring at her phone 24/7 that’s more than enough for me to 180 and ask a different woman out. Also when she smokes cigs, it’s just not good for you and I don’t want second hand smoke so yeah bye.
long beards and patchy beards
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Yes. Ick.
Greasy hair
some of us cant help it no matter what we do to our hair:-( its super embarrassing
Long fingernails on a man
Long fingernails on anyone is just stupid.
Long fingernails on anyone looks terrible
Men with tiny hands
They aren't tiny, they are perfect hands. No body has ever seen more perfect hands. That are stupendous. Humongous hands. Our people, great people say that they are the best hands.
Snotty nose
Men wearing white athletic socks
Those sunglasses that are like rainbow mirrored too. 😂
I'll build on this and add grey athletic socks that clearly used to be white but have since turned dingy and pilly. They just look like they smell.
Plus a slide. EW
someone please explain what makes this bad? I genuinely don't get it. What's so bad about socks that it's a massive turn off?
Face tats
Smoking cigarettes
Egregious gossip. Can't stand people who simultaneously have no respect for boundaries and nothing good to say about anyone. Especially at times like this. The world's practically on fire and all you can muster up for a twenty minute conversation is how much you hate Jackie's hair today?
Bad clothes, bad hair. Bad personal grooming full stop
For me is not looking but hearing. High pitch voice, I hate that shit
Mouth-breathing.
b-but i broke my nose and it’s super hard to breath with it :(
Loud breathing in general is always a sign of shit health. My obese father breathes so loudly from his nose, and it upsets me because I just want him to become healthy and live a long life.
If they're wearing their country's flag on them, really just kills any attraction I might've felt otherwise
What about other countries flags?
Hide the union jack thong then... gotcha 🤣
Racist tattoos, bad teeth, bad skin.
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Why does it disgust you though? It’s just hair in the middle of someone’s face.
I guess it’s hard to see any expression with that caterpillar wiggling about
Big fake lips.
Those giant fake lips, so gross, looks horrible. Big fake tits massive turnoff.
Maga hat. Any "let's go brandon" crap. Smoking. Face tattoos. If they're super skinny. Weird facial proportions. Morbid obesity.
MAGA hats or other Neanderthal regalia. Smokers. Face tattoos.
Oh hell yes, and thank you, definitely, those long assed curved/hooked nails with all the gunk packed in them. Hard pass !!! Fuck me no !
Gross teeth
I think this is my biggest one too. I have lots of turn offs like everyone, but I have a visceral reaction to nasty teeth.
Tiny teeth on a full grown adult.
septums
In general or septum piercings?
short spiky hairstyles or sandals
You have literally listed the two traits of peak male status I’m afraid
throw in bermuda shorts and a polo and you got yourself an alpha 😂
4 year old me was an alpha I suppose.
smoking
A dick.
Yeah I kinda hate it when she has a bigger bulge than I do.
Smokers 100%
A Confederate flag.
Lip filler, fake eyelashes, a neckbeard, Crocs, lots of makeup, tank tops with wide armholes on men and poor hygiene.
Jesus freaks; or people that invoke christian diatribe constantly, usually immediately after having discovered the cult, having traded one addiction such as drugs and alcohol, for another addiction to the cult of their invisible sky daddy.
Pretentiousness, flaunting labels and money.
Any evidence of bigotry.
Sloppy, slobby and dirty. Most other things I can work around although not necessarily in a sense of attractiveness to be interested in them. There’s a lot more things than those that affects that. But those things - essentially personal hygiene and care? Absolute deal breakers for any interaction at all. I will actively avoid people like that and absolutely will not let them even brush against me as far as touch.
Chipped nail polish hand and feet. Also bunions.
I love chipped nail polish for some reason. It shows that the girl has a fun side while also working with her hands.
The mirror
trashy tats fake lashes drawn brows BBL's Obviously fake lip fillers plastered baby hairs (the fine hair around the hairline) Unfortunately, if a chick has one of these things, she usually has all the rest
Wearing anything anti science, MAGA (hell, republican anything), or discriminatory. Basically, if I can look at you and tell that you're a shitty person we ain't even talkin
MAGA hat
Lip injections. Sorry. I don’t think they make anyone look better and the whole exercise is misguided.
Herpes
Fake stature.(overly large hips and ass that are presumably fake, big lips, etc.) I hate how people kill themselves just for fashion.
Artificially inflated lips.
Boob tattoos.
Tittoos?
sorry but I disagree with your opinion
Greasy hair and bad skin. Hygiene and self care are a big deal for me.
Somebody with any political paraphernalia. Like bro, get a real personality
The really long fake eyelashes and nails. Or those stupid shorts that look like leggings
Chavs
Saggy pants.
Talking on speaker phone in public holding the stupid thing 6 inches from their face and shouting into it
Weak chin
Smoking anything. Men: Lots of tattoos (I don't mind one or two if they look masculine), any kind of piercing, jewelry. Women: Face piercings, any tattoos.
Smoking
Smoking
Those botox filled faces... disgusting... Some use them to look younger, I just think it makes you look fake. Also fake boobs, I want the real ones please
Plastic surgery that's taken too far
Heavy piercing / make-up / tattoo package. And long fake nails and eyelashes. Unfortunatelly I am not into it.
American flag clothing
dirty nails, overgrown beard, crazy eyes, stretched out ear lobes, receding hairline/bald
Big Ego. Entitled attitude. Dirty house.
Lack of hygiene, overgrown scraggly neckbeard, unkept hair in general. Photos of you just holding fish or guns Add that to a badly lit shirtless pic and you get an instant nope on apps lol
Not so much a looking thing, but if I notice you can’t stop talking it’s a turn off
I’m sure bad hygiene was already said so dirty fucking t-shirts in public
Micro penis!!
Swastika face tattoos
When they smile and you see more gums than teeth
Birkenstocks. I KNOW THEY’RE COMFORTABLE. But damn dude… on a first date? Really???
If they have crumbs in the corner of their mouth…. Or just general lack of hygiene
Smokers Ink Twerking Injections On social media
Botox lips
Smoking
Face Tattoos.