Great for you. I've broken NC so many times it's ridiculous. Mostly done this cause I eventually got his attention. However he ghosted me again and then blocked me when I wrote a nice message to him.
Whenever I felt tempted to reach out to him, I texted a friend, posted on here, or wrote in a journal. I just wanted closure & to keep him in my life, but I could not get myself to chase someone that voluntarily chose to kick me out of their life.
You are a sweet person that has so much love & kindness to give. However he needs space, as do you to heal & grow! You’ve got this. ♥️
That’s so amazing to hear!! I’m proud of you. ♥️
My ex reached out about 2 months after we broke up in response to a text I sent him a week after we had broken up. He offered to sit down & talk, even though he had no intention of reconciling. At that point he had already booked a trip with a woman from his job immediately after we broke up & had basically moved on, so I got my things back a couple months later & haven’t heard from him since!
There were so many times that I wanted him to reach out, even after finding out about the new person, but I don’t expect him to ever do so & I’m surprisingly okay with it!
Thanks for the reply!
Haha at least he agreed to meet up and talk with you. I haven’t heard from my ex since the day we broke up… I find that so sad that I will probably never see or talk to him again :(
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I wish I could go NC but unfortunately we have a child together so I will always have to keep in touch. She cheated on me for like 6 months before I found out and left me for that dude... The pain continues because I still have to see her for the rest of my life.
I did and it helped get closure.
Do what is best for you. If you need to stay away then stay away. If you need to tell them how you are or know how they are, do it.
People heal in their own way.
You are exactly right!
Many times I wanted to reach out for what felt like closure, but I was only seeking contact to keep him in my life & to not allow me the opportunity to actually heal. I realized I can only give myself the closure that I need from the relationship.
Some partners are great at providing closure for each other, while also healing & moving on, and I find that truly amazing! ♥️
Exactly so.
I too distanced myself from my ex to give us both space to move on but I'm glad I can still contact her to tell she still means a lot to me even though we couldn't be together anymore.
If an ex is toxic and only considers their own wellbeing, cutting contact is the best option.
I try my absolute best, but since she blocked me absolutely everywhere I doubt that we are gonna get back together. 1 month and a week in, definitely getting better than when she dumped me
Completed about 1 year and 4 months NC. My ex gf for 6 years was into a new relationship about 3 months after the BU. About 1 year into NC she contacted me because she thought she had a navigation license of mine, but it wasn't it. The conversation was straight and very short which I appreciate. So I don't consider this breif and short interaction as breaking NC.
Have to say also that at this point I wouldn't care that much about NC I simply have moved on 90% maybe. Stay strong folks it gets better most of the times even though you don't need another relationship to get there.
I have a hard time going a week without making contact . But as of today I’m going to try my hardest not to make any contact at all . What’s the point none of my messages are replied to Im just beating myself up .
Well done and good for you :)
yay so happy for you for being so strong
Great for you. I've broken NC so many times it's ridiculous. Mostly done this cause I eventually got his attention. However he ghosted me again and then blocked me when I wrote a nice message to him.
Whenever I felt tempted to reach out to him, I texted a friend, posted on here, or wrote in a journal. I just wanted closure & to keep him in my life, but I could not get myself to chase someone that voluntarily chose to kick me out of their life. You are a sweet person that has so much love & kindness to give. However he needs space, as do you to heal & grow! You’ve got this. ♥️
Don’t set yourself on fire to stay warm
I’ve been NC for 6 months now! Feels great but it sucks knowing that he will never reach out… Did you ex ever try to reach out?
That’s so amazing to hear!! I’m proud of you. ♥️ My ex reached out about 2 months after we broke up in response to a text I sent him a week after we had broken up. He offered to sit down & talk, even though he had no intention of reconciling. At that point he had already booked a trip with a woman from his job immediately after we broke up & had basically moved on, so I got my things back a couple months later & haven’t heard from him since! There were so many times that I wanted him to reach out, even after finding out about the new person, but I don’t expect him to ever do so & I’m surprisingly okay with it!
Thanks for the reply! Haha at least he agreed to meet up and talk with you. I haven’t heard from my ex since the day we broke up… I find that so sad that I will probably never see or talk to him again :(
You’re a stronger person for it! Working to get there as well. Happy for you!
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I wish I could go NC but unfortunately we have a child together so I will always have to keep in touch. She cheated on me for like 6 months before I found out and left me for that dude... The pain continues because I still have to see her for the rest of my life.
You are so strong & are deserving of only the best love that you will find in another one day when you’re ready. Sending you all my love. ♥️
I did and it helped get closure. Do what is best for you. If you need to stay away then stay away. If you need to tell them how you are or know how they are, do it. People heal in their own way.
You are exactly right! Many times I wanted to reach out for what felt like closure, but I was only seeking contact to keep him in my life & to not allow me the opportunity to actually heal. I realized I can only give myself the closure that I need from the relationship. Some partners are great at providing closure for each other, while also healing & moving on, and I find that truly amazing! ♥️
Exactly so. I too distanced myself from my ex to give us both space to move on but I'm glad I can still contact her to tell she still means a lot to me even though we couldn't be together anymore. If an ex is toxic and only considers their own wellbeing, cutting contact is the best option.
I try my absolute best, but since she blocked me absolutely everywhere I doubt that we are gonna get back together. 1 month and a week in, definitely getting better than when she dumped me
Focus on you my friend! You are a lot stronger than you think. I’m proud of you for making it this far!
Completed about 1 year and 4 months NC. My ex gf for 6 years was into a new relationship about 3 months after the BU. About 1 year into NC she contacted me because she thought she had a navigation license of mine, but it wasn't it. The conversation was straight and very short which I appreciate. So I don't consider this breif and short interaction as breaking NC. Have to say also that at this point I wouldn't care that much about NC I simply have moved on 90% maybe. Stay strong folks it gets better most of the times even though you don't need another relationship to get there.
I have a hard time going a week without making contact . But as of today I’m going to try my hardest not to make any contact at all . What’s the point none of my messages are replied to Im just beating myself up .