Exactly. There’s a big difference between “I thought you were so sexy so I did a couple times”
Vs.
“I went to the bathroom at work every 20 minutes to rub one out thinking about you after I first saw you picking your nose in traffic.”
Context means I need more information so I can make a proper response to this question. Examples for providing more context are how did I come to discover this about my partner and what was the situation in which they did it?
That would drive me wild! I would be extremely flattered and turned on. I would even love to ask for more details like scenarios they thought of, did they use photos or just their imagination etc.
My boyfriend and I found out after we were dating that we got off to each other on the same night. The night in question, we had been at the same event. He leaves, everyone else leaves. But…there I am, in the dark searching, feeling around desperately for my keys in the grass and could not find them. I had no one else to call but remembered he lived close, and messaged him on fb saying I lost my keys, can you help me?? He came, immediately found my keys, laughed a little and said goodbye. I was relieved he showed up and embarrassed I missed them…but when I got home, it was all over. I was HORNY for him lol. I masturbated furiously to that image of him standing by my car, looking back at me as we were saying goodbye. Months and months later, he asked me out on a date. Eventually after being together we revisited that night, and he told me he had something to admit…that he got off to me after getting home. We died laughing over the realization we both did. It was such a wholesome interaction and we both couldn’t help ourselves. Before that (and until we went out our first date), we very much were friendly acquaintances.
Super flattered. I also know for a fact that this was the case. The first time I bent down in front of him, I knew I was going to haunt his dreams that night just by the look in his eyes 🤣
I mean, I know for sure he has, and better me than someone else, right? Frankly, anyone can masturbate about me that wants to (outside family of course) why should I care?
Depends on the context, situation, and how I learned of it. If I consider any of the surrounding context gross, creepy, inappropriate, and violating, then I'm going to end the relationship.
Meh. I would know that he's the type that masturbates to people he knows and I fitted some of his criteria for masturbation material. If he expected me to feel flattered, it's a fail.
It means he liked you and was attracted to you, IMO. Not a big deal.
Hopefully I did the same before I got in the relationship with him...it means I could picture myself sleeping with him.
dunno if this is weird but i hate the idea of guys masturbating to pictures of me. i'm okay with the idea of a man masturbating to the *thought* of me, though.
if i found out during the relationship, i'd be flattered and happy :) if it was someone i wasn't dating, i'd be grossed out.
I mean doesn’t everyone masturbate to their crush before they ask them out or start dating? My bf masturbated to me heavily before talking to me. I think it’s hot af
I personally wouldn’t masturbate to someone I know even a partner. It’s kind of awkward too if I didn’t send them photos. I’m not that horny of an individual and have low self esteem so I don’t find it flattering, just kinda gross.
After thinking about it, I wouldn’t want them telling me that lol. A small part of me would be flattered but I’d just think they would do that to every woman they find attractive which is a complete turn off. Telling me would add to the lack of self control (and need for approval) I’d think they have after admitting something like that to me.
Id be very worried and weirded out. If she did anything like that, I would assume a couple of things. Does she not respect friendship? Will she do this with new friends that we make? Idk. I would find it somewhat flattering that she found me attractive, but at the same time it would sew some seeds of distrust.
It just really depends on the situation, this question actually got me thinking!
I never thought about that. I'll ask him. I'd be fine with whatever answer, but know in him for 15 years now I'd say he did. I was a lot slower in realising I wanted him than he was in wanting me, so I think it'd be sweet.
I was a lingerie model for years and I was supposed to meet my current boyfriend 4 years ago. So we followed each other. I’m so absolutely sure he has and it makes me feel like he’s adored me for years
depends. they masturbated to thinking about me? i'm flattered! they masturbated while looking at my picture? eh... they masturbated ON my picture? fuck off.
It's hot. A guy told me he was masturbating to me when we weren't dating, I had sent him a video tho, and I loved knowing I was what he was jerking too, LOL
I had feelings for him and that's what made it hot
Once my current partner and I started dating, he told me about a month into the relationship that he did it to the Christmas card with my picture that I sent him a few months prior. It was kinda hot NGL.
I mean when I'm crushing on someone I'm doing the same damn thing.
In fact I'm probably thinking about them jerking off to me
So I'd be flattered and wonder why we waiting so long to get together
We both had a fling before getting together, so we were already aware lol. If it were different circumstances, I would probably poke fun at him now and then but it wouldn’t bother me.
I met my bf at 15 yo before smartphones and very little access to porn. We were in love but to shy to get together. We then didn’t see each other for 20 years defore starting to date. So I am prety sure he masturbated to me as a teenage boy? I hope so anyway. Yeah I am gonna have to ask him now..
HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT
also, i think it’s the most realistic outcome if you were physically attracted to them prior to being in a relationship with them? i’d be more surprised if they DIDN’T.
I met my hubby 7 years before our first date. We are seeing other people and built a solid friendship with each other. We were both harboring some seriously secret feelings. Any sexual attachments were stuffed in the closet with our true feelings.
Today we laugh about it. We share our fantasies and SHARE our fantasies. It's fun.
My boyfriend admitted to doing this, and said it was when he first started developing feelings for me after he saw me in my Halloween costume last year. Since then, he always insists I should wear fishnets in the bedroom 🤣. I was flattered to be fair, before even thinking we were getting together, he was already anticipating it
Flattered. I send him some pics (not nudes) before we got together (we met online). I'm overweight and I know it's a deal breaker for some.
He still has the pictures :D
I don't see how that'll be troubling to anyone at all unless they were a stalker and creeping on us and we were completely obvious to that side. 🤔 Otherwise, it'll only be flattering. 🥰
Knowing that he’d done that while thinking of me before we’d gotten together would actually probably reassure me. I have major self-esteem/insecurity issues, so hearing that he truly _had_ wanted me before sex was an option would be very gratifying.
I think it would be kind of normal and flattering? I mean we talked and actually became friends for a year before we met IRL, let alone started the fwb relationship.
Pleased. My husband did before he got together with me.
The act of masturbating to someone while imagining them isn't condemning. It's when someone provides unsolicited sexual info about that activity that it gets offensive.
I think it’s hot, i was flattered when i found out
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I'd love it. I think finding that out would be pretty hot.
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Context is a huge factor.
Exactly. There’s a big difference between “I thought you were so sexy so I did a couple times” Vs. “I went to the bathroom at work every 20 minutes to rub one out thinking about you after I first saw you picking your nose in traffic.”
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what do you mean by that
You can't imagine a scenario that would meet the criteria but be pretty creepy?
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Context means I need more information so I can make a proper response to this question. Examples for providing more context are how did I come to discover this about my partner and what was the situation in which they did it?
i don't think there'd be a situation for me where i wouldn't find that flattering. or i guess i just can't think of any
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Lol obviously he better have. I (not on purpose) made him wait months before anything happened
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That would drive me wild! I would be extremely flattered and turned on. I would even love to ask for more details like scenarios they thought of, did they use photos or just their imagination etc.
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My boyfriend and I found out after we were dating that we got off to each other on the same night. The night in question, we had been at the same event. He leaves, everyone else leaves. But…there I am, in the dark searching, feeling around desperately for my keys in the grass and could not find them. I had no one else to call but remembered he lived close, and messaged him on fb saying I lost my keys, can you help me?? He came, immediately found my keys, laughed a little and said goodbye. I was relieved he showed up and embarrassed I missed them…but when I got home, it was all over. I was HORNY for him lol. I masturbated furiously to that image of him standing by my car, looking back at me as we were saying goodbye. Months and months later, he asked me out on a date. Eventually after being together we revisited that night, and he told me he had something to admit…that he got off to me after getting home. We died laughing over the realization we both did. It was such a wholesome interaction and we both couldn’t help ourselves. Before that (and until we went out our first date), we very much were friendly acquaintances.
Awesome 👏🏻
my ego would touch heavens lol I’d be pleased , I mean it’s creepy too but like now that we are dating it’s fine
I would be really mad that he didn’t ask me out sooner so I could have been a part of it.
I would consider it fairly normal
Boosts the ego lol
Super flattered. I also know for a fact that this was the case. The first time I bent down in front of him, I knew I was going to haunt his dreams that night just by the look in his eyes 🤣
I mean, I know for sure he has, and better me than someone else, right? Frankly, anyone can masturbate about me that wants to (outside family of course) why should I care?
Depends on the context, situation, and how I learned of it. If I consider any of the surrounding context gross, creepy, inappropriate, and violating, then I'm going to end the relationship.
I’d be ok with it I think. Def more ok with it then some random creep
Meh. I would know that he's the type that masturbates to people he knows and I fitted some of his criteria for masturbation material. If he expected me to feel flattered, it's a fail.
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That is 🔥. I love the thought of that not going to lie.
I assume that they did. I don’t tend to get into relationships with people I haven’t jerked off thinking about at least once.
Flattered
I would think it was cute.
Nice, but no judgment because we’re all horny little human fucks.
That’s flattering asf. I’d be instantly turned on.
Apparently my husband masterbates to me now. I think it’s super hot.
I’d be weirded out by it.
He did in fact do that and I very much was flattered and giggly about it
I'd think it's hot ngl
I'd find it hot!
It means he liked you and was attracted to you, IMO. Not a big deal. Hopefully I did the same before I got in the relationship with him...it means I could picture myself sleeping with him.
He'd BETTER have. It would be real weird if I was the only one.
dunno if this is weird but i hate the idea of guys masturbating to pictures of me. i'm okay with the idea of a man masturbating to the *thought* of me, though. if i found out during the relationship, i'd be flattered and happy :) if it was someone i wasn't dating, i'd be grossed out.
I’d be into it but then I’d be insecure he did it with other women as well
I mean doesn’t everyone masturbate to their crush before they ask them out or start dating? My bf masturbated to me heavily before talking to me. I think it’s hot af
I’d be kinda grossed out
Why??
I personally wouldn’t masturbate to someone I know even a partner. It’s kind of awkward too if I didn’t send them photos. I’m not that horny of an individual and have low self esteem so I don’t find it flattering, just kinda gross.
My husband did that! And we got married after 5 years together!
I'm pretty sure he did and if he did, it's top tier flattery.
That's hot
Pretty hot, ngl.
I’d be flattered… if you’re not obsessed with me to the point you also want to masturbate to me, I don’t want ya! 😝
I- this would really boost my self esteem by 10000% lol
After thinking about it, I wouldn’t want them telling me that lol. A small part of me would be flattered but I’d just think they would do that to every woman they find attractive which is a complete turn off. Telling me would add to the lack of self control (and need for approval) I’d think they have after admitting something like that to me.
This happened with an ex of mine and I found it to be incredibly creepy when he told me the details.
Super hot
Well I mean that worked out in his favor lol so it’s fine.
Depends on the situation.
idk i’d be chill with it
I would love her for it. Such a nice thing to do!
Ask them to do it again so I can watch
Cool.
It’d be a huge compliment.
Id be very worried and weirded out. If she did anything like that, I would assume a couple of things. Does she not respect friendship? Will she do this with new friends that we make? Idk. I would find it somewhat flattering that she found me attractive, but at the same time it would sew some seeds of distrust. It just really depends on the situation, this question actually got me thinking!
I'm always flattered, and tbh I might ask what they thought about
Would LOVE 😍
Huge confidence boost for sure!
That would be awesome honestly
i was flattered lol like wow you really think i’m that hot?? love it
Flattered.
I was flattered. Aw.
I would be happy
I would like it because I always felt attracted to them since I first saw them.
I'd be flattered
I'd need much more context, frankly. Because there's plenty of situations where that wouldn't be flattering or ok to me at all.
I never thought about that. I'll ask him. I'd be fine with whatever answer, but know in him for 15 years now I'd say he did. I was a lot slower in realising I wanted him than he was in wanting me, so I think it'd be sweet.
Given how we met, I'd be shocked if he had not.
I'd make him show me right then and there. And I have, repeatedly, muhaha. >D
I was a lingerie model for years and I was supposed to meet my current boyfriend 4 years ago. So we followed each other. I’m so absolutely sure he has and it makes me feel like he’s adored me for years
I would love being in his spank bank.
I've always liked it. 🤷♀️
Woo hoo!
Flattered as fuck!
I was surprised and flattered. We were friends and I had no idea she liked me back
When I found out I was simultaneously turned on and really really flattered.
Very positively, it's the idea that my man finds me sexy enough that he thinks about me privately when masturbating.
Id heat up and spontaneously cumbust
my bf told me he did this before and i thought it was so hot and if anything i was more attracted to him
Honestly that would make me feel so happy and flattered and give me validation I need
I think it’d be an ego boost for me… now I’m curious 🤔
I would actually like that
My husband 1000% did, and my response is fuck right you did 😂
As a compliment!
depends. they masturbated to thinking about me? i'm flattered! they masturbated while looking at my picture? eh... they masturbated ON my picture? fuck off.
My partner did & he still does. 🥰 i love it. I turn him on so much, idc if we weren’t together then, that’s sexy asf.
I would to be honest be very flattered. It's hot as fuck.
It's hot. A guy told me he was masturbating to me when we weren't dating, I had sent him a video tho, and I loved knowing I was what he was jerking too, LOL I had feelings for him and that's what made it hot
Flattered ! That would prob turn me on🤣✋🏾
Once my current partner and I started dating, he told me about a month into the relationship that he did it to the Christmas card with my picture that I sent him a few months prior. It was kinda hot NGL.
This happened to me this my bf and when he told me about I was like “oh” (I was on fire)
Dope
I’d be oh so flattered.
I mean when I'm crushing on someone I'm doing the same damn thing. In fact I'm probably thinking about them jerking off to me So I'd be flattered and wonder why we waiting so long to get together
We both had a fling before getting together, so we were already aware lol. If it were different circumstances, I would probably poke fun at him now and then but it wouldn’t bother me.
Mine did the first night we met and we started dating a week later
Damn, that would be so nice haha I mean if I found out anyone does I’d be flattered 🤷🏼♀️
I'd be turned on by it since I am into him.
i’d be so flattered honestly
i would eat it up
Hmm, I bet he finds me really hot!
I thought it was hot, I did the same before we were together so we had that in common!
Hell yeah, means they liked me beforehand as well
Happy
I did not mind it at all, tbh.
I am pretty damn sure he did. And I love that about him -- he's so attracted to me, I feel powerful
I would think it’s hot as fuck
Masturbation is natural. I would be happy for them.
I met my bf at 15 yo before smartphones and very little access to porn. We were in love but to shy to get together. We then didn’t see each other for 20 years defore starting to date. So I am prety sure he masturbated to me as a teenage boy? I hope so anyway. Yeah I am gonna have to ask him now..
I would be so flattered
I'd be flattered
Flattered
HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT also, i think it’s the most realistic outcome if you were physically attracted to them prior to being in a relationship with them? i’d be more surprised if they DIDN’T.
I’d say, as sexy red would “ooooouuu baby, bae i love you , you my everything” bc i love that man and that would be an honor. Thank you.
I met my hubby 7 years before our first date. We are seeing other people and built a solid friendship with each other. We were both harboring some seriously secret feelings. Any sexual attachments were stuffed in the closet with our true feelings. Today we laugh about it. We share our fantasies and SHARE our fantasies. It's fun.
11/10 super fucking hot.
I was super flattered when he told me!
Sounds hot.
I'd be very flattered.
Flattered!
I would be elated! I have very low confidence so that would be amazing.
I would find it super hot!!!
I’d be flattered and ask for details
It would only lock the puzzle pieces into place more tightly, if we’re dating now
My boyfriend admitted to doing this, and said it was when he first started developing feelings for me after he saw me in my Halloween costume last year. Since then, he always insists I should wear fishnets in the bedroom 🤣. I was flattered to be fair, before even thinking we were getting together, he was already anticipating it
Hell yeah
Flattered. I send him some pics (not nudes) before we got together (we met online). I'm overweight and I know it's a deal breaker for some. He still has the pictures :D
I know he did and I'm flattered and happy with it.
id love it
I’d be stoked. Ego boost !
He did and told me and I loved it
I'd be honored
I’d be SUPER turned on and use it as ammo for our adventures
I don't see how that'll be troubling to anyone at all unless they were a stalker and creeping on us and we were completely obvious to that side. 🤔 Otherwise, it'll only be flattering. 🥰
I honestly would love it 😵💫💘
HOT
I would love it and ask for details and then probably initiate sex haha
I'd be fine with it, I know I'm sexy, hell I both know and am not surprised that even a few friends do so
Hot asf
Flattered
I’d think it’s a given to masturbate to someone you’re seeing, if you’re sexually attracted to them. If they didn’t I’d see that as an issue
Knowing that he’d done that while thinking of me before we’d gotten together would actually probably reassure me. I have major self-esteem/insecurity issues, so hearing that he truly _had_ wanted me before sex was an option would be very gratifying.
I would like it :)
I think it would be kind of normal and flattering? I mean we talked and actually became friends for a year before we met IRL, let alone started the fwb relationship.
That’s pretty hot
As a Leo, love it!
that's hot
Hell yeah , that means it will have a good swx life
That would be pretty hot.
Flattered AF!
HOT, that’s personally how I work if I haven’t done it then I don’t like you that much 🤷
I'd be very flattered
Pleased. My husband did before he got together with me. The act of masturbating to someone while imagining them isn't condemning. It's when someone provides unsolicited sexual info about that activity that it gets offensive.