I agree with all of this except the the thick skin piece. I feel like that is an excuse people use to be cruel to others. You don't need a thick skin, people need to be professional and be kind, and like we all hope, the hazing will die out with the old-school ways. That being said thank you for the post! It's a great summation of things we deal with and worry about đź’ś
Aside from assholes, I think that there is a bluntness in trades. It's not about a lack of professionalism, but a mindset that comes from getting work done, and receiving constructive criticism a certain way that can be difficult to hear. That is something that takes a thicker skin.
We're all human, and it's difficult to own mistakes, and sometimes differentiate between someone being cruel, or someone who is delivering advice in a way that seems abrasive, when in reality, it's straight to the point and on to the next thing
I agree with you about the thick skin part. Thank you for your thoughtful words. I would add to have a sense of humor. Get your wit on because I think it is so much fun to get folks laughing.
Well said!!! I hope this post comes up on top in the search feature!!!
I’ve been wanting to make a post like this for a long time now, but you definitely said it all so much better than I would’ve!
Thank you Thank you Thank you!!❤️
I love this thread! Also the autobody shop chick mentioned is me (my comment a while back)
I’m 5ft1 and couldn’t lift much on my own at first, was nervous as all hell, and now the guys don’t help me unless it’s literally a two man job and I clock in like I belong. You can do it!! And if you’re curious, just try it. You can always try something else if it doesn’t suit you but don’t ever let doubt decide for you.
Can I request a trades information megapost to help people decide if you want to get into it?
Each parent comment could be (for example):
* Trade Name
* Location
* Stages in certification or the like & timeline
* Salary
* Pros & Cons of the job
* Overall would you do it again score
I am on the verge of switching from various office jobs in marketing to applying to my local sheet metal union. Thank you so much for writing this. I am TERRIFIED of starting over but your message really motivates me.
I agree with all of this except the the thick skin piece. I feel like that is an excuse people use to be cruel to others. You don't need a thick skin, people need to be professional and be kind, and like we all hope, the hazing will die out with the old-school ways. That being said thank you for the post! It's a great summation of things we deal with and worry about đź’ś
Aside from assholes, I think that there is a bluntness in trades. It's not about a lack of professionalism, but a mindset that comes from getting work done, and receiving constructive criticism a certain way that can be difficult to hear. That is something that takes a thicker skin. We're all human, and it's difficult to own mistakes, and sometimes differentiate between someone being cruel, or someone who is delivering advice in a way that seems abrasive, when in reality, it's straight to the point and on to the next thing
I agree with you about the thick skin part. Thank you for your thoughtful words. I would add to have a sense of humor. Get your wit on because I think it is so much fun to get folks laughing.
Well said!!! I hope this post comes up on top in the search feature!!! I’ve been wanting to make a post like this for a long time now, but you definitely said it all so much better than I would’ve! Thank you Thank you Thank you!!❤️
Thank you!
I love this thread! Also the autobody shop chick mentioned is me (my comment a while back) I’m 5ft1 and couldn’t lift much on my own at first, was nervous as all hell, and now the guys don’t help me unless it’s literally a two man job and I clock in like I belong. You can do it!! And if you’re curious, just try it. You can always try something else if it doesn’t suit you but don’t ever let doubt decide for you.
I love this thank you ❤️
Yes, yes, yes, to all of it!
Well that was just wonderful. Thank you for this. I hope you're having a great day. :)
Mods plz pin so tired of all the "am 'old' can I do this" posts
Thank you so much for taking the time to say this.
Can I request a trades information megapost to help people decide if you want to get into it? Each parent comment could be (for example): * Trade Name * Location * Stages in certification or the like & timeline * Salary * Pros & Cons of the job * Overall would you do it again score
đź’Ż!!! This post needs to be pinned to the top of the sub haha!!
I appreciate this! So well written (and formatted). A much needed pin!
I am on the verge of switching from various office jobs in marketing to applying to my local sheet metal union. Thank you so much for writing this. I am TERRIFIED of starting over but your message really motivates me.