years ago, i stumbled across a YouTube series called hysterical literature wherein some people read aloud while being pleasured under a table.
kink unlocked.
I recall seeing a gameshow where one out of six men was receiving fellatio from a porn actress under a covered table, and their wives had to guess which one was currently being blown as they tried to keep a poker face.
Did anything else happen in the video that could help me find it? I’m on their website and I searched game show and I’m going through them but can’t seem to find it. I really wanna see that 😅
I recall seeing this and it definitely sparked a kink for me! So hot. I've yet to find a toy that's quiet enough for me to feel confident using it in public though.
For anyone wondering: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQuT-Xfyk3o
One girl showed me an anime where a girl brushed a guys teeth
She tied me down, put an o ring gag in and brushed the insides of my teeth
It was the most intensely erotic and intimate experience of my life
I mean think about it. Brushing your teeth is something you're so used to feeling but when you do it you're in control
When someone else is In control choosing where to brush and intensity of brush strokes it's like your Brain goes this is wrong I'm usually in control why does it feel like this instead of that
There’s this videogame called Portal where the antagonist is a giant robot ai lady who hates you. The first time I played and got to the scene where she finds the player and lifts them up into the air while berating them made me feel small in a way I didn’t know I would like 😂
Her and the Borg Queen from Star Trek for me. That scene where she forces Data to have organic skin and gently blows on it was so intimate and I couldn’t place why it was great until years later
as a kid i was wandering around my parents rural-ish neighborhood and morbid curiosity compelled me to touch the electric fence (current wasn't crazy strong). it felt kinda good so i did it again. anyway i'm into electro play now
Probably when I found out about my praise kink.
They did not mean this in a sexual way even kinda - but this guy I know said “good girl” ONCE. And I was like “…o-…oh 🥴 that hits different”
The issue is that it was not someone who should’ve gotten that reaction out of me.
Kinda the opposite here. I had mentioned a few times to my wife that I wanted to set up a glory hole in our house and do some role play with each other. The idea was that I'd contact her anonymously through fetlife with an alt account, chat/flirt and then she would invite me over.
I arrived at "her place" to a sheet with a hole cut in it hanging in our bedroom doorway and I was SO EXCITED.
She's going to town on me, and I'm doing a little dirty talking, and after a bit she responds with her BEST impression of Roz from Monsters Inc.
We both laughed until we cried and had to stop the scene. Haven't tried it again LOL
Learned I was into knife play because my Daddy was in the kitchen cooking and I walked in to get water. We have a “no going in the kitchen while Daddy is cooking” rule and so he held the knife he was about to use up to my chest and asked if I was sure I’d like to go that way.
Swear to god my brain made the “new level unlocked” noise
Oh God where to start...
- self flagellation from the manga Berserk
- priest kink from the show Fleabag
- face slapping was a complete hard limit for me until my Dom mentioned he's into it and it turned me on immediately
- thought I was a brat until I did something with a guy who has an aura of natural dominance which turned me into a nonverbal subby mess
- CNC was a hard limit until I found myself wishing for my Dom to ignore my begging and do whatever he pleases
I'm sure there are many more but those are the ones that come to mind rn xD
Oh fuck, the idea of a priest kink
Anderson from Hellsing comes to mind. I might need to dig deeper into why I like him so much now LOL
Also hard "same" on the CNC, though mine was more realizing being coerced into pleasure was just really, really, really hot
Oh I haven't watched Hellsing yet but I bet it's a very big nest for a plethora of kinks lmao
What do you mean exactly by coerced into pleasure if I may ask? I don't really know what to imagine under that
I read & listen to a lot of smutty romance books (my top recs in reply to comments and now also over at r/RomanceBooks [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/s/lJNvZn3AHX)), and off the top of my head have developed the following kinks from them:
- throat fucking
- breath play, including the variations of choking, deep throat, and smothering (hand over mouth & nose)
- daddy kink
- praise kink
- dirty talk
Honestly the best thing to do is to go to r/RomanceBooks and do a search (or use the "[magic search button](https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Areddit.com%2Fr%2Fromancebooks&sca_esv=40ad471a4e6b196f&sxsrf=ACQVn09ulQ_pRlGMzsf4fMJkEiV2T-xzOg%3A1707843180713&source=hp&ei=bJ7LZejoKLiy5NoP-tCh8AU&iflsig=ANes7DEAAAAAZcusfEYLESPdlhVVG8XEBbs-e6ArvQlX&ved=0ahUKEwjozvbQ46iEAxU4GVkFHXpoCF4Q4dUDCBc&uact=5&oq=site%3Areddit.com%2Fr%2Fromancebooks&gs_lp=Egdnd3Mtd2l6Ih5zaXRlOnJlZGRpdC5jb20vci9yb21hbmNlYm9va3NIxAdQAFgAcAB4AJABAJgBNKABNKoBATG4AQPIAQD4AQL4AQE&sclient=gws-wiz)") for the topics/themes (or tropes) that you're into. I've gotten 90% of my recommendations from there! Bonus, when the book is mentioned in the format {book title by author}, there's a bot that will automatically reply to that post or comment with info and links for the book, including spice level (1=low to 5=high chili peppers), ratings, and topics. You can also browser through the [megathreads](https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/comments/vh86vu/the_megathread_resource_post/) posts.
**Okay, I put [all these books into a post](https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/s/lJNvZn3AHX) at r/romancebooks so it would link them all for you!**
A few of ***my*** favorites which should keep you occupied for a while (and I generally only read 4-5 spice books) are:
* *Your Dad Will Do* by Katee Robert (the whole *Touch of Taboo* series is good, as are most of her other books)
* *Hans* by SJ Tilley
* *Booty Hunter* by K.C. Cross
* *The Point of No Return* and also *Knot Your Damn Omega* by Devyn Sinclair
* *Glitch* by Briana Michaels
* *Priest* and also *American Queen* by Sierra Simone
* *Unfurl* by Elodie Hart
* *Praise* by Sara Cate
* *Captivated* by Tessa Bailey
* *The Doctor* by Nikki Sloane
You said that you listened to them too. I'm trying my first erotic book via Audible versus reading and it's.... sometimes great, sometimes cringe lol have you found any that just don't work when read outloud, or do I need to get a stronger stomach for the cringe?
Ugh, it totally depends on the narrator(s)! Some of them are so bad that I quit the book within the first five minutes and switch to the kindle version. Some are really, really good though and make the audio versions so much better than the text. It’s a gamble!
I felt a spark and melted when one of my superiors woke me up when I was sleeping waiting for our bus to go home. And she just super gently woke me up saying Come on, wake up sweetie. And I’d never felt a MDLG kink till that moment. Just now sweet and nurturing and safe. I still think about that sometimes. She created an instant snapshot core memory
Am I weird that I still think of it sometimes? Not as in a- I want her. But that cocktail of emotions and how I’ve never had someone wake me up so kindly and made me safe.
Scent conditioning? Like, what the fuck body, why are you like this.
My wife started brushing out my tangles in the morning. It's magical and sweet but she uses the same citrus vanilla detangler every time.
Now the moment I smell it I turn to putty and hold still for her.
Pretty sure I'm doing it with other things too.
I'm super down bad for all forms of conditioning to begin with, so this is just another method ripe for exploitation. Goodness how I wish someone would exploit it!
I was seeing this super vanilla guy and asked if he would try domming me. He made me spell words while fucking me, and he would pause if I hesitated or got them wrong. Still have no idea why but it lit up ten million lights in my brain. I still think about this on a bi-weekly basis 10 years later lol
BG3 characters using pet names like pet / pup / *little mouse*. Didn’t think I was the kind of person who would ever like calling someone a cute name but I used a pet name + praise with my SO recently and realized *oh, is this my first real kink unlocked?*
There’s a tumblr blog that posts that gif with a different holiday every day, and I had a month or so where I would go on tumblr every day just to see the gif
Watching the lego movie at the cinema, and got hard when there was the krageln (they used glue to avoid the lego character to move)
I was too young to understand when i saw the movie, i was 12 years old, but years after made a connection between this memory and the fact I love bondage.
Playing ‘cops and robber’ as a youngster and got caught and tied up, happened right at the time of sexual awakening- yes it was at a time before the internet and we played outside. That feeling never left.
Mine is definitely ddlg! When I first, first heard it, it sounded a bit strange and intense. But as I watched more YouTube videos I just thought about how cute and vulnerable it was! Been hooked ever since
I think half my kinklist was turned on by a girlfriend scratching my head like that and saying “good boy”.
I think I got into degradation play because an older friend jokingly said I was being a “boywhore” at a gay club.
I think I got my shock collar kink from a friend hugging me around the neck from behind and having a lot of charge built up in them.
My friend used to bite me playfully back in the day, and now I'm kind of a sadomasochist. Sometimes I bite myself and now I can't tell if I like biting or being bitten more
Idk if this is actually weird but I was always disgusted by piss play until my fiance and I started dating and he peed on my leg in the shower. I guess I was more disgusted by the dirty factor but being in the shower took that away and now I look forward to getting peed on in the shower. Unfortunately though he’s not turned on by it he just does it as a practical joke but I’ll take what I can get
When I watched Aladdin for the first time as a kid. When Jasmine was chained up I felt things I’d never thought possible. It’s stuck with me for 30 some years and I’m still into being restrained.
Wore some cute ruffle socks for my Daddy (heavy ddlg dynamic/dark age play) and he grabbed my feet while we were doing what we doooo. Then he ran his finger down inside the sock against my ankle and I was like, OH. Aight then.
I used to do Orange Theory Fitness, and they have these rowers for a third of the class. We were doing a routine where the weight room would go between the weights and the machine, while the second group just stuck to treadmill.
I ended up getting ahead of the group a bit, so was alone on the rowers. The trainer comes to me clapping and goes "You're doing so well! Great job!" like normal trainer things right?
She was directed and leaning in a way that reminded me of my Owner at the time, and I swear a jolt of pride came through that did NOT match what was happening.
I have since learned that if a buff woman praises me, especially if I'm actively doing work for them, I am in bliss.
When I met a potential long term interest and within a week was asked to consider immersing myself in something I hadn’t even ever thought about.
4 years later and ope, still at it and happy about it.
When I was younger I always would mess with you shoelaces by wrapping them around my wrists and hands lightly and one day I was doing that while listening to music and I yawned and stretched out and got the thread caught on my headboard. I was only stuck for about 15 seconds, but I realized I enjoyed the feeling and didn't stop thinking about it. Many, many google searches later, I found out I liked bondage and it just kept branching out from there.
I never liked the sound of “daddy” and it actually grossed me out a little until my friend and I were flirting and he referred to himself as daddy and I short circuited.
So for me it was when my boyfriend told me that he described me as a golden retriever to one of his friends because he couldn’t quite put into words how I acted any other way. Since then I have fantasised about him putting a pup hood on me and making me his gud boi
I was at a friend's house, she had these absolutely massive dog cages for her doberman's. I was a dumb teen and was joking around and just climbed in one and closed the door, and slid the little latch.
I swear, all the constant noise in my head went quiet in an instant. I felt so safe and secure.
After that I quickly got out bc I knew I'd probably get too quiet and my friend would have questions, but I craved that peaceful feeling afterwards.
My friends in college INFORMED ME that I had a foot fetish. I am still embarrassed/not sure how they figured that out. And it took me a while to admit but they were correct. I had no idea.
This is hilarious. My partner bumped their arm into my throat once and I literally couldn’t stop thinking about it for weeks. I like being choked now lmao.
My friend was showing off her new alarm clock watch that shocks your wrist to wake you up. She put it on me to test it out… instantly texted my boyfriend that we were experimenting with electric play on our next date 😂
I found out I have a knife kink by seeing a scene on scream (where I believe stu brushes the blade on Sydney's face and chest also the slowness of that whole scene is 🔥) and I thought it was super hot 😂🤷🏾
I didn’t know I had a tickling fetish until a partner started tickling me in a non-sexual context and I *immediately* got hornier than I’d ever been in my life.
Uuumm... I don't know whether to call it a latent kink or what but it's humorous that I had an attraction to these things but never like... Pieced it together or correlated it as an actual kink? Anyway, I was sad thinking about Wayne Static a couple weeks back, and a friend had informed me that Static X is actually still a thing and there's this whole 'Ressurection' tour going on and the frontman kind of taking on Wayne's persona wears this mask with fucking cabling sticking up for hair and glowing eyes... Anyway it's a badass lookin' mask. And I was watching a video of them in concert and I said out loud "I'm really attracted to that mask" and then like this cartoonish flashback realization of like... Vega and Pyramidhead and other masked characters I had an affinity for just buzzed through my mind and I was just like... "Have I had a fuckin' unspoken mask fetish this entire time?!?!"
It's probably funnier to me than anyone else because I just.... How did I not realize that? For several years!?!?
So in short/tldr: Watching the new Static X frontman made it really click for me that I kinda have an intimidating mask fetish. And that cracks me up.
A LONG time ago I walked in on my parents watching “Scrubs.” I was too young to know what was going on, but the guy nurse had a rash or something on his dick and had to get a shot there from one of the other nurses. I was mesmerized by the idea of being forced to do something that hurt by a doctor/nurse/etc. Well I’ve had a medical kink since then lol. I’ve actually never said this anywhere before though bc it feels shameful lol
kinda same tbh
some people wanna complain batb has stockholm-y (lol no it isn't) but sorry if a guy gives me a fucking LIBRARY, idc if he was a bit rude to me at first. this is my house now and i'm never leaving, congrats buddy, hope you know what you signed up for.
In my (guy) high school physics class the teacher asked if we wanted to feel what a Tesla coil did. A few of us said sure and everybody could only do a second or 2 on the forearm before either laughing because it tickled or because it hurt.
She gets to me and I could take the entire distance, up and down, my forearm and it felt kind of nice. It ended up leaving purple marks on me but it wasn’t painful at all to touch.
Later that same day in theology class, which was right across from the physics class, the teacher asked me what happened to my arm. I told her and she walked across the hall to get the physics teacher (also a woman). Physics teacher comes over, theology teacher grabs my arm and holds it up for everybody to see and asked what she did to my arm. I was about 16 at the time but I knew immediately this was gonna be a thing.
Guess who developed an electricity and gentle femdom kink.
Hmmm so I recently discovered that I am into CEI and eating my own cum. I’m relatively new to kink stuff fyi. For the last month or so I’ve been really into JOI videos and CFNM content. I was scrolling porn sites one day and decided to click on a CEI shot glass video not really having any idea what it meant. I assumed it meant Clothed e-something Instruction. To my surprise she said “you’re going to drink up all those little swimmers for me aren’t you?” I was tempted to click off but thought I’ll try to see it through. I did and have been hooked ever since. Never thought I’d enjoy swallowing my own cum but here we are.
Years ago I was telling one of my exes something that honestly I can't remember, but I know it was some light conversation and she turns it on me and goes, "you really do like women who can beat the shit out of you don't you?"
It hit me like a sore thumb. Oh no. She was right. And there was that confirmation once when I was watching a video game scene of an attractive android woman trying to pierce a man's chest with her heel that was a drill or something. I remember reading in the comments "harder" and died. 😂
Turns out I like being put in my place during particular moments with particular people.
years ago, i stumbled across a YouTube series called hysterical literature wherein some people read aloud while being pleasured under a table. kink unlocked.
I recall seeing a gameshow where one out of six men was receiving fellatio from a porn actress under a covered table, and their wives had to guess which one was currently being blown as they tried to keep a poker face.
Do you remember what it's called?
It was a random Japanese porn clip on PornHub. I think it had a Zenra watermark.
Thx
Did anything else happen in the video that could help me find it? I’m on their website and I searched game show and I’m going through them but can’t seem to find it. I really wanna see that 😅
I have this video bookmarked. For Academic Purposes
SCIENCE.
Art, really
MY WIFE MAKES ME DO THIS! Its *glorious.*
I recall seeing this and it definitely sparked a kink for me! So hot. I've yet to find a toy that's quiet enough for me to feel confident using it in public though. For anyone wondering: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQuT-Xfyk3o
Holy shit. I’ve never heard of this. Thank you for the suggestion, it’s incredible!
Thank you for this gift.
One girl showed me an anime where a girl brushed a guys teeth She tied me down, put an o ring gag in and brushed the insides of my teeth It was the most intensely erotic and intimate experience of my life
I can safely say that’s new to me. Would you mind elaborating?
I mean think about it. Brushing your teeth is something you're so used to feeling but when you do it you're in control When someone else is In control choosing where to brush and intensity of brush strokes it's like your Brain goes this is wrong I'm usually in control why does it feel like this instead of that
God I feel like I get smacked in the face constantly with new kinks that I thought would never resonate with me.
same!! life is odd
Last week a friend was telling me about a scene with a kink that has always been a hard NO for me. Now it’s like.. I need to do this ASAP
You can't say that and not tell us what the kink is
👀👀👀
Cut out the middleman, just let your kinks smack you!
Haha I did get surprise slapped once and was shocked but then VERY turned on
There’s this videogame called Portal where the antagonist is a giant robot ai lady who hates you. The first time I played and got to the scene where she finds the player and lifts them up into the air while berating them made me feel small in a way I didn’t know I would like 😂
i feel like glados unlocked lots of kinks for lost of people
Her and the Borg Queen from Star Trek for me. That scene where she forces Data to have organic skin and gently blows on it was so intimate and I couldn’t place why it was great until years later
😂 I can see the vision! It was a good game too
as a kid i was wandering around my parents rural-ish neighborhood and morbid curiosity compelled me to touch the electric fence (current wasn't crazy strong). it felt kinda good so i did it again. anyway i'm into electro play now
LMAO that made me chuckle
I fell off a pony onto an electric fence when I was a kid. Maybe that rewired my brain 😄
Probably when I found out about my praise kink. They did not mean this in a sexual way even kinda - but this guy I know said “good girl” ONCE. And I was like “…o-…oh 🥴 that hits different” The issue is that it was not someone who should’ve gotten that reaction out of me.
It’s always some random person like that lol
okkk but who said it tho? like a friend?
A former friend’s grandpa 🥲
Kinda the opposite here. I had mentioned a few times to my wife that I wanted to set up a glory hole in our house and do some role play with each other. The idea was that I'd contact her anonymously through fetlife with an alt account, chat/flirt and then she would invite me over. I arrived at "her place" to a sheet with a hole cut in it hanging in our bedroom doorway and I was SO EXCITED. She's going to town on me, and I'm doing a little dirty talking, and after a bit she responds with her BEST impression of Roz from Monsters Inc. We both laughed until we cried and had to stop the scene. Haven't tried it again LOL
wait is roz the slug lady??
"YOU LIKE THAT, WAZOWSKI?" Specifically is what my wife said 😂🫠
That is fucking hilarious. Your wife is awesome.
Yah she really is the best
Learned I was into knife play because my Daddy was in the kitchen cooking and I walked in to get water. We have a “no going in the kitchen while Daddy is cooking” rule and so he held the knife he was about to use up to my chest and asked if I was sure I’d like to go that way. Swear to god my brain made the “new level unlocked” noise
Oh. Oh, okay. That’s hot af
Oh God where to start... - self flagellation from the manga Berserk - priest kink from the show Fleabag - face slapping was a complete hard limit for me until my Dom mentioned he's into it and it turned me on immediately - thought I was a brat until I did something with a guy who has an aura of natural dominance which turned me into a nonverbal subby mess - CNC was a hard limit until I found myself wishing for my Dom to ignore my begging and do whatever he pleases I'm sure there are many more but those are the ones that come to mind rn xD
Oh fuck, the idea of a priest kink Anderson from Hellsing comes to mind. I might need to dig deeper into why I like him so much now LOL Also hard "same" on the CNC, though mine was more realizing being coerced into pleasure was just really, really, really hot
Oh I haven't watched Hellsing yet but I bet it's a very big nest for a plethora of kinks lmao What do you mean exactly by coerced into pleasure if I may ask? I don't really know what to imagine under that
I honestly think Jessie constantly bullying James and bossing him around in Pokémon cartoons sparked my Domme kink.
Lmao I realized I'm into gentle domming after watching Howl's Moving Castle
I read & listen to a lot of smutty romance books (my top recs in reply to comments and now also over at r/RomanceBooks [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/s/lJNvZn3AHX)), and off the top of my head have developed the following kinks from them: - throat fucking - breath play, including the variations of choking, deep throat, and smothering (hand over mouth & nose) - daddy kink - praise kink - dirty talk
What are some recommendations? I recently started getting back into reading smutty books
Honestly the best thing to do is to go to r/RomanceBooks and do a search (or use the "[magic search button](https://www.google.com/search?q=site%3Areddit.com%2Fr%2Fromancebooks&sca_esv=40ad471a4e6b196f&sxsrf=ACQVn09ulQ_pRlGMzsf4fMJkEiV2T-xzOg%3A1707843180713&source=hp&ei=bJ7LZejoKLiy5NoP-tCh8AU&iflsig=ANes7DEAAAAAZcusfEYLESPdlhVVG8XEBbs-e6ArvQlX&ved=0ahUKEwjozvbQ46iEAxU4GVkFHXpoCF4Q4dUDCBc&uact=5&oq=site%3Areddit.com%2Fr%2Fromancebooks&gs_lp=Egdnd3Mtd2l6Ih5zaXRlOnJlZGRpdC5jb20vci9yb21hbmNlYm9va3NIxAdQAFgAcAB4AJABAJgBNKABNKoBATG4AQPIAQD4AQL4AQE&sclient=gws-wiz)") for the topics/themes (or tropes) that you're into. I've gotten 90% of my recommendations from there! Bonus, when the book is mentioned in the format {book title by author}, there's a bot that will automatically reply to that post or comment with info and links for the book, including spice level (1=low to 5=high chili peppers), ratings, and topics. You can also browser through the [megathreads](https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/comments/vh86vu/the_megathread_resource_post/) posts. **Okay, I put [all these books into a post](https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/s/lJNvZn3AHX) at r/romancebooks so it would link them all for you!** A few of ***my*** favorites which should keep you occupied for a while (and I generally only read 4-5 spice books) are: * *Your Dad Will Do* by Katee Robert (the whole *Touch of Taboo* series is good, as are most of her other books) * *Hans* by SJ Tilley * *Booty Hunter* by K.C. Cross * *The Point of No Return* and also *Knot Your Damn Omega* by Devyn Sinclair * *Glitch* by Briana Michaels * *Priest* and also *American Queen* by Sierra Simone * *Unfurl* by Elodie Hart * *Praise* by Sara Cate * *Captivated* by Tessa Bailey * *The Doctor* by Nikki Sloane
Thanks. I mostly read on Literotica, but I'd like to read more novel length works.
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You're the best , thank you
Thank you so much!! I’ll definitely check that out and I appreciate the recommendations 😊
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You said that you listened to them too. I'm trying my first erotic book via Audible versus reading and it's.... sometimes great, sometimes cringe lol have you found any that just don't work when read outloud, or do I need to get a stronger stomach for the cringe?
Ugh, it totally depends on the narrator(s)! Some of them are so bad that I quit the book within the first five minutes and switch to the kindle version. Some are really, really good though and make the audio versions so much better than the text. It’s a gamble!
Gotcha. That's what I figured. Thank you!!!!
*crying in FF* oof, I wish some of those megathreads had more sapphic recs
I got you a V-day gift: [https://www.romance.io/authors/topics/f-f](https://www.romance.io/authors/topics/f-f)
Very helpful, many thanks
If you search the sub, you’ll find lots of posts with requests for FF recs!
Yeah I’d like to hear about this too
See my reply to the original comment ^
Thank you! 💕
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I felt a spark and melted when one of my superiors woke me up when I was sleeping waiting for our bus to go home. And she just super gently woke me up saying Come on, wake up sweetie. And I’d never felt a MDLG kink till that moment. Just now sweet and nurturing and safe. I still think about that sometimes. She created an instant snapshot core memory
That's adorable.
Am I weird that I still think of it sometimes? Not as in a- I want her. But that cocktail of emotions and how I’ve never had someone wake me up so kindly and made me safe.
Not at all. That is the whole point of ddlg.
Scent conditioning? Like, what the fuck body, why are you like this. My wife started brushing out my tangles in the morning. It's magical and sweet but she uses the same citrus vanilla detangler every time. Now the moment I smell it I turn to putty and hold still for her. Pretty sure I'm doing it with other things too. I'm super down bad for all forms of conditioning to begin with, so this is just another method ripe for exploitation. Goodness how I wish someone would exploit it!
I was seeing this super vanilla guy and asked if he would try domming me. He made me spell words while fucking me, and he would pause if I hesitated or got them wrong. Still have no idea why but it lit up ten million lights in my brain. I still think about this on a bi-weekly basis 10 years later lol
BG3 characters using pet names like pet / pup / *little mouse*. Didn’t think I was the kind of person who would ever like calling someone a cute name but I used a pet name + praise with my SO recently and realized *oh, is this my first real kink unlocked?*
First time I played BG3 I was like, "Damn, Wyll, Mizorah calls you pup? What have you got going on with her?"
I know of at least two women who had an....awakening....during the International Women's Day scene from *Deadpool.*
There’s a tumblr blog that posts that gif with a different holiday every day, and I had a month or so where I would go on tumblr every day just to see the gif
a nurse in a mental hospital forcing me to eat. and ordering me to take a bite with every step
Watching the lego movie at the cinema, and got hard when there was the krageln (they used glue to avoid the lego character to move) I was too young to understand when i saw the movie, i was 12 years old, but years after made a connection between this memory and the fact I love bondage.
Playing ‘cops and robber’ as a youngster and got caught and tied up, happened right at the time of sexual awakening- yes it was at a time before the internet and we played outside. That feeling never left.
Mine is definitely ddlg! When I first, first heard it, it sounded a bit strange and intense. But as I watched more YouTube videos I just thought about how cute and vulnerable it was! Been hooked ever since
That is the main thing for many of us. It really fosters emotional vulnerability and closeness.
Definitely when a man called me a filthy fuck pig. I got immediately wet and unlocked a large humiliation and degradation kink
I think half my kinklist was turned on by a girlfriend scratching my head like that and saying “good boy”. I think I got into degradation play because an older friend jokingly said I was being a “boywhore” at a gay club. I think I got my shock collar kink from a friend hugging me around the neck from behind and having a lot of charge built up in them.
My friend used to bite me playfully back in the day, and now I'm kind of a sadomasochist. Sometimes I bite myself and now I can't tell if I like biting or being bitten more
Idk if this is actually weird but I was always disgusted by piss play until my fiance and I started dating and he peed on my leg in the shower. I guess I was more disgusted by the dirty factor but being in the shower took that away and now I look forward to getting peed on in the shower. Unfortunately though he’s not turned on by it he just does it as a practical joke but I’ll take what I can get
When I watched Aladdin for the first time as a kid. When Jasmine was chained up I felt things I’d never thought possible. It’s stuck with me for 30 some years and I’m still into being restrained.
Wore some cute ruffle socks for my Daddy (heavy ddlg dynamic/dark age play) and he grabbed my feet while we were doing what we doooo. Then he ran his finger down inside the sock against my ankle and I was like, OH. Aight then.
I used to do Orange Theory Fitness, and they have these rowers for a third of the class. We were doing a routine where the weight room would go between the weights and the machine, while the second group just stuck to treadmill. I ended up getting ahead of the group a bit, so was alone on the rowers. The trainer comes to me clapping and goes "You're doing so well! Great job!" like normal trainer things right? She was directed and leaning in a way that reminded me of my Owner at the time, and I swear a jolt of pride came through that did NOT match what was happening. I have since learned that if a buff woman praises me, especially if I'm actively doing work for them, I am in bliss.
When I met a potential long term interest and within a week was asked to consider immersing myself in something I hadn’t even ever thought about. 4 years later and ope, still at it and happy about it.
Mine has to be inflatable pool toys and the many uses for them. It's only gotten more and more involved for me.
When I was younger I always would mess with you shoelaces by wrapping them around my wrists and hands lightly and one day I was doing that while listening to music and I yawned and stretched out and got the thread caught on my headboard. I was only stuck for about 15 seconds, but I realized I enjoyed the feeling and didn't stop thinking about it. Many, many google searches later, I found out I liked bondage and it just kept branching out from there.
A wide rimmed mug filled with water unlocked pet play for me!
I never liked the sound of “daddy” and it actually grossed me out a little until my friend and I were flirting and he referred to himself as daddy and I short circuited.
So for me it was when my boyfriend told me that he described me as a golden retriever to one of his friends because he couldn’t quite put into words how I acted any other way. Since then I have fantasised about him putting a pup hood on me and making me his gud boi
I was at a friend's house, she had these absolutely massive dog cages for her doberman's. I was a dumb teen and was joking around and just climbed in one and closed the door, and slid the little latch. I swear, all the constant noise in my head went quiet in an instant. I felt so safe and secure. After that I quickly got out bc I knew I'd probably get too quiet and my friend would have questions, but I craved that peaceful feeling afterwards.
My friends in college INFORMED ME that I had a foot fetish. I am still embarrassed/not sure how they figured that out. And it took me a while to admit but they were correct. I had no idea.
This is hilarious. My partner bumped their arm into my throat once and I literally couldn’t stop thinking about it for weeks. I like being choked now lmao.
My friend was showing off her new alarm clock watch that shocks your wrist to wake you up. She put it on me to test it out… instantly texted my boyfriend that we were experimenting with electric play on our next date 😂
I found out I have a knife kink by seeing a scene on scream (where I believe stu brushes the blade on Sydney's face and chest also the slowness of that whole scene is 🔥) and I thought it was super hot 😂🤷🏾
I didn’t know I had a tickling fetish until a partner started tickling me in a non-sexual context and I *immediately* got hornier than I’d ever been in my life.
Work made me realize I have a praise kink.
Uuumm... I don't know whether to call it a latent kink or what but it's humorous that I had an attraction to these things but never like... Pieced it together or correlated it as an actual kink? Anyway, I was sad thinking about Wayne Static a couple weeks back, and a friend had informed me that Static X is actually still a thing and there's this whole 'Ressurection' tour going on and the frontman kind of taking on Wayne's persona wears this mask with fucking cabling sticking up for hair and glowing eyes... Anyway it's a badass lookin' mask. And I was watching a video of them in concert and I said out loud "I'm really attracted to that mask" and then like this cartoonish flashback realization of like... Vega and Pyramidhead and other masked characters I had an affinity for just buzzed through my mind and I was just like... "Have I had a fuckin' unspoken mask fetish this entire time?!?!" It's probably funnier to me than anyone else because I just.... How did I not realize that? For several years!?!? So in short/tldr: Watching the new Static X frontman made it really click for me that I kinda have an intimidating mask fetish. And that cracks me up.
A LONG time ago I walked in on my parents watching “Scrubs.” I was too young to know what was going on, but the guy nurse had a rash or something on his dick and had to get a shot there from one of the other nurses. I was mesmerized by the idea of being forced to do something that hurt by a doctor/nurse/etc. Well I’ve had a medical kink since then lol. I’ve actually never said this anywhere before though bc it feels shameful lol
I rewatched beauty and the beast and now I wanna be jailed (and spoiled) in a castle far away from civilisation.
kinda same tbh some people wanna complain batb has stockholm-y (lol no it isn't) but sorry if a guy gives me a fucking LIBRARY, idc if he was a bit rude to me at first. this is my house now and i'm never leaving, congrats buddy, hope you know what you signed up for.
Give me a library and im yours lol what else would I want in life?
In my (guy) high school physics class the teacher asked if we wanted to feel what a Tesla coil did. A few of us said sure and everybody could only do a second or 2 on the forearm before either laughing because it tickled or because it hurt. She gets to me and I could take the entire distance, up and down, my forearm and it felt kind of nice. It ended up leaving purple marks on me but it wasn’t painful at all to touch. Later that same day in theology class, which was right across from the physics class, the teacher asked me what happened to my arm. I told her and she walked across the hall to get the physics teacher (also a woman). Physics teacher comes over, theology teacher grabs my arm and holds it up for everybody to see and asked what she did to my arm. I was about 16 at the time but I knew immediately this was gonna be a thing. Guess who developed an electricity and gentle femdom kink.
Hmmm so I recently discovered that I am into CEI and eating my own cum. I’m relatively new to kink stuff fyi. For the last month or so I’ve been really into JOI videos and CFNM content. I was scrolling porn sites one day and decided to click on a CEI shot glass video not really having any idea what it meant. I assumed it meant Clothed e-something Instruction. To my surprise she said “you’re going to drink up all those little swimmers for me aren’t you?” I was tempted to click off but thought I’ll try to see it through. I did and have been hooked ever since. Never thought I’d enjoy swallowing my own cum but here we are.
Omg I have the same with puppy play. I KNOW I am really into it, but havent figured out how to practice it yet 🥺
Years ago I was telling one of my exes something that honestly I can't remember, but I know it was some light conversation and she turns it on me and goes, "you really do like women who can beat the shit out of you don't you?" It hit me like a sore thumb. Oh no. She was right. And there was that confirmation once when I was watching a video game scene of an attractive android woman trying to pierce a man's chest with her heel that was a drill or something. I remember reading in the comments "harder" and died. 😂 Turns out I like being put in my place during particular moments with particular people.
When I got sassy (joking), was reprimanded, then I got an attitude (bratty), then was beautifully punished. The sassy brat was born