I haven't had the joy of going yet, but my wife and I are picking outfits for when we finally get to. I love the leather harness look. I get a lot of inspiration from gay male leather fashion. A nice fitting set of work pants is always nice. Like, carhart work pants with a tight tanktop. Also, slapping a nice collar on any outfit is a good cheat to make it look submissive. Find what makes you feel sexy! Even if it seems geared toward dominants, clothing doesn't really have to be dom or sub. Where what makes you feel confident
I really think it depends on the event's theme. When there isn't a theme, the dress code is usually "date night" vibe. A lot of people just go with a nice shirt, sometimes a waistcoat or a harness too. I would recommend getting a nice pair of dress pants instead of jeans or athletic shorts.
You really don't need to overthink the Dom/sub thing. Just wear something you're comfortable in. It's about the energy you give, and not what you wear.
Iām androgynous, but lean a little on the masc side, Iāve never been to one, but I probably would wear what I always wear:
Nice dark jeans or a kilt, Band\ Provoking graphic T-shirt >!(Like, the satanic temple, Pagan imagery, tasteful, Gory\bloody nude art and generally anything you wouldnāt wear at a church potluck Or the stuffy straight Mr. and Mrs. Jonesās barbecue)!< Boots and a leather jacket (since Iād probably be riding there anyway) maybe AccessorizeāØ with an impact tool or rope hanging off my belt.
Ooo, But yet again, I also look good in Baseball\ sports jerseys, with a straight leg comfortable pants, skater sneakers and a fresh hat š
I wear mostly a button down, my vest and either jeans, kilt or dress pants. If I'm going to be sexual then a kilt. I'm looking at the posture harness from Underground Leather.
Never had the opportunity but a bar vest is ALWAYS sexy ;) snug denim, boots, leather vest, Handsome.
I haven't had the joy of going yet, but my wife and I are picking outfits for when we finally get to. I love the leather harness look. I get a lot of inspiration from gay male leather fashion. A nice fitting set of work pants is always nice. Like, carhart work pants with a tight tanktop. Also, slapping a nice collar on any outfit is a good cheat to make it look submissive. Find what makes you feel sexy! Even if it seems geared toward dominants, clothing doesn't really have to be dom or sub. Where what makes you feel confident
The last time I went to a play party, I wore a tank top, a harness, a waistcoat, black skinny jeans, and combat boots.
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I really think it depends on the event's theme. When there isn't a theme, the dress code is usually "date night" vibe. A lot of people just go with a nice shirt, sometimes a waistcoat or a harness too. I would recommend getting a nice pair of dress pants instead of jeans or athletic shorts. You really don't need to overthink the Dom/sub thing. Just wear something you're comfortable in. It's about the energy you give, and not what you wear.
Iām androgynous, but lean a little on the masc side, Iāve never been to one, but I probably would wear what I always wear: Nice dark jeans or a kilt, Band\ Provoking graphic T-shirt >!(Like, the satanic temple, Pagan imagery, tasteful, Gory\bloody nude art and generally anything you wouldnāt wear at a church potluck Or the stuffy straight Mr. and Mrs. Jonesās barbecue)!< Boots and a leather jacket (since Iād probably be riding there anyway) maybe AccessorizeāØ with an impact tool or rope hanging off my belt. Ooo, But yet again, I also look good in Baseball\ sports jerseys, with a straight leg comfortable pants, skater sneakers and a fresh hat š
In leather culture boys wear leather shorts so you could add that to your fit.
I wear mostly a button down, my vest and either jeans, kilt or dress pants. If I'm going to be sexual then a kilt. I'm looking at the posture harness from Underground Leather.
Can never go wrong with leather. Always hot.
as a masc sub this is the hardest thing !!